Moments To Share

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Niklas I am Happy 
You Read My Blog
Don't Drink and Smoke Please
Don't Worry about People Making Fun

 You Focus On Your Career
One Day People will See You 
Shining Like Star

 I Believe One Day
You will Do That
I Love You
Today is Slightly Better Not 38 °C Below Zero 
It is 22 °C Below Zero But It Doesn't Matter
When It Starts Going Down To 15°C Below Zero
We Don't Care as We Have To Bundle up Anyway 

 I Don't use My Winter Coat - I Prefer Doing Layers 
At My Age It is Lighter To Handle - We Have To Go with
Whatever Suits To Our Mind and also To Our Body

 White Stuff Coming Down From up I Mean More
Snow Coming To Be Dumped On The Ground
Which is Already Loaded with Snow

 I Have To Go To Wedding Of My Cousin Sister's Grandson
She Died 15 Years Back But Her Family Still Connected
To Me - We Have To Be There in Difficult Times and also
Have To Share Moments Of Happiness 

 My Dear Retiree Friends were Asking Me For Tips
To Build Long Term Relationships - When We Share
The Moments Which are Important To People
They Always Remember You in Their Thoughts

 Father Please Don't Go For This Tip and Start Going To
Community Weddings as We Can Not Go until
We Have Proper Invitations as People Have To Make
Arrangements For Seating and For Food

My Friends Please Don't Worry about Generators or
Any Such Thing - Here in Canada Heating System is Good
Power Off is Rare - Malls Library Everywhere is 
Like Room Temperature

 The Only Problem We Face While Going To Our Cars and
Then From Parking Lot To Enter The Premises - But We are
Used To These Things - We Can Handle

 Now My Friend Happy Reader and Mother in Law
I Am Glad That Mother in Law Showing Patience
Thanks To Mother in Law You  Didn't Fire Back
We Have To Be Patient and Forgive Others

 This Way Things Can Be Solved For Everyone
God Loves Those Who Forget and Forgive - Being Elders
We Have Greater Responsibility To Have Peace and 
Harmony in Our Family

 My Dear Reader Doing 2 Jobs Please Don't Talk about
People's Personal Matters That How Much You Eat or 
You are Having Allergy - 

 People Don't Like To Hear Such Things - You are
Good Friend Of Mine -- Keep That in Mind

Now I Have To Get Ready For The Wedding
I Don't use Make up or Wear Jewelries at My Age
This will Be Too Much -- 

 I Will Change Clothes -I Already Ironed That and
Use Some Face Cream after That will Be Ready To Go
People Don't Focus On Your Fancy Dresses
Just Has To Be Presentable 

 I Believe Our Behavior is The Key To Interact
People Look For That To Build Relationship

Comments

  1. Anonymous1/8/18, 7:02 AM

    +1

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  2. Anonymous1/8/18, 6:09 PM

    I have posted the blog in Smile Corner. Though it is Monday, there are still lots of people coming in to read the blog. I am still waiting to hear back from the court.

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  3. Anonymous1/8/18, 6:09 PM

    I lost the race to post the blog on our corporate notice boards. It was already posted when I got there. Of course, there was also a box of fresh SDs with a note from SA

    Brenda

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    1. Anonymous1/8/18, 6:10 PM

      I was in early today and posted the blog. Of course the SDs were already there. Plus one additional donut for the poster

      Craig

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    2. Anonymous1/8/18, 6:11 PM

      And I posted the one from the weekend

      Marg

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  4. Anonymous1/8/18, 6:15 PM

    Dear Madam Smile, you so good. You go your dead cousin sister's grandson wedding when it -22C. You dress layer. You give so much advice to Dear Retirees, and Dear Kris Father, and Dear Literature Fellow, and so many Dear Readers. You also give food to son sons and money to son, and grocery to Daughter in law. You go government conference and do science. You big shot but you always take care readers. I do 2 proud jobs and always read blog

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  5. Anonymous1/8/18, 6:15 PM

    This blog is my lifeline. Thanks for writing every day

    N

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  6. Anonymous1/8/18, 6:16 PM

    My Smile is awesome! She is an awesome writer! She is an awesome councillor. She is an awesome naturalist. She has awesome family. What an awesome person my Smile is!!

    Karen

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  7. Anonymous1/8/18, 6:17 PM

    I have posted the blog in all notice boards in lobbies A, B, C and D. Still working on getting the blogs posted from the weekend.

    Jimmy

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    1. Anonymous1/8/18, 6:17 PM

      Can you please post them before the Smile Walks? We will like to read them before going for the walk

      Steve

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    2. Anonymous1/8/18, 6:18 PM

      I have now posted all blogs in all noticeboards in lobbies A, B, C and D. Sorry for the delay, I was delayed as people kept coming to get copies from the printouts

      Jimmy

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    3. Anonymous1/8/18, 6:19 PM

      SWS was fun. There are some managers who also join these walks. People were saying TGIM (Thank God Its Monday)

      Tiara

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    4. Anonymous1/8/18, 6:19 PM

      SWN was fun too. We talked about Smile's blogs from the weekend

      Cleo

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  8. Anonymous1/8/18, 6:46 PM

    Dear Advisor,

    Your today's blog is an eye opener for us. We appreciate that you showed us how simple it is to create long term relationships. A no. of retirees mentioned that they dont typically go for important events. One retiree remembered that her brother stopped talking to her because she consistently forgot his birthdays and then could not find time to go to a party that he was throwing for his son's graduation. The retirees are debating a program for adults similar to the Smile with Smile program. Some of the retirees are very excited about it whereas others are thinking that it may not be as popular. We will discuss this more over the next few days.

    There are some retirees who are planning to travel to colder climates and your blog provided a good tip for dressing up. One retiree said that Smile is indeed showing us how to walk and how to dress.

    The retired corporate executive requested that we ask you that you wear jewelery and not rely on face cream only. There were some retirees who were asking me not to state that here as they dont want her to be disqualified and suspended but she said that even if she is, she still wants me to request you because she cares a lot. She said that she hopes that you will not mind her requesting this.

    thank you
    recent retiree

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  9. Anonymous1/8/18, 6:57 PM

    Dear Author,

    We read your blog at the Smile Garden today. There were a lot of people today as the students have returned from the winter break. There were also a lot of professors today as a no. of them were taking holidays off.

    Prof George was feeling sick today but he still came. The Dean was seen joking with him and saying that perhaps he should have dressed in layers. Prof George does not miss any of the blog readings

    It is a fun atmosphere

    thank you
    Literature Fellow

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  10. Superwoman1/8/18, 6:59 PM

    My Smile is amazing! She is an amazing wedding goer. She is an amazing advisor. She is an amazing councillor. She has amazing friends. What an amazing person my Smile is!!

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  11. Anonymous1/8/18, 7:09 PM

    Father say you yell father little today. Father say he no mind because father angle. Father say father go lot weding in ear. Father say he no go weding when father not invite but only go when father invite. Father say father very pop and al invite father. Father yell nabor lot because he go weding but no take father. Father yel Hannah because she cousin mary last ear but she no remind them to invite father. Father say Niklas need drink bier otherwise he no able get girlfriend because all call him baby. Father take lot care Niklas. Father say he no say father old almost 67

    (Hannah say father little upset today because he think Hannah no tel Hannah cousin invite father for wed last ear. Hannah say she tel cousin but cousin say no because she no like father and she no able invite lot peeple. Hannah say she no want tell father this because father wll feel bad so Hannah only listen father talk in silence. Hannah say you please put make up and jewl because you no Kris old. Me no able find Niklas because he go in morning and go skool and then go out home from skool. Me will yel him when he come. Me text him that if he come after 8 then me no open door. Father very anger and tel me to get me friend invite father to weding but he no want. Me confuse. Me no no what do)

    Kris (Germany)

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  12. Plunker1/8/18, 11:01 PM

    What is going on here! This is absolutely insane! It makes my blood boil. My blood pressure shoots up. And I am being asked to not only keep quiet but be kind. It is really tough but I will do it

    Thanks mrizvi. Brilliant post. Fantastic. Amazing. Whatever

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  13. Batman1/8/18, 11:02 PM

    Ccaaaaaaaaaaaallllllllllllllllllllmmmmmmmmmmmmm down Plunker. Just Reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeelllllllllllllllaaaaaxxxxxxxxxxxx. You know kids will be kids. They are all about fun and games

    Good job mrizvi. Good job kiddo

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  14. Boris1/8/18, 11:07 PM

    What a brilliant author Smile is! There are authors. There are philosophers And then there is Smile. She took a very profound philosophy. Put together a very simple, easy to use guide. And no she didnt write a book, but was able to summarize that in 3 sentences. You want to know what it is? Well you can attend courses, read books, go to conferences. Or you can simply read this blog. Dont believe me, just look here:

    "To Build Long Term Relationships - When We Share
    The Moments Which are Important To People
    They Always Remember You in Their Thoughts"

    Smile has a knack of taking complex topics and simplify that using her folksy style, but this is simply brilliant!

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