Things used to be personal not personal anymore

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My Dear Friend " N "
I will write for you

 Kris Dear please don't invite 
people at your place
Father already making Hannah life miserable

Hannah is sick, please take care of her
and don't cut Niklas net and phone 

My Dear Priest and all friends
Thanks everyone of you
praying for my health



It is Saturday morning 6 degrees below 0 C, bright beautiful
sunny, amazing. After my breakfast I watched National
Geographic show for a while then my Youngest was awake.

 When kids are there, we always have to give priority to them.
Kids always have to come first. It is 11 am my son going to gym.
It is a perfect opportunity for me to get out.

 I am getting ready for Tim Horton to enjoy my time alone.
I am now at the Coffee House, it is like a Full House with
buzzing atmosphere around. I got my favorite spot, enjoying 
my half and half coffee and writing my blog. 

 Today my son wanted to take my Youngest to McDonalds
but he was not in a mood. When kids getting older, they don't
enjoy our company, being polite they don't say that but it is
a fact. We have to accept that.

 We have to give value to every moment in hand. Things change 
so quickly. Time flies and moments keep on slipping away from 
our hands. We start losing control on things around, which we
use to enjoy taking as granted. Nothing stays for ever. 
We don't have to waste the moments in hand.

 Dean my friend now I am thinking about you like always
nowadays. I never been on counselling, I mean never used that
so I am not in a position to recommend that.

 What I feel we have to sit before third person open up all our
ins and outs to let him share. Both the parties in question have 
to do that. Things so personal are not personal anymore.
Everything now, is sort of public.

 It doesn't mean You don't have to go for that. At this stage 
anything which can solve your problems, your family matters,
is top priority for me. 

 I want to see you a happy person enjoying with your wife. 
Go for anything which can help you out.
My prayers are with you my friend.

Comments

  1. Anonymous3/11/18, 8:26 AM

    +1

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  2. Anonymous3/11/18, 8:57 AM

    I have posted the blog in Smile Corner. This being Sunday, there are out of town visitors too. Our town people looks forward to Sunday as so many people come here from other places. They go to church and then come to Smile Corner. One of the local customer cooked rice pudding from Smile's recipe and brought it here. she is giving to all who are saying Morning Smile. It is not enough for everyone, so the customers are taking one bite each so more people can taste it. It is a festive atmosphere here

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  3. Anonymous3/11/18, 8:58 AM

    My Smile is awesome! She is an awesome advisor. She is an awesome writer! She is an awesome councillor. She is an awesome carpet bowling player. She has awesome family. What an awesome person my Smile is!!

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  4. Anonymous3/11/18, 8:59 AM

    I will wait for your blog that you will write for me. This blog is my lifeline. I read it all the time

    N

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  5. Anonymous3/11/18, 9:00 AM

    This good blog. I like in Russia

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    1. Anonymous3/11/18, 9:01 AM

      I am also from Russia and a teacher. I use your blog as teaching material for English as Second Language to kids. Your blog provide good description of life in Canada and your description of day to day scenes is stellar. As an added bonus you always have at least one, sometimes more, positive messages. Before using your blog we used to reference Hardy, Dickens, Herriot but now use the blog as primary material and the others as secondary material.

      On behalf of the kids, thank you for writing these blogs every day

      Delete
    2. Anonymous3/11/18, 9:02 AM

      I like blog. I no good Anglais but French good

      Delete
    3. Anonymous3/11/18, 9:02 AM

      I enjoy blog. It very good. I read China

      Delete
    4. Anonymous3/11/18, 9:02 AM

      I read you blog Italy

      Delete
    5. Anonymous3/11/18, 9:03 AM

      I read this blog in Greece. I dont read everyday as I dont get a chance but I read whenever I can. Thank you

      Delete
    6. Anonymous3/11/18, 9:03 AM

      Just wanted to let you know that you have followers in Latvia also

      thanks

      Delete
  6. Anonymous3/11/18, 11:05 AM

    Dear Madam Smile, you so good. You write good to. I go job worker with video kid and say her how you. She say I very busy and no time talk blog. I say her I no want talk blog I want give you fresh garlic. You need eat and it will help. She say help what, keep people away? I say no it help like other thing but you need guess because it no nice say. I think she remember joke and go. I do 2 proud job and always read blog

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  7. Anonymous3/11/18, 11:14 AM

    Dear Advisor,

    The retirees appreciate your blog today. The retirees are continuing to go over your blog from a few days ago to help enhance the quality of life. Your advice of changing the plate is helpful We are asking the cafe manager to change all the plates and start using quarter plates as opposed to the large dinner plates that he uses for his customers. The cafe manager is resisting this idea, he is saying that if he start using smaller plate then it will require people to eat less and will impact his profits and the business. Some retirees are very upset with him and we wanted to boycott the cafe however the retired corporate executive asked us to check with you before taking any additional steps. Can you please advise

    thank you
    recent retiree

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  8. Anonymous3/11/18, 11:22 AM

    My disrespectful daughter in law does not appreciate the moments that she is spending with me. No wonder her kids dont want to go to McDonalds or any other place with her. Its not that they have grown up, its just that they are starting to recognize that she is not the brightest brightest bulb

    Mother in Law of the Happy Reader

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  9. Anonymous3/11/18, 7:22 PM

    Dear Author,

    We read your blog at the Smile Garden today. We were planning on reading it at the SRC but there were so many people that we had to move the reading to the Smile Garden due to over crowding. All listeners, young and old (as we have students, professors, outsiders such as the great friends etc) were very thankful that you are starting to getting back to normal. Prof George was heard whispering to one of the senior professors that he does not think that you are well but are using your will power to try to keep a normal routine. When the professor asked him how he knows, Prof George replied that he does not know for sure but he has gone through your previous blogs in detail so is guessing based on a psychological analysis that he has done.

    Dean said that he is not going to go for counselling as you dont appear to be in favour of that. He said thanks to you for allowing him to do that though. He also thanked you for your continued advise and support. He said that he plans to take his wife to dinner and then discuss the issue again, one on one.

    thank you
    Literature Fellow

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  10. Superwoman3/11/18, 7:26 PM

    My Smile is amazing! She is an amazing Tim Hortons goer. She is an amazing advisor. She is an amazing councillor. She has amazing friends. What an amazing person my Smile is!!

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  11. Anonymous3/11/18, 8:01 PM

    Father say you no yell father today. Father say you may be forget. Father say he joke please no mind. Father say father no hapy that you say father shellfish but father angle so will forgive. Father say father yell Kris because he no take father any place like you kris. Father say he yell Niklas because he no take father eat macdonal . Father yell Hannah because she slow and no come first bell al time. Father say father old almost 67

    (Hannah say she want thank because Hannah no need make 4 dish but only 2 dish. Hannah say she kris tire but slip afternoon so gooder. Hannah say you stil need kare you and no go kris out please. Niklas say he take granpdpapa out driveway for walk and then take grandpapa macdonal for meel and pay from Niklas poket. Niklas no lot money so Niklas eat fry but no meel. Me cancel family come so they no come. Father yell me lot so me take father lot place like carpet and kaffee and see see. Father then go walk with Niklas. Father tire but no anger. Niklas tire but anger. Hannah gooder because she slip when father go. Father say he want go tomorrow but me ofice. Me confuse. Me no no what do)

    Kris (Germany)

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  12. mrizvi3/11/18, 9:07 PM

    good post

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    1. Plunker3/11/18, 9:08 PM

      I was hoping that this is the end of the week so we will have a different outcome. But ...... Yes I know, I know

      Great comment mrizvi. You are simply brilliant kiddo

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    2. Batman3/11/18, 9:09 PM

      Plunker. Just Caaaaaaaaaaalllllllmmmmmmmmmmm down. No need to waste your health and time on this

      You guessed correctly mrizvi. Way to go

      Delete

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