" No " ----- and ---- " Yes "

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Please today also read 
My Recipe Blog
Thank You



Dear Students, 
Don't stop Great Friends from coming
to Blog reading sessions but also keep 
the atmosphere peaceful

Ask everyone politely 
to stay calm 

Father very selfish
He has to  leave Niklas alone
he doesn't have to worry about
how Niklas talk to his friends

 Hannah has to sleep and eat


It is Wednesday bright beautiful sunny morning with 17 below 0 C
I am working full time today. It is 9.15, I am sitting in the Billiard
room , go to my office cubicle after a while. Library will be opened
at 9.30 am

 One of our club member died, her funeral is tomorrow at 11 am.
I will be there, today I will find someone to give me ride. Not many 
people know her so I will see that who is going.

 I don't ask everyone to give me ride. We have to think twice before
asking anything from anyone as " NO " is hard answer to swallow.
It hurts and damages our personality.

 " No " starts devaluing our inner self esteem. Keep away from asking 
things when you are not sure that the answer will be " Yes ".
Yes gives you a sensation of strength. We start feeling that we have 
people around. 

 " Yes " starts spreading positivity around, while " No " takes 
everything away. It haunts you for a while. We feel like bankrupt 
at least I feel that way. Always be cautious before asking anything
from anyone. This is for your own good.

Comments

  1. Anonymous3/22/18, 7:14 AM

    +1

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  2. Anonymous3/22/18, 8:58 AM

    I have posted the blog in Smile Corner. Lots of customers today because it is Thursday and they wait for the recipe blog. I print extra copies as some out of towners also come in the evening ie after finishing their work

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  3. Anonymous3/22/18, 9:00 AM

    I lost the race to post the blog in our corporate notice boards.

    Brenda

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    1. Anonymous3/22/18, 9:01 AM

      I was in early so was able to post the blog. There was a box of SDs there

      Marg

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  4. Anonymous3/22/18, 9:03 AM

    My Smile is awesome! She is an awesome advisor! She is an awesome councillor. She is an awesome writer. She is an awesome friend to readers family. What an awesome person my Smile is!!

    Karen

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  5. Anonymous3/22/18, 9:06 AM

    Thank you for being my lifeline. These blogs provide me so much energy

    N

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  6. Anonymous3/22/18, 9:11 AM

    I have posted the blog in all notice boards in lobbies A, B, C and D

    Jimmy

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    1. Anonymous3/22/18, 5:22 PM

      SWN was fantastic. We took the nature trail today. Lots of discussion about Smile's blog today

      Cleo

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    2. Anonymous3/22/18, 5:22 PM

      SWS was great. We decided to go on the nature route. As usual, we talked about today's blog

      Tiara

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  7. Anonymous3/22/18, 5:28 PM

    Dear Madam Smile, you so good. You write good to. Mr. Supervisor come and say how you. I say I good. I then say him how you. He say I good. I say him you know why I ask, he say its habit. I say no because my Madam explain in blog 2 day ago, like what goes then come. Like if you thro ball then it come back. He smile and say yes that good. I say him yes she very nolege like he explain today that you no suppose ask something because if you get No then it degrade sole. He smile and say that not what she mean I say but how you know because I no show you blog. He say he need go. I do 2 proud job and always read blog

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  8. Anonymous3/22/18, 5:34 PM

    Dear Advisor,

    The retirees read your blog with a lot if interest today. As is typical on Thrusdays, there were a no. of people who came to the reading of the blog. The hospital administrator said that the recipe will come in really useful for the "Eat with Smile" menu. She said that it is healthy and appears to be fairly easy to make. The cafe manager pointed out that he has already started serving it and confirmed that it is very easy to make. The retired chef said that this will be a premium item for the 5 star properties. He is starting to expand the list of hotels who are interested in serving the Smile recipes. The retired dietician however pointed out that potatoes can be fattening as they are full of carbs. The retired senior nutritionist however said that it is better to ask you for advice as you use common sense and not only science. We are wondering if you can please comment

    thank you
    recent retiree

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  9. Superwoman3/22/18, 5:34 PM

    My Smile is amazing. She has an amazing family. She is an amazing writer. She is an amazing counsellor. What an amazing person my Smile is !!

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  10. Anonymous3/22/18, 5:35 PM

    Yet another new blog today !!

    cool Kyle

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    1. Anonymous3/22/18, 5:36 PM

      Of course it is a new blog. When has Smile recycled her ideas

      newbie

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  11. Anonymous3/22/18, 5:39 PM

    Dear Author,

    We read your blog at the SRC today. The Smile Army continued to be very quiet. As per your instructions, the Dean allowed the Great Friends to the reading of the blog. The students were a little noisy today as the blog was too complicated for them but one of the senior professor of the faculty of psychology explained the details to them. Prof George upon seeing this, commented to the Dean that it is amazing how Smile is spreading knowledge to so many different age groups about complicated ideas. The Dean simply smiled and said "Yes, she is brilliant"

    thank you
    Literature Fellow

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  12. Anonymous3/22/18, 10:42 PM

    Father say you yell father lot today. Father say he no mind because father angle. Father say father no no why father selfish. Father say father help futbol kid and show them how be big. Father say he like big teacher. Father say Hannah no need slip because lot slip no good. Father say Hannah sik so that why she need eat less. Father say father plan party weekend because father bore. Father say father old almost 67

    (Hannah say thank that you care. Hannah say Hannah will get gooder in time. Hannah say Hannah need start make food because Hannah week so no able make all food one day in party. Hannah say Hannah wake 45 min before son and make brakfast speed. Hannah say you recipe kris good, Hannah make niklas for nabor and Niklas. Hannah say you please care. Niklas say grandpapa make plan party but Niklas no want party. Niklas say he plan go pub and mall. Me take Hannah doctor again but doctor say he me no supose bring her any and let her rest. Father say father want go doctor so me take him doctor but doctor say me no supose bring him because he ok. Me say Hannah only make 2 dish but father want 3 so she make 3. Hannah sik, Niklas sad, father anger. Me confuse. Me no no what do)

    Kris (Germany)

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  13. Plunker3/22/18, 10:44 PM

    Man. I guess the lunacy will never stop. Kids today. Will they ever learn

    Thanks mrizvi. Jolly good comment

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  14. Batman3/22/18, 10:45 PM

    You are right Plunker. But we need be kind. Smile told us to do so

    Thanks mrizvi

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  15. Boris3/22/18, 10:51 PM

    This is one of those blogs which needs to be read and re-read again and again. Dont believe me ? Take a look

    "" No " starts devaluing our inner self esteem. Keep away from asking
    things when you are not sure that the answer will be " Yes ".
    Yes gives you a sensation of strength. We start feeling that we have
    people around.

    " Yes " starts spreading positivity around, while " No " takes
    everything away. It haunts you for a while. We feel like bankrupt
    at least I feel that way. Always be cautious before asking anything
    from anyone. This is for your own good."

    Brilliant!!

    ReplyDelete

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