Emotions and Our Loved Ones

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My Dear Retiree Friends
I Didn't Consult Anyone
Not Any Book

 This is Simple Common Sense
What I Believe

 I Just Jot Down My Thoughts
Write From My Heart
What I Believe 

By The Way " 911 " is Help Line
in North America

It is Tuesday Cloudy Foggy Day Windy with 4 Degrees
Gusts 51 km -- Rain Just Stopped I am Not Working Today
Still Have To Do Lot Of Work

 For Couple Of Days I was Planning To Reorganize
My Clothes -- So Taken My Suitcase and Trolley
Out Of Closet -- It was Like Opening Pandora Box

Everything On My Bed During Day Time and at
Night I Put All The Stuff On One Side Of Carpet
I Have Taken Everything Out Of My Closet Too

 You Can Imagine What is Going On in My Bedroom
Where on One Side is My Table with My Computer and on
The Other Side My Sewing Machine which I use Once a While

 My Room is Not My Bedroom -- It is Like My Apartment
Where I Spend Most Of My Time when I am Home
Anyway All The Stuff was On Carpet 

I Put Everything Back On My Bed -- Like a Ritual
I Do Every Morning with Full Intention That It will
Be Done Today 

I Never Push Myself For Anything which I Don't
Like To Do Right Away -- I Always Listen To My
Mind and My Body It Works Both Way --They Listen 
To Me Too

It is 11 am Still Dark I Have To Switch On Lights
I Think Best Time For My Walk Who Would Like
To Sort Clothes in Such Gloomy Atmosphere
Not Me --

  Enough is Enough I will Do It Today
After My Walk -- I also Have To Make My Calls

 It is Windy Gusts 53 km Rain On The Way But
I am All Dressed up in Layers with My Brick Red
Umbrella in Hand Walking on Whites Road 

 It is 11.30 -- I am at Tim Horton -- Students From
High School All Around -- It is Their Lunch Time
I am Glad I am Here and Not Sorting My Clothes
Enjoying This Buzzing Atmosphere 

Having Small Coffee with Two Parts Water and
One Toasted Slice Of Bread with Butter and Jam
Writing My Blog 

 Thinking about My Retiree Friends Who are Ready
To Call All Sort Of Experts To Solve Joint Family Matters
I Believe When We are Dealing with Humans Means
We are Dealing with Emotions -- It is Very Delicate

First We Have To Clear Our Mind Out Of Emotions
To Think Clearly Then We Can Put Ourselves in
Their Shoes To Understand Their Position This will
Be Helpful To Rectify The Matter

We Don't Have To Discuss Anything To Go Back
Through All The Events Which will Add up Our Pressure
This All will Flare up Our Emotions and will End up in
Damaging Our Relationship

 God Loves Those Who Forget and Forgive Others
I Believe That is The Best Option To Heal and
Not To Damage Relations With Our Loved Ones

Comments

  1. Anonymous12/6/17, 8:38 AM

    I have posted the blog in Smile Corner. The priest is giving out veggie omelette to anyone who says Morning Smile. Lots of customers here.

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  2. Anonymous12/6/17, 8:41 AM

    +1

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  3. Anonymous12/6/17, 8:46 AM

    I lost the race to post the blog in our corporate notice boards.

    Brenda

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    1. Anonymous12/6/17, 8:47 AM

      I was in early so was able to post the blog. There was a box of SDs there but no donut for poster today

      Marg

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    2. Anonymous12/6/17, 2:53 PM

      Sorry I no able get donut. I wait 45 min but the donut guy say no single donut. It make holesale. I sorry

      SA

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  4. Anonymous12/6/17, 8:48 AM

    My Smile is awesome! She is an awesome advisor! She is an awesome councillor. She is an awesome writer. She is an awesome friend to readers family. What an awesome person my Smile is!!

    Karen

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  5. Anonymous12/6/17, 8:49 AM

    This blog is my lifeline. I read it every day

    N

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  6. Anonymous12/6/17, 8:49 AM

    I have posted the blog in all notice boards in lobbies A, B, C and D

    Jimmy

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    1. Anonymous12/6/17, 2:54 PM

      SWS was a great. We decided to go on the nature route. As usual, we talked about today's blog

      Tiara

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    2. Anonymous12/6/17, 2:54 PM

      SWN was fun too. We also talked about the blog.

      Cleo

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  7. Anonymous12/6/17, 2:59 PM

    Dear Madam Smile, You so good. You write so good. Mr. Supervisor come and say how you. I say I very anger. He say why you anger? You problem at job? I say no I anger at Madam son because he make Madam use sewing machine to stich cloth for him and grandbabies. He say but she no say that it only in you mind. I say yes and also he no get her good umbrela she only use $3 umbrela from dolar store. I think he remember joke. I do 2 proud job and always read blog

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  8. Anonymous12/6/17, 4:24 PM

    Dear Advisor,

    The retirees were amazed to see that you did not require any help or any consultation in coming up with your analysis. The retired therapists, the retired mental health experts, the retired psychologists and their active counterparts could not believe it. The retired corporate executive asked us to read the blog twice to confirm that we are reading it correctly. The retirees immediately passed a resolution to thank you for your help. The retirees also set up a special committee to review the blogs to understand more of what you have written.

    The retirees also could not believe that you actually take time to sew and do house chores like clean-up of your wardrobe. We dont do it and usually have our kids come over to help us out.

    The retired professional athlete noted that you went for a walk when the wind gusts were of extremely high speed We are wondering how you can do it and is it safe. We are asking so we can determine if we can start our daily walks in the winter. We stopped it during the winter due to the cold climate

    thank you
    recent retiree

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  9. Anonymous12/6/17, 6:56 PM

    Dear Author,

    We read your blog at the SRC today. Though we are allowed to go to Smile Garden but we dont go there out of respect for the wishes of the Smile Army. The bookstore manager is starting to join us for the reading of the blog He brought a big cake today and gave it to the professors and the Dean. Though it was a big cake he did not give any piece to us. He mentioned that he is doing that because Professors represent knowledge and if you would have been here, you would have been sitting with them. We told him that you will be sitting with us but he disagreed.

    The students are working towards our final exam. The parents are still asking us to call regularly, in some cases at least once a week. The parents dont realize that we have no time. They only want to talk to us about our results and if we share with them that we are having fun they come down hard on us. They dont realize that we need to enjoy too. They also dont believe when we tell them that we are studying. We are not sure what to do and why they call

    thank you
    Literature Fellow

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  10. Anonymous12/6/17, 7:00 PM

    This blog was very helpful to us. We read it during our cabinet meeting and we realized that we need to review all facets of information before making the final decision. We will align our productivity measures because of this

    thank you
    Keith Walker

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  11. Anonymous12/6/17, 7:12 PM

    Father say you forget yell father today. Father say he joke. Please no mind. Father say father yell Kris lot because Kris no make father apartment. Father say he now clear one room so father make 2 room apartment. Father say he want thank because you give good idea. Father say why you no yell you Kris and tell him he fix cloth. Father say he no say father old almost 67

    (Hannah say you please take eassiie. Hannah say you very independent and do all work you. Hannah say you please no go walk when so cold and so air. Niklas say grandpapa come watch futbal game but Niklas no score gol. Niklas say he can score but he kick ball out net so there no celebrate. Niklas say coach yell him. Grandpapa yell him. All yell him. Me clean father room but he anger because he say he want 2 room. Me think me will give father Niklas room to but me no tell Niklas because he will sad but me need tel him. Me confuse. Me no no what do)

    Kris (Germany)

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  12. Superwoman12/6/17, 7:14 PM

    My Smile is amazing. She is an amazing positive person. She is an amazing writer. She is an amazing counsellor. She has an amazing family. What an amazing person my Smile is

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  13. Plunker12/6/17, 8:10 PM

    What the hell! I dont care. I thought I will write like a kid today as it may make a difference. I know, I know ....

    Good job mrizvi. Thanks for writing your comment

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  14. Batman12/6/17, 8:10 PM

    Caaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaallllllllllllllllllmmmmmmmmmmm down Plunker. Just take it easy

    Cool comment mrizvi. You write good kiddo

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  15. Boris12/6/17, 8:14 PM

    In a few words Smile has solved a huge problem of joint family living. It is actually true for all relationships. Dont believe me? Have a look:

    "First We Have To Clear Our Mind Out Of Emotions
    To Think Clearly Then We Can Put Ourselves in
    Their Shoes To Understand Their Position This will
    Be Helpful To Rectify The Matter

    We Don't Have To Discuss Anything To Go Back
    Through All The Events Which will Add up Our Pressure
    This All will Flare up Our Emotions and will End up in
    Damaging Our Relationship

    God Loves Those Who Forget and Forgive Others
    I Believe That is The Best Option To Heal and
    Not To Damage Relations With Our Loved Ones"

    Brilliant!!

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  16. Anonymous12/6/17, 8:44 PM

    I have been reading your blogs and this is my first comment. It is your blogs from today and yesterday that made me write. Your ideas about joint family living are very progressive and very bold. The challenge however is to actually practice them as ego and communication come into play. I am wondering if you can write more about this aspect in the future. I am asking you as you obviously are an expert in this field

    thank you
    Oliver

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  17. Smile12/6/17, 11:12 PM

    Hello Readers Family
    Thanks Oliver Boris Linda Dave Batman Keith Literature Fellow Retiree Group Jimmy Brenda Cleo Karen Superwoman Kim Tiara Craig mrizvi N Kyle Newbie Plunker Kris Smile Addict Jasmeet Marg Happy Reader and Mother in Law Thanks All My Anonymous and Multilingual Readers Thanks Everyone

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