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I am Not Happy with Priest Why He is using My Son's Character in His Sermon  I Made It Very Clear  I Love To Do Things On My Own So Please Leave It To Me Welcome Back Linda and Dave Kris My Friend I Don't Know Why You Punish Niklas for Not Going to Football Game Father Has To Be Punished  He Messed Everything For Niklas Not Niklas Fault Father Waking Niklas  Before Sunrise Not Fair Please Ask Father To Leave Niklas Alone  My Dear Students My Retiree Friends and  Dear Cafe Manager I am a Bit Concerned about How Things Going We are Generating Funds That's Good I am Scared It Might Cost Love -- Friendship And Happiness Smile with Smile Program is Cancelled Students of The School Free From Drug Now Can Not Come  For Reading of Blogs Cafe Manager Not allowing People  Stay Longer To enjoy  Smile Time Make It Optional Donation System I Don't Know -- Has To Be Something so that More People...

Retirees My Friends and Dear Retired Chef Please Go ahead with My Recipes It is Public Do What You Like It is Friday Hot and Sunny Last Few Weeks Left of Summer -- I am Working Full Time Today  One of My Friend called me Early Morning To Pick Me up -- What a Nice Surprise She comes around 10 am so No Time to Go to Office Cubicle  I went to the Room Next Door to Play Darts It is 12 after I am Having My Light Lunch One Banana -- Cheese Triangle -- Three Crackers and Small Yogurt Working in my Office Cubicle Now Writing My Blog -- Thinking about Poor Niklas I am Writing for Long Time to Change His Life No Luck Nothing Working -- Only One Time It was Like a Breather when I was able to Take Birds and Animals out of His Room If You People Remember Niklas Grandpa wanted to Have More Enjoyment in His Life which He Does Anyway He Converted Niklas Small Bed Room into Zoo Niklas Had No Choice except to Sleep in TV Lounge No Priva...

Dear literature Fellow My Friend you mentioned  that someone saying this Blog Site is like a " Gold Mine " Believe me for me Comments from My Readers Family are like " Gold Mine " All these Comments give me power to write My Blogs Please never hesitate to write your Comment it means lot to me Our whole Life consists of many stages each demands lots of adjustments we usually think that there are only three stages 1 : Childhood  to Young Adults 2 : Adult  to Retirement 3 : After Retirement ie. Old age I think this is not true every Decade in our Life needs lots of adjustments as our Life drastically changes in every 10 years of time period We can classify as 1 : Childhood  to High school 2 : Young Adult  to entering Work Place 3 : Starting Marital Life 4 : Period at Work place Period at Work Place can not be taken  as just one period      It needs lots of adjustments   ...

Please don't forget that we Readers are Family too so just relax and move on No apologies please To Err is Human so keep your finger down please Today it is 6 degrees and windy dry leaves scattered trees are losing leaves it is time for winter change of scenery Enough of green and flowers sun getting tired and everything needs a break time to dozing off It is morning I am waiting at my driveway for my friend to go to my seniors club It is a different look on streets too people are bundled up In Canada everything just as a routine weather can not stop the normal life even in heavy snow it rarely happens that schools are closed We go on adding layers and carry on our normal routine life one time I was in London England  and there was some snow and the whole city was closed for couple of days We learned to live our life in winter one time I was in Dubai it was 53 in Ottawa I lived in 30 minus  We Humans can adopt so quic...

Dear Anonymous Reader  who is doing 2 jobs and live in apartment  yesterday I tried  to write for you  but I am not sure you got  my message  anyway Kris  welcome to Reader's Family  please see  my previous Blogs  where I made some points for  Members of Retiree Group I think it will  be of some use  Now My Today's Blog It is so beautiful when you see green plants with various shades of yellow and orange and reddish orange leaves on top of the same tree It is a bit windy  shaking trees and also giving a stir to the atmosphere everything full of life as if not ready to take a defeat out of this cold weather which is trying hard to intimidate everyone All this giving strength and courage to everyone giving a push for not to surrender not to give up be strong and face  the day  Happiness and sadness all are contagious we have to be very careful so are all...

My Retiree Group Readers please don't push yourself to go for a  long walk You can enjoy  taking some Moments alone by just doing " Nothing " it will be amazing Today's Blog One of my school friend lives in Sydney we are connected by writing our daily Messages she lives with her Daughter now going to her son in Perth Her husband is old so all the old age problems hearing and with Eyes when we are old every body Part needs repair and help Her Son has also family she is worried with lots of changes in her Life by shifting from her Daughter's to her Son's Place With age not be easy to make adjustments in their Lives in accordance with one Family to another one in a new City Perth and Sydney are I think 2 to 3 Hours Air travel she has  loving children still with Old age Travel also not easy We can not share things most of the time with anyone as no one can understand the problems the situations whi...

My Multilingual  Readers I highly honor your Language it is your your Root If you write comments in English whole Readers Family  love to share I don't know I am saying the right thing Just a Suggestion I trust you wont mind Your Comments are valuable Now My Today's Blog I don't drive and somehow I started thinking it is a blessing for me Most of my Blogs are generated at my Driveway while waiting for my Ride or at  Bus Stops While I wait I have to Do " Nothing " have my own Time slot  just to wait and e njoy the scene Scenes which go on changing with a new look in every season every day every moment I watch leaves changing colors Morning Dew  ---  Birds flying Squirrels running around Butterflies dancing -- whispering hopping from flowers to flowers While watching and enjoying I think about Nature about it's Creator about our Creator it opens so many  Windows for me Preci...

God provides a blank check rather cash of 24 hours guaranteed income throughout our life to All his Creatures Big and Small  rich and poor young and old without differentiating between any cast and creed  He just Top Up our Account without checking where we spent what we did with our money It is our Current Lifetime Account which never dries up We can spend on our own way it is our Day Balance Sheet What a Great Provider are You My Lord I try to thank you as much as possible I know it is never be enough and can never be enough To my own satisfaction I started a new way  to say thank You when I get down or walking up stairs  I say thank God on every step of stairs it doesn't balance anything I mean Everything which I am getting from My Lord I t is just I am trying to top up my Thank You to my Lord My Creator My Almighty God You are Great  beyond our imagination We can never pay you in any way

Grimsby  England 26 July 2016 Today My daughter invited couple of families at her place she was d iscussing menu with me we were busy doing groceries together from T esco and meat shop I was helping her in the kitchen for dinner preparation Her husband is a doctor Grimsby is a small town only one hospital so close knit doctors community families know each other their kids about the same age group party started at around 8.30 pm and they left around 11.30 pm two of the families came from Scanthorpe it is a bigger town 40 minutes away from Grimsby closer to London  from there London is 3 hours Everyone was feeling at home  and having good time 10 year boy of one of the families was autistic my daughter too has one autistic girl couple of years back when my daughter was living in London she has nowhere to go totally stuck with her autistic girl whole time it became so terrible that she had no choice but to leave her in "...

London 16 July 2016 In London it is 26 so no jacket today My daughter from Grimsby is here to pick me up It is amazing when your children give you time Today is special day as I am having t wo of my daughters with me at the Breakfast table I was enjoying my toast omlete My daughter had to go for groceries from Iceland at Ansin Road 15 minutes drive from Thornton Heath I had a chance to get out which I always try to avail My daughter from Grimsby has her 22 years special Autistic daughter living in Home in London She picked her up with Carer to spend a Day before going back on Sunday I had a chance to see my Beautiful grand daughter Everything is so symbolic  for us to make us think how grateful we should be for all the things we have from God All our abilities we take as granted as our right to have when we have a chance to come across  such people we realize how fortunate are we the importance of each and every part of...

I am going to London England to see my daughters England is not like North America where we have liberty to enjoy 3 -- 4 washrooms and spacious houses In London not so much space to live and share in three bedroom houses one Box room and 2 rooms one called master bedroom not big enough I have to adjust myself in that Boxroom from my present big spacious room when I go there I keep in my mind to share  one bathroom with a family of 5 Mornings are busy as kids and parents have to go to work and school in England schools are open I will try to  avoid the morning rush hours manage my time and keep myself inside that Box room I try not to use washroom until all are gone I want to keep doors open  for my next visit I do not want to Burn Bridges we have to change ourselves and adjust to fit in It is not their problem to fit in We Parents have the responsibility to keep the connection alive they don't have time and...

As we are  getting older our body starts getting weak so are our Nerves we have to deal with our Day to Day life with same Ups and Downs but now everything becoming Tough to handle due to our weak body and mainly because of our weaker Nerves We become sensitive and touchy When we are living with family the people around us can't take it any more our old body and weak nerves not their problem so no more excuses We have to deal everything at our end Nobody wants problems smiles are welcome if we cry we have to cry alone We don't have to talk about our grivences keep it private we have to handle ourselves with great care Treat yourself  with Love and affection Remember 3 As Formula Accept yourself Acknowledge yourself Admire yourself Keep your finger down Don't blame yourself ever Give yourself Treat No complains Nobody listening anyway keep Loving yourself and Keep Smiling

Pickering Canada November 2015 I go to my Seniors Club enjoy playing Darts and Carpet Bowling I don't drive so my friend used to pick me up it is only 5 minutes drive but no direct bus service to the library I mean to the Club In November my friend had to undergo her heart surgery so my home transport service  was about to be discontinued It looked to me that I was stuck not easy to ask favor from people staying home was the only option left for me I decided to use P ublic transport Library opens at 9.30 am I start my journey 9.10 am take Bus # 120 then transfer to Bus # 900 to reach my favorite destination I sit in the Library for a while Read books, Magazines and try to write something My Club starts at 10 am I am so relaxed and happy that I sorted out things for myself Sometimes it looks that we are stuck and no way out but we have to keep in mind there is always light at the end of Tunnel and also that we are not alone ...

My Retiree Members can  take some Tips from this Blog you don't have to run a Marathon just relax and be to yourself For My Senior Friends get involved in your Grand kids life keep in mind  They don't need us We need them and their Love  Now My Today's Blog Every day take a few minutes to experience the Earth  stand sit or  lie on  Earth, the grass the ground or on floor Even if you are lying on a carpet you are being held by the Earth spend at least 5 minutes  and feel the Earth this is a sacred time  It will bring relaxation and calm in our life a good start for our Day We see the rhythm of  Earth spring -- summer  --autumn and winter same like as in our life Write down the things we are grateful for once in a while try to find the value in doing  Nothing  This will work as a  Creating Space   where we neither think nor do anything helps us to  recha...

When you live with family it needs all of your patience so please don't be hard on yourself be supportive to yourself schedule your day keeping in mind you need some relaxation and enjoyment also share some time with your family to keep the connection alive time slot for sharing with family is always be in coordination with the space given to you and the patience level of your family at that time You have to check  and be alert for their tolerance level and give signal to yourself to exit the stage with dignity to keep your re - entry door open Don't be pushy don't burn the bridges try to spend time with yourself enjoy your own company find your hobbies whatever you enjoy Go for window shopping, reading sitting in your garden / balcony watching and enjoying Nature talk at least 3 people during the day make phone calls to someone Try to communicate communication always opens door to Happiness

My Trip to England is coming closer so many things are in the back of my mind what to pack, which medicines I have to take small gifts and how much weight I am allowed I am feeling pressure of all the small things when you feel pressure it is easy to get your sleep disturbed Our body is so connected with our mind anything out of rhythm makes a big difference But we are human not Robot so have to tackle our stress , pressure emotions or whatever is there we have to face our changing circumstances In the mornings I take my 5 minutes  stretch and body revival time I am doing my walk as my physical exercise and as my meditation time to enjoy the Nature the green of plants the birds every bit of it which God graciously made available to behold and enjoy I am talking to my mind to calm it down and saying No pressure please " This too Shall Pass " I believe it will

life is always changing taking turns with it's ups and downs our life is like a Trail we have to walk with open eyes this is a path, we never walked before Everyday brings surprises to face our day we need courage and nerves of steel adapt yourself to every stage of your life we have to travel the whole journey of our lives with smile and happiness If you cry, you will be crying alone everyone like to share happiness and joy we have to change ourselves with the situations and circumstances in our lives we have to take care of our mind and body we have to deal with all the different people whoever comes across and meet us throughout our journey of life No complaints please otherwise you will be left alone and no one wants to be left alone go with the crowd keeping your individuality and character intact with patience change your attitude keep in mind you can not change anyone anything in your life you can change only yourself ...

1984 I came across a Research publication of Scientific American The Research material was not related to my subject still I remember the content of that Paper It was about how the human body emitting Positive and Negative charges from its extremities Human body diagram showing the emitting rays It's concept was, due to that charge we get attracted to a person even we don't know him / her Same theory applies when we feel repulsion and get offended by some  person we don't know It is all due to the Charges emitting form our bodies I don't know and did't track the authenticity of that theory but I believe this theory applies to all Humans  I come across with such experiences all the times

3rd June 2016 is the Day of my Mother's Death Anniversary In our Life we come across every Moment with Lots of Pain and Stress We have to keep our Emotional Exchange system open all the time to Exchange the currency of all of our pains into Moments of Happiness No matter how low this Exchange rate is for that day We have to make the transaction right away i n our very first available opportunity and not to let the stress and pain spoil our Day Availability and opportunity will never be there We have to push ourselves for that Don't wait for the moment to come No one will be calling your name to come forward and say this is your turn at the Exchange window As I mentioned earlier the Exchange rate will be very low and the Moments of Happiness not enough to celebrate our Day But always enough to save our Day We only need that much to save our Day Try this and get rid of all the Nickels and Dimes of stress and pain to loosen your...

We never know which is the last leg  of our life This is in God hand  for each and everyone of us Still there is time when we think now time for our next generations  to take the stage And we should be on back seat It is a hard fact but is  reality W e have to accept it face it with grace We are now no more the same  integral  part of our family our power of decision making is  slipping away Kids growing up fast  have their own activities and no time to talk and communicate Looks like, we no more relate  to them and they have to make efforts to keep the connection  alive We are on different  wave length most of the time Radar problem It is not only the  generation gap But we are not ready to exit In some of those moments  I reluctantly tried to find my refuge  and fortunately ended up in Library Being Human we always need to talk and communicate we are social anima...