Family Matters

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First Thing First
All My Retiree Friends
please don't take
any action against Your Friend
To make me Happy

 Err is Human
God loves those who forget
and Forgive
Thanks

 I regret why I mentioned
Oatmeal now I feel sorry
for My Friend Hannah

 She has to get up 10 minutes
early to make Kris Father
Wishes come True

 My Dear Kris Father
please don't take everything
as to benefit you only

 We have to keep in mind
others come first

 It is not Niklas fault if He
doesn't come to You
If I yell to My Grand Kids
they wont see me again

 We have to Earn respect
not Demand respect

 Please don't yell to anybody
not to your Neighbor and
not to your Family

 Try to give Respect to
Everyone You will feel
Happy

 My Dear Friend Doing 2 Jobs
Please don't guide anyone
what to do

 This is very personal thing
None of our business

 My Blogs are for My Readers
don't give Dictation to
Others to do Things

 Leave Everyone Alone
Thank You
I am sitting in Lincoin Public school
watching my youngest Grandson
inter school Basket Ball Game

He loves to play Ice hockey
from last year he is into Basket
ball beside Hockey

I have a feeling that he is now
enjoying more in Court than in
Hockey Arena

Kids are very sensitive and observant
we matter a lot to them our attitude
our dealings this all brings
Huge change in their Life 

I think it is the Coach for Kids
they are like their Role Model now
He is getting more playing time

At the start of the Season He was
sitting on the Bench most of the time
I love to watch Him not playing only
but to spend time with them

I have a Habit to make my bed and
keep my room organized My Youngest
Grandson loves to lie down on my bed
after school hours in evenings

When I see my bed all messed up
believe me I feel Happy and think
Myself as Lucky 

Beside that all " We need to talk " 
Sessions between my Son and His Kids
always held in My room

I am Thankful to My Family that
they are not sick of me also Thankful
to God Almighty for keeping me
blessed

I think we have to be accommodative
and flexible to give space to Others
and not try to be Self Centred

To be with People around always
bring Happiness and makes
Our Days Brighter


Comments

  1. Sheema2/28/17, 7:52 AM

    I appreciate you that how you take time to guide us to solve ours day to day problems in a positive way and teach us how to give respect and space to others.

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  2. Anonymous2/28/17, 11:32 AM

    I have posted the blog in Smile Corner. The town is talking about nothing else but Smile's blog as parenting is a key subject here

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  3. Anonymous2/28/17, 11:33 AM

    I have posted the blog in all notice boards in lobbies A, B, C and D

    Jimmy

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    1. Anonymous2/28/17, 5:44 PM

      SWS was great. As usual there was a big group of people today. We went for the nature walk

      Tiara

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    2. Anonymous2/28/17, 5:45 PM

      SWN was fun. There was a lot of discussion about Smile's blog. Participants pointed out that Smile is talking about empathy and not just parenting

      Cleo

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    3. Anonymous2/28/17, 5:46 PM

      Smile blog is getting more and mpre popular I was asked to schedule 2 sessions for managers only. Both these sessions are house full. No more room available

      Kim

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  4. Anonymous2/28/17, 11:34 AM

    My Smile is awesome! She is an awesome advisor! She is an awesome councillor. She is an awesome writer. She is an awesome friend to readers family. What an awesome person my Smile is!!

    Karen

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  5. Anonymous2/28/17, 11:34 AM

    I lost the race to post the blog in our corporate notice boards.

    Brenda

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    1. Anonymous2/28/17, 11:35 AM

      I was in early so was able to post the blog. There was a box of SDs there but no donut for poster today

      Craig

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  6. Anonymous2/28/17, 11:54 AM

    Dear Madam Smile,

    You give so good advise to everyone. One job worker came say hello me today. She want know about what you say parenting because I had tell her you blog before you tell me not tell. She ask me if your Madam has say anything more because her kid play video game lot. I about tell her you blog and tell what do but I remember what you say. I say her that yes she write about video kid but I no tell you what she say and what do. She say she no understand because she ask help me and she think I friend. I say yes I you friend but I no tell you. She angry but I still no tell because you tell me no tell. I do 2 proud job and no tell blog.

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  7. Anonymous2/28/17, 5:55 PM

    Dear Advisor,

    We had the emergency session today to discuss my membership. In view of the comments that you made, the retirees took a lenient approach towards me. However my membership has been temporarily suspended. The suspension will be lifted with your approval. The retirees tool this line of approach because they wanted to give you an opportunity to reconsider the acceptance of the apology. I have been asked not to discuss any further about the proceedings of the hearing today, until you have given a response. This is to avoid influencing your decision

    The retirees did not go for the walk today as we were very tired. The retirees went for the special meeting. The subcommittee on parenting led the way in reading your blog. They asked me to convey their special thanks as this material is very useful for them. The other subcommittees will continue functioning as of tomorrow. They were all involved in the special hearing today and were not able to carry out their proceedings

    thank you
    recent retiree

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  8. Anonymous2/28/17, 8:41 PM

    Father say he no no why you yell him. Father say it only take 5 min to make oatmeal. It no difficult. Father say Hannah tell that him to. Father say he no yell nabor. Father say nabor respect father. Father say he need yell Niklas because Niklas very bad. He no walk skool. He only play competer. Father say he help Niklas. Father say he old almost 67

    (Niklas say you grandson very lucky that you grand. He say he no believe that you go watch his game and let him lie in you bed. Niklas say grandpapa no let him come room. Hannah say you no worry her. It ok she no mind wake early. Me think father right about Niklas. He no help with any home work, like no vacum, no rubbish, no dish, no job, nothing. He only get good mark and sit sofa and play competer. Me no happy him. Me yell him but Hannah say no yell. Me no no what do)

    Kris (Germany)

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  9. Anonymous2/28/17, 8:46 PM

    Dear Author,

    All of us, ie the students, agree with what you are trying to tell adults. They dont understand that you cannot expect kids to respect you if you keep getting angry at minor things. Most of us are in our late teens and early 20s, so effectively teenagers and we have not come across any adult, other than you who understand us. All adults make big deals for minor issues. Your family, specially your grandkids are really lucky to have you with them to protect them.

    We also agree that coaching plays a huge role in improving the interest that kids have in sports. Some of us who have played sports, know it first hand. Also, we think teachers make big difference too

    thank you for letting us comment on your blog
    Literature Fellow

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    1. Anonymous2/28/17, 8:51 PM

      Dear Literature Fellow, it good that you read first and then comment. mrizvi no read but only comment. But why you say teacher make difference too? Madam no talk about teacher. She only say coach. We reader should no say thing that Madam no write. It no good. She big shot. Madam very knowledge. I do 2 proud job and no guide anyone

      Delete
  10. Superwoman2/28/17, 8:47 PM

    My Smile is amazing. She is an amazing grandmother. She is an amazing writer. She is an amazing counsellor. She has an amazing family. What an amazing person my Smile

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  11. mrizvi2/28/17, 8:52 PM

    good post

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    1. Plunker2/28/17, 8:55 PM

      Oh My God!! This stuff is simply crazzzy! I mean every day - same thing. All readers family have tried to explain but is not being able to get the message in the little mind. And Smile is so kind, she wants us all to be nice and gentle to everyone! EVERYONE!!

      Thanks mrizvi. What a brilliant comment this is! Way to go

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    2. Batman2/28/17, 8:56 PM

      Caaallmmm down Plunker. We already know that some of the kids are rebellious. No point in trying to explain anything to them. Remember what Smile teaches everyone ie You need to just REEEEELAAX. And yes, we need to be polite and kind

      Thank you so much mrizvi. Much appreciated for your kind comment

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  12. Boris2/28/17, 8:58 PM

    This blog is yet another masterpiece. Look at the deep thinking that she is trying to teach us

    "I think we have to be accommodative
    and flexible to give space to Others
    and not try to be Self Centred

    To be with People around always
    bring Happiness and makes
    Our Days Brighter"

    Absolute class!!

    Thanks Smile

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  13. Anonymous2/28/17, 9:17 PM

    This blog saved our meeting today. It was going nowhere and then we decided to take a break. I used the opportunity to talk about the blog. That basically changed everything. Specially the line that respect is deserved and cannot be commanded. This made the customer realize that just repeating the things more vociferously wont help. Instead of talking over each other, we started talking to each other.

    These blogs are simply fantastic

    Keith Walker

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  14. Anonymous2/28/17, 9:20 PM

    I loved this blog. I was talking to my colleagues and they simply cant believe the messages of understanding that Smile has shared

    way to go Smile

    thank you

    newbie

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  15. Smile2/28/17, 11:33 PM

    Hello Readers Family
    Thanks Linda Dave Keith Boris Newbie Karen Jimmy Brenda Cleo Batman Tiara
    Retiree Group Literature Fellow Kris Kim Plunker mrizvi Craig Jasmeet
    Superwoman Sheema Thanks All My Anonymous and Multilingual Readers
    Thanks Everyone

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