Thought Of The Day

My Dear Friend Kris I have Joint Account with My Son but I hardly use that  I rarely take Money for Myself I don't need that Be careful with that Idea of Joint Account My Dear Retirees  You can do what You like My Blogs are Public It is 21 Degrees but cloudy so need a jacket it is Tuesday so I planned to walk to Metro as My Club Activities are off I told You  earlier that on that side there is no Coffee House not any place to spend My Time alone  I am going to get some Bakery Stuff for My Grand Kids from Metro in My Blog " Faucets of Happiness " I think I mentioned We have to open different Faucets to drain Happiness I also have various Resources buying things for My Grand Kids is one of these In My Blog " Time Zone " I mentioned I take couples of sip from My small Coffee and throw away the rest It doesn't mean You have to do the same My Dear Friend with 2 Jobs throwing away His Bur...

Please keep reminding yourself There's one thing I can not abide Wasting time I genuinely believe that If there's one duty we all have It's to use the full, whatever Time or talents We may have been given " Service is the rent we pay           for our room on earth." A life spent in making mistakes Is not only more Honorable But more useful than A life spent doing nothing

Stress good or bad ? Too much stress cause us Loose sleep, edgy, irritable High blood pressure and so on. If we don't feel any stress We may not be placing Any significance on what we are doing. That can be as bad As too much stress Check out your stress If it is people problem Take time to talk it out Try to put yourself in the other person's shoes If you are wrong Admit it and apologize You will be winner by Gaining your respect And releasing your pressure If it is work related Try to work around that area

Take nothing but pictures. Leave nothing but footprints. Kill nothing but time. Trees are homes to squirrels, wood pigeons and birds. A source of nectar for bees. It's canopy of branches protect people from both Rain and the hot midday sun. It has been the setting for countless picnics. They are one of the best of nature's gift Please take care of them

Hope is a staff by which I may find strength To face another day. A very faithful, loving friend, upon whose strength I can depend. Hope is a comfort to my heart. When other comforts all depart. When stars are no more radiant And  life poses an Endless series of problems and Always difficult and Is full of pain When all you ever wanted isn't enough Hope shines with the moon on you and me I feel life is full of pain as well as Full of joy too And I feel today, like an investment To use in my life in my future I start making commitments and Promises with myself With new energy and Excitement to deal my day business

Obstacles are an asset. Obstacles force you to move forward, to do more. To do better not bitter. Try to find a way to turn your obstacles into assets. Don't be scared, sometimes people make an obstacle an asset. If you feel stressed out Take time out, even for just a few minutes. Some quiet reading, a good walk Some relaxation, or a shift of scenery Can work wonders. These steps will help to relieve your stress. So don't be scared of obstacles. Face it and work around it.

Think about, when was the last time you did something Really nice for someone. Think about how it made you feel on the inside Relaxed, nourished and satisfied. How we feel when we get beautiful card Or a letter from someone. It feels somebody thinking of me Thoughtful for me. Kindness reminds me of our shared humanity. Daily challenges have a way of overwhelming us Making life harder than it needs to be. Stop the little things in life from driving Them crazy. Take some time off, for little acts of kindness. It will give you great rewards in return.

Morning power is thinking About what am I happy about in my life right now What about that makes me happy How does that make me feel What am I excited about in my life right now What about that makes me excited How does that make me feel What am I proud of in my life right now What about that makes me proud How does that make me feel What am I grateful for in my life right now What about that makes me grateful How does that make me feel What am I enjoying most in my life right now What about that do I enjoy How does that make me feel What am I committed to in my life right now What about that makes me committed How does that make me feel Who do I love, Who loves me What about that makes me loving How does that makes me feel These things looks very simple but Will make your day Try it please it worked for me Especially in my low times.

Always carry a joy in your heart Never begin by announcing " I am going to prove so -- and -- so to you ". That's like," I am smarter than you are ". That's a challenge. It arouses opposition and makes the listener want to battle with you. Socrates said repeatedly to his followers, one thing only I know And that is that  " I know nothing " There's magic, positive magic in such phrases as " I may be wrong ". A little kindness just might keep the doctor away. Exciting studies claim health benefits for acts of kindness. When you are kind,you become stronger and healthier. When you are loved by others for your act of kindness You feel peaceful most of the time so Be kind to be healthy Kindness always will pay you off

There is only one way to get anybody to do anything. That is by making the other person want to do it. Besides the preservation of life, there is one longing --- deep " Desire to be great " , " Desire to be important " . Sincere appreciation is one of the secrets in handling people. It will nourish their self - esteem. But keep away from flattery. Appreciation comes from heart. Flattery comes from teeth. It is always universally condemned. Appreciation always admired universally. Give honest and sincere appreciation. It always works.

He who can not walks a lonely way, has the whole world with him. Why talk about what we want ? People are interested in what they want. So talk about that. Try to get other person's point of view and see Things from that person's angle. This is the secret of success. Keep in mind that a person's name is the sweetest And most important sound in any language To that person. Be a good listener, encourage others to talk about themselves. You will never be alone in your life.

The Royal road to a person's heart is to talk about the things He or she treasures the most. Talk in terms of the other person's interests. Make the other person feel important -- and do it sincerely. Avoid argument You can not win an argument. You may achieve a victory sometimes But you will never get your opponent's good will. Control your temper in such situations. Listen first and look for areas of agreement. Be honest and promise to think.

You are what you do --first do good, then feel good. I believe, no such thing as unconditional self -- acceptance. One must first live a descent, honorable and productive life. Only then do you get to feel good about yourself. Seeking to gratify your desires, your conscience knows To be of contrary to your standards of right and worthy. It is a mental, emotional and spiritual sense. Like spending a capital that you haven't earned. So to feel good, you have to work for it.

All strangers are people like you. For most of us, "others" means friends, family, or colleagues. Keep in mind all are others. Not knowing people's names doesn't mean you don't matter to them or they to you. The ultimate meaningfulness of our lives come from fulfilling our obligations to others. Look at every human being as an opportunity to advance humanity. And add something positive to the resume of your life. Feeling good doesn't come from competition, beating someone else out. For something, be it a parking space or gaining an edge  over someone. These are momentary "win". The deeper needs for admiration, love and respect are never met by these short "wins".

Love and respect can not be demanded. We don't deserve anything we haven't earned. Life is a day -- to -- day process. Life has it's Moan and Whine days, and it's days of joy. Bumper sticker happens, it is a reflection of reality. The quality of our life very much depends on what we focus on. And the environment we choose. It is difficult to be negative when we make choice to be around positive people.

Start building relationship with yourself. Accept yourself with the terms and limitations of life. Acceptance of opportunities for great peace and happiness. You have to decide, for whom you are "dancing", through life, and why. Face constantly new challenge to "prove your worth". With the frustration of never finding what was, ultimately, impossible. Love through success.

Shift perspective, open up to gratitude and goodness. Embrace obligations to loved ones and the world in general. Will uplift your interactions with family and friends in incredible way. It will give you a jump start to get proactive. Moving in the direction of a joyful, happy and purposeful future. Drop the self -  destructive thoughts. It is like "crying over spilled milk", it doesn't help. This will eventually cause you to feel very negatively -- about who and what you are. So please shift your perspective. And be Happy.

There are things in Life worth whining about. A certain amount of whining allows for some venting. Of reasonable pain, disappointment, fear and frustration.  Staying stuck in whining mode can become a lifelong problem. So please stop whining and start living. To help and conquer to retreat your life to fullest. No matter what you suffered and how much you suffered or continue to suffer. While you are alive, you have the opportunity to get something from this life. If you don't like your life, quit talking about your unhappiness and try to fix it. No matter how difficult or impossible your situation seems. Just try and keep trying. Stop whining will reject negative emotions and attitudes.

Don't let go your dreams and goals. Believe in yourself, work hard. But set your expectation to zero. This will eliminate your future disappointment. Always give value to laughter. Take it as a medicine,It will work. Don't postpone it for good times. This is the time, so just do it. Laughter is one of the best remedies, when We have started taking things too seriously. Act of laughing serves as a powerful reset button. Restores the big picture outlook.

Write on cards,  the words "Drop the Negativity and focus on Blessings". Every time a negative thought creeps into your mind, pl. read the card. Transformation will be astonishing. Negativity creeps in your mind, which it will do on regular basis, remember two things You are the one who is creating the negativity with your own thinking. But the more important, you have the power to stop it. Our thoughts have the power, if left to their own devices, to take us to Either great heights or miserable depths. So it is very important to always remember that we are the ones in control.