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Just Couple Of Years -- Be Patient

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Kris My Dear Please Don't Yell at Niklas 11.15 pm Not Late 7.55 am Too Early To Wake up For Kids Please Stop Father From Yelling Niklas is Right Everyone Yells at Him He Has No Space To Relax Please Let Niklas Do Things He Likes To Enjoy at Home That Way He wont Go Out To Escape For Refuge --  Niklas Never used To Go Out For Such Long Time  You People Pushed Him  To Do That He is Great Kid Please Don't Let Father  Spoil His Life Hannah My Friend  Don't Worry  Niklas will Listen I Trust Him It is First Thursday Of January We Have Our Monthly Club Meeting Today at 1 pm -- My Son Working From Home Driving Me There -- It is 12.30 I am Sitting in My Office Cubicle For a While Bright Sunny Morning - Snow Glistening All Around Beautiful Scenic View To Behold It is 26 Degrees Below Zero Today - Tomorrow will Be 37 Below Zero We are Ready To Face  -- Bring It On  This Year It is Record Breaking Cold...

What A Wonderful Life

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Pickering 5th July 20016 It is 26 plus in Toronto I moved away from my computer filled my water bottle dressed in light clothes with my slippers on ready to go out It is always good to get going when we move our body our mind switches from the stagnant Mode to get involved in our changed scenery Change is always good for being positive whenever I start getting bored I try to change my scenery If I am on my computer  which I am most of the times I go downstairs to get busy in my kitchen I love my kitchen If weather is tolerable I go out for a walk 15 minutes away is my favorite Coffee House Tim Horton I find my favorite spot with small double double and my pen and paper I am so thankful to God Almighty who is with me all the times and taking care of me keeping  me in good health to move around I am also thankful to my Parents who provided education on top of my well being I can not even think of myself  without wr...

Hope is a Jewel

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Hope is a staff by which I may find strength To face another day. A very faithful, loving friend, upon whose strength I can depend. Hope is a comfort to my heart. When other comforts all depart. When stars are no more radiant And  life poses an Endless series of problems and Always difficult and Is full of pain When all you ever wanted isn't enough Hope shines with the moon on you and me I feel life is full of pain as well as Full of joy too And I feel today, like an investment To use in my life in my future I start making commitments and Promises with myself With new energy and Excitement to deal my day business

Obstacles an Asset ?

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Obstacles are an asset. Obstacles force you to move forward, to do more. To do better not bitter. Try to find a way to turn your obstacles into assets. Don't be scared, sometimes people make an obstacle an asset. If you feel stressed out Take time out, even for just a few minutes. Some quiet reading, a good walk Some relaxation, or a shift of scenery Can work wonders. These steps will help to relieve your stress. So don't be scared of obstacles. Face it and work around it.

Lesson of Life

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Love and respect can not be demanded. We don't deserve anything we haven't earned. Life is a day -- to -- day process. Life has it's Moan and Whine days, and it's days of joy. Bumper sticker happens, it is a reflection of reality. The quality of our life very much depends on what we focus on. And the environment we choose. It is difficult to be negative when we make choice to be around positive people.

Dancing Through Life

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Start building relationship with yourself. Accept yourself with the terms and limitations of life. Acceptance of opportunities for great peace and happiness. You have to decide, for whom you are "dancing", through life, and why. Face constantly new challenge to "prove your worth". With the frustration of never finding what was, ultimately, impossible. Love through success.

Shift Perspective

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Shift perspective, open up to gratitude and goodness. Embrace obligations to loved ones and the world in general. Will uplift your interactions with family and friends in incredible way. It will give you a jump start to get proactive. Moving in the direction of a joyful, happy and purposeful future. Drop the self -  destructive thoughts. It is like "crying over spilled milk", it doesn't help. This will eventually cause you to feel very negatively -- about who and what you are. So please shift your perspective. And be Happy.

Stop Whining

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There are things in Life worth whining about. A certain amount of whining allows for some venting. Of reasonable pain, disappointment, fear and frustration.  Staying stuck in whining mode can become a lifelong problem. So please stop whining and start living. To help and conquer to retreat your life to fullest. No matter what you suffered and how much you suffered or continue to suffer. While you are alive, you have the opportunity to get something from this life. If you don't like your life, quit talking about your unhappiness and try to fix it. No matter how difficult or impossible your situation seems. Just try and keep trying. Stop whining will reject negative emotions and attitudes.

Transformation Cards

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Write on cards,  the words "Drop the Negativity and focus on Blessings". Every time a negative thought creeps into your mind, pl. read the card. Transformation will be astonishing. Negativity creeps in your mind, which it will do on regular basis, remember two things You are the one who is creating the negativity with your own thinking. But the more important, you have the power to stop it. Our thoughts have the power, if left to their own devices, to take us to Either great heights or miserable depths. So it is very important to always remember that we are the ones in control.

Our Way Not The Only Way

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The people who are able to see that the world is not always black and white. Who understand that "Our way" is not the "Only way" are almost always the kindest. Most tolerant, happiest and easiest people to be around. So please don't defend a position, or stand up for what's right Or protest against what's wrong. I am suggesting that you plant a seed of doubt in your mind. May be, just may be, there is another side of argument. An open mind is essential for a true Happiness.

A Golden Pause

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There are times when it's important to take yourself places with your mind. And there are other times when you are better off telling yourself, "I won't go there". Watch your thoughts. Take a vacation every day. Listen to music, take a walk. Give yourself a break. Sitting down with a cup of tea, cooking, doing anything that relaxes you. It is like taking a mini -- vacation. It helps you de -- stress. Sometimes people get stressed out by the silliest things. Get stressed by the way people park their cars on street. The way grocery store stock food items. The way advertisements try to get our attention. Get irritated when voice mail box fills up. The list goes on and on. Watch your thoughts and take a break.

Enjoy and be Quiet

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O God! please set a guard over my mouth. Keep watch over the door of my lips. Let no one come to me without leaving happier and better. Do not let any talk come out of my mouth, but only what is helpful. For building others up according to their needs. It may benefit to those who listen. Always encourage yourself and others. To find ways to make lives easier. Our thoughts are the most powerful tools. We can use them to create joy, excitement, fun, happiness and peace. Please keep this in mind.

Celebrate Triumphs

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Words have power to acknowledge our hard work. Bring out the best in us. Boost our confidence. Support us in tough times. Bolster our self image. Celebrate our triumphs. Give comfort in time of sorrow. Make us feel like we count. Help us to believe in ourselves.

Dining by Candlelight

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We all need a boost from time to time. A few lines of praise have been known to turn around a day, even a life. A handwritten note is like dining by candlelight instead of flicking on the lights. Like taking a walk instead of driving. You can still use the telephone or the web for staying in touch. But the words that matter, it's courteous, classy and caring to pick up a pen. Do not save your loving speeches for your friends till they are dead. Speak them rather now. The greatest weakness of most humans, is their hesitancy to tell others how much they love them.

Giggle and Laugh

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Kind words cheer us up when the world is getting us down. Honor us for our achievements. cause us to giggle and laugh. Restore our faith in the goodness of humanity. Inspire us to give our best. Let us know someone cares. Lifts our spirits. Warm our hearts. Improve our moods. heal our wounds.

Tongue is Tree of Life

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It's not so much what you say, as the manner in which you say it. It's not so much the language we use, as the tone in which we convey it. Tone is sometimes more important than the words we use. Tone puts feelings behind our words. It makes goo connection, make our communication effective. The tongue that brings healing is a tree of life. Our bodies are talking. If you want to get closer to those around you, be aware of the power of communication, which you hold in your hands.

Two Phrase Hardest to Say

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The two phrases that have most power to heal a damaged relationship. The two phrases that are the hardest for us to say. " I was wrong ". " I am sorry ". Loving words always offer comfort. Gentle speech makes friends. Be slow to anger, slow to blame. Gracious words show respect and gratitude. Words can heal. Perhaps you will forget tomorrow the kind words you say today, but the recipient may cherish them over a lifetime. Joyful words celebrate life.

Powerful Push

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Every day that we wake up is a good day. Every breath that we take is filled with hope for a better day. Every word that we speak is a chance to change what is bad into something good. Few things in the world are more powerful than a positive push. A smile. A word of optimism and a hope. A " You can do it " when things are tough. The deepest urge in human nature is the desire to feel important. Loving words heal relationships.

Words have Power

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Life and language are alike sacred. Language can change lives. Words shape history, and give birth to ideas. Thinkers and leaders have used the power of words to transform our emotions. The tongue and the pen are Mighty. Careful with fire, careful with words is ten times doubly so. The real art of conversation is not only to say the right thing in the right place, but to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment. There is relationship between good character and the quality of life, and a  major part played by the power of kind words. Language is our best tool, use it wisely and carefully. Kind words cost little but accomplish much. They have great impact on our lives and on our society in so many ways. Remind yourself to do it often.

Actions and Intentions

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Opportunity lies in the person. Those, who stand out from the crowd have learned that all development is self development. We all have same amount of time but not the same talent and ability. We certainly owe a debt to people whose messages have been encouraging and positive as well informative and instructional. Every lesson, taught us the essence of life by instructing us in the character qualities, regardless of our chosen field. failure, many times, is in the beginning of a new and more exciting trip. Persistence really does pay. People judge you by your actions not by your intentions. Truly successful people in life are givers and forgivers.