Doors to Happiness

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When you live with family
it needs all of your patience
so please don't be hard on yourself
be supportive to yourself
schedule your day

keeping in mind you need some
relaxation and enjoyment
also share some time with your family
to keep the connection alive

time slot for sharing with family
is always be in coordination
with the space given to you and
the patience level of your family
at that time

You have to check  and be alert for
their tolerance level and give signal
to yourself to exit the stage with dignity
to keep your re - entry door open

Don't be pushy don't burn the bridges
try to spend time with yourself
enjoy your own company
find your hobbies whatever you enjoy

Go for window shopping, reading
sitting in your garden / balcony
watching and enjoying Nature
talk at least 3 people during the day
make phone calls to someone

Try to communicate
communication always opens door to
Happiness


Comments

  1. Anonymous7/7/16, 9:35 AM

    +1

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  2. Superwoman7/7/16, 10:10 AM

    Thanks for sharing, Smile.

    @mrizvi good post :-)

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  3. Anonymous7/7/16, 1:10 PM

    Dear Madame, your ideas are beautiful and helpful to me as I am starting out my life in a new country. It is tough. Too many things. Thank you. Your ideas build my strength

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  4. Smile7/7/16, 1:31 PM

    Change is always stressful
    it is full of opportunities too
    Take one day at a time
    Just relax
    and try to enjoy

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  5. Juan7/7/16, 2:22 PM

    nice blog

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  6. Smile7/7/16, 2:52 PM

    Thanks Juan
    Thanks for reading my Blog

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  7. Anonymous7/7/16, 3:12 PM

    @ Superwoman, love your comment about mrizvi. Before long, we will make her read the blog and benefit from it. We owe it our Smile

    @ Smile, another great piece. Thanks for sharing them

    Karen

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  8. Smile7/7/16, 3:34 PM

    Thanks Karen

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  9. mrizvi7/7/16, 5:25 PM

    @ Karen I do read

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  10. mrizvi7/7/16, 5:26 PM

    @ Supoerwoman: Please mind your own business

    thank you

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  11. Anonymous7/7/16, 11:30 PM

    @ mrizvi Its good if you do. Our Smile has a lot of great ideas. If you or anyone reads her blogs they will be able to cope with life much better.

    BTW, we are just having some fun at your expense. Hope you dont take it too seriously

    All the best
    Karen

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  12. Anonymous7/7/16, 11:32 PM

    @ Superwoman Who is this Juan person. We have to now go after him. We need to make him read our Smile's blogs

    @ Juan: Please read the blog

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