Keep the Doors Open
Dear parents
Parenting is a vast subject
I keep on writing still
not done
My Dear Literature Fellow
was having some difficulty
in categorizing my Blogs
as it is everywhere I mean
on so many subjects
I started thinking and found out
that I write on three subjects
1 : Nature
2 : Family Matters
3 : Happiness
In Family Kids and Seniors are
my favorite subjects as these two
are the most vulnerable and need
lots of support
Seniors to cope up with their long
retirement period and Kids as this
subject needs lots of thinking and
evaluation
Their whole personality and character
building depends on our Attitude on
our Behavior
We can make it or break it we have to
handle their situation with great care
Please while dealing with anyone of
them as a Parent or as a Teacher think twice
this will be a Scar
They have to carry for their whole Life
they totally depend on us for their
future for their Life ahead
Keep the doors open so after leaving
the Nest they would like to come back
to pay a visit and keep connected
I know a number of Parents who were
behaving like Masters to their Kids
and now Kids are sick of them and
don't want to see them I am deliberately
avoiding the word Hate
Now there is your time but time changes
and flies away afterwards there has
to be no Regrets
This is a common mistake when we
use techniques of our childhood
period and experiences
Please don't do that Kids already
have so much pressure from the
outside world there is so much
competition
Be supportive to make their Life
easy and help them out they can
not handle pressure from inside
world of their Parents
Just ignore small things
focus on Big picture on a broader
spectrum taking the days ahead
into account
I have posted the blog in Smile Corner. This is market day but customers are coming to my shop in waves. They come here to read the blog first before going to the market. We have lots of people from out of town who come to read blog and then do shopping. They are talking about Smile's blogs on parenting. Priest is here too. He is making some notes. Customers are secretly smiling.
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ReplyDeleteMy Smile is awesome! She is an awesome child therapist! She is an awesome councillor. She is an awesome author. She has awesome family. What an awesome person my Smile is!!
ReplyDeleteKaren
Dear Madam Smile, I go job and say hello Mr. Supervisor. He say Hello and then give work and then say he need make call. I meet job worker. I say her I no tell you about child blog because my Madam say no. She say good, I no marry. I say my Madam give advice for all, like marry and no marry people. She say she no care. I angry. I say I no talk you now. She say sorry, she no mean bad about Madam, I say ok. I say he you dont know my Madam so good and give so good advice. She take care so many people like Dear Retirees, Dear Kris Father, Dear Literature Fellow, she give food son sons, give money son, get grocery daughter in law. She big scientist, she go government conference. She big shot. She say she sorry and say she need go work. I say ok. I do 2 proud job and always read blog
ReplyDeleteI read blog in France. I so emotion read blog because it about kid
ReplyDeleteYou blog good. Me English no good. Russian good
DeleteThis blog important for China to. Same problem
DeleteThis good. I no Anglais but Spanish good
DeleteGood blog. Italian same problem
DeleteDear Advisor,
ReplyDeleteThe retirees did not go for the walk today as it is too much for us. Some members have cramps from our strenuous activity from this week. Only the retired professional athlete and the retired physical trainer are in decent shape to handle these walks on a daily basis. However even they are on the record of saying that it is difficult to keep up with your pusruit of physical activities eg going to a frozen lake, walking to the bank to get funds for your only son, playing golf, playing darts etc .. We surmised that you probably drove to the lake and parked at such a place that you dont have to go outside but just view it from inside the car.
As for today's blog, the subcommittee on parenting received it with a glee. They are excited but also feeling overwhelmed. It is generous of you that you have approved the plan to get additional resources. This is helping the subcommittee a lot. Some of the resources that has been included is a principal of a local school, child care counselling specialist a child psychologist. We are still seeking for additional augmentation of the subcommittee because of the psychologist and child counsellor do not think that they alone can handle it. They work at a local children hospital so we are hoping that they will be able to leerage their influence for additional help
thank you for writing so regularly on such a critical issue
recent retiree
This is a fantastic blog. It completely has turned conventional wisdom upside down. I talked to my neighbour about it and she was astounded. Just so that you guys know, my neighbour knows a few things about this topic as she is an established researcher in this area
ReplyDeleteWay to go Smile. Thank you
newbie
Father say that you no rite. There no mark on child when yell. He say there mark when father hit hard but no permanent. He say he father did that him and he do to Kris (me) so he sure. He say you science people change mind all time. He say old system very good. It simple to. Child suppose do only what father say. IF father say study then study. If father say play football then play football. IF father say use competer do work then do that. He say this because he know father know more. Child just stupid. Even Kris (me) no less than father. Father old almost 67
ReplyDelete(Niklas say you right. He say that his skool principal say same thing. He say grandpapa no right. He say he love grandpapa but he no understand that kid no stupid. Hannah say you right. Me confuse. Father yell Niklas lot. He yell me if me no yell. Father right Niklas play competer all time. Me no care if he good mark. He can get more. Do vaccum. Cut grass. Throw rubbish. Why sit and play all time. Me confuse. Me no no what do)
Kris (Germany)
Dear Kris, why you confuse. IF Madam say no yell, then you no yell. Madam very knowledge. She big shot. I do 2 proud job and always do what Madam tell
DeleteDear guy with 2 proud job, Father say you no intrfar between Smile and him family. He say you go hell. Father say he old almost 67
Delete(Please no mind. Father get angry but please no intfare. Me agree that Smile right but father know lot to. Me confuse. Me no no what do)
Dear Author,
ReplyDeleteThank you for giving us tips about classification. We will take your advice and categorize the blogs that way. To be honest we think there are many more subcategorries. We are working with our professor as well. Due to the complexity, he has also asked the dean for some help.
I am not sure if it is appropriate for me to comment on your blog, so please forgive me if this is not right. I know you are probably a child therapy expert but from a teenager point of view you are absolutely right. We, ie the people from my class, all agree. The yelling and screaming creates unnecessary pressure and not helpful at all. Some of our parents tend to live in the past. I am not sure how you can think so far ahead because you are the only one that I know of who is an adult and yet looking at things from the point of view of the next generation.
thank you
Literature Fellow
Dear Literature Fellow, it good you do research Madam blog. Blog very complicate, if you want help, then let me know. We all reader family so help. I do 2 proud job and always read blog
DeleteMy Smile is amazing. She is an amazing parenting expert. She is an amazing therapist. She is an amazing counsellor. She has an amazing family. What an amazing my Smile
ReplyDeleteSmile put together an amazing blog. She talks about how to change the lives of kids who will become adults. And what does she get ? Did someone even had courtesy to read? I know I know. ... Smile is so generous that she wants us to be kind to all
ReplyDeleteThank you mrizvi. Good guess buddy
Caaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaalllllllllllllllllllllmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm down Plunker. Reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeellllllllllllaaaaaaaaaaxxxxxxxxxx. You are right about what you said but keep in mind that kids are kids. They dont take things seriously
ReplyDeleteGood job mrizvi. How is school kiddo
Smile discusses key social issues and rips int existing practices, turning them upside down. Just look at what she wrote today:
ReplyDeleteI know a number of Parents who were
behaving like Masters to their Kids
and now Kids are sick of them and
don't want to see them I am deliberately
avoiding the word Hate
Now there is your time but time changes
and flies away afterwards there has
to be no Regrets "
Simply marvelous!!
Hello Readers Family
ReplyDeleteThanks Jimmy brenda Cleo Marg Tiara Batman mrizvi Plunker Linda Dave
Karen Superwoman Literature Fellow Boris Newbie Retiree Group Kris Kim
Sheema Thanks All My Anonymous and Multilingual Readers
Thanks Everyone