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We Can Not Compete Nature -- No Way

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Kris My Friend I am Sad Please Give Phone and Tablet To Niklas Don't Stop Him From Playing Football Please Try To Understand It is Not End Of The World Thanks It is Saturday Cloudy Cold Day with Muddy Sky Temperature 4 Degrees Feels Like 2 Still Summer For We Canadians We Don't Believe It is Winter until We See Snow at Our Door Steps -- We walk Around All Dressed up in Layers --  Try To Distract Ourselves  Anyway Winter is Just Aroun d The Corner It is Saturday -- Today Our Club Having Christmas  Bazar From 10 to 2 pm  I Try To Get Out For Everything To Get Busy My Son Driving Me There -- It is 10.30 I am in My Office Cubicle Writing My Blog after That Go To The Next Room  Where We used To Play Darts Three Days a Week But Today We See All The Stuff Beautifully Set up For Sale Purpose  I am Still Thinking about The Scenic View Of My Backyard Garden -- It was Rain Last Night The Frozen Rain Drop...

Twilight and Candles

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It is a Great Day To Celebrate  I Salute The Dealers -- It Needs Lots of Courage To Come Forward I Admire Everyone Working Behind All This My Dear Students From School  My Great Friend School Principal My Dear Students From University  My Great Friend Dean and All  Teaching Staff  You People are always Supportive also Throughout This Mission  To Make It Possible I Not Only Mention Every Time That Students -- Kids and Youth are Our Asset Pillars of Our Society Our Future   I Strongly Believe That My Friends I Mean My Dear Students asked Me  To Write Something To Help " The Dealers " So I Changed My Plan To Post My Blog which  I already Have Written For Today My Weekends always Very Busy with Family and Friends I was Away Whole Day In and Out  It is 9 pm I am Writing My New Blog  I Can Never Say " No " To My Dear Young Friends  My Dear Retiree Friends I Write My Blogs In ...

What about His Time ??

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Literature Fellow My Friend I Congratulate All of You  From Bottom Of My Heart I Just Read Your Comment This is Great News  My Dear Students From School Principal My Friend  And Dean The Great All of You Did Wonder You People are Great  Spreading Happiness All Around Retirees My Friends There was No Typing Error My Blogs Take 5 - 10 Minutes Writing i s very Simple I Think You Didn't Understand My Blog about Writing Writing Comes From Heart Pen and Paper are Just Means My Friend Doing 2 Jobs  I am Not Happy With Your Job Worker She always Tries To Point Out That I am Not Writing For You Some People are Like That Make Others Feel Low and Down - Happiness Can Not  Come This Way Don't You Worry You are Handling Her Very Well My Dear " N " I Write Things Like Read Comments And Have Bird Feeder To Help You Out Father Please Don't Give  Smoke and Beer To Kids It is Not Good For Them It is 20 ...

Flowers -- Squirrels & Butterflies

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Literature Fellow  My Dear Friend I Think That is Great Idea I Trust You People Smile Army will Be Able To Solve The Problem I am also Praying For Dear Students Also For My Dear Principal To Come Back To Reading Sessions Retirees My Friends  Please Don't Suspend  Any Membership Don't Take Smile away From Anyone --These are Petty Matters Leave It Father Please Don't Throw Water On  Niklas Face -- It is Abuse  It is Like Crime Kris Don't Punish Niklas This is all Father's Fault He Never Leaves Niklas Alone Where Can He Go Nowhere -- If He Picks Up Your Phone He was Sure You wont Save Niklas From Father Father is Everywhere To Make His Life Miserable Niklas Not a Baby Let Him Play  Let Him Enjoy His Own Time Why Father is Controlling His Life Niklas Not Father's Slave It is Tuesday Sunny Bright 26 Degrees My Tuesdays are Off I am Not Working Today is My Calls Day It is 10.30 I am Getting Ready To...

You have Control --

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Father Please Have Some  Sense and Talk Nice I Buy Burger Combo for My Grandsons I Didn't ask Them to Get for Me Father How Can You Do that How can You Yell All The Time and  Demand Everything From them Please Give Them a Break Niklas Don't Buy anything To Father He has to Buy for You Literature Fellow My Friend  I Don't Like Smoking Yes But I will Never Like To Punch or Fighting Have Tolerance  Give Them Time They will Realize afterwards  Stay Calm -- Have Patience You Say That People Don't Want to Go  To SRC -- It is Natural Focus on Your Work Take One Step at a Time You will Start Feeling Good Nothing is End of The World It is Wednesday Sunny and Cloudy Mix Day With 24 Degrees Yesterday was Rain in the Evening so bit Humid  I am Back to Work same Two Buses First one Bus # 120 then from HW #2 Bus # 900 I started from Home at 9.10 and was at the Library at 9.40 am Enough Time for Me ...

Family Matters

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First Thing First All My Retiree Friends please don't take any action against Your Friend To make me Happy Err is Human God loves those who forget and Forgive Thanks I regret why I mentioned Oatmeal now I feel sorry for My Friend Hannah She has to get up 10 minutes early to make Kris Father Wishes come True My Dear Kris Father please don't take everything as to benefit you only We have to keep in mind others come first It is not Niklas fault if He doesn't come to You If I yell to My Grand Kids they wont see me again We have to Earn respect not Demand respect Please don't yell to anybody not to your Neighbor and not to your Family Try to give Respect to Everyone You will feel Happy My Dear Friend Doing 2 Jobs Please don't guide anyone what to do This is very personal thing None of our business My Blogs are for My Readers don't give Dictation to Others to do Things Leave Everyone Alone Thank You ...

Art Specimens

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Dear Kris Father My Friend You are a great Person nothing to worry about just give couple of Tele Hours to Niklas and Hannah Give them some privacy  that's it Don't you worry  everyone Loves You My Dear My Dear Retiree Friends  Thanks for Renewing  Membership of your Friends I am Happy for your Trip to Cafe and your Meetings Keep it up Here is My Today's Blog  It is snowing 5cm on the ground 10 more on it's way this is Canada  My Dear In the News it was 30 cm in Montreal and 30 --- 50 cm in St Johns with 90 Km wind No complains now  we are doing fine in Toronto We are ready for all this nothing stops here business as usual so My Grandkids a re playing I am in Don Beer Hockey Arena to walk around and to watch their Games Traffic was slow and cautious roads icy City People waiting for snow to stop to start their work of clearing the roads Some of the trees after dusting with sno...

Every Action Counts

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To My Retiree Group Readers Please continue your Meetings these are very valuable We have to connect with people it always gives Happiness and bring peace to our Life You people are doing Great job Keep this connection alive We have to make phone calls to at least two people  to connect to take our stress out and brighten our Day Thursday was our monthly club meeting at 1 pm after that indoor golf at 2 pm It was Zero in the morning my friend was busy so not coming to pick me up  I made up my mind to go when there is a Will t here is always a Way I followed my summer routine for my bus journey that is from Whites Road bus # 120 then from Kingston Road Bus # 900 to library I started my journey at 10.45 I was at Library at 11.30 I am going to library for years they know me well When one of my friend was shaking hand she realized that I am cold  She immediately put the Fire place on to make me cozy...

Smile

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It is 7 in the morning I am watching from my Bedroom window Mist everywhere I see three trees lined up by the side of my front yard One very tall green tree I think more than 20 feet the other green tree not so tall the center one lost most of the leaves just a skeleton like an old member of the house In the center is Solo tree with bright yellow leaves some orange too standing with great confidence with strong roots it's branches and leaves spreading and covering nearly the whole of the front yard area This solo tree looks to me a highly educated member of my front yard family a very cultured  and stylish  well composed who is living an artistic and polished life style It's body is very strong but slender I think he is strongly following the Diet plan and goes to Gym to build muscles and to keep body in shape Anyhow I am very much impressed and try to behave myself  while passing by this tree who doesn't c...

Comes Around

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Open Letter  to My Readers Family I am so  Happy Today I got Message from my Fellow Writer and Message from Xin I was thinking I am putting Xin  and My  Retiree Group Members under pressure because my  My activities which I mention in my Blogs My Dear Hina Welcome to Readers Family I believe in  Human Family  where Cast Creed  color doesn't matter Even age  doesn't count everything relates only to Heart and Soul where we feel  Reflection of God Just  be yourself  and trust  in God our Almighty He is the  Ultimate  Caretaker Now My Today's Blog Temperature was 26  so walking was not a good option  I made some indoor Plans for myself We have to be like a teacher for our Mind and for our Body give a Plan beforehand to keep them busy and at Peace I changed my bed sheets did washing of my comforter and my clothes My Laundry is in the basement so d...

Doing Nothing

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For relaxation and happiness you don't have to run a Marathon  or push yourself to be happy just relax and be yourself Beside my Senior Club activities I make plans beforehand for Myself to get busy  I am Retired so I keep in mind and try to be involved in my Family my Grand kids cooking -- light groceries as much as I can handle You do such things for your own good and for your own satisfaction you know what goes around comes around just sitting and watching TV not an option for us When you are very busy at work have to do long hours  make plans while coming back  to sit down in your favorite corner of your favorite place with your Cup of Coffee or Tea We need our own time doing Nothing thinking Nothing Just Blank Mind to have our Relaxation Period I do that in the morning lie down for couple of minutes on my bedroom carpet to give a good start to My Day try that you will enjoy 

Our Body Parts

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Our Children are like our body parts when they move out and start Family go to different places because of their work It looks like our body parts are scattered all over the world We try to keep connection alive as long as possible but as we become old it is getting difficult for us Children are busy with their work and with their Family they still love you but are tied up with their own priorities We don't have to blame them we did the same to  our Parents not anyone's fault it is the cycle which goes on Parents are the same they may be from any country of any color any cast or creed specially Moms are Moms We have to keep in mind that our children are no more children they now have their own lives besides family and work  have their friends their own circle to move around It is one sided connection from our side only they don't have time we are not any part in their lives so just close your eyes and leave the...

Breakfast Table

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London 16 July 2016 In London it is 26 so no jacket today My daughter from Grimsby is here to pick me up It is amazing when your children give you time Today is special day as I am having t wo of my daughters with me at the Breakfast table I was enjoying my toast omlete My daughter had to go for groceries from Iceland at Ansin Road 15 minutes drive from Thornton Heath I had a chance to get out which I always try to avail My daughter from Grimsby has her 22 years special Autistic daughter living in Home in London She picked her up with Carer to spend a Day before going back on Sunday I had a chance to see my Beautiful grand daughter Everything is so symbolic  for us to make us think how grateful we should be for all the things we have from God All our abilities we take as granted as our right to have when we have a chance to come across  such people we realize how fortunate are we the importance of each and every part of...

Thornton Heath

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Thornton Heath London, England 14 July 2016 I am with my daughter ? I mentioned in one of my earlier Blogs I think in " Mothers are Mothers " Mothers don't get time they are always in Waiting Area With work and family  no time is left to spend with Mothers not their Fault we should realize and be patient Don't be pushy Just appreciate what we get No complains and no expectations My daughter is a  school teacher leave the house at around 8 am back around 4 pm I live in my Day tight compartment we have to enjoy our own company we don't have to depend on how to spend our day We have to plan our Day on our own In the evening My daughter was going to Parent's Meeting I accompanied her with my pen and paper to write my Blog and to have a chance to spend time with her we have to keep our distance  To keep the connection alive  with our children I am happy I am keeping that I am enjoying my time

Kid Inside

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I think there is a kid hidden inside everyone of us we grow up get older but our inside kid remains there refuses to grow up needs to be pampered, be admired that Kid becomes selfish, greedy, angry and most of the times refuses to listen We have to be there for that kid of ours be kind and gentle and handle tactfully we have to give that kid a direction, a push to make things happen good for our health our life Most of the times I have to push myself to go for a walk, to get out promise to give treats or anything to that kid we have to deal with this kid of ours throughout our lives listen to him, give time and have patience to deal, to be happy and enjoy your life

Happiness Device

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I go to my favorite spot Tim Horton 20 minutes walk from my place I call it " Coffee House " Back home there used to be a very famous coffee house " Cafe George " In my university days sometimes I used to go there It was famous for renowned writers Meeting point Cafe George Patties used to be very tasty with green chutney yogurt I still can feel its taste I with my friend used to pool money to buy that and then split the patty after I never had enough money Moments are Everything  Happiness can not be bought or counted It touches your heart and then remain there forever You can dig in to have a feel for that I had been to number of parties  and festivals in my life time still even after 50 years I can not forget those moments of Happiness I have gone through so much ups and downs in so many years of my life But real Happiness is like an untouched Beauty like a Tr easure Like a Burning Flame  The moments o...

Make Your Day

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Start your day with some happiness Anything like listening some beautiful song watching flowers from your window  or bird watch . It will make your day First thing in the morning I check Hits on my Daily Blog after that lie down for a while on my bedroom carpet  to feel the Earth power These things bring calm and happiness to my heart A good start to face my day Take a good start and then let the things happen to take their course . Some of the things we face in our day to day life, are in our control ,we can tackle with our emotional check and balance experience within our own power but most of the times things go wrong not as we like to see In those situations we loose grip on our emotions It can go worse ending up ruining no t only our day but sometimes the whole week We have to be very careful with those tricky situations Deal them calmly and don't react at first place Think twice before you speak Try not to make any...

Don.t Cry

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In Canada summer means a lot really a lot We wait and dream so long for that and now cant wait to get out and roll We had a small backyard years back now we have a big backyard but no one has time to use it Everyone is out of the house Kids playing Basketball thanks to  Toronto Raptors Everyone can afford this game you just need a ball Parents relaxed they don't have to worry about the expensive Kits like in other sports G et one Pole outside and that's it It is only one time expenditure About my big Backyard I overhear all the times I did water yesterday I am not going to cut the grass the weeds, the Hedges and so on Nobody happy to do that so my son volunteers Not looking happy at all then I start thinking, was the Big Backyard a good idea, not any more But I am out of it, it is none of  my business I enjoy my walk,  the Nature, breathing the air  scented with flowers and freshly cut grass Birds busy making ...