Just Couple Of Years -- Be Patient

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Kris My Dear
Please Don't Yell at Niklas
11.15 pm Not Late
7.55 am Too Early To Wake up
For Kids

 Please Stop Father From Yelling
Niklas is Right Everyone Yells at Him
He Has No Space To Relax

 Please Let Niklas Do Things He Likes
To Enjoy at Home
That Way He wont Go Out To Escape
For Refuge -- 

 Niklas Never used To Go Out
For Such Long Time 
You People Pushed Him 
To Do That

 He is Great Kid
Please Don't Let Father 
Spoil His Life

 Hannah My Friend 
Don't Worry 
Niklas will Listen
I Trust Him


It is First Thursday Of January We Have Our
Monthly Club Meeting Today at 1 pm -- My Son
Working From Home Driving Me There -- It is 12.30
I am Sitting in My Office Cubicle For a While

 Bright Sunny Morning - Snow Glistening All Around
Beautiful Scenic View To Behold It is 26 Degrees
Below Zero Today - Tomorrow will Be 37 Below Zero
We are Ready To Face  -- Bring It On 

This Year It is Record Breaking Cold Weather
It was Coldest New Year's Eve Chilliest in 50 Years
New Year Celebrations at Parliament Hills in Ottawa
Was also Cut Down Due To Safety Reasons

 I Started Thinking about My Retiree Friends and
My Dear Students -- They Asked Me To Write For 
Family Living Matters 

I Think When Kids Start Growing Parents Getting Older
But Love Remains The Same -- Parents Believe That
For Their Kids It is Their Delicate Period Of Life Even
Though They are in University Still Not Mature Enough

 Parents Like To Be involved in Their Matters -- Here Conflicts
Start - Kids Have Of Opinion That They are Grown up
Enough To Handle Everything On Their Own

Parents Not Sure Of That -- They Believe That It is Too
Early To Leave Them On Their Own -- If They will Take
Any Wrong Exit It Can Ruin Their Career - Their Future

Their Future is Life Long Saving Of Their Parents
They Dream For That All Through Their Life
They are Of The Opinion That They Have To Save 
That at Any Cost

When We Look From Outside The Ring I Mean From
Neutral Point Of View -- Both Parties are Right
We Can Not Doubt Love and Motives Of Parents
Kids also Right To Feel That They are Treated Like
Small Children 

Kids Feel Stuck Start Thinking How Long It will Go On
Enough is Enough -- Parents Believe That It is Just Matter Of
Couple Of Years To Turn Them into Pieces Of Jewel

 I Think Kids Have To Bit Cool Down Explain Their
Point Of View More Clearly Give Parents Benefit Of Doubt
Trust Their Love also Ask Them To Give Some Space

 Family is Family We Have To Co-operate Somehow Try To
Accommodate Each Other -- It is Matter Of Couple Of Years
Everyone Be Dispersed and It will Be Empty Nest 

 Parents also Have To Be Patient and Try To Listen with
Clear Mind -- Patience is Virtue -- Handle and Value
The Moments in Hand Time Flies 

Comments

  1. Anonymous1/5/18, 7:50 AM

    +1

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  2. Anonymous1/5/18, 12:14 PM

    I have posted the blog in Smile Corner. Lots of customers are coming today as they have heard about the court problem. They want to show solidarity. Also as this is Friday, they come here to read the blog first before they start the weekend. After reading the blog they go to the pubs or their homes

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  3. Anonymous1/5/18, 12:16 PM

    I have posted the blog in all notice boards in lobbies A, B, C and D

    Jimmy

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    1. Anonymous1/5/18, 12:18 PM

      SWN was very subdued today as it is Friday. Lots of interest in Smile's blog from today.

      Tiara

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    2. Anonymous1/5/18, 12:19 PM

      Same mood in SWS also. People were excited and interested in the blog because it talks about a key issue. At the same time they were sad because it is the weekend tomorrow

      Cleo

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    3. Anonymous1/5/18, 12:20 PM

      The new Senior Manager in Lobby D went to get the coffee and was surprised that people there were not celebrating Fridays and instead are talking about plans for coming back to Monday. She knows me so wanted to know from me what's going on. I simply asked her one qs, were they talking about blogs or Smile. And when she said yes, I simply told her that what she heard is true. I asked her to participate in one of the walks next week and she will find out what she is missing :-) I thought I will share this with you so you can enjoy this too

      Kim

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  4. Anonymous1/5/18, 12:21 PM

    My Smile is awesome! She is an awesome psychologist! She is an awesome therapist. She is an awesome writer. She is an awesome friend to readers family. What an awesome person my Smile is!!

    Karen

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  5. Anonymous1/5/18, 12:21 PM

    This blog is my lifeline. Thank you for writing it every day. This is what I look forward to every day

    N

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  6. Anonymous1/5/18, 12:21 PM

    I lost the race to post the blog in our corporate notice boards. I was pulling in the parking lot just as Craig and Jasmeet were going in the office. So probably lost by 1 minute

    Brenda

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    1. Anonymous1/5/18, 12:22 PM

      Sorry I didn't see you before posting the blog. The box of fresh SDs was already there. There was one additional donut for the poster.

      Jasmeet

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    2. Anonymous1/5/18, 12:22 PM

      Sorry I didn't see you too. I have mixed feelings about Fridays now.

      Craig

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    3. Anonymous1/5/18, 12:24 PM

      I go baker and only need wait 40 min because I give recipe blog him and he give me fresh donut for post person to

      SA

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  7. Anonymous1/5/18, 1:59 PM

    Dear Madam Smile, you so good. You write good to. I go job worker with video kid. I say her how you. She say I very busy and no time to talk blog. I say I no want talk blog. I want ask if video kid giving problem. She say yes he no listen. I say her you just need be patient because he growing up. Does he explain thing. She say what you mean. I say my Madam say I Think Kids Have To Bit Cool Down Explain Their Point Of View More Clearly. She say you Madam write about teenage, video kid only 4. I think she remember joke to and go. I do 2 proud job and always read blog

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  8. Anonymous1/5/18, 2:05 PM

    Dear Advisor,

    The retired child psychologists and the retired parenting experts led the reading of the blog today. They were amazed at the profound advice and guidance that you shared. The Smile with Smile program chair mentioned that this will solve conflicts which are taking place in all the families. They are planning on giving a copy of the blog to all attendees of the Smile with Smile program workshops. There are a no. of schools who attend these workshops as there are 3 school boards who are involved. The active principals, and vice principals who attended the reading today, are also planning to run a working session for all teachers in their respective schools to share these nuggets

    They asked me to say to you: "Thank you. Thank you. Thank you"

    thank you
    recent retiree

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  9. Anonymous1/5/18, 6:37 PM

    Dear Author,

    We read your blog at the SRC as the Smile Garden is going through the final stages of renovations. After the reading of the blog, the Chancellor was heard saying to the Dean that the Smile Army volunteers are spending all their waking hours to beautify the Smile Garden. He said that he has not seen anything like that or even heard of it anywhere. The Dean then responded that yes they are supposed to be on winter break but are always found here. Prof George joined them and said that it is not only the students but the professors are doing the same thing. He joked that their wives are starting to get worried because some of these professors are notorious for sitting in front of TV and doing nothing. The Dean said that yes Smile has changed a lot here.

    The students are very thankful to you for your blog. They said that they will print a copy of this blog for their parents as they dont get it. The students are concerned that they keep getting threatened by their parents that the parents will cut funding or take the phone away. Some students are saying that your grandson is probably in ideal scenario because of YOU

    thank you
    Literature Fellow

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  10. Superwoman1/5/18, 6:42 PM

    My Smile is amazing!! She is an amazing writer. She is an amazing psychologist. She is an amazing councillor. She is an amazing trainer. She has an amazing family. What an amazing person my Smile is!!

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  11. Anonymous1/5/18, 7:02 PM

    Father say you yell father lot today. Father say he angle but he yes mind lot. Father say he no no why you say Kris to stop father. Father say is father head family or Kris. Father say father booss not Kris. Father say father yell all lot so they no who head family. Father say he yell Niklas lot because he only 2 year and father need get all from Niklas. Father say father say father old almost 67

    (Hannah say thank because you Kris care Niklas. Hannah say she wory because Niklas Kris stress. Hannah say Hannah try talk Niklas but Niklas leave home before son. Hannah say he no read blog two. Hannah say he alway read blog. Hannah say you please take eassieee . She will wake late for Niklas and wil call him friend to find. Me try talk father and ask him no yel but he anger me because he say me like Niklas and father no al. Father then anger Hannah to. Niklas go out so father no able yel him. Me try find Niklas but need go ofice so no time. It lot cold in German so kar dificult start but fahter say he want go see see and sit in kar only. Me confuse. Me no no what do)

    Kris (Germany)

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  12. Plunker1/5/18, 9:17 PM

    I was hoping that the end of the week will bring a change but I guess not. This is ridiculous. What a joke. I know, I know ...

    Thank you mrizvi. So nice of you to remember to comment. You do read before commenting, right?

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  13. Batman1/5/18, 9:17 PM

    Caaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaallllllllllllllmmmmmmmmmmmmm down, Plunker. Just reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeellllllllllaaaaaaaaaxxxxxxxx. Kids today, you know. Yes we must be kind

    Brilliant comment from you, mrizvi. Good job, kiddo

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