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Not a Second Fiddle

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I Am Not Happy That Councillor Not Helping You Out He Has To Find Ways No Matter Whoever Dealing The Case We All are Human All are Creatures Of Same God Our Creator Never Be Happy  To See That His Creature is In Distress and Punished On The Very Special Day That's Christmas Day Which Relates To His Very Special Messenger Kris My Friend Please Don't Yell at Niklas 8.30 am Not Late My Grand Kids Wake At 1 pm Some 2 pm They Play Video Game Late Night Like 2 To 3 Morning  This is Their Age Just Relax and Please Don't Let Father Interfere With Niklas Matters Father Complicates The Situation Not A Big Deal You Just Cool Down Main Thing is That Niklas  Stay Home and Do What He Wants You Know It is Amazing That North Pole is Warmer Than Here in Canada Now We Can Go Either To Florida OR To  North Pole To Skip Our Winter I Had My Hip Fractured 20 Years Back So 3 Nails are Embedded  On My Left Side...

Always Go For 3 As

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Kris My Friend Please Don't Yell at Niklas Father Already Making His Life Hell Father Has To Stay Home  Stay Calm and Let Everyone Do His Job Father Can Enjoy  On Weekends It is Saturday Morning Bright Sunny Temperature 2 Below Zero -- It Started Snowing White Dust All Over The Place On My Driveway Red Caravan and Silver Jetta Covered with Layer Of Thin Snow -- Sun Rays Making Beautiful Glittering Look  It is Windy So No Snow On Trees Otherwise Trees also Use To Give Christmas Atmosphere Decorated with White Dusting and Glistening Snow Crystals I Have Doctor's Appointment To Get My Six Monthly Vitamin D Injection For My Long Time Osteoporosis It is 10 am I am at Doctor's Office My Son Will Pick Me after I am Waiting Here and Busy Writing My Blog That is Talking To My Readers Family -- Thinking About You  My Dear Friend Oliver  You Asked Me For Some Tips about Joint Family Living I Believe -- We are Dealing ...

Nothing Total Plus

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It is Muddy Hazy Sky Visibility Very Low Specially at 7 in The Morning -- Rain on The Way 9 Degrees For a Change It is Like Summer For We Canadians  I am Wearing Black Jacket --  My Son Gave Me Couple of Years Back He Got as an Incentive From His Work -- It is Like a Souvenir For Me I am in The Library -- Working Part Time Today Thinking about My Retiree Friends --  It is December End Of Year also Winter Days are Shorter and Long Nights Years Back I was in Ottawa Visiting Doctor's Office On The Wall There was List Of Some Useful Points Sort Of Information To Share It was Mentioned Due To Lack Of Enough Sunlight We Suffer From Insomnia -- I Believe That is True In Winter Time Everyone Starts Feeling Low and Not Having Good Night sleep -- We Have To Take These  Things as Normal I Believe Family is a Unit - - We Can Not Take Out Anyone Of It's Member -- Like Daughter / Son in Law We are Humans -- Not Robots So Things Ca...

Keep Away From Negative Thoughts

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Kris My Friend Why Father Telling Niklas Marks To All Kids All Over School and Football Please Ask Father To Keep away  From Niklas and Leave Him alone It is Monday Cold Cloudy Morning with 2 Degrees Feels Like 4 Below Zero -- Last Night There were Flurries -- It Started after 11 pm  I was Coming Back Visiting My Younger Brother He is Here From Chicago Staying at His Daughter's Place in Markham 25 Minutes Away From Pickering It was 11.30 Night -- Flurries were Giving Beautiful Look Through The Wind Screen From Our Car -- Looks Like Fire Work Touching The Wind Screen and after That Showering Silver Glow It was Amazing I live in Canada Still Can Not Figure Out That How Many Types of Snow We Have Every Year Like Wet Snow -- Flurries -- Flakes -- Black Ice Pellets -- Hales -- Snow and Snow Storm I Get Really Confused When They Talk about The Type Of Snow on Weather Channel -- Talking about Weather is Favorite Pass T ime For We Cana...

Don't Wait For Empty Nest

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Kris My Friend Please Don't Cut Niklas  Phone or Football Father Has Not To Interfere with Niklas Studies He Has To Mind His Own Business Watching TV or Whatever Please Don't Yell at Niklas His Marks Not Bad He will Improve I Trust Him Ask Father Not To Wake Him  Before Sunrise and Not To Throw Ice On His Face Please It is Friday with One Degree Feels Like  2 Below Zero Still Bright Sunny Beautiful Morning No Snow No Rain Enough To Celebrate Usually I am Working Full Time On Fridays But Tomorrow On Saturday We are  Having Our  Christmas Bazar  Today We Have To Set up Everything For Tomorrow So I am Off Today -- My Grand Kids Have Their PA Day Today So They are Off Too I was Busy On My Computer Checking Messages and Reading Comments On My Blog -- It is 11 am  My Youngest Just Awake  He is in Grade 8th So Started Behaving Like Teenager I Mean Waking Up Late at Night and Sleeping Till Late in The Morn...

Recipe Of Happiness

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Today Please also Read My Recipe Blog Thank You It is Monday 7 Degrees Cold Morning Still Sunny and Bright Day -- I am Working Part Time Today Playing Darts Only I am Sitting in Library Premises On Wooden Bench Near The Entrance after 15 Minutes Library will Be Opened and I will Be Working in My Office Cubicle My Son Managing To Drive Me Here so No More Bus Rides -- Weekend was Busy with Friends Gatherings Specially Sunday I Had To Go To Five Gatherings The Last One was at 9.30 I was Back after 10 pm It is Good To Be Busy I Love To Be involved in Things also with People -- after That I Prepared Lunch For My Son He Loves To Take Home Made Lunch To Work I Love To Do That -- You Know These Small Things Keep us Away From Feeling Old It Looks We Can Still Do Things Can Make Contributions in The Lives of Our Family Keep in Mind Things will Be Done Anyway Someone Else will Do It " Men May Come Men May Go But I May Go For Ever " I R...

Goes Around Comes Around

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This is Big Occasion  It Has To Be Celebrated Thanks To All My Readers Family Literature Fellow My Friend I Think It Has To Be In Writing But Not Through Law and Rules Just An Informal Request  Simply Make The Higher Personnel  Clear That It Be Great Help To Great Friends and Other Friends  From Police Department Request Them To Make It in Writing They will Find Way To Help Out My Dear Friend Father The Great I Think You are Not Reading My Blogs Properly You Have To Read Again  My Motto is To Spread Happiness  Not To Make Any Of My Friend Feel Low and Down I Can Never Do That There is Some  Misunderstanding Please Read My Blogs Again Please Celebrate The Victory of Readers Family I Need Your Help I Trust You will Never Say No To Me Just Cheer Up and Be Happy To Give Me Happiness Thank You It is Thursday 12 Degrees Bright Sunny Beautiful Day I am Not Working Today So Planning To Go For My w...

We are Ready Bring It On

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Please also Read  My Recipe Blog Today Thank You My Dear Retiree Friends I am in The same Boat I Can Not Understand Why You People Feeling Low We Have To Accept  Facts Of Life Nothing Wrong With That Be Flexible Make Adjustments  And Enjoy  Literature Fellow My Friend I Believe Love and Patience are Best Tools To Solve  Any Situation Law and Rules Make Things Complicated People Get Either Defensive Or Offensive  It is Wednesday I will Go To Work after Very Long Weekend as For Me Tuesdays are Off I Don't Work on  Tuesdays It is 8 Degrees Single Digit Today Bright Calm and Quiet Morning Colors Started Changing Lots of Red and Maroon in Between Green I See Couple of Squirrels Busy Collecting Food I Think Getting Ready For  Canadian Winter Flowers are There But Not Smiling They Know What Have To Face in Just Couple of Days I Think It is OK We Enjoyed Lots of Summer We Don't Mind Just...

What about His Time ??

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Literature Fellow My Friend I Congratulate All of You  From Bottom Of My Heart I Just Read Your Comment This is Great News  My Dear Students From School Principal My Friend  And Dean The Great All of You Did Wonder You People are Great  Spreading Happiness All Around Retirees My Friends There was No Typing Error My Blogs Take 5 - 10 Minutes Writing i s very Simple I Think You Didn't Understand My Blog about Writing Writing Comes From Heart Pen and Paper are Just Means My Friend Doing 2 Jobs  I am Not Happy With Your Job Worker She always Tries To Point Out That I am Not Writing For You Some People are Like That Make Others Feel Low and Down - Happiness Can Not  Come This Way Don't You Worry You are Handling Her Very Well My Dear " N " I Write Things Like Read Comments And Have Bird Feeder To Help You Out Father Please Don't Give  Smoke and Beer To Kids It is Not Good For Them It is 20 ...

Be Flexible -- It Brings Happiness

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Literature Fellow My Friend I Miss Your Comment Today Kris My Friend  You Can Read My Blogs To Father  Please Don't Yell at Niklas If He is Late Not a Big Deal My Grandson Plays Basket Ball Comes Late Most of The Time Don't Let Father Go To School He Makes Problem For Niklas At School and also At Football It is Monday Morning Beautiful Sunny Day With 20 Degrees I am Working Part Time Today Playing Darts No Bowling Today My Son Managed To drive Me To Library I Try To Make Adjustments instead of  9.30 I Managed To Go at 9 am  Premises Opens at 9  am Darts Start at 10 am We Have To Be Flexible To Adjust Situations Have To Co-operate with People We Love We Live with -- We Work with It Can Change the Whole Atmosphere To a Beautiful Place --- I am Talking about Joint Family Living --   about Our Work Place  Any Place where We Pass Our Time Besides Our Home Like Senior Centers at Cafe -- Library Small Steps...

God Surprises -- It is Like A Bonus

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Today also Please Read My Recipe Blog Thanks Kris My friend Thanks For Talking To Niklas Teacher Please Ask Students To Come Forward To Tell The Truth May Be It Work Niklas Doesn't Has To Go To Father's Friend Places Father Makes Fun Of Niklas Before Them Literature Fellow My Friend I am Really Worried and Sad About  The Situation At School Give Them My Blogs May Be It Help Them Out  To Change Their Mind Keep an Eye Everything OK At Your Place I am sure Dean My Friend  Busy To Clear All This Mess I Need Everyone Prayers Too -- God Always Listen  It is Friday Mid of September and It is Canada We were Expecting Cool Breeze  -- But You Know Sometimes God wants to Give Surprises To Make His Creatures Happy --- It is 27 Degrees Beautiful Bright Sunny Morning Everyone Enjoying --  It is Like Bonus I am Not Working Today as Library Having Some Big Ceremony -- City is Organizing Big Event -- Our Lib...

Acceptance ---- Gateway to The Next Level

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I am Not Happy with Priest Why He is using My Son's Character in His Sermon  I Made It Very Clear  I Love To Do Things On My Own So Please Leave It To Me Welcome Back Linda and Dave Kris My Friend I Don't Know Why You Punish Niklas for Not Going to Football Game Father Has To Be Punished  He Messed Everything For Niklas Not Niklas Fault Father Waking Niklas  Before Sunrise Not Fair Please Ask Father To Leave Niklas Alone  My Dear Students My Retiree Friends and  Dear Cafe Manager I am a Bit Concerned about How Things Going We are Generating Funds That's Good I am Scared It Might Cost Love -- Friendship And Happiness Smile with Smile Program is Cancelled Students of The School Free From Drug Now Can Not Come  For Reading of Blogs Cafe Manager Not allowing People  Stay Longer To enjoy  Smile Time Make It Optional Donation System I Don't Know -- Has To Be Something so that More People...

There is Always Pay Back Time

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I am Proud Of My Great  Reader Doing 2 Jobs Thank You So Much for Your Prayers and Celebration I am Sad that His Co-worker Came Forward to Hurt His Feelings His Emotions I am Thankful To Each And Everyone of My Reader My Friends in Ireland My Friend Hannah  Everyone of You for Celebrating I Have Trust You All Love Me I Don't Write as if Any of Them is Having Some Difficult Moment I Have To Talk To --- It is Priority I am angry Father is Happy enjoying Taking away all the Enjoyment From My Friend Niklas  Kris My Dear Don't Punish Niklas  Don't Take His Phone away It was Father's Fault Not His -- You Have to be Supportive I am Feeling Bad as My Blogs  Getting Longer  Not Fair to My Readers  I am Sad as Happy Reader Mother in Law Never Leaves any Chance To Write Something Bad To Hurt Her Daughter in Law's Feelings I Request Every Time Please Don't Write Anything  To Hurt Other's Feeling This Ne...

Western University ---- Time Flies

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Father Be realistic Niklas Carried Your Clothes to Laundry He Put Washing Powder Bring Back All Your  Clean Clothes You Just Pushed the Button It is Not Doing Laundry  You are Yelling to Hannah  Niklas and Kris Not Fair To Them Literature Fellow My Dear Your Comments are Helpful To understand Emotional Turmoil Of Students Going to University  I Salute Smile Army for Taking Great Care of Smile Garden Smile Addict My Friend It is Too Much To Wait for 35 Minutes at 4 am For Smile Donuts  It is Sunday 19 Degrees Cloudy and Rainy Day Today My Eldest Leaving for Western University I was very Much Looking Forward T o Give Him Company We all planning to Go - -- In the Morning My Son Let Me Know that The Middle One Master Golden Not willing to Go It was 2 Hours Drive My Youngest also Changed His Mind so They Both Staying Home I was Not Feeling Good to Leave Them alone I Changed My Plans and Opted to Stay wi...

No Time -- Talk to You Later

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Literature Fellow My Dear Friend Don't You People Worry About Bothering Me I am Really Happy  All of You are Now  Enjoying Together Like Family I Don't Know What Type of Grandpa is Father  He Didn't Allow  Niklas to Go Even on One Ride So Selfish Today My Blog is  For My Retiree Friends Living in Joint Family It is 8.30 pm I am at Costco --- My Grandson Has to Get Things for His Moving to University My Son and My Youngest Grandson are  Also Here They are Busy Shopping I am Walking around Now sitting at the Dining Area Near Exit It Looks Beautiful with all Red Tables  and White Seats I am Writing My Blog Thinking about My Retiree Friends --- I Mentioned it Before so many Times in My Earlier Blogs  To Live with Family is very Demanding for Everyone It is Very Complicated -- Everyone has to be Patient We can Not Change Anyone  We can only Change Ourselves which We should We have to be ...

Don't Overpower Their Mind Please

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Today also Please Read  My Recipe Blog  Thanks My Dear Literature Fellow Dear Smile Army and  All Students  My Dear  Friends I am Happy and Thankful to All of You for Accepting Each Other Company To Err is Human Not a Big Deal Forget and Forgive Please Just Relax and Be Happy We are Family Everyone is Important Member of  Readers Family -- Thanks Niklas My Friend I Love You and Keep on Praying for You It is 23 Degrees -- Last Days of Summer It is Tuesday I am Off Today My Son Working From Home  He has to Drive My Middle Grandson Master Golden and His Friend to Wonderland It is 40 Minutes away --- Good Opportunity For Me to Get out --- I went with Him Back Home at 1 pm  Give Lunch to My Son a nd Grandson It is Last Week for My Eldest -- Who will be Moving to London for Western University He has to Wind up His Shopping List Going to Scarborough Centre at 2 pm I asked Him to Drop Me at Ti...

Your Attitude Please ??

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Dear Smile Army Please Be Co-operative I Know You are Doing Great -- Still We Have To Take Everyone on Board Everyone Has To Feel They are Into It Equally Important Atmosphere of Happiness Around is The Key Thanks Literature Fellow  My Friend Please Make Sure  No One Throw Cake From Smile Army Into Garbage Everyone Behave Like Friends -- Please Thanks Kris Please  Niklas Doesn't Has to Go To see  Sunrise with Father Niklas Doesn't Has to  Visit Father's Friends Niklas is Not Senior I Mean Retired Please Take Care of Niklas Enjoyments Kris You are Only Taking Care Of Father  --- Not Hannah and  Not Niklas It is Sunday 19 Degrees Bright Sunny  Day My Son was Busy With His Important Meetings so Was on Computer since Morning I Have My Own Plans It is 10.30 I was about To Leave for My walk -- My Youngest was Awake and Playing on TV  Online Games with His Friends -- He asked Me...

From Trip Back Home -- Toronto

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Retiree My Friends Please Don't Suspend  Membership of My Dear Friend Retired Travel Agent Thank You We All are Family We can Not Hurt Anyone Feeling Dear Smile Army My Friends Please Allow Everyone to Smile Garden It Has to be Like a Happy Place Not to Bring Controvercy Around Thank You My Friends Kris -- Please Let Niklas Sleep For a While All Teenagers Sleep Till Noon My Grandsons Sleep sometimes  Till 2 pm Let Them Enjoy Their Age and  Holidays Please Please Control Father  Father Has to be In Limits Make Sure and  Make Father Understand Don't Let Him Spoil Everyone Life Tell father Stop Treating Niklas and Hannah Like His Slaves My Trip Done with Light Show in Forest Near Sherbrook which is 2 Hours away from Montreal  For Overnight We were at Motel --- In the Morning started Our Journey Back to  Toronto It was through Montreal - - around Ottawa and Through Kingston  -- Wit...

Light Show & Suspension Bridges

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Dear Retiree Friends Walk in Quebec City was Nothing For Me I Walked for Two Hour in Forest Trails  I also Have to Walk on the  Longest Suspension Bridge To Watch the Light Festival That was all Hilly Don't You worry about Me You Have to Believe Me  I Did it --  I am Not Making it Up I Don't Know How To Handle Father Father Please Stop Making Your Breakfast Leave it To Hannah You are Making Things Extremely  Difficult  For Everyone Stop Throwing Ice on Niklas Face You are Very Rude and Selfish I am Sorry to Say That But You Leave No Choice for Me We are Done with Walking around the Old Quebec City and Whale Watching at Tadoussac Now Time to Move out from This Cottage Wildlife and all the  Natural Beauty Giving Scenic View We were Walking around our Cottage -- Beach was 2 Minutes Walk -- We were Getting Ready to Say Good Bye Having Our Breakfast and Loading Luggage in van Next Stop 2 Hours ...

Whale Watching & Camp Fire

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Father I Make My Own Breakfast Please Don't Bother Hannah --  For Your Breakfast It is Abuse to Throw Water on Niklas Face  Please Don't Do That I Can Not See Niklas To Suffer Kids are My Weak Point My Dear Retiree Friends  I Have to Clarify That I Walked Throughout My Trip --  Everywhere I am used to That Much Walk My Dear " N " Please Plan Your Day Take a Book Sit Down in Your Back Garden Listen Music of Your Choice Do Bird Watching in Backyard I Mentioned Earlier in My Blog No Genie will Come To Make Your Day We are the Music Makers We Have To Make Our Day These Tips Work For Everyone Specially for My Retiree Friends Literature Fellow My Friend I am Happy that You are  Reading Blogs At SRC I am Waiting for Your Work on Encyclopedia To Start We are now at Cottage in Quebec Two Hours away from the Old City -- We settled Down for a while -- It was 8 pm I Started making Tea and Omelette M...