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Move Your Chair To The Window

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  Bright beautiful morning. It is 9.30, I am just done with my breakfast. I use to enjoy my morning tea in my renovated backyard. I don't want to miss the beautiful moments of it's transformation. The stages, the step by step changes, happening to it, to be emerged, one day into my back garden. Sitting in my backyard, on my newly built deck, watching all this, gives me power to strengthen my belief that patience is virtue. Never give up, just relax and wait for things, to emerge in the due course of time. Don't panic. Don't lose hope. Hope is everything to keep you motivated. Patience and hope, are key, the great weapons to fight against negative thoughts. These are best tools to rectify and eradicate our low feeling and self pity. Great help to manage our life, to direct our lives into the right direction.  Try to distract yourselves from something, which needs time to be resolved. Focus on the matters in hand, which need to be done right away. Keep yourselves busy. Fo...

Think Twice Before Picking Pen Paper

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  Friday -- Beautiful bright sunny morning 17 C, will be 29 later in the afternoon. It is 9.30, I am busy in my kitchen with my breakfast preparation. I am a bit late today, to start my day. Nothing wrong with my sleep. It is my back, giving me problems again. I had to do my stretch exercises on my bedroom carpet. I do that every morning but couple of more minutes today for my back. Anyway, I am now all set to start my day. Just bring it on. My breakfast done. I am enjoying my tea, sitting in my room with my computer, talking to my daughters. It is a group call. All my three daughters joined. My youngest one started and others joined.  We have to realize,  it is always the first call, the first step, which matters the most. Think twice before taking your steps. We have to be aware of the direction. Our steps can lead us to anywhere.  Before starting  things, have to be aware of the outcome and results. Anything not done properly or started abruptly, results into...

Fairy Tale Period Now Ending

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  Saturday -- Beautiful sunny morning 19 C will be 33 later in the afternoon. It is 9.15, I have the whole day to do things, whatever I want. Mornings are like clean slate. We are at liberty to write anything on, paint any picture, to beautify our day.  I am done with my breakfast, enjoying morning tea, sitting in my TV lounge. Sports Channel is on. My son watching Highlights of some Hockey game. Toronto Maple Leaf team is out but Playoff season is on. I am watching that and also enjoying the beautiful view of my back garden.  My youngest daughter just called from Reading. She loves gardening, showing me her beautiful flowers of orange, yellow, purple white and of so many other colors. She was proudly showing her kitchen garden plants. Full of blooming tomatoes, cucumbers, Mint and other Herbs. It was very hot in England, yesterday was thunder, I don't know what is the weather today. May be they got some relief. Most of the places, there is no AC, so tough to handle hot d...

Matters have to be looked into

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  Friday -- Beautiful sunny hot morning 23 C, will be 33 later in the evening. These are couple of  hot days for we Canadians. To enjoy our short summer period, to get out, to go to lakes. August is running out, September is just around the corner. We have to make use of our time in hand. We are aware of that. We are doing whatever we can. Hitting the roads and visiting the lakeside like rituals.   It is 9.15, I am done with my five minutes exercises. My computer is on for me, to browse the favorite sites. My Blog site is the first one, to check the number of hits. These hits are very important, denote each of my Reader. Comments on my Blog are like cherry on top, like direct lines, to connect with my Readers Family. Next is my Facebook site, to get aware of, that how many of my friends and family member are eager to connect.Their messages matter a lot to me. I have to answer them back first thing after having my breakfast. Breakfast is like giving treats to my body,...

Reluctant to Lend My Hand

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  Thursday -- Bright beautiful sunny morning 24 C, will be 34 later in the afternoon. Another hot day. It is 7.45, I am out of bed. First thing I do is, to switch on my computer. Browse to have a quick look to check what is going on there for me to deal after. I mean, how many messages are there, what is the weather, what are the News Headlines. I don't go through everything, just browse to get an outline of the things around.  Next thing is my five minutes stretch exercises on my bed room carpet. This is to unwind my body, to wake it up, to move on and to cooperate with my day onward. Your body listens but you have to take the first step. We have to move forward to show that we care.  I think if we take the first step to go ahead to show our goodwill gesture, things always go smooth. No issues. We have to put our ego aside to come forward, to lend our hand to others.  We Humans are social animals. We all look forward to build relationships with our other fellow Huma...

I Think it is Like a Gold mine

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  Tuesday -- Bright beautiful hot morning 29 C, will be 34 later in the afternoon. It is 9.15, I am in my room, done with my breakfast, enjoying my morning tea. My computer is on, Facebook page is opened, all messages are in front, at my disposal, to pick and choose. It is tough to categorize, to place in order, to decide, which message to read first. I know nobody watching.  They wont know who is going to be the first and who will be the last. Still I feel embarrassed, guilty. Not easy to make any decision. It is like, I am secretly marking their worksheets, without their knowledge. I think what we feel inside, is the only thing, which matters. We can cover up for others, but not for our own self. In the heart of heart, we know, what we talking, what we thinking and also aware of, when we try to manipulate things for our face saving.  We can say things to the people, using our speech skills, our power of words, to convince others. We can dominate the society, the circle ...

We Have Our Followings Too

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  Monday -- Beautiful bright hot morning 21 C, will be 39 later in the afternoon. Today slightly better,  it was 42  yesterday. It is fine. We Canadians know these are just couple of more hot days in August.  From September will be a total different scenario. We have to start to sort out our coat closet, to figure out which jacket, we have to wear. For now w e are enjoying our time down the lake. It is 8.30, I was up early in the morning. I am done with my breakfast, enjoying my morning tea, sitting in the TV lounge.  Sports Channel is on. Yesterday was Maple Leaf hockey game. I don't know how many players are from Canada but this is Toronto team.  This is favorite team with big fan following.Team lost the five game series with Columbus. It is all over the channels. Discussions, analysis and about the strategy. I am watching that. It is 8.45, I am in my room. My computer is switched on. My daughter from Kent calling me, my youngest daughter is in the queue,...

Cherish Beautiful Moments Delete the Rest

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  Saturday -- Beautiful sunny morning 20 C, will be 30 later. It is 9.30, I am done with my breakfast enjoying my morning tea, sitting in my room. My computer is on. Curtains of my windows are drawn down, still left a slit opened to connect and be part of the world outside. My front garden looking great, it is beautiful view to behold, to cherish. I am browsing Facebook messages. Got message from my youngest daughter, it was burning hot in England. 36 C at her place, Reading. She was busy with gardening. She loves gardening, her favorite hobby. When you re into it, you enjoy, you don't care about weather or anything else. My other daughter, the middle one called. It was 30 C at Grimsby. She was all set, packed to leave  early morning,  with her family for Glasgow. She is sending pictures from there to share with me. They have taken for about an hour of stop over at Scotch Corner. She is sending me all the pictures. I can visualize their entire journey. I have a feel that ...

Promoted to the Next Grade

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Happy Easter to All My Dear Readers It is Tuesday bright beautiful sunny morning with 2 C feels like 3 C below zero.  Rain is on the way, we know April shower May flowers. It goes like that,  so no problem with that, except that our Basements, most likely get flooded. This is very common problem here, in Canada. But nothing is total plus my Dear. If you enjoy rain, you have to pay the price, it is OK. It is Tuesday, I am not working today. I don't work on  Tuesdays.  Today is my six monthly eye check up for Cataract. Doctor will decide about my left eye. It is yet to be operated. My right one is done years back in 2012. When doctor gives me a clean slate, I feel like, promoted to the next grade with flying colors. Who wants surgery, I think no one, not me. It is 11 am, I am at doctor's office, waiting for my turn, feels like sitting in  the examination hall. I hope, I will get through, will make it this time too. We always have to...

Storm is over now

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It is Sunday morning, bright sunny, but my Dear, wind storm is on it's way  with gusts 120 km, will be with rain and snow too. there is wind warning  and we are asked  to keep our candles ready. Let us see. It already started but peak time will be in the evening. I have to avail the time slot to get out. My Son planning to go to Gym after 12, that will be  perfect for me. I will go with him. For now I am enjoying my TV time, watching "Colombo". I am done  with  my breakfast and already gone through my Facebook messages. I am also done with my two loads of laundry, my clothes and  my bed sheets. It is 11 am, I will watch half of the "Colombo", I will finish the rest any time next week. I am not a TV person, wont enjoy watching the whole two hours  show. It is 12.30, I am leaving for Pickering town Centre.  Next week my Daughter in law leaving for Houston to her parents. I will  buy some gift for her Mom. I...

White Stuff Everywhere

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It is Wednesday very cold morning with 31 C below zero. It is 9.15, I am  sitting in the Billiard room in the library, writing my Blog also having the  view through the big glass window. Parking lot is very icy, just like my  driveway. This like called black ice, very tricky to walk.  I had my hip surgery years back so three nails are stuck on my left side. We at our age, have to be extra careful while walking around in such a  situation.  On Monday evening, it was worse. There was 26 cm of snow,  our city had one  day in decade. Tuesday morning, all cars looked embedded under heaps of snow. It was  windy too, gusts 54 km. Trees displaying mixed scenario. I mean some  of the  skeleton trees with white silvery decorations, looked ready for Christmas  Festivities,  while others were stand still like in wait  and see situation. Some very small bushes looking like ice sculptures. It was Tuesd...

Working in my office cubicle

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It is Wednesday hazy cloudy morning 6 C below zero, feels  like 17 C  below zero. It just started snowing I see white dust  all around.  The glass  top  of my patio table in the backyard,  is covered with  white thin crust.  It looks like I have lots of silver on my front garden.  It is 9.15, I am in  the library, working in my office cubicle. I am  working full time today.  Playing Darts and Carpet Bowling too.  I will go back home after 3 pm. Today is very busy day for me. I am planning to make stir fried veggie dish to put at the dinner table. We have to contribute for  the family we live  with. It gives us lots of positive feelings, boosts up  our  motivation also  gives us happiness.  I have to go to my cousin's  memorial service  at 7 pm, tonight. He died  yesterday, his family arranged ceremony for his remembrance. Our life  i...

Open Letter to My Dear Readers

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Dear Readers I just got comments from you people. From My Dear Readers  Family. I am really very sad so many things come up. I don't know what to  write.  Anyway I am trying. Dear Retirees I am very upset with the so called Priest. Stop him doing any further damage. He already did much. When we investigate, we can not think clear. Our mind is cluttered. We are biased, ready to take positions. The protests you mentioned are political, here in Canada. Anyway stop  the investigation and ask the Priest, that in the name of God, leave everyone alone and stay out of everything.  Don't give him any position in any committee. He is always ready to make  lives of All Creatures of God miserable. I told you before that no parents  can harm their kids. Kids will be safe, believe me. Dear Students I am upset with the behavior of My Smile Army Friends. They have to control their emotions and stay calm. My Dear Friend  George  ...

Open Letter From Canada

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Please Deliver My Letter To Court People Thank You Don't Involve Councillor I Don't Trust Him He wont Help You My Dear Friend Sitting in Court While Dealing with People's Affair Always Keep in Mind That We All Belong To  Same   " Human Family " Also Creatures Of  Same Great Creator To Err is Human -- God Love Those  Who Forgive  and Forget Errors  Of Their Fellow Beings Please Keep in Mind That Nothing is End Of World When God Gives Someone Power To Rule Over His People It Means He Gave You Position  To Be Custodian  Of His Creatures Pen in Your Hand Has All The Power It is Like Power Point It is Easy To Ruin Anyone's Life OR Give Happiness  Choices are With You  My Friend You Have All The Power  Please Do Whatever  You Like Keeping in Mind That Our Creator Never Be Happy  To See That His Creatures are In Distress and Punished For Something He Did  On ...

Just Your +ve Attitude -- Your Smile

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Today Please also Read My Recipe Blog Thank You To Dear Teachers             &       Coaches It is Friday Morning Mixed Sunny and Cloudy Day with 8 Degrees -- I am Sitting in The Library Premises in 15 Minutes I will Go To My Office Cubicle  I am Working Full Time Today -- My Weekend will Be Very Busy as I Have Three Invitations Each For  Saturday  as Well as For Sunday  Now No More Trips To Hockey Arena Like It used To Be In The Past Years -- My Eldest Gone To University My Youngest Now Totally Involved into Basket Ball He used To Be a Very Good Player But Now Lost His Interest in Ice Hockey -- As I Mentioned in My Earlier Blogs That Teacher and Coach Has All The Power To Take Their Students To Any Road They Want I Think They are Not Aware of Their Power -- Their Strength That Even Their Body Language Can Impart a Big Difference Enough To Deviate and Change The Whole Ca...

Moments To share

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Today Please also Read My Recipe Blog Thank You Literature Fellow My Friend I am Happy For My Dear Smile Army Volunteers Retirees My Friends  We are Just Wasting Our Time Discussing My Walk Time By The Way I Walk To Tim Horton It is 25 Minutes away It Doesn't Matter I Told Many Times  Everyone is Different and also There is No Competition I Have Written Number of Blogs On Parenting and Teen Issues Please Check My Previous Blogs No Apologies Please and  Don't Fire Anyone We are Friends Kris My Dear Please Take Father  To Doctor I Think He Has Low Blood Pressure It is Sunday 17 Degrees Beautiful Sunny Morning Master Golden I mean My Middle Grandson Has To Go To Hockey Arena For His Time Keeping Game at 10 am I Had a Chance To Get Out with Him My Son was Driving Him There --  I was Enjoying The Beautiful Drive Through Rouge Hill Valley All The Fall Colors -- Nature always Surpasses All Beauties -- On T...

Extra Terrestrial ??

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Literature Fellow My Friend I am Worried For Smile Army Volunteers  I Think Dean is Right  We Have To approach Police in Plain Clothes  To Check What is Going On I Highly Appreciate Law Professors  Making Smoothie For 100s of People is a Big Job Everyone Has To Be Thankful  For That Law Students Please Be Co-operative Pay Respect To Your Teachers Thank You My Friends Retirees My Friends I Mentioned So Many Times I Don't Take Any Vitamins I Have Written Lots Of Blogs On This Topic  I Don't Know How To Convey  My Message Anyway There is Big Crisis  Great Friends and also Smile Army  Volunteers Safety I Need Help If My Friend Retired Police Commissioner  Can Do Anything I will Appreciate Kris My Dear Friend I am Happy For Father It is Monday Morning Cold with Six Degrees Still Bright Day Last Night My Youngest Grandson was awake He Turned Thirteen Today In The Morning While...

Human Dignity

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I am Happy For My Friend Father I Trust My Young Friends Smile Army will Be Able To Talk To My Great Friends If Possible Try To Read My Blogs  To My Great Friends Literature Fellow My Friend Don't You Worry about The Protest From Law Department Law Students Have Right To Communicate  Their Thoughts It is Friday Nine Degrees Weather is Quite Tricky Nowadays Yesterday was 19 Day Before 11 with Gust of 70 Km / h From Yesterday Light was Off and On I Mean Power was Off Many Times Though It was Just For Few Seconds But Nowadays We Dependend so Much On This Electric Power That Life Looks  Standstill Without That This Morning I Put My Oatmeal Porridge Bowl in Microwave I Make It Boil For One Minute But after Few Seconds Power was Off Our Stove Runs on Gas But We are Completely Out Of Practice To Warm Our Food Specially  Small Portions On Stove I Mean If You Search Your Whole Kitchen You Wont Find a Single Pot which ca...

Mom You are Great

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Kris My Friend You Have To Make Father Listen To My Blog Take Him To Sea Side You Have To Force Him To Do All That Niklas My Friend  Please You Have To Go To School and To Football Literature Fellow My Friend I am Sad What Great Friends Did They Shattered My Trust I Still Don't Believe That I am Worried about My Friends From Police Department I Mean For Their Jobs I will Pray For Them It is 20 Degrees Beautiful Sunny Day We are Enjoying Our Short Indian Summer For a while I Can Hear Birds even Behind My Closed Windows Squirrels are Playing around Yesterday I Saw Small Brown Rabbit On My Neighbor's Front Garden Last Evening I was Going To Get Groceries with My Master Golden I Mean My Middle Grandson From Freshco It is 5 Minutes Drive It was an Amazing View The Whole Sky was Looking Like Beautiful Landscape It was Great Pencil Sketch With Pinkish Hue and All Shades of Grey Great Scenic View From My Great Creator  We Have S...

They Need Our Support Our Prayers

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Today Please also Read My Recipe Blog Thank You I am Sad with The Attitude of My Great Friends I am Concerned Too If Things are Like That I am Sorry To say No option Except To Get Them Arrested We Have To Take Action First Talk To Them  Let Them Explain I Hope My Friends From Police Department will Not Be affected Their Jobs will Be Safe Great Friends Shattered  My Trust My Faith I am Sad Kris My Friend I am Worried For Father Take Him To Doctor He Needs Treatment It is Wednesday 11 Degrees Bright Sunny Day We Call It Here in Canada as Indian Summer For We Canadians 11 Degrees at The End of October is Like Summer Our Winter Coats are Still Hanging in Our Coat Closets -- I am Working Full Time Today Darts and also Playing Carpet Bowling My Son Managed To Drive Me Here I Know It is Lots of Pressure To Make Adjustments with Work on Top We are Changing Windows at Our House Workers will Be at 9.30 To Start Their Work...