" Why Me ?? Syndrome "

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Happy Reader My Friend
I Am Not Happy
One Of You Write Comment

 The Very
Next Day The Other One 
Ready To Take a Shot

 I Mentioned Many Times 
This is Not The
Road To Happiness

 Two Of You 
Ruining Peace and Happiness
Of The Entire Family

 Please Work Together 
For The Sake Of Your Family
Also For Your Own Happiness

Problem Lies with Both Of You
Solution Lies with 
Both Of You
Trust Me



It is Friday Very Cold Weather with 17 Below Zero
Still Bright and Sunny Morning I am
Working Full Time Today 

It is 9.30 I am in My Office Cubicle Writing My Blog
Will Go To The Next Room after a while
Where Start Playing Darts at 10 am

 Thinking about My You My Dear Friend N
You Started Feeling Low Again
When We Feel Low We Start Complaining
Nothing Looks Good Around us

We Start Going Through The " Self Pity Syndrome "
We Think All Negative and Believe That
We are Lonely and No One Cares about Me

I Don't Have Anything To Feel Happy about
This is " Why Me Syndrome " which Goes
On and On 

 It Starts Like a Long List which Goes On Compiling
Adding All Why This and Why That Stuff
To Make us Feeling Low and Ends up in Depression

 We Have To Keep Ourselves Busy To Distract
Ourselves From Negative Thoughts -- That is
The Best Option To Make Yourself Happy

Specially in Winter Time When We Feel That
We are Stuck and Can Not Move around

Comments

  1. Anonymous12/17/17, 7:57 AM

    I have posted the blog in Smile Corner. This being Sunday, there are out of town visitors too. All welcome them. The priest likes them because they increase size of his congregation. Shopkeepers like them because they shop here. Locals like them because they are our guests. One of the customer is continuing to sell burritos. Others are saying that he is cashing in Smile's recipe because people are just paying 5 euros for Smile's recipes. I was thinking o calling the police but priest said that I should wait for your comment

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  2. Anonymous12/17/17, 7:57 AM

    +1

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  3. Anonymous12/17/17, 7:57 AM

    My Smile is awesome!! She is an awesome writer. She has awesome energy. She has awesome family. She is an awesome counsellor. What an awesome person my Smile is!!

    Karen

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  4. Anonymous12/17/17, 7:58 AM

    You wrote your blog for me. Thank you. I read this blog every day. It is my lifeline

    N

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  5. Anonymous12/17/17, 8:00 AM

    I read blog in France.

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    1. Anonymous12/17/17, 8:00 AM

      You blog good. Me English no good. Russian good

      Delete
    2. Anonymous12/17/17, 8:00 AM

      This good. I no Anglais but Spanish good

      Delete
    3. Anonymous12/17/17, 8:01 AM

      Good blog. You Italian fan

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    4. Anonymous12/17/17, 8:01 AM

      I like blog China

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    5. Anonymous12/17/17, 10:20 PM

      I like blog Poland.It give idea Canada

      Delete
  6. Anonymous12/17/17, 12:42 PM

    Dear Madam Smile, you so good. You write good to. Job worker in job 2 come me and say how you. I say I very anger because Madam son no take her to Tim Horton and she need walk in -20C. It very cool and retiree and professar no able go. She say but that 2 day ago what she write today. I say she write for Dear N. She say she no write for you. I say no because I no problem. She say but you go prey all time. I say I need go. I do 2 proud job and always read blog

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  7. Anonymous12/17/17, 12:45 PM

    Dear Advisor,

    The retirees appreciate your blog today. Though the advice you gave was for Ms. N however the retirees appreciate that advice because it is applicable to us also. The retirees also again reprimanded the retired corporate executive for her misdemeanors. She again appologized

    The retirees are wondering if you can please write something about joint family living and specially about guests coming to visit for a few days. Since this is Christmas times, several retirees are facing this challenge and they are having difficulties to cope with it

    thank you
    recent retiree

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  8. Anonymous12/17/17, 12:49 PM

    Dear Author,

    We read your blog today at the SRC since we are not going to the Smile Garden. The students are in immense psychological pressure because their parents are insisting that we call weekly even though we are going through our exams. Some of the students have called their parents while they are coming back from their class rooms. The parents dont understand and are threatening to cut our phones. We have to study too. We dont know what to do. Some students were saying that your grandson is the luckiest guy because you take care of these things for him but many of us are not that lucky. We know you have to solve too many issues, so we will understand if you are not able to write about this

    thank you
    Literature Fellow

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  9. Anonymous12/17/17, 8:54 PM

    I was hoping to not say anything because you dont like me to tell you what is real but the fact is that my daughter in law will be a champion. She will be a champion in sleeping late and being rude and a close second in bad cooking

    Mother in law of the Happy Reader

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  10. Anonymous12/17/17, 9:09 PM

    Father say you forget yell father today. Father say he joke please no mind. Father say he spy and find that Niklas go futbol again. Father say father go game and yell Niklas because he forget say thank father. Father say he need thank father because Niklas back play futbol because father friend with coach and all futbol kid so they allow Niklas back becasue father. Father say father yell nabor because nabor cat eat father rabit. Father say he tell nabor that if nabor no able control cat then father will call police. Nabor say if father call police then that good because police wil no that it no rabit. Father say nabor you shut. Father say he no say father old almost 67

    (Hannah say father litle upset today. Hannah say she wake 50 min before son but father no hapy because Hannah only cut 5 froot but no cut 6 froot. Father want 6 froot because he see ad in tele that froot good. Hannah say it good because father eat health. Hannah say you please take eazziee. Niklas say grandpapa come game and yell Niklas front futbol kid and call Niklas baby. All futbol kid laff. Niklas noo want go again. Me yell Niklas because he say he no want play futbol. Niklas say Niklas shame but me no care because me pay. Me say him you need go talk coach again. He cry. Me confuse. Me no no what do)

    Kris (Germany)

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  11. Superwoman12/17/17, 9:10 PM

    My Smile is amazing. She is an amazing psychologist. She is an amazing writer. She is an amazing advisor. She has an amazing family. What an amazing person my Smile is

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  12. Boris12/17/17, 9:12 PM

    Is Smile brilliant or what. She has summarized the formula of happiness so simply in 4 lines. Dont believe me? Have a look:

    "We Have To Keep Ourselves Busy To Distract
    Ourselves From Negative Thoughts -- That is
    The Best Option To Make Yourself Happy"

    Brilliant

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  13. Plunker12/17/17, 10:33 PM

    Stop! Please stop this insanity. It is driving me craaazzzzy!

    What a brilliant comment. Thank you so much mrizvi

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  14. Batman12/17/17, 10:34 PM

    Just caaaallmm down, Plunker. R-eeeee-llll-aaaax! Remember Smile's instructions to be nice and kind

    Good job mrizvi. What a nice comment today. Thank you for letting us know that this is a good blog

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  15. Smile12/17/17, 11:14 PM

    Hello Readers Family
    Thanks Boris Linda Dave Batman Keith Literature Fellow Retiree Group mrizvi Plunker Karen Superwoman Jimmy Brenda Cleo Smile Addict Tiara Kim Craig Marg Jasmeet N Kyle Newbie Kris Oliver Mikey Happy Reader and Mother in Law Thanks All My Anonymous and Multilingual Readers Thanks Everyone

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