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Dear Retiree My Friend
please don't even think 
you did anything wrong

 We are Family
don't You worry
just relax


My Dear Kris Father
don't put Hannah
under pressure 
to make fresh Oatmeal
cereal every Morning

 We have to tackle our own
wishes to come true

 Our Family we live with
is already has to deal
so much bc of us

 No more please
We have to leave them
alone to have some
time off

 Thank You
I hope You will
Understand


My Dear friend Kris is worried
about Niklas playing computer
games all the times same is my
Son about his Kids 

I was thinking about this matter
it looks not simple
a very complex situation

If we cap computer hours
Kids start going outside
Parents are scared of the
world outside

 Kids are smart they know their
Marks are very important to us
they somehow manage and
keep track of that aspect

Now we have no point keeping them
away from their favorite domain

Parents have two top priorities
1 : Marks
2 : Keep them away from outside 
     world
Parents want everything in their favor
get panicky can not cut down
their Kids playing time 

You can not have everything My Dear
when I go deep down this matter
looks to me that Kids started loosing
their social Life

Kids don't talk much but if you allow
them to go out still no one is talking

 They visit each other's place with
their controller in hand to play
games together

I never see them without their
head phones they are sitting together
still not talking

 Then I see them texting all the time
so may be they are more connected
to their friends than us

They adopted the new way of
communication it is through
internet they are more comfortable
with this than verbal 

 I think no harm in that we at this age
first thing in the morning go to our
face book to check Messages

 Kids are OK I think we are thinking
too much into it


Comments

  1. Anonymous2/27/17, 8:21 AM

    I have posted the blog in Smile Corner. Lots of customers in my shop even though it is Monday.

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  2. Anonymous2/27/17, 8:22 AM

    I have posted the blog in all notice boards in lobbies A, B, C and D

    Jimmy

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    1. Anonymous2/27/17, 8:26 AM

      Can you also post the blogs form the weekend?

      Cathy

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    2. Anonymous2/27/17, 8:28 AM

      I was getting the printouts ready. I should be able to post the weekend blogs within the next hour or so. I posted the one from today as I know that some wants to start their day with todays blog

      Jimmy

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    3. Anonymous2/27/17, 9:27 AM

      I have now posted all the blogs. Also left some extra copies in some team rooms

      Jimmy

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    4. Anonymous2/27/17, 2:29 PM

      SWS was fun. People were saying TGIM (Thank God Its Monday)

      Tiara

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    5. Anonymous2/27/17, 2:30 PM

      SWN was fun too. We talked about Smile's blog about parenting. It created a big buzz.

      Cleo

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    6. Anonymous2/27/17, 4:31 PM

      What a day! Smile's blogs created such huge waves here. There are requests for more sessions. All parents with older kids want to talk about nothing else but today's blog and young folks want to talk about her blog about nutrition

      Kim

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  3. Anonymous2/27/17, 8:23 AM

    My Smile is awesome! She is an awesome advisor! She is an awesome child psychologist. She is an awesome writer. She is an awesome friend to readers family. What an awesome person my Smile is!!

    Karen

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  4. Anonymous2/27/17, 8:24 AM

    I lost the race to post the blog in our corporate notice boards.

    Brenda

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    1. Anonymous2/27/17, 8:25 AM

      I was in early so was able to post the blog. There was a box of SDs there but no donut for poster today

      Craig

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    2. Anonymous2/27/17, 8:26 AM

      And I posted the blogs from the weekend

      Marg

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  5. Sheema2/27/17, 9:14 AM

    I am really surprised that how you solve the big problems so easily and now thinking the way , you showed us, right now makes sense.
    The children are more connected with the outside world than us in their own way.

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  6. Anonymous2/27/17, 11:07 AM

    Dear Madam Smile,

    You write so good. You fix problem for so many dear readers. Like Dear retirees, Dear Kris, Dear Niklas, Dear Hannah and so many. You very kind to, like you forgive dear recent retiree. I come work and saw one kid going school with his mother. I say him that it good you play game. It no bad you play more. He was very happy but his mother no happy. I no tell her blog because you say no tell blog. I tell her that I do 2 proud job but I always read my Madam blog.

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  7. Anonymous2/27/17, 11:44 AM

    Dear Advisor,

    Thank you for your generosity in forgiving me for my yet another careless mistake. Unfortunately the retirees have not been that understanding. They have requested for my resignation. I cant blame them as there has been 2 lapses of judgement at my end. They have passed a resolution to consider revoking my membership. Keeping in view my past engagements, they have decided to delay bringing forward the motion by a day. This is to help provide me some time to prepare my defence.

    The retirees did go for our walk today. The walk was under 10 mins and it was much shorter than the ones that you take. After that we had our lollipop. Following that we had our meeting to deal with the unpleasant business about me. The other subcommittees continued to function. The subcommittee on joint family living and also on parenting were the ones given an opportunity to lead the reading of today's blog

    Thanks again for writing and providing us guidance
    recent retiree

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  8. Anonymous2/27/17, 2:27 PM

    Father say that it no difficult make oatmeal. Father say Hannah can make in 5 min. Father say family lucky that father live. He give so advice to everyone. Father say you wrong that kid should play computer. Father say you no no today kid. They bad. They spend all time on computer. They no walk skool. They easy life. They no no understand value time and money. All time they spend watch tele and play compiter. Father say they no competer should be for skool work. If they want talk friend, then they play out. Father say Niklas is worst. You no no him. He no do anything. No no how talk grandpapa. He no time with grandpapa. Father say he old almost 67

    (Niklas very happy with blog. He say thank. He say he try sit less time on computer but nothing to do. He say he go skool. It no his fault if grandpapa bore. Niklas say if he go talk him, grandpapa yell him. Hannah say thank to. He say it nice you consider others to. She say she wake early 10 mins today to make oatmeal but it ok. Me tell Niklas that he play to much computer. It complicate situation but simple answer. Niklas should study more. If he has time then take rubbish out. Help vacum. Do dish. He get work so pay for thing to. Hannah say no yell him but me confuse. Me no no what do)

    Kris (Germany)

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  9. Anonymous2/27/17, 4:34 PM

    Dear Author,

    From a young person's point of view, you are absolutely correct. It makes perfect sense. Your blog should be required reading for all parents. It will make it so much easier for everyone in the family

    I heard from a friend that the social science group is doing a project on this blog. I will let you know once I find out more

    thank you
    Literature Fellow

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  10. Plunker2/27/17, 8:52 PM

    Please Please Please. Someone heeeellllllllpp. I cannot take it

    Thanks mrizvi. Very good comment

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  11. Batman2/27/17, 8:53 PM

    Hey Plunker. Remember Smile wants us to be kind. Also she told us that "this too shall pass"

    Very brilliant comment mrizvi. Way to go

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  12. Superwoman2/27/17, 8:54 PM

    My Smile is amazing!! She is an amazing writer. She is an amazing psychologist. She is an amazing councillor. She is an amazing trainer. She has an amazing family. What an amazing person my Smile is!!

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  13. Smile2/27/17, 11:08 PM

    Hello Readers Family
    Thanks Karen Linda Dave Keith Kim Kris Superwoman Boris mrizvi Batman Plunker Jimmy Brenda Cleo Jasmeet Tiara Sheema Marg Retiree Group
    Literature Fellow Cathy Thanks to All My Anonymous and Multilingual Readers
    Thanks Everyone

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