Listening ---- A Meditation Zone
Kris My Dear
Father not going anywhere
He is My Friend
He is very generous
He only has to watch His
Tele Hours
That's it He can manage
We all Love Him
Niklas My little Friend
I am proud of You
and Your Friends for going
to Church for My Father
Thanks a lot Love You
Dear Retiree Friends
I am really proud of You
You are doing so much
work to give messages
from My Blogs
To help Community
Thank You
Our Kids are Our Asset
our Future I will write
more about this
important Subject
Keep going to cafe
to hold your Meetings
this is good for You
Today My Blog
is about Listening
The more I start thinking about
Listening the more I feel about
that it is very complicated
Not easy -- listening has so many
stages we often think as Hearing
is Listening
Not like that we need our whole
body to be involved in that process
It is the strongest communication
We have to absorb ourselves cut off
from all other businesses of ours
and have to focus
The person who is talking should
have total trust that I am getting
his Message
Hearing is done through Ears
Listening is when our Body is into it
including our Mind and our Heart
20 Years back I read a book about
Listening I liked it very much
it was mentioned that 80% of our
first job depends on Listening
I totally agree with that it is not simple
it is a project needs lots of training
and practice
Believe me on the other hand
the listening time period is
like a Meditation time zone
We switch off all the buttons of our
stray thoughts our Body is immersed
and totally focused it also needs
lots of patience
This is Meditation no doubt about that
Just try that and how relaxed you will be
for that time you will know yourself
I have posted the blog in Smile Corner. There are lots of customers coming even on Monday. The entire town seems to be going gaga over Smile's blog from yesterday. It is a huge deal here
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ReplyDeleteI have posted the blog in all notice boards in lobbies A, B, C and D. Still working on getting the blogs posted from the weekend.
ReplyDeleteJimmy
Can you please post them before the Smile Walks? We read them before going for the walk
DeleteJeff
I have now posted all blogs in all noticeboards in lobbies A, B, C and D. Sorry for the delay, I was delayed as people kept coming to get copies from the printouts
DeleteJimmy
SWS was fun. People were saying TGIM (Thank God Its Monday) They were saying that we are happy because we get to read 3 blogs today.
DeleteTiara
SWN was fun too. We talked about Smile's blog about parenting. It created a big buzz.
DeleteCleo
I have got many requests from people who want to attend Smile Forums. Almost the entire corporate office wants to attend these sessions. The blogs were already popular but the one about parenting are phenomenally popular
DeleteKim
Dear Madam Smile, you so good and write good blog. I no understand what you say listen because I listen so I ask Mr. Supervisor that. He say you Madam say like try understand what the other person real want. Not just hear with ear but also try understand. I say how possible that you no hear ear. He say like when you late today and I look watch, I try tell you that you late. I say yes but I work harder and finish job. He say it good I know but it no good late. I no happy that he change subject so I left. I do 2 proud job and sometime late but I work hard
ReplyDeleteI lost the race to post the blog on our corporate notice boards. It was already posted when I got there. Of course, there was also a box of fresh SDs with a note from SA
ReplyDeleteBrenda
I was in early today and posted the blog. Of course the SDs were already there. Plus one additional donut for the poster
DeleteCraig
And I posted the one from the weekend
DeleteMarg
This blog provided me with a perfect fix for my business meeting today. We were in a meeting where no one was listening. During the break I suggested that we refresh our minds too and read this blog. The entire meeting dynamics changed.
ReplyDeleteSmile is fantastic
Keith Walker
My Smile is awesome! She is an awesome listener! She is an awesome councillor. She is an awesome writer. She has awesome family. What an awesome person my Smile is!!
ReplyDeleteKaren
My Smile is amazing! She is an amazing communication consultant. She is an amazing advisor. She is an amazing councillor. She has amazing friends. What an amazing person my Smile is!!
ReplyDeleteFather say that you say you friend but he no think. He say he no no what you say. He say you ask spend time alone but then you say no watch tele. He say he no understand what do. Father say he old almost 67
ReplyDelete(Father ask me read blog last 2 week because he confuse what you want him do. Father say if me no vacation then it ok he no go walk mall. He say he no feel strong go mall alone as he can fall. Me no no what do)
Kris (Germany)
And this is really the most difficult part of our daily lives.I always try my best but as you have mentioned , it needs a lot of patience which most of us are lacking so we need to build it.
ReplyDeleteDear Advisor,
ReplyDeleteThe retirees did not go for the walk today as we were too tired. We did however go to the cafe to do the joint reading of your blog. We were very surprised, and to be honest, humbled that you thanked us for our endeavours. It should be YOU who deserve to be showered with appreciation and not us.
We talked about today's blog and due to the significant interest, have formed a subcommittee to look into this. This subcomittee will research your blog and once it has learnt the fine art of listening, will share it with the other subcommittees. This is because, listening is something which is critically needed by all the subcommittees.
The reason I am writing late today is because we also dealt with another matter today. As you cleared the retired data security scientist and the retired information security consultant from any misgivings, we scheduled a meeting to formally reinstate them as members. Though your decision came last week but we did not want to meet until this week as a mark of respect to your father. The two members, a lady and a gentlemen, have expressed their sincere thanks and gratitude to you for your vote of confidence in them.
thank you
recent retiree
What is going on here? Is anyone listening? Is there anyone home? I give up! Really. I am this close to stop being kind. After all there is a limit to everything ...
ReplyDeleteThanks mrizvi. Appreciate you letting us know that this is a good blog
Just chill Plunker. Take a cold bath. Or read one of Smile's blog again. That should calm you down. No point in popping an artery. Kids these days do not think seriously. Their pet phrase is " I dont care". I think thats why Smile wants us to be generous to all
ReplyDeleteGood work mrizvi. How is school coming along kiddo
This blog is absolute brilliance from Smile. Just have a read how she describes listening
ReplyDelete"Hearing is done through Ears
Listening is when our Body is into it
including our Mind and our Heart"
I have not seen a better definition yet!
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