Not a Second Fiddle

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I Am Not Happy That
Councillor Not Helping You Out
He Has To Find Ways

 No Matter Whoever Dealing
The Case
We All are Human
All are Creatures Of Same God

 Our Creator Never Be Happy 
To See That His Creature is
In Distress and Punished

 On The Very Special Day
That's Christmas Day
Which Relates To His Very
Special Messenger

Kris My Friend
Please Don't Yell at Niklas
8.30 am Not Late

 My Grand Kids Wake
At 1 pm Some 2 pm
They Play Video Game Late Night
Like 2 To 3 Morning 

 This is Their Age
Just Relax and Please
Don't Let Father Interfere
With Niklas Matters

 Father Complicates The Situation
Not A Big Deal You Just Cool Down
Main Thing is That Niklas 
Stay Home and Do What He Wants
You Know It is Amazing That North Pole is Warmer
Than Here in Canada Now We Can Go Either To Florida
OR To North Pole To Skip Our Winter

 I Had My Hip Fractured 20 Years Back
So 3 Nails are Embedded  On My Left Side
in This Weather You can Imagine What is
Going On inside My Body --Anyway Let's
Come To The Point


 While Living with Family We Have To
Pitch in -- We Did in Our Days Whatever
We Liked To Do Now Have To Give
Our Kids Time To Enjoy Their Life

Please Don't Start Feeling Low That Our Days
Are Done I am Not Saying That Not At All
But We Have To Stop Ourselves From Behaving
Like a Parasite To Our kids

It is Not Good For Our Own Self and Happiness
We Start Feeling Like Second Fiddle -- Developing
" Self Pity " and Complexes Deep Down in
Our Heart 

 Out Of All Such Complexes Father Always used To Say
That I am Head Of Family Not Kris as We Start Feeling
Shaky So We Make Such Declarations
To Deceive Ourselves

Deep Down We Know This is Sort Of Fool's Paradise
But If We Feel Strong Not Physically But Mentally
Who Cares For Such Things -- This is Not Any Paid
Position or Any Competition 

 Inner Peace and Happiness is Everything My Dear
Which We Can Not Get By Yelling and Raising
Our Voice My Friend 

Just Try To Be Yourself -- Accept Yourself with All
Negatives and Positives --We All Have Our Weaknesses
We Make Mistakes To Err is Human

Everyone Has His Own Unique Personality
We All Do Different Things To Enjoy Our Life
Nothing Wrong with That

Just Get Busy Find Your Own Hobbies That's it
That is Enjoyment and Happiness Inside

Comments

  1. Anonymous12/30/17, 10:12 AM

    I have posted the blog in Smile Corner. This is market day but customers are coming to my shop in waves. They come here to read the blog first before going to the market. They also heard about the court order and there is a depressive mood all around. The priest also spoke about this. He asked the councillor to do something but the councillor said that its not his decision. He laughed and said that its not like Iran, Iraq, Pakistan, Russia etc where politicians can jump in and influence the courts. One customer is a lawyer and reviewed the court order and said that someone must have complained but it is a difficult situation. Some customers started getting upset when they heard that and raised slogans against the councillor. He again said that there is not much he can do but he can forward the letter signed by all to the courts. It is a difficult situation

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  2. Anonymous12/30/17, 10:12 AM

    +1

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  3. Anonymous12/30/17, 10:13 AM

    My Smile is awesome! She is an awesome advisor! She is an awesome councillor. She is an awesome author. She has awesome family. What an awesome person my Smile is!!

    Karen

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  4. Anonymous12/30/17, 10:13 AM

    I read blog in France.

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    1. Anonymous12/30/17, 10:14 AM

      You blog good. Me English no good. Russian good

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    2. Anonymous12/30/17, 10:14 AM

      This good. I no Anglais but Spanish good

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    3. Anonymous12/30/17, 10:14 AM

      Good blog. Italian faan

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    4. Anonymous12/30/17, 10:15 AM

      I like blog China

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  5. Anonymous12/30/17, 10:16 AM

    I read this blog every day.It is my lifeline but you dont write for me.

    N

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  6. Anonymous12/30/17, 10:18 AM

    I wish its my mother in law who goes out in -30C and stay there. She is already cold hearted anyways

    Happy Reader

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  7. Anonymous12/30/17, 8:10 PM

    Dear Madam Smile, you so good. You write good to. Job worker 2 come and say how you. I say I busy. She say yes but did you think why you Madam no write for you. I say I thought that because I no problem but you right that she write for some other people who no problem but she no write for me . She say good. That what I want to tell you. Also why you say you do 2 proud job. You no proud job right but ok job. I say yes you right. Se then go. I do 2 ok job and always read blog

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  8. Anonymous12/30/17, 8:17 PM

    Dear Advisor,

    The retirees read your blog with utmost focus and concentration as it involved a very complicated message. Some retirees were starting to feel that we are not useful but as we read it a few more times , we realized that you are actually saying that there is value in what we do. The retired intellectuals pointed out that your message is saying that we need to take a back seat. Can you please clarify this more? As we are not sure

    thank you
    recent retiree

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  9. Anonymous12/30/17, 8:36 PM

    Dear Author,

    We read your blog at the Smile Garden and this kick started our celebrations for today. One of the senior professors mentioned that it is not safe for you to be going out and about in this cold weather because of the 3 nails. She is a doctor of medicine and an expert in orthopedic medication She said in normal circumstances, those patients who went through a similar procedure will not even think of going outside even in +30C weather, let alone -30C weather..

    The senior professors overheard the Smile Army talking about the clean up that they have to do after everyone leaves. The professors insisted that they will take over the clean-up of the Smile Garden. The Smile Army as well as all other students disagreed because these are very senior professors but they said the professors said that this is our honour and privilege. There was a lot of debate but Prof George and Dean asked the students to let the professors do the clean-up. Both of them said that they will also be joining in the clean-up however the Smile Army refused to let the Dean do any cleaning as he and us are considered your representatives

    The students who have gone home are complaining about the bullying attitude of their parents. They said that the parents want us to talk all the time but there is nothing to talk about. We rather talk to our friends but they dont understand. Also, they insist that we meed our uncles, and aunts but we prefer that we spend time with our friends. They think that we are doing something wrong but we are not getting in any trouble but just talking and playing. Can you please help

    thanks
    Literature Fellow

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  10. Superwoman12/30/17, 8:38 PM

    My Smile is amazing. She is an amazing guider. She is an amazing advisor. She is an amazing counsellor. She has an amazing family. What an amazing my Smile is!

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  11. Anonymous12/30/17, 8:41 PM

    We had company today and as is typical, we entertained our guests by a few excerpts of your piquant writing. As we were expecting, they were engrossed by the mesmerizing scenery that you present. Our esteemed guests were further astounded when we shared the prudent prescriptions that you have been so generously dishing out to Kris clan and the retired ladies and gentlemen as well as the young scholars. Suffice to say that as the evening progressed, they realized that we have not gone batty in praising your unearthly aptitude, generosity and transcendence

    As we bid them a pleasant evening, we have a feeling that there may have been an addition to your extensive and growing network of fans

    Thank you for making our days brighter
    Dave and Linda

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  12. Anonymous12/30/17, 9:27 PM

    Father say you yell father lot today. Father say he angle but he yes mind. Father say when father Niklas he no play video. When Kris Niklas he no play video. Father say that why Niklas no alow play video. Father say father wake before son and Hannah wake before son and Kris wake before son so Niklas need wake before son so all can have brakfast. Hannah no family so no alow eat brakfast with family. Father say he no bad that why he say take phone and then take PS4 and then put animal in Niklas room. Father say you need try same trik with you Niklas. Father say you no need thank father because he angle and no care. Father say he say Father old almost 67

    (Hannah say you Kris good and handle you family care and inteligent. Hannah say all teanager slep so you rite that it no bad. Hannah say you please no go out when it so cool. Niklas say grandpapa ban him tele room. Niklas say he go out al day and get bier and smoke. Niklas say he no care. Me yel Niklas that bier and only smoke alow but he no listen. Father yell him because father say that Niklas no listen. Me tel Niklas that he can sleep late like till 10 but father anger and say cut phone. You say no cut phone. Me confuse. Me no no what do)

    Kris (Germany)

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  13. Plunker12/30/17, 9:28 PM

    Oh Come ON! What is this ! Just give me a break - will yeah! I know .. I know ....

    Thank you mrizvi. Brilliant comment - again

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  14. Batman12/30/17, 9:29 PM

    Caaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaalllllllllllmmmmmmmmmmm down Plunker, just calm down.

    Fantatic job kiddo. You are bang on. How did you know that this is a good blog! You are right though

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  15. Boris12/30/17, 9:37 PM

    Is Smile brilliant or what! Look at how crisp and succinctly she summarizes her points. These are pretty deep thoughts and even for a skilled author would have required reams and reams of paper but not for Smile. She can make her point with minimal words. OF course she has the gift of her folksy language

    "Just Try To Be Yourself -- Accept Yourself with All
    Negatives and Positives --We All Have Our Weaknesses
    We Make Mistakes To Err is Human

    Everyone Has His Own Unique Personality
    We All Do Different Things To Enjoy Our Life
    Nothing Wrong with That

    Just Get Busy Find Your Own Hobbies That's it
    That is Enjoyment and Happiness Inside"

    Brilliant

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  16. Smile12/30/17, 11:08 PM

    Hello Readers Family
    Thanks Boris Linda Dave Batman Keith Literature Fellow Retiree Group mrizvi Plunker Karen Superwoman Jimmy Brenda Cleo Smile Addict Tiara Kim Craig Marg Jasmeet N Kyle Newbie Kris Tim Steve Oliver Mikey Happy Reader and Mother in Law Thanks All My Anonymous and Multilingual Readers Thanks Everyone

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