Thought Of The Day

My Dear Readers Family just forget about the parental guilt What is written is like Print done is done We can not change  our Past Focus on Today enjoy Your Moment Weather is great Today in the morning was cloudy now started clearing up 10 degrees plus amazing It is Tuesday so My Club Activities are off I will definitely go for a walk I checked My Face Book Messages  Read Comments from My Readers Family this all enough to brighten My Day I am sitting now in My favorite Coffee House Tim Hortons on the way passing through Dunbartons High school  Young Boys and Girls were going in groups Young Faces with all the glow of their bright and wonderful years ahead May God take care of them They are our Future Our Pride Pl. keep them safe and Pl. be there for them so that they can keep smiling ever after Amen Birds are calling each other from different spots of trees may be playing Hide and Seek Coffee House is very quiet as it is 12

I wonder how come Father watching His Shows all the time We watch Our programs only when Kids are sleeping in the Morning We let Kids always watch their programs  They have to stay Home at Our Place Kids not doing  anything Watching TV and on Computer We don't yell at them it is their age not their fault Pl. give TV access to Niklas Throw away the broken Sofa He doesn't have to sit on that Our Old age is very tricky We are retired so have lots of time We have to keep ourselves busy if we wont Our Mind get stray Start thinking will take us to Our Past so easy to go there Keep in Mind what is written there is like a Print We can not change We have to cross out those pages of our Life the only way to do that We have to skip that portion just like out of course Material  You know the most heart pinching material for Me to think about that I was not been able to give enough time enough Love to My Mom and to My Dad I didn

Kris My Dear Friend I have written so much to save Niklas It looks I had no luck Sofa is not more important  not precious than Your Son Niklas back is more important throw away the broken Sofa get Him a new one He will pay You back in  Years to come Father Pl. leave Niklas alone He will watch the old people  TV shows at Your age Don't push Him to go outside He has to stay Home Pl. make His Life not a Hell  Let Him enjoy His Life His Childhood Years it wont be back This is end of March April is just around the corner I was thinking about last year 2016 My first Grand kid's Wedding in London England My Youngest Daughter's Eldest Daughter was going to be married She wanted everything perfect as she knows Her Daughter is perfectionist  She with Her Daughter planned months before for each and Every Event  They spent hours and hours menu was tricky seating arrangement was real tough  Flowers the Theme the Li

I am Thankful to You My Dear Readers  It is because of  You People I write My Daily Blogs And get a chance to revive  Lessons of Happiness to refresh Such an important Aspect of My Life Kris My Dear Friend I think Father is the only Grandpa who yells at His Grand Kid as far as I know I remember the whole time I have to save My Grand Kids from their Parents Whenever they are angry with them I try to cover up to dissolve the situation Keep chocolate and sweets  in My secret Drawer  give them small  money as a reward To make them Happy it gives Me Happiness in turn At least I would never let My Grand Kid sit  on the broken Sofa I would rather prefer to fight with My Son for them We Grandparents  have to be their  source of Love Hope and ultimate support  No matter what they have to trust that We are always there for them So they don't have to worry about the petty  Matters Some people say I am alone feeling

Welcome My Dear New Friend Tommy My Dear Retiree Friends by the way I have no Office Cubicle In My Library there are  Cubicles and Quiet Room Areas to focus for reading and doing Your Work I sit in anyone of these take My Mind to  think like I am sitting in My Office These are tactics I use keep Myself up and Happy while playing Darts and Bowling  On Wednesdays and  Fridays I name it as  Full time working Kris My Dear Friend pl. don't yell at Niklas Father is already  doing enough yelling Take it easy and relax Now Freezing Rain started with wet snow but I have to go to Don Beer Arena as these are last two Days of Hockey Season My Eldest Grandson the Coach will be giving away Medals to His team a great day for Him to be remembered It is 10 am I am sitting in the Arena My second Grandson is playing in Rink # 1 in Orange Jersey # 3 I will not be watching the whole game but enjoying the buzzing atmosphere Arena is f

Literature Fellow My Dear Friend To be with Family around is a sort of Meditation It keeps You connected away from negativity  and loneliness We being Grandparents have to realize  the value It is a source of Happiness an island of Love -- Peace & Contentment  It is like an Oasis We pay visit from time to time to take a shelter from our  routine Life It is like a lifeline fills up your Happiness Tank It is 22 Below Zero and windy Sun is there but can not help much except to make our Day bright that's enough I am sitting in one of My office Cubicle I have 10 minutes time slot to talk to You Guys to My Readers Family At 10 am I will go to the next room to play My Darts I am Happy as I am working full time today From 1 to 3 pm is My Carpet Bowling so I will be back at 12 in the Library again to have My snacks I don't pack My lunch in the Morning too much work take one cheese slice one fruit yogurt one small ban

My Dear Readers Family Just relax I was thinking  You know Me enough But I think You don't  I love to use Public Transport I can not imagine Myself with holding hands I love to do My Things  and to live My Life  independetly To walk around Mall is my favorite pass time My Son argues to drive Me  but He knows me well so I win every time and feel lucky I push Myself to do things and feel Great that  I can manage so far Don't You worry  I have a wonderful Family same like My Readers Family I am always Thankful to God who never leaves  Me alone and always watching over Me I was thinking You People will enjoy how I managed My 4 Hours and enjoyed Every Bit of it So Pl. read My Blog again and have a feel of that It is Wednesday 22nd March temperature is 20 below Zero I was back at 3 from Library after My Darts and Bowling Now 5.30 sitting in Don Beer Arena My youngest Grandson's play off Hockey game is about

Today 15 below Zero It is 11.45 am I am sitting in Scarborough Centre Food Court Today was My six monthly Eye Exam Appointment I had My right eye done with Cataract surgery My left eye was giving problem by the Grace of God I am OK by now so will see My Dr after six months I am happy by this News I have to take 3 Buses for Scarborough Centre but I love this Place so many Memories are attached to this Place I used to come to this Centre with My Daughters to enjoy 25 years back I am sitting alone now ordered My Lunch to brighten My Day My Dr. is in North York I have taken Bus # 122 put 2 Dollars for My senior Bus Fare and took transfer ticket this will cover My whole Journey It was 20 minutes to York Mill Station from there I changed Bus # 95 B after 20 minutes I have to get down at McCowan from there 3rd and last Bus to My destiny Scarborough Centre It was 5 minutes driving distance from McCowan  I was not able to see the Bus # 

Dear Friends I can not imagine that You liked My Blog " Talk to God " Believe Me I was gone to bed  then around 1 am got up to  jot down My stray Thoughts and posted in the Morning Kris My Dear Friend I wonder how come  Father  needs someone  while  walking  on Driveway He is not Old at all 67 is quite Young Why He needs someone to be around all the time Niklas doesn't have to sit on the broken Sofa His back will be hurt Don't Pl. make Him watch Agatha Christie Shows He will watch at Father age My Dear Retiree Friends You don't have to say that Your walk not as long as Mine  Pl. don't mention that  We are Friends My Dear Friend N I am Happy  for You Pl. keep connected by writing Comments My Dear Friend Sheema was surprised how can I get Happiness out of ordinary Day to day things In Her opinion very tiring and sort of boring routine activities like cooking for Kids and such stuff My Dear if We ke

My Dear Friend Literature Fellow don't You worry about  Your Project You will be fine Kris My dear Friend don't worry about the broken Sofa Our Sofa also broken  many times it is not Their fault They are growing up You and Father  just relax My Dear Friend N mentioned that I am helping My Sister I am not helping My Sister She is in a very difficult state of Mind and Body She is not even talking to God When We are in that stage of Mind We believe that No One can help us out no use of talking to Anybody Never stop talking to God You can not Trust His Creatures unless You Trust God If We lose trust and hope We will go into Depression We don't know how many more years We have to live it is in God Hand We can not just sit in the Waiting Room and keep waiting for Our Last Train At this stage Our parents are gone and our Brothers and Sisters are not in that position to help us out not strong enough Our Kids

For Dear Parents             & Dear Teachers It is Monday morning 4 below Zero not so cold no snow no rain Sun is off today so it is cloudy I am back to work after March Break I mean at My Library for My Darts Birds are back I think they sensed that Spring is around the corner I still remember the beautiful piece of Article in My High school Syllabus I think it was by Hemingway  It was " Intelligence of Birds " Where He gave a beautiful description about how Birds sense the weather and start getting ready for that Birds are busy I think started making arrangements for a Big celebration for Spring time I am enjoying watching them My Dear Kris is worried about His Son My Dear You don't have to worry it is the story of every Home My Son is also in the same Boat I try to be a buffer between Him and His Kids I think in High School specially before 2 Years to go to University Kids are in a very difficult state of Mind an

My Dear Retiree Friends I am proud of Your Work and Dedication My Dear Friend  doing 2 Jobs Pl. stop Whistling it bothers Everyone Just relax and focus on Yourself don't disturb Others please Kris My Dear Friend  I will right about Your Problem Just relax and be polite with Niklas Kids have to be Home Hanna pl. don't You worry about Sofa let Niklas Play Otherwise nothing to do for Him Please be realistic and considerate It is snowing not so cold still 7 below zero it look so scenic and beautiful from My window  Trees with small white Flowers also snow on their slender bodies looks like Christmas Decorations I am in My room busy with My computer it is morning kids are sleeping I am an early riser same is My Son We enjoyed Nature of Things TV Show It was March Break Week so kids were home all week My Club was off for the Week as Kids were registered to do their activities in the Library My Club activities are My Li

My Dear Friend N  This Blog is for You Please don't stop writing Your Comments This is Communication I feel Happy when You do that My Dear Friend doing  2 Jobs I can never stop You from enjoying but Pl don't bother Others My Dear Literature Fellow Thanks for writing Your  Daily Comments it means a lot to me You are a Bridge for me to Connect with New Generation You people are Our Future Our Asset Pl. keep in Mind My Dear Friends in Ireland don't You worry about  anything We are Friends and Readers Family I was writing about Happiness in My Blogs after Blogs then I started thinking about My Dear Friend N Who was going through Her difficult times while dealing with Her Retirement Period Same like My Youngest Sister She is not in good shape I was talking to My Friend N to read My Blogs and She said I was thinking You are going to help me out but you are not I am not going to read your Blogs She was right it was

Happy  St Patrick's Day to All My Readaers Thanks My Dear Friend  Retired Corporate Executive To remain in the Club I really appreciate that I regret why  I mentioned in My  Yesterday  Blog  that Today is Everything My Dear Kris Father  asked Kris to take a Day Off and asked Niklas to go out He asked My Dear Friend Hanna to make more Soup as He is inviting Friend I wonder why He takes  everything in His Favor My Dear Friend doing  2 Jobs started whistling  around at His Work Place My Dear Readers  I didn't mean to say to just Partying  around I wanted to say do whatever You have to do with Your  Heart and Soul into it  We have to capture every Moment think like that it will be gone it works both ways  I mean if you are having difficult time think that it will pass and if you are having good time try to celebrate Drain the moment time flies we are enjoying some food we can not enjoy it tomorrow Our Days are n

My Dear Retiree Friends please ask My Friend  Retired Corporate Executive not to leave the Club Everyone is important if anyone leaves creates  a vacuum a hole It is like a Knitted  Happiness Network Kris My Dear Friend Father is a Friend of Mine When I get the News that Kris has to take a Day Off for His Walk I become upset He understands We are the music makers Yes we are Today is Friday it is 9.30 I am ready to go to library to My Club to play Darts and Carpet Bowling Waiting at My Driveway for My Friend to pick me up I will be back around 3 pm Some birds are back now it is 17 below Zero it is Canada what you think we are happy as no snow no freezing rain enough to be happy Yes We are Music makers take every Day as a surprise as a Gift from God and start to brighten your Day using your Mind  and Your Body These two are great Gifts from God start your Day with a Plan to get busy we have to be proud and feel for

My Dear Retiree Friends I think it has to be a  Social Club Involvement of Members is good for Happiness My Dear Friend doing 2 Jobs Please don't bother people by talking about Blogs I miss My Dear Friends Newbie and Keith  Comments My Readers are My Asset I don't want to loose Anyone of You I hope My Dear Friend N doing fine The more I think about  Healthy Living the more it opens up and looks to me that it is not simple it has lots of depth Healthy Living ---- >   is  Happiness -----> to be with People  To be with People ---- > is the entry level course for Healthy Living It is the Basic Skill to get Happiness you can say like a Gateway to Happiness We can not enter the Territory of Happiness without opening the Door with the Key and that Key is " to be with People " We can not enjoy Our Life unless we have skill to enjoy to be with People This gives us satisfaction and inner Peace inner harmo

My Dear Friend N I am Happy for You  Kris My Dear Friend don't You worry about Niklas This is the phase  when Kids just sit on sofa it was the same with My Eldest Grandson My Son was in the same  position like You last Year  He is fine now Why Father ask You to take time off for His Walk He has to understand before His List of enjoyments Pl don't take Time off and Just Relax In my Yesterday Blog I had some discussion on Happiness and Healthy Living I mentioned that Healthy Living ---- >   is  Happiness -----> to be with People and  to be with Nature  It is not so simple as Each Aspect needs lots of elaboration I can write Blogs after Blogs on these Topics Like take only to be with people it covers so many Chapters of Our Life Yes Chapters as when You start thinking Our Life looks like we are writing Our Own Story and it is compiled when Our Life ends In most cases the Book is shelved and Nobody opens

Dear Literature Fellow and My Retiree Friends Please keep in Mind for me Family comes first You All are My Family My Readers Family Never hesitate to ask me  anything  My Dear Friend N Hope You are doing good I am always here for You My Dear Friend     Literature Fellow was having some problem in categorizing My Blogs while working on  His Project I tried to think and realized that I have only one subject which covers all My Blogs That subject is Healthy Living  if we start thinking about Healthy Living it starts opening up so many Aspects of our Life It is like Onion you can peel layers after layers looks so intact same is Healthy Living It is related to Happiness which is related to Healthy Thinking I put it this way to make it simple Healthy Living ---- >   is  Happiness -----> to be with People and  to be with Nature --- > results in Travel ------ > results in Healthy Nutrition that is  eating Healthy Fo

My Dear Retiree Friend who is in hospital You must be Home now it is nice Your Friends  are there with You All My Wishes with You to lead back to normal Life My Dear Literature Fellow I will write one Blog for You My Dear Friend N I am Happy that You started doing  things  Take Your time Just Relax still push Yourself to do one or two things Every Day I think no one is after Niklas now only Father is after Him I think He likes to Yell a lot whom He loves a lot  Niklas and Hannah are 2 of them I have written so much about  this matter He is not ready  to listen He is My Friend He needs to be relaxed and leave Everyone alone I was back at 3pm from My Club after Darts and Bowling there was no light at our place It means no phone no internet Kids were back from school now nothing to do  It was some major breakdown 6pm now getting dark and as heating was off for long time so started getting cold We decided to go and chec

My Dear Friend N Take one step at a time Schedule doing  one  Thing  Every day Sit down in your backyard  with Cup of tea and do  Bird watching for a while It will help You I will tell You the  next step after that Please keep in touch I am listening My Dear Friends Linda and Dave Don't you worry about Copyright My Blogs are public  Anyone can use it  Thanks for asking My Dear Retiree Friends Hope My Friend who was in Hospital doing fine now Say Hi to Him He will be well soon I will Pray for Him It is Sunday 11 in the morning from today Time is one Hour early I have to adjust Clocks one hour ahead I mean it is 6 am but now 7 am Sunny bright day but very cold 24 below Zero with blowing snow I am sitting in Don Beer Hockey Arena My Grandson playing in Rink # 1 in Jersey # 6 Red and black  My eldest is coaching feeling great as His team is winning all he Games I think this matters a lot to boost His confidence  This

My Dear Friend N there are Tips for Retirement Period in every Blog of mine Make a hot cup of tea sit in your back garden and read Blog carefully You will get the Message Please push yourself to get busy  Keep in Mind problem lies within us and also that solution lies within us Trust in God who gives power to us to solve our Day to day matters He keeps watching over us We are never alone Kris My Dear it is not fair to Niklas to force Him watch the OLd People Program Please give Niklas His own TV time I am sorry to say that Father wants everything in His favor Not fair He has to think  and be considerate Please Thanks for giving back His Tablet Please Father stop  criticizing  Niklas  and don't You worry about teaching Him Agatha Christi Shows Why everyone after Niklas Leave Him alone for a while Give Him time and respect have patience He will listen just relax It is Tuesday my Club activities are off Today so

My Dear Friend N Thanks for  sharing Your Problems with me Pl. read My back Blogs so many are about Retirement Period You will find Tips from these Blogs Even My Today Blog is about that Don't You worry  You will be fine Just Relax Literature Fellow My Dear Friend I need to know the Title of Your Project to helpYou My Dear Kris Father  I think I was unable to explain My Point I didn't mean Kids have to kick out Parents not at all I wanted to say We Parents have to be co- operative and realistic We have to be supportive and understand the whole situation  with clear Mind We have to limit our wish list and be accommodative We have to share their  pressure not to build  pressure Kris My Friend Give time to Niklas He is Good  Why Niklas pushed to watch the programmes  of We Seniors He will watch those at Our age Give His TV time to watch the Shows He likes We have to be realistic It is good You are not taking 

Kris My Dear Just focus on two things Niklas staying home and getting Good Marks You can't get everything ignore other things Taking Tablet away or yelling not good idea Dear Retiree Friends here is another Blog on Joint Family Living Literature Fellow My Dear Friend I am here for You don't You worry I have written number of Blogs which give a picture as if we baby Boomers are very pushy Making Lives of our Kids miserable by interfering and with our needs which I put like Demands I am not Happy to do all that I myself come in that category My Dear the picture I show looks bleak but it is Reality I don't want to live in a Fairyland unfortunately if we be realistic we are a liability An extra baggage for them to carry long way He is our Son but His Family will not be Happy Situation for us not easy but we have no option it is a hard fact They are our Kids we brought them up but pl. keep in mind it

I hope My Dear Retiree Friends may get some  Tips  from Today Blog Literature Fellow My Dear Friend Don't be nervous  I will help you  Nothing is end of the World so just relax Kris My Dear  My son has the same issues with His Sons This is very common story of Every Home Main thing is that Grandpa is also giving Niklas tough time Kids staying Home and having Good Marks that is enough Pl. don't push them Taking garbage out and other things not  important so Just relax Pl. don't compare Niklas to Others I have 3 Grand Kids all very different with their own  Positives and Negatives We have to respect Our Kids they will pay back the same  Respect  Keep in mind that I am Human and Live with My Family It is the same   like any other joint Family with Plus and Minus I mentioned in my previous Blogs that in real Life it never happens that Some Jinny comes to make your Life a Bed of Roses We are the Music maker

Literature Fellow My Dear Friend  I congratulate You People Please let me know the  Project Title so that I will be able to help Kris My Dear  Father will be fine  pl. give Him time Taking Tablet away from Niklas not a good idea Focus on Big things ignore minor ones He is a Good Kid  Just relax  My Dear Friend  doing 2 Jobs  pl. Don't tell anyone about Blog People don't like it leave them alone My Dear Retirees You are doing  Great Job I am proud of You  People I am sitting at my Dentist'office my appointment was 5.45 I was at the Basket ball game of my youngest Grandson My son was early from work to watch the game it was only 4.45 we were done with the game  I thought going home not a good idea as my son has to drive me to the doctor after just half an hour not good to him There were two cars as my eldest grandson was also at the game I decided  to go straight from the game with my eldest Grandson who just

Kris My Dear Father is strong person with knowledge  and experience He will be fine pl. don't yell Kids have to be Home Hannah is right Just relax  nothing to worry  My Dear Reader doing 2 Jobs Don't tell My Blog until someone asks People don't like it Thank You My Dear Retiree Friends you people liked My Blog I am Happy Our Life is like a Highway Drive we have to change Lanes and look around to keep track of traffic There are some exits we have to ignore but sometimes have to go there Retirement period has many stages not a single segment of our Life  It is the main portion of our Life where we are controlling our Life without anyone else's control  If you go back it never happened before our Childhood period was total under control of our Parents Then comes student Life our Youth where everyone was involved as if there was a competition going on to have a Bigger piece of our Life Parents already there

I am proud of  My Readers Family I salute My Dear  Friend Kris Father Thanks Each and Everyone Your Comments are precious to me give me power to write You people are the Driving Force give me support and make My Days My dear Retiree Friends asking some Tips for their Mental Health and Nutrition Subcommittee I think our Body can not be disconnected from our Mind there is very strong Bond  between our Mind and our Body When we see our friend we give a Smile this action shifts our whole Body from  --ve  to +ve our attitude our behavior all changes towards positive Mental Health is related to Healthy Living which is simply looking at your Life from a positive perspective Our shift from negative to positive is Healthy Living and enhances our Mental Health Our Nutrition is related to our Mental Health and in turn to our Healthy Living If we are sitting lonely and getting bored our food our diet will differently act on ou

Congratulations  My Dear Literature Fellow and Your colleagues for High Marks in the Project I am Happy for You people My Dear Friend  doing 2 Jobs if someone asking about My Blog please let them know When I look back I think all of My Blogs about Joint Family Living and also about Retirement Period were because of one person only That is My Dear Kris Father I am writing My Blogs for quite a while and feel fortunate that people share their problems They have trust that the situation will be dissolved and every time it happened But Kris Father is a very tough character I think when we are determined not to listen not to budge in nothing can be done I think such cases are due to the inside loneliness or may be due to a difficult childhood period Like a Scar people carry throughout their Life I have written Blogs after Blogs just around Him but nothing happened Then I regret one of My Blog about Nutrition for My Retiree Grou

My Dear  Literature Fellow  Thanks for your Comment Your link is very important  to me this is a connection between Generations  My Dear Reader doing 2 Jobs Please don't discuss My Blog to anyone If someone comes to ask  only then you can tell  about My Blog Nowadays we are gaining many things still losing so many one of the main thing is losing our Patience Not our fault as our Pier System is slipping away so we can not share our matters  with anyone No one has time to sit and relax for a while we with remote in our hand go on changing TV channels Everybody looks in a hurry when we switch on TV to watch News our blood pressure starts shooting up  We quickly switch it off and to take refuge go to our computers The old style TV Shows are now gone sometimes I watch the rerun of  Andy Griffith  shows where the whole story starts and ends in a very small Town The small Court House where Odess  unlocks himself from pr

Literature Fellow My Dear Friend I am very Happy  to read Your Comment Please say Thanks  to All Your Friends I really want to get connected with Your Generation This connection is very important  to me and you are the Bridge  Please let me know  if I am really touching the points which matter to You People I am trying to write about the  issues of Today's Generation to raise some awareness if it can be helpful in some way I don't know I am trying Kris My Dear Friend You will lose your son don't yell at Him Try to be His Friend  spend time and please ignore minor things He has to stay Home  and enjoy Playing Games not a big deal You please don't take any  Day Off for Father's Walk let Him know the whole world doesn't revolve around Him Please focus on Niklas He is a Great Kid like every Kid  we make them Bad  not their fault Kids are like Clay  we can make whatever we want It is Monday so My Dart