Home or Hostel ?

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Dear Literature Fellow 
It is never Late for 
Wishes and Greetings 
Thanks 

To My Dear Kris
and All Parents


Kids playing on computer
all the times after school
this is the common complain  
from most of the Parents

Please be realistic what are we
doing after office hours and in
between going to bed

All the time on computers just
taking some time off for Dinner

We have to realize that it is an
Internet Era my Dear when we
click on our computers everything
so mesmerizing

We can not keep ourselves away
from computer even at our age
we are hooked up

So don't blame them blaming and
yelling will not be a solution

 We have to leave our computers to
spend time with our Kids not once
a while it has to be a daily routine

They will be playing games on computers
not a big deal just cut down the hours
involve in other things

We have to evaluate as everything is not
total Plus it is natural it will have some
negative same is playing on computer

If we will start yelling and make their Life
miserable at home where will they go
to Friends

We don't know them I mean the company
they will be with or where will they be
hanging around

High schools are the place where they are
undergoing with lots of emotional and
physical changes

They think they are now mature and are not
Kids anymore they have not a clear picture
of so many things as everything is in 
process

We have to realize all this and put ourselves
in their shoes to understand the situation
also what they are going through

Don't put pressure share their pressure
be a friend to them and spend time
to involve them in other activities

 Don't just give dictation like find some
activity for yourself they are looking
for everything to you

They need your direction your support
so please give direction not dictation
don't let them go anywhere

They have to stay home with you
after their school and enjoy their time
it has to be their sweet home and
not like a hostel

Make their Life easy give Love
and affection they will focus on studies
and never let you down

Comments

  1. Anonymous2/17/17, 9:00 AM

    I have posted the blog in Smile Corner. Today being Friday, there are a lot of people who are coming. Most people come to read the blog before going home or to the pub. It is a festive atmosphere. The priest is also here. Some customers are saying hello to him and secretly smiling.

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  2. Anonymous2/17/17, 9:01 AM

    +1

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  3. Anonymous2/17/17, 9:01 AM

    I won the race to post the blog in our corporate noticeboards today.

    Brenda

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    1. Anonymous2/17/17, 9:02 AM

      This is great. Did you also get the fresh SDs?

      Marg

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    2. Anonymous2/17/17, 9:03 AM

      Yes. The SDs were already there. Plus one additional donut for the poster

      Brenda

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  4. Anonymous2/17/17, 9:03 AM

    My Smile is awesome! She is an awesome advisor! She is an awesome councillor. She is an awesome writer. She has awesome family. What an awesome person my Smile is!!

    Karen

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  5. Anonymous2/17/17, 9:04 AM

    I have posted the blog in all notice boards in lobbies A, B, C and D

    Jimmy

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    1. Anonymous2/17/17, 10:59 AM

      SWN was very Friday like today. Some people were looking forward to weekend but most were not feeling good because they are hooked on blogs.

      Tiara

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    2. Anonymous2/17/17, 11:01 AM

      SWS had a similar mood. Specially these series of blogs about parenting is of a lot of interest. Participants from lobby B discussing about Smile's blog from earlier about writing. The management is really making a push for them to adopt that style when writing reports

      Cleo

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    3. Anonymous2/17/17, 11:04 AM

      The toastmaster meeting was house full, as always. There was someone who came from Maternity leave and was surprised to see that many people. She mentioned that before she went on leave, these meetings used to either get cancelled or have a very few people. Someone responded that yes but that was before Smile's blogs :-)

      Kim

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  6. Anonymous2/17/17, 10:47 AM

    Dear Madam Smile,
    You so nice. You give advice to all reader family about what do child and career. Mr. Supervisor came say hello and ask if I feel better. I think he want talk blog so I say him that I no talk you blog because my Madam tell no tell. He say good you Madam smart. I say yes she big shot. She go government conference. She big scientist. She big writer. Lot people do lot research on blog. She help Dear Kris Father and Dear Retirees and Dear Literature Fellow and Dear Happy Reader and all Dear Readers. I think he still headache so I say I no tell you blog but if read yesterday blog she write about making mind strong. He say he forgot one important phone. I say ok. I do 2 job and always read blog

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  7. Anonymous2/17/17, 10:47 AM

    Dear Advisor,

    The retirees went go for our long walk today. The retirees went for our walk today. As is usual, the retirees were very tired as the walk is very long, it takes us under 10 mins, including breaks. Afterwards we got our lollipop.

    The subcommittee on parenting were extremely pleased with the information you provided. The additional resources that they have added are busy as you have provided a huge amount of material. Some of the people that they have included are seasoned researchers and they are going to use the information to update their internal presentations. These presentations are usually provided to parents of school going kids so your advice is going much further beyond the realms of retirees.

    The subcommittee on nutrition and healthy living asked me to thank you again for the advice you provided yesterday. They are still sifting through the data. The retired data scientist is helping out. This is the same person who we reinstated after you confirmed that you dont have problems with his involvement.

    thank you
    recent retiree

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  8. Anonymous2/17/17, 10:56 AM

    Father say he no agree new idea about taking care child. He say scientist say something and then they change mind. He say old idea about child good. He say that old idea is that father yell child and take child thing if he no listen. He say Niklas go skool and no understand what good him. Father say Niklas bad no listen and all time play competer. That why father tell Kris (me) to yell him and take tablet him if he no listen. Father say he old almost 67

    (Hannah say you right and no need make difficult child. He say all kid like play. Niklas take you blog and show friends. Me no you no want me yell but he play lot. He no listen. No do vacum. No take rubbish out. He just sit sofa and play. He say he mark good but me say him yes me know but you can get better. Me no no what do)

    Kris (Germany)

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  9. Superwoman2/17/17, 11:05 AM

    My Smile is amazing! She is an amazing child therapist. She is an amazing advisor. She is an amazing councillor. She has an amazing family. What an amazing person my Smile is!!

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  10. Anonymous2/17/17, 1:57 PM

    You continue to wow us with your versatility. Based on the depth and breadth of the topics, we are not astounded by the need for the retired ladies and gentlemen to establish various subcommittees. Prior to leading your online journals, we thought that we were somewhat literate however these dissertation put us in our place. The inordinate amount of time that we spend researching the topics that you write so fluently about tells us that we have a lot to learn. Please dont misunderstand us, we are not complaining and critiquing your work, we are merely pointing out our shortcomings.

    Aside from the potency of the material that you share, I think it will be dishonest of us not to highlight the fluency of your writings. As one of the gentlemen pointed out, you have a way with words. You can take a very complex topic and present it in such simple form, that even a layman like us can grasp its meaning. We submit your recent blogs on parenting and listening as artifacts to support this submission.

    All in all, we appreciate you writing for us regularly and not complaining when we dullards a little slow to keep pace

    thank you for making our day so much brighter

    Dave and Linda

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    1. Anonymous2/17/17, 2:43 PM

      Dear Dave and Dear Linda,

      It good you admit that Madam blog complicate. I tell Mr. Supervisor that. I tell him that we all reader family so if you no understand something, let me know and I explain. It good that you read blog, Dear mrizvi no read. I do 2 proud job and always read blog

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  11. Anonymous2/17/17, 2:36 PM

    Dear Author,

    Though it is not our place to comment on your today's blog, as young adults we should point out that this yelling and screaming is a major factor in the lack of communication that parents complain about. Many of us have lived through this at home not too long ago. Even now, when we go home, parents yell at us for what we think are minor things. Some of us have forwarded copies of your blog to our parents in the hope that they will learn from an accomplished authority on the subject and give us a break.

    Thanks
    Literature Fellow

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  12. Anonymous2/17/17, 2:40 PM

    As is the norm for my business meetings, we used this blog as an icebreaker. Also, as is the norm for all the meetings where we have done that, the meeting was a big success. There were lots of people in the meeting who are parents and they admitted to using this ancient, 17th century technique of yelling and screaming. We also realized that we do the same to each other in the meetings too. Once they realized it, it was very easy for us to fix our mistakes. The result a very successful outcome for our meeting.

    Thank you Smile.

    PS: Wish you can share some of these techniques with Mr. Trump also

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  13. mrizvi2/17/17, 8:35 PM

    good post

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    1. Plunker2/17/17, 8:40 PM

      Come on! Give me a break. This is getting ridiculous. It makes my blood pressure go really high. I know, I know .....

      Good job mrizvi. You made my day. Thanks

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    2. Batman2/17/17, 8:41 PM

      Caaaaaaaaaaaaaallllllllllllmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm down Plunker. Just Calm down. Take it eaasssssssssssssssyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy. Yes we need to be kind

      Great work mrizvi. You guessed it right kiddo

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  14. Boris2/17/17, 8:43 PM

    This blog is dynamite. It is an eye opener. Just look at this:

    "Don't just give dictation like find some
    activity for yourself they are looking
    for everything to you

    They need your direction your support
    so please give direction not dictation
    don't let them go anywhere"

    Is this brilliant or what!

    Thank you Smile

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  15. Smile2/17/17, 11:39 PM

    Hello Readers Family
    Thanks Keith Karen Linda Dave Boris Kim Kris Jimmy Superwoman Cleo Tiara
    Brenda Jasmeet Marg Fellow Writer Retiree Group mrizvi Batman Plunker
    Sheema Newbie Literature Fellow Thanks All My Anonymous and Multilingual
    Readers Thanks Everyone

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