Don't Do That

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I thank Everyone
but specially to Niklas
who offered His Prayers
to My Father

Thank You My Dear 
Little Friend
I am proud of You

Dear Kris 
Don't take any Day Off 

Dear Literature Fellow

 I think around People
they are My Subject

 Credit goes to You People 

I Just Ink my Thoughts 
on Paper or Internet
that's it


My youngest sister lives in Chicago
she just retired from her 30 years
of career in a prestigious Cook County 
Hospital

She is having difficulty in handling
her retirement she was devoted to
her work and never thought about
leaving that

She has no plans no social Life
no hobbies her health is in chaos 
so can not do any physical activity

Our personality has to be
Multidimensional we have to keep
a balance between Work Family
and our personal Life

It is our great mistake when we are
giving whole time to Work or to
Family in either case one aspect
will be neglected and we face lot of
problems to manage 

But think about your Personal
time beside your Work and Family
this is also a very important aspect

A very important portion of
our Life Span I think one third 
part of our Life period we have
to have as our own time

 After 60 or 65 years of age we
have the rest of the period when
our Family is gone 

 I mean to start their own families
no time for us our Work already
gone as we are now retired

 Our Life Partner is there but nothing
to talk we just passing our time
in a waiting room to get the
train to our Final Destiny

Please don't do that cultivate your
personal hobbies your personal
interests to be Happy

 To cherish your Golden Era of
Retirement celebrate that beautiful
period of your Life 

Your personal time is like your
Saving Account matures at
the time of your Retirement


Comments

  1. Anonymous2/11/17, 8:54 AM

    I have posted the blog in Smile Corner. This is market day but customers are coming to my shop in droves. They come here to read the blog first before going to the market. We have lots of people from out of town who come to read blog and then do shopping. There is no room to stand, let alone sit. Priest is here too. Customers gave me place to sit and they are secretly smiling. He is making some notes.

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  2. Anonymous2/11/17, 8:56 AM

    My Smile is awesome! She is an awesome advisor! She is an awesome councillor. She is an awesome author. She has awesome family. What an awesome person my Smile is!!

    Karen

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  3. Anonymous2/11/17, 10:01 AM

    Dear Madam Smile, you give so good advice. You take care so many people like Dear Retirees, Dear Kris Father, Dear Literature Fellow, you give food son sons, give money son, get grocery daughter in law. You scientist, you go government conference. You big shot.I write but I no time for hobby or social . I do 2 proud job and always read blog

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  4. Superwoman2/11/17, 11:17 AM

    My Smile is amazing! She is an amazing writer. She is an amazing advisor. She is an amazing councillor. She has amazing friends. What an amazing person my Smile is!!

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  5. Anonymous2/11/17, 11:37 AM

    Dear Advisor,

    This is a very important blog. Your blog resonated with the retirees as some faced similar situation as your sister. The retirees do appreciate that you are raising awareness for this important issue. The retirees have also taken on this challenge and set up a subcommittee for outreach to raise awareness. The goal of this subcommittee will be to reach out to individuals who are 50 and over and help them prepare for the retirement. We are assuming that it is ok with you if we use your blog as reference. Our preference to use your blog is because you have explained this issue in a much more humane way than we ever can

    thank you
    recent retiree

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  6. Anonymous2/11/17, 11:38 AM

    I read blog in France. I so emotion read blog about you dad

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    Replies
    1. Anonymous2/11/17, 11:39 AM

      You blog good. Me English no good. Russian good

      Delete
    2. Anonymous2/11/17, 12:00 PM

      This blog important for China to. Same problem

      Delete
    3. Anonymous2/11/17, 6:24 PM

      This good. I no Anglais but Spanish good

      Delete
  7. Anonymous2/11/17, 11:54 AM

    Father say you right that retirement tough. It important prepare like get good tele and good tablet. Father say it important get lot channel too. Father say it also important that before retire, tell daughter law to make resolution to learn make good soup. Father say he go mall next week. He say Kris take day off so father go walk morning. Father say he old almost 67

    (Niklas say you no need thank him. Niklas say he no go church alone but his friends want go to. He say he no ask friends go, but they want go themselves because they like you. You understand them. Nabor want go to church to. Hannah also plan go. Father want go church. Father also want go mall. Me tell father that me no vacation. Me tell father that me drop him to mall and then he walk. Me pick him back at lunch but father say no. Father want Kris be there all time. Father say Niklas be there to. Niklas no want go mall. Me no no what do)

    Kris (Germany)

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  8. Anonymous2/11/17, 11:59 AM

    This is a very useful blog. It highlights an important social issue that no one talks about. Thank you Smile

    newbie

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  9. Anonymous2/11/17, 6:29 PM

    Your online journal has been a source of immense ideas and discourses for us and our guests. Whenever we invite folks over or are invited, the topic invariably switches to your writings. Your sagacious thoughts have given us opportunity to dabble in multitude of conversations. The notions you put forward are very thoughtful and well researched, they are also of interests of commoners like us, and hence very well received.

    Thank you for making our days brighter
    Dave and Linda

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  10. Anonymous2/11/17, 6:34 PM

    Dear Author,

    As part of our research, we are planning to use categorization of the blogs based on the subject. However we have run into a problem. Your blogs are on so many different subjects that we are running out of different categories. We have shared this with our professor and he has graciously agreed to give us some bonus marks for higher effort

    thanks
    Literature Fellow

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  11. Plunker2/11/17, 8:20 PM

    Come on! Give me a break. This is getting ridiculous. It makes my blood pressure go really high. I know, I know .....

    Good job mrizvi. You made my day. Thanks

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  12. Batman2/11/17, 8:22 PM

    Caaaaaaaaaaaaaallllllllllllmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm down Plunker. Just Calm down. Take it eaasssssssssssssssyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy. Yes we need to be kind

    Great work mrizvi. You guessed it right kiddo

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  13. Boris2/11/17, 8:25 PM

    This blog is fantastic. It is an eye opener. Just look at this:

    "To cherish your Golden Era of
    Retirement celebrate that beautiful
    period of your Life

    Your personal time is like your
    Saving Account matures at
    the time of your Retirement|"

    Is this brilliant or what!

    Thank you Smile

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  14. Anonymous2/11/17, 8:28 PM

    This blog opened my eyes. I wish I had read this blog earlier

    Mother in law (of the happy reader)

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  15. Anonymous2/11/17, 8:30 PM

    Today's blog is very useful. I am not retired yet but am resolving to make changes in my life.

    Thank you Smile

    mark

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  16. Smile2/11/17, 11:11 PM

    Hello Readers Family
    Thanks Keith Kris Kim Karen Boris mrizvi Plunker Batman Linda Dave Jimmy
    Cleo Literature Fellow Sheema Marg Brenda Superwoman Retiree Group Newbie
    Sheema Mark Happy Mother in Law Tiara jasmeet
    Thanks All My Anonymous and Multilingual Readers
    Thanks Everyone

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