Thought Of The Day

To My Readers Family In my Blog  "Driving Seat"  I mentioned about my raking of leaves  it gave lots of stir in my Readers Family Please keep in mind no one is pushing me to do anything I am happy that no one is stopping me from doing anything which I like to do and I want to do to have fun and to give color to my Day to day Life It was 8 at n ight my eldest grandson had a hockey game at Don Bear Arena  I was done with my dinner enjoying my hot cup of tea and getting ready to get out It was 6 degrees below zero I can't resist going out if I had any chance I don't care where I avail any chance which in my opinion is a signal from God to get out and to defy my age As I mentioned in my earlier Blog that age is a number don't go with that I am sitting now in Hockey Arena moving around and having a feel of the buzzing atmosphere the young happy faces the music around  To be with my family in such...

Please keep reminding yourself There's one thing I can not abide Wasting time I genuinely believe that If there's one duty we all have It's to use the full, whatever Time or talents We may have been given " Service is the rent we pay           for our room on earth." A life spent in making mistakes Is not only more Honorable But more useful than A life spent doing nothing

Stress good or bad ? Too much stress cause us Loose sleep, edgy, irritable High blood pressure and so on. If we don't feel any stress We may not be placing Any significance on what we are doing. That can be as bad As too much stress Check out your stress If it is people problem Take time to talk it out Try to put yourself in the other person's shoes If you are wrong Admit it and apologize You will be winner by Gaining your respect And releasing your pressure If it is work related Try to work around that area

Take nothing but pictures. Leave nothing but footprints. Kill nothing but time. Trees are homes to squirrels, wood pigeons and birds. A source of nectar for bees. It's canopy of branches protect people from both Rain and the hot midday sun. It has been the setting for countless picnics. They are one of the best of nature's gift Please take care of them

Hope is a staff by which I may find strength To face another day. A very faithful, loving friend, upon whose strength I can depend. Hope is a comfort to my heart. When other comforts all depart. When stars are no more radiant And  life poses an Endless series of problems and Always difficult and Is full of pain When all you ever wanted isn't enough Hope shines with the moon on you and me I feel life is full of pain as well as Full of joy too And I feel today, like an investment To use in my life in my future I start making commitments and Promises with myself With new energy and Excitement to deal my day business

Morning power is thinking About what am I happy about in my life right now What about that makes me happy How does that make me feel What am I excited about in my life right now What about that makes me excited How does that make me feel What am I proud of in my life right now What about that makes me proud How does that make me feel What am I grateful for in my life right now What about that makes me grateful How does that make me feel What am I enjoying most in my life right now What about that do I enjoy How does that make me feel What am I committed to in my life right now What about that makes me committed How does that make me feel Who do I love, Who loves me What about that makes me loving How does that makes me feel These things looks very simple but Will make your day Try it please it worked for me Especially in my low times.

Love and respect can not be demanded. We don't deserve anything we haven't earned. Life is a day -- to -- day process. Life has it's Moan and Whine days, and it's days of joy. Bumper sticker happens, it is a reflection of reality. The quality of our life very much depends on what we focus on. And the environment we choose. It is difficult to be negative when we make choice to be around positive people.

Don't let go your dreams and goals. Believe in yourself, work hard. But set your expectation to zero. This will eliminate your future disappointment. Always give value to laughter. Take it as a medicine,It will work. Don't postpone it for good times. This is the time, so just do it. Laughter is one of the best remedies, when We have started taking things too seriously. Act of laughing serves as a powerful reset button. Restores the big picture outlook.

Write on cards,  the words "Drop the Negativity and focus on Blessings". Every time a negative thought creeps into your mind, pl. read the card. Transformation will be astonishing. Negativity creeps in your mind, which it will do on regular basis, remember two things You are the one who is creating the negativity with your own thinking. But the more important, you have the power to stop it. Our thoughts have the power, if left to their own devices, to take us to Either great heights or miserable depths. So it is very important to always remember that we are the ones in control.

The people who are able to see that the world is not always black and white. Who understand that "Our way" is not the "Only way" are almost always the kindest. Most tolerant, happiest and easiest people to be around. So please don't defend a position, or stand up for what's right Or protest against what's wrong. I am suggesting that you plant a seed of doubt in your mind. May be, just may be, there is another side of argument. An open mind is essential for a true Happiness.

It's exhausting and frustrating to have a busy mind. Try to keep your mind calm and present at one place. A calm and focused mind is an important ingredient of inner peace. Please learn and try to practice consciously to keep your mind focus on one conversation or one activity you are engaged in at the moment. With your absolute concentration. Focus and try to be in the moment will make that person feel as he is the most important person in the world to you at that moment. Drop the rest of your thinking, to remind your mind to focus. Don't allow your mind to wander. The time someone says to you, " Thank you for just being there for me, for just listening ", you will feel on the top of the world. So every time when you are with someone, just ask yourself, "Are you in there?", if you are not, you will try to focus and be there. This will act like a simple reminder for you.

We can wake up in the morning with a list of complaints.  As long as the front page of the Newspaper. We can just as easily allow our thoughts to be self -- destructive weapons. Whichever road we take ---  positive or negative. Our choice is likely to have little if anything to do with how "good" our life really is on the "outside". Our  well - being depends on how we process our lives on inside. On our thinking what do we think? Keeping in mind the reality that you control your own thoughts and nothing else. You will be in pretty good shape.

A single rose is of greater value to the living than an entire wreath is to the dead. A single kind word is of greater value to the living than a whole bunch of kind words at a memorial service. Talk to your friends and family members s if it's the last time you ever will. If you were going to die soon and had only one phone call you could make. Who would call and what would you say. And why are you waiting. Never lose a chance of saying a kind word. We can not afford to underestimate the importance and power of our words.

We all need a boost from time to time. A few lines of praise have been known to turn around a day, even a life. A handwritten note is like dining by candlelight instead of flicking on the lights. Like taking a walk instead of driving. You can still use the telephone or the web for staying in touch. But the words that matter, it's courteous, classy and caring to pick up a pen. Do not save your loving speeches for your friends till they are dead. Speak them rather now. The greatest weakness of most humans, is their hesitancy to tell others how much they love them.

Kind Words always Encourage us when we need an extra little push. Remind us about what's right and good in the world. Supply us with a burst of energy. Tell us we are appreciated. Surprise us with joy in unexpected times. Teach us valuable lessons. Upholds us during our darkest hours. Give us the recognition we deserve. Point out the reasons for being thankful. Show that others have faith in us. Brighten our days. Enrich our lives.

Every day that we wake up is a good day. Every breath that we take is filled with hope for a better day. Every word that we speak is a chance to change what is bad into something good. Few things in the world are more powerful than a positive push. A smile. A word of optimism and a hope. A " You can do it " when things are tough. The deepest urge in human nature is the desire to feel important. Loving words heal relationships.

Sometimes silence is golden. Listen while others are talking. We have to realize that every single thing that goes into our mouth, is a choice. Not only do we choose what goes into our mouth, we choose what comes out of them. Words go into our body. They impact our body and also on others. Most of us make unconscious choices in the words that we use. Words, once said, do not die.

Words come from Heart. Every time we open our mouth, we reveal something about ourselves. Our words reveal us. Our words are usually a reflection of what's going on inside. Sometimes, we have to examine our own language, to get to know ourselves better. Take a closer look at your own language and you will know yourself. Heart is a symbol of emotions and feelings. Eyes are Window of our Soul. Of our inner selves.

Our words reveal our thoughts. Manners are mirror of our self esteem. Our actions reflect our character. Our habits predict the future. Change always involves stress. If you don't have the ability to handle the change and move on, you will be stuck. You might have a heart of gold, but so does a hard boiled egg. Little things can make a big differences. Open your eyes and you will undoubtedly see a hundred things,. you can and should express gratitude for all this.

Remember that overnight success usually takes about fifteen years Be cautious about lending money to friends, you might lose both Live beneath your means Buy great books even if you never read them Make sure to return things you borrow