Thought Of The Day

Happy Reader My Friend I Told You Earlier Before Ink Any Thought Need To Think Twice Not Good To Do Anything Which Hurts Anyone's Feeling Niklas My Friend I Keep on Praying For You I am Sad Father Didn't Let You  Go On Any Ride I Don't Know  What Type of Grandpa  He is It is Thursday Hot and Sunny 25 Degrees I am Off Today I have to Plan My Day I Go to Work Three Days a Week My Tuesdays and Thursdays are Off I Do My Laundry and My Calls on Tuesdays This Tuesday My Son was Taking His Kids to Wonderland I availed the Chance to Get out My Laundry Needs to be Done Today also I have to Change My Bed Sheets and Make Some Calls It is 12.30 I am Done with all My Chores Now Time for My Walk to Tim Horton My Youngest Grandson was awake  He asked   " May I come with You "  I was More than Happy though He will take His Bike and will be Back after getting His Treats I will Stay there to write My Blog and to ...

For My Retiree Group and all Seniors like me and my New Reader who asked for advice It was 1993 when all of my four daughters married and gone my only son was working and on top of it doing his Masters too so he used to come very late I was living in Ottawa lots of snow and temperature goes even to minus 30 and feel like you can imagine I moved there from London Ontario which is 2 hours Drive from Toronto Toronto is a big Multicultural city so living there was not hard though London is in snow belt zone I used to take Grey Hound coach to visit one of my daughter living in Toronto  at that time  Ottawa is 4 hours Drive from Toronto you can cover the whole city   in 25 minutes when I moved there I figured out I have to pass my time from 8 am to 10 pm as my son doing long hours First thing I got my monthly bus pass to get out as much I want or as I need in the mornings after breakfast I used to walk to Bayshore ...

It was 1960 I was dreaming through all my life to be a doctor and in my days seats in medical school not so many specially for girls Just one medical school with 8 seats for girls in total I had no luck so I tried in another one away like from Toronto to Calgary Result was same no luck there too I was coming back via  train on the way was a river my train was crossing the bridge and for the first time in my life I was feeling very devastated I wanted to jump into the river for me it was the end of my dream so end of my life too at least I was thinking like that Then with heavy heart I got my admission in the university to do my Honors in Microbiology After that period so many ups and downs were in my life like in everyone  else's it happens Specially when my healthy husband died of heart attack just like that leaving 5 small children behind at that time I was 34 and l iving in a big rented house in a city ...

Our Children are like our body parts when they move out and start Family go to different places because of their work It looks like our body parts are scattered all over the world We try to keep connection alive as long as possible but as we become old it is getting difficult for us Children are busy with their work and with their Family they still love you but are tied up with their own priorities We don't have to blame them we did the same to  our Parents not anyone's fault it is the cycle which goes on Parents are the same they may be from any country of any color any cast or creed specially Moms are Moms We have to keep in mind that our children are no more children they now have their own lives besides family and work  have their friends their own circle to move around It is one sided connection from our side only they don't have time we are not any part in their lives so just close your eyes and leave the...

Grimsby England 29 July 2016 I am at Freshney Place Mall here even in weekdays Mall close at 5.30 pm My daughter busy in getting her shoes I am walking around now sitting on the wooden bench in front of   " Next " it is a big clothing store I just noticed   " Bhs " British Home Store has sign of closing down sale it is also a big chain store you never know how quickly everything goes upside down Now I start thinking about the Big Big Canadian High Tech Company " Nortel " it was gone in no time In Freshney Place Mall there is a big Market Place an indoor big Market which closed at 5 pm I am 5 minutes away from my favorite spot Grimsby Railway Station it is raining so can not go now there will be a next time for now I am enjoying my Blog writing

Grimsby England 24 July 2016 I love my Mom still I think I inherited  from my Father  more than from my Mother I recall my past days it was 1958 I was going through my first board Exams like O Level papers coming back from my first paper I started discussing with my Father his quick answer was just forget that it is already done start preparing the next paper When we are young our mind not cluttered it is like a clean slate everything gets absorbed just like a blotting paper like a Chip it acts as a Device afterwards in your Life Later when my husband suddenly died of heart attack at young age leaving 5 small Kids behind back home there is no support These words of my Father were always there for me I never looked back in my Life While talking to your Kids always choose your words very carefully you never know it can make or break their future Life 

To My  Retiree Group Members You don't have to compete with anyone you don't have to run a Marathon Just Relax and try to be Yourself Here is My Today's Blog Try to get even with everyone sometimes even small things make  others happy these are of great value give hope to someone everyone needs that push  for some direction Gardening and cooking are pure relaxation when we are getting older gardening  becoming tough now I love watering my lawn it is so relaxing like meditation Cooking is a creative process it gives us a real joy of accomplishment  even some simple Salads and Soup will give you pleasure it can become a passion When we are older hobbies play a great part in keeping us busy to push us in happy Mode away from negativity and to keep us active I love making things in my kitchen for my family I live with and watering Plants I believe Life happens at your kitchen counter

We never realize how  crucial our words we speak for others are these words can be influential to shape the other person's career and life We have to be cautious in selecting our words it can make or break We have to keep in mind that we are assigned a great responsibility I think from God Almighty We come across lots of people in our daily life and if we avail the opportunity to be positive and impart positiveness  in some way to make that person feel good Happiness will be reflected inside our heart give us lasting peace and happiness in return I believe God makes these chances available to us to grab flowers of Happiness while we are walking through our journey of life through the trails of pain and sadness talk to people to feel happy and get relaxed

Pickering Canada November 2015 I go to my Seniors Club enjoy playing Darts and Carpet Bowling I don't drive so my friend used to pick me up it is only 5 minutes drive but no direct bus service to the library I mean to the Club In November my friend had to undergo her heart surgery so my home transport service  was about to be discontinued It looked to me that I was stuck not easy to ask favor from people staying home was the only option left for me I decided to use P ublic transport Library opens at 9.30 am I start my journey 9.10 am take Bus # 120 then transfer to Bus # 900 to reach my favorite destination I sit in the Library for a while Read books, Magazines and try to write something My Club starts at 10 am I am so relaxed and happy that I sorted out things for myself Sometimes it looks that we are stuck and no way out but we have to keep in mind there is always light at the end of Tunnel and also that we are not alone ...

When you live with family it needs all of your patience so please don't be hard on yourself be supportive to yourself schedule your day keeping in mind you need some relaxation and enjoyment also share some time with your family to keep the connection alive time slot for sharing with family is always be in coordination with the space given to you and the patience level of your family at that time You have to check  and be alert for their tolerance level and give signal to yourself to exit the stage with dignity to keep your re - entry door open Don't be pushy don't burn the bridges try to spend time with yourself enjoy your own company find your hobbies whatever you enjoy Go for window shopping, reading sitting in your garden / balcony watching and enjoying Nature talk at least 3 people during the day make phone calls to someone Try to communicate communication always opens door to Happiness

Yellows are pure infusions of Happiness rich sunset colors and the early morning light are the most appealing yellows it gives brightness to your soul We have to face a fight between Negative and Positive in our every daily life we don't have to let Negative be the winner it will start infecting our Mind  go to our body and then ruin our life Go with positive no matter what we are caught in this fight and have to deal with it throughout our life this is not our choice but it is always there you like it or not We have to take Command to do everything to make possible the defeat of our negativity this we have to do for our own good we have to try daily to do things to be positive Last thoughts we put into our mind before we go to sleep definitely influence our Sleep Counter that before going to bed I play scrabble on my computer do anything to distract your mind Goodnight sleep is important to ensure Bright Mornings and to e...

Ottawa 1996 That was the time when I had my bad days I had my hip surgery it was tough time for me as I was not mobile for a while no walk time , which is always so precious to me I was alone and stuck in my apartment at 8th floor with no backyard I was alone and by myself I got attracted to " Mind Body " books at that time I had very little knowledge of computers I started making notes form those books summarizing the notes into points  on my computer I was enjoying that difficult and tough time of mine I got addicted to those books after 20 years  it resulted into my Blog writings which I enjoy so much to pass my time always be positive and you can never go wrong we have our good days but we have our bad days too keep in mind " This Too Shall Pass " you will never loose track Trust God he is always there for everyone and so for us in our good and bad times be with yourself nobody has time and inte...

Daily word of encouragement is the fuel  of hope when someone provide this fuel we are able to handle the challenging  situations in our daily life which we have to face everyday Try to overcome the Odds to enjoy and make a difference in your lives encouragement is inspiration to deal ups and downs throughout our life we need it at every stage to boost  our powers Everyone welcomes acknowledgement Making someone feel good will reflect Happiness in your heart In our bad days words of hope and encouragement will make us to shift our lives from negative to positive it will act as a turning point in our journey of life we always value them our Mentors do magic in our difficult times make us to do our things in one of those days we need them to look for direction they shift us from negative to positive by their influence  they are the difference maker we look at them for our right direction they give us a p...

We find it more difficult to deal with our Mind than dealing with our bodies Our Mind is always in the driving seat it can take you anywhere we have to handle it tactfully and we have nothing to worry this is also true that healthy bodies give healthy Minds it means we have to take care of our bodies first it is an easier job after that start distracting your mind from pain and divert it to joy and happiness track It means body to be tackled first to make our job easier to keep our days bright and a good night sleep after

Past is done Future is unknown Present is everything for Everyone you can make it or break it choices are yours my dear We have 24 hours in every brand new day with all the Resources of Nature and  the power of our body enjoy and avail whatever we have today we don't know will this be available to us tomorrow  We should give value to each of our Blessings our health, our body, our power to walk, to talk and hear each and every power is so precious we don't consider it as our treasure until God forbid one of these is gone or taken away from us take full advantage try to use every power of  your body to make your day brighter enjoy whatever you have don't wait for tomorrow don't regret your past Done is done you can not turn the page Today is everything we have Be happy and take care of your Today forget everything else 

Everyday  sun rises  and  sun sets and hundreds of different things happen in between take time everyday for play humor, relaxation and good company refrain from anger or criticism for your own good even when you feel it is justified be pleasant and tolerant toward everyone absence of love and care from your life will impart more damage on your body and soul than the damage due to any wrong diet wake with sun in the morning watch sunset in the evening and if you have a chance enjoy the moonlight especially when full moon eat light, natural foods drink water and milk be generous with others in every way give presents and compliment s to people around you point out the best in everyone don't try to be great yourself let others to do that let generosity and trust truly blossom you will have nothing to fear from life

1984 I came across a Research publication of Scientific American The Research material was not related to my subject still I remember the content of that Paper It was about how the human body emitting Positive and Negative charges from its extremities Human body diagram showing the emitting rays It's concept was, due to that charge we get attracted to a person even we don't know him / her Same theory applies when we feel repulsion and get offended by some  person we don't know It is all due to the Charges emitting form our bodies I don't know and did't track the authenticity of that theory but I believe this theory applies to all Humans  I come across with such experiences all the times

Love your  Human family With Joy and appreciation The  longest journey  that you will make in your life is from your head to your heart The journey into the heart is our future and only way of Creating future It is movement toward Wholeness, integrity and Compassion Learning  to experience emotions is one of the most difficult task When there are  stomach problems it usually means we don't know how to assimilate the new experience we are afraid Stomach  digest all the new ideas and experiences we have Our  body is a river constantly changing flowing patterns  of intelligence " You can not step the same river twice for fresh waters are ever flowing in. " The  same  is true of the  body We appear to be the same outwardly , yet we are like a building  whose bricks  are constantly being replaced by new ones Our  body knows  what is good and bad for it We ha...

Try to manage your time It is easy to say but difficult to apply as it involves changing habits Plan your Day A successful life is nothing more than A string of successful days There use to be other plans like Business plan, game plan,  building plan, lesson plan  --- and so on So why not a day plan It doesn't take much time but it works Some call it " things to do " list It is like daily goal setting Problems call for our courage And our wisdom The process of confronting  and solving problems is a Painful one It makes life difficult but We have to keep in mind that It is only because of problems We grow mentally and spiritually Problems are cutting edge that distinguishes between success and failure When we desire to encourage the growth of our spirit We challenge and encourage our capacity to solve problems Just like in our school days It is through the pain of  confronting and Resolving problems that we learn "...

Be tolerant and patient Try to understand Other people's point of view They may be totally wrong Don't condemn them Let the other people talk themselves out Give them a chance Try honestly to put Yourself in his place Let the other person feel That the idea is his or her Be co - operative in conversation By respecting other people's ideas and feelings Seeing things through another Person's eyes may ease tensions When personal problems become Overwhelming Be sympathetic with the other Person's ideas and desires Make other person feel that You consider them Honest, upright and fair