Always Go For 3 As

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Kris My Friend
Please Don't Yell at Niklas
Father Already Making
His Life Hell

 Father Has To Stay Home 
Stay Calm and
Let Everyone Do His Job

 Father Can Enjoy 
On Weekends



It is Saturday Morning Bright Sunny
Temperature 2 Below Zero -- It Started Snowing
White Dust All Over The Place

On My Driveway Red Caravan and Silver Jetta
Covered with Layer Of Thin Snow -- Sun Rays
Making Beautiful Glittering Look 

It is Windy So No Snow On Trees Otherwise
Trees also Use To Give Christmas Atmosphere
Decorated with White Dusting and Glistening
Snow Crystals

 I Have Doctor's Appointment To Get My Six Monthly
Vitamin D Injection For My Long Time Osteoporosis
It is 10 am I am at Doctor's Office My Son
Will Pick Me after

I am Waiting Here and Busy Writing My Blog
That is Talking To My Readers Family -- Thinking
About You My Dear Friend Oliver 

 You Asked Me For Some Tips about Joint Family Living
I Believe -- We are Dealing with People Not with Robots
So We Have To Deal with Their Emotions
Besides Our Own

We Have To Take Extra Care What We Talk and also
How Our Body Talks -- Body Language Has More
Importance -- To Get Along with People is an Art

 For This First We Have To Take Care Of Our Own
Emotions after That We will Be Able To Deal with
Emotions Of Others First Calm Down and Be Relaxed

 For That We Have To Take Good Care Of Ourselves
without Disturbing Peace -- Harmony and Happiness
Of Other Creatures Of  God --

 To Get Inner Peace
and Inner Calm 
Always Go For 3 As

Try To Accommodate Yourself That is Be Proud Of
What You are -- Be Proud Of With Your Whole Self
Get Out Of Your Self Pity and Complexes

Acknowledge Yourself -- That is Appreciate Your
Actions Your Efforts To Diffuse Any Conflicting
Situations or Things --- at Work or in Family

 Admire Yourself -- Reward Yourself Giving Gifts or
Things which Make You Happy -- Anything 
Doesn't Has To Be Expensive

 Like I always Feel Good with My Walk Get Happiness
with My Time Alone Slot -- I Don't Need Any Other Gift
For Myself 

 I Believe We Can Not Make Others Happy until
We Ourselves are Not Happy This is Very Simple
So First Be Happy To Get Along with People 
and Spread Happiness Around

Comments

  1. Anonymous12/10/17, 9:39 AM

    I have posted the blog in Smile Corner. This being Sunday, there are out of town visitors too. Our town people looks forward to Sunday as so many people come here from other places. The priest used some of the themes from the blogs. Town people were smiling secretly. Thanks to Smile we have a big festival every weekend here

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  2. Anonymous12/10/17, 9:39 AM

    +1

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  3. Anonymous12/10/17, 9:42 AM

    My Smile is awesome! She has awesome doctor. She is an awesome writer! She is an awesome councillor. She is an awesome advisor. She has awesome family. What an awesome person my Smile is!!

    Karen

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  4. Anonymous12/10/17, 9:42 AM

    This good blog. I like in Russia

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    1. Anonymous12/10/17, 9:43 AM

      I like blog. I no good Anglais but French good

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    2. Anonymous12/10/17, 9:43 AM

      I enjoy blog. It very good. I read China

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    3. Anonymous12/10/17, 9:43 AM

      I read you blog Italy

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    4. Anonymous12/10/17, 9:44 AM

      I read this blog in Greece. I dont read everyday as I dont get a chance but I read whenever I can. Thank you

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    5. Anonymous12/10/17, 9:45 AM

      Just wanted to let you know that you have followers in Latvia also

      thanks

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  5. Anonymous12/10/17, 10:12 AM

    Dear Madam Smile, you so good. You write good to. Mr. Supervisor come and say how you. I say I good but I want ask you if I can go brake. He say ok you want go prey for your Madam. I say no I want to go and prey thank for me. He say what you mean. I say him that because I best and I very good I need go and acknolege me. I think he remember joke. I do 2 proud job and always read blog

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  6. Anonymous12/10/17, 10:16 AM

    My daughter in law needs to read your blog more carefully. She sleeps most of the day. Can you write something for him and explain that she needs to be like you and go for walks. I dont think she can do that unless in her dreams

    Mother in law of the Happy Reader

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  7. Anonymous12/10/17, 10:20 AM

    Dear Author,

    We read your blog at the SRC as we dont want to go to Smile Garden as a respect for Smile Army. Though it is Sunday there were a lot of people who came to the reading of the blog. The bookstore manager was here today also even though the bookstore is closed. He also brought lots of material that he donated. Thank you for solving that problem. The Dean and Prof George and a few other professors were here too. After the reading of the blog they went to volunteer at the Smile Garden for the new year celebration preparation. The Dean wanted to go to but he was asked not to go as he and us are considered your representatives

    thank you
    Literature Fellow

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  8. Anonymous12/10/17, 10:26 AM

    Dear Advisor,

    The retirees are appreciative of the blog and the counsel that you imparted to us. We will go through this in more details and will come back with some more detailed qs. The retired psychologists and the retired mental heath specialists were amazed with the advice that you provided. They pointed out that the conventional science is to acknowledge and admire others but by asking us to admire, acknowledge and appreciate ourselves, you have turned the science and conventional ideas on their head. We know that you dont refer to any books but the retired corporate executive mentioned that this is not possible and asked me to inquire one more time. She said perhaps you are referencing some materials on the internet.

    thank you
    recent retiree

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  9. Anonymous12/10/17, 8:52 PM

    Father say you yell father little today. Father say father no mind because father no angle. Father say father no you rite that all need do work. Father say father also yel Hannah, Kris and Niklas that all need do work all time. Father say father yell Hannah lot because father need make all brakfast all time. Father say you rite that father need admire father. Father say father yel Niklas print blog and then put blog in all room. Father say he no say father old almost 67

    (Hannah say father litle upset today. Hannah say she make brakfast and father say cut fruit but all day father want put fruit in oatmeal but today father say father want Hannah make all brakfast. Hannah say it Hannah fault because Hannah should ask father all day and no asume. Hannah say you please easie. You need rest Kris but you rest Niklas. Niklas say grandpapa yell Niklas lot because grandpapa say Smile say Niklas no care grandpapa. Niklas say he do let help grandpapa because you say all need care grandpapa. Me take father community gathering because he yell and say no one care him. Me take him see see tomorow before ofice. Me yell Niklas because he need care father. Niklas sad. Hannah sad. Father hapy. Me confuse. Me no no what do)

    Kris (Germany)

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  10. Superwoman12/10/17, 8:54 PM

    My Smile is amazing! She is an amazing writer. She is an amazing advisor. She is an amazing councillor. She has amazing friends. What an amazing person my Smile is!!

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  11. mrizvi12/10/17, 8:54 PM

    good post

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    1. Plunker12/10/17, 8:54 PM

      Come on! Give me a break. This is getting ridiculous. It makes my blood pressure go really high. I know, I know .....

      Good job mrizvi. You made my day. Thanks

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    2. Batman12/10/17, 8:55 PM

      Caaaaaaaaaaaaaallllllllllllmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm down Plunker. Just Calm down. Take it eaasssssssssssssssyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy. Yes we need to be kind

      Great work mrizvi. You guessed it right kiddo

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  12. Anonymous12/10/17, 9:00 PM

    Your online journal has been a source of immense ideas and discourses for us and our guests. Whenever we invite folks over or are invited, the topic invariably switches to your writings. Your sagacious thoughts have given us opportunity to dabble in multitude of conversations. The notions you put forward are very thoughtful and well researched, they are also of interests of commoners like us, and hence very well received.

    Thank you for making our days brighter
    Dave and Linda

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  13. Boris12/10/17, 9:03 PM

    If you read this blog, Smile will endow you with gifts which will have an impact beyond a few days. Looks at how simply she uses her folksy style to turn conventional wisdom upside down.

    "I Believe We Can Not Make Others Happy until
    We Ourselves are Not Happy This is Very Simple
    So First Be Happy To Get Along with People
    and Spread Happiness Around"

    Brilliant!

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  14. Smile12/10/17, 11:17 PM

    Hello Readers Family
    Thanks Linda Dave Boris Batman Keith Literature Fellow Retiree Group mrizvi Jimmy Plunker Brenda Tiara Kim Karen Superwoman N Kyle Newbie Craig Marg Jasmeet Kris Smile Addict Happy Reader and Mother in Law Cleo Thanks All My Anonymous and Multilingual Readers Thanks Everyone

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