Nothing Total Plus

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It is Muddy Hazy Sky Visibility Very Low
Specially at 7 in The Morning -- Rain on
The Way 9 Degrees For a Change
It is Like Summer For We Canadians 

 I am Wearing Black Jacket -- My Son Gave Me
Couple of Years Back He Got as an Incentive
From His Work -- It is Like a Souvenir For Me

 I am in The Library -- Working Part Time Today
Thinking about My Retiree Friends -- 

It is December End Of Year also Winter
Days are Shorter and Long Nights

Years Back I was in Ottawa Visiting Doctor's Office
On The Wall There was List Of Some Useful Points
Sort Of Information To Share

 It was Mentioned Due To Lack Of Enough Sunlight
We Suffer From Insomnia -- I Believe That is True
In Winter Time Everyone Starts Feeling Low and Not
Having Good Night sleep -- We Have To Take These 
Things as Normal

I Believe Family is a Unit -- We Can Not Take Out
Anyone Of It's Member -- Like Daughter / Son in Law
We are Humans -- Not Robots So Things Can Not Be
Fixed By Calling 911 -- I Mean Extra Help Of Experts

 Experts Can Not Solve Family Matters -- This is All
Give and Take -- I Believe Problem Lies within You
Also Solution Lies within You

It Doesn't Mean That You are Causing Problems --
Not at All -- I Want To Say We Can Not Change Anyone Else
But We Can Change Ourselves

 Fear Of Fear is Greater Fear -- We Have To Take
Ourselves Out Of  "Joint Family Living Phobia "
We Love Our Kids Son / Daughter -- So We Have 
To Accommodate 

 Try To Take Things Not Like an Issue But Try
To Understand The Situation There is Nothing Total Plus
We Have To Take Things as a Package 
This is What I Believe My Dear Friends

Comments

  1. Anonymous12/5/17, 9:06 AM

    I have posted the blog in Smile Corner

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  2. Anonymous12/5/17, 9:07 AM

    +1

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  3. Anonymous12/5/17, 9:07 AM

    I lost the race to post the blog on our corporate notice boards. It was already posted when I went there

    Brenda

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    1. Anonymous12/5/17, 9:09 AM

      I was in early so was able to post the blog. There was a box of SDs there but no donut for poster today

      Jasmeet

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  4. Anonymous12/5/17, 9:09 AM

    My Smile is so awesome !! She is am awesome writer! She is an awesome advisor! She is an awesome grandmother! She has an awesome family! What an awesome person my Smile is!!

    Karen

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  5. Anonymous12/5/17, 9:10 AM

    Thank you for being my lifeline. I wait for your blogs every day.

    N

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  6. Anonymous12/5/17, 9:11 AM

    I have posted the blog in all notice boards in lobbies A, B, C and D

    Jimmy

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    1. Anonymous12/5/17, 6:49 PM

      SWS was great. We decided to go on the nature route. As usual, we talked about today's blog however there was a lot of buzz about yesterday's blog too

      Tiara

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    2. Anonymous12/5/17, 6:50 PM

      SWN was fun too. The participants were from all lobbies.

      Cleo

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    3. Anonymous12/5/17, 6:51 PM

      I was planning to work from home today as I needed to work on the schedule for the workshops however I came in as I didn't want to miss the Smile Walk and most importantly today's blog. It is fantastic

      Kim

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  7. Anonymous12/5/17, 7:02 PM

    Dear Madam Smile, you so good. You write good to. Mr. Supervisor come and say how you. I say I anger. He say why you anger did you problem at work? I say no I anger because my Madam. He say but she fine and write so good blog. I say yes she write very good but I anger at her only son. He say what you mean. I say him that he only give her one jacket from work and no bye it. Also he give her one jacket 2 year ago. My Madam get him money all time and give food to grandbabies all time. I think he remember joke and go. I do 2 proud job and always read blog

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  8. Anonymous12/5/17, 7:11 PM

    Dear Author,

    The students read your blog at the SRC. The Smile Army has allowed us to go to the Smile Garden but we dont go there to respect their wishes. There continues to be a lot of activity there. Prof George commented that there are so many different types of characters there eg great friends, students, Smile Army, police officers, senior professors, bookstore manager etc. He was saying that it is strange that so many different types of people are involved in this event

    Prof George also was chatting with other professors, they use your blog to learn literature, learn tone, and composition.

    thank you
    Literature Fellow

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  9. Anonymous12/5/17, 7:29 PM

    Dear Advisor,

    The retirees cant believe our eyes as we read your blog. We appreciate it a lot. The retired therapists, the retired mental health professionals, the retired psychologists and the active health professionals could not believe that you put together this blog. The retired corporate executive mentioned that you probably spent many hours and consulted a lot of people to put together the blog. The rest of the subcommittee agreed. We wanted to thank you for your help and your intent. The retired corporate executive asked the joint family committee if your blog has addressed all our qs. The retirees mentioned that you have definitely helped us and this will help them sleep better. The retired corporate executive asked the retirees if you have answered ALL the qs and the retirees mentioned that they will need to think through it as they dont know the answer to the qs. The retired corporate executive then asked us to pass a resolution to continue to keep the contacts with the active professionals open as their services may still be needed. The retirees also forced a clause in the resolution to thank you profusely for all the work that you have done and the many hours that you have spent and the many contacts you probably have reached out to. Some of the retirees mentioned that perhaps you came up with this on your own but the retired corporate executive said that this is highly unlikely as it is a very specialized issue

    In the end we read your blog again. Some retirees have printed copies and are planning to use it for reference

    thank you
    recent retiree

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  10. Anonymous12/5/17, 7:30 PM

    Yet another new blog. How does Smile do it?

    cool Kyle

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    1. Anonymous12/5/17, 7:32 PM

      Of course there will be a new blog. Smile is very creative and always shares new ideas. Her blogs are always fresh

      newbie

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  11. Anonymous12/5/17, 7:58 PM

    Father say you no yell father today. Father say you probably take break. Father say he joke please no mind. Father say father gooder because father no eat. Father say why you say 911, if you problem then you need 112. Father say he give tip, but you no need thank as father angle. Father say father yell Hannah lot because she gooder but no make all brakfast. Father say father make brakfast. Father say father yell Kris because he no yel Hannah and make father do all work. Father say father yel Niklas because he go futbal and run when father com to hug. Father say father yel nabor because he no come ask father health. Father say he no say he old almost 67

    (Hannah say you rite very good idea. Hannah say you rite that Hannah need solve problem and Hannah no solve problem if Hannah call 112. Hannah say Hannah wake late like only 30 min before son and make brakfast quick. Hannah say father no like because father no like micro. Hannah say Hannah need use micro because no time. Hannah say when Hannah grow old she will crank so it ok. Hannah say no all people like you. Niklas score goal today and all player hug Niklas . Niklas say grandpapa also run on feeld but no one alow run on field to hug only futbal kid alow. Niklas say he chance sore more gol but he no score because Niklas skare that grandpapa will run on feeld again. Niklas say coach anger bcause he say Niklas need score more and make teem win. Niklas tell grandpapa no com feeld it no alow but he yel Niklas lot. Me wake morning bcause father thro oatmeal bcause Hannah make oatmeal in micro. Father yell Kris that Kris no yel Hannah but me no yel bcause Hannah no good and sick and need eat medisun. Me tell father that Hannah need sleep and no wake so earleee but father yell me lot and say he make own brakfast but he no make he only put cut fruit in oatmael. Me confuse. Me no no what do)

    Kris (Germany)

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  12. Superwoman12/5/17, 9:52 PM

    My Smile is amazing. She has an amazing family. She is an amazing writer. She is an amazing counsellor to retirees and all the readers. What an amazing person my Smile !!

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  13. Plunker12/5/17, 9:54 PM

    Smile put together an amazing blog. She talks about how to live harmoniously with family. And what does she get ? Did someone even had courtesy to read? I know I know. ... Smile is so generous that she wants us to be kind to all

    Thank you mrizvi. Good guess buddy

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  14. Batman12/5/17, 9:55 PM

    caaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaallllllllllllllllllllllmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm down Plunker. Reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeellllllllllllaaaaaaaaaaxxxxxxxxxx. You are right about what you said but keep in mind that kids are kids. They dont take things seriously

    Good job mrizvi. How is school kiddo

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  15. Boris12/5/17, 9:58 PM

    This blog can be a source for many PhD thesis. Dont believe me? Well have a look

    For family therapists:
    "I Believe Family is a Unit -- We Can Not Take Out
    Anyone Of It's Member -- Like Daughter / Son in Law
    We are Humans -- Not Robot So Things Can Not Be
    Fixed By Calling 911 -- I Mean Extra Help Of Experts"

    For psychologists:
    "Fear Of Fear is Greater Fear -- We Have To Take
    Ourselves Out Of "Joint Family Living Phobia "

    I can go on and on but then I will post the entire blog here So read again for yourself. Enjoy and learn at the same time

    Brilliant!!

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  16. Smile12/5/17, 11:39 PM

    Hello Readers Family
    Thanks Boris Batman Linda Dave Keith Literature Fellow Retiree Group mrizvi
    Cleo Jimmy Brenda Plunker Tiara N Kyle Newbie Kim Kris Smile Addict Jasmeet Karen Superwoman Happy Reader and Mother in Law Craig Marg Thanks All My Anonymous and Multilingual Readers Thanks Everyone

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