Have patience you will get it back
Kris Dear not fair to Niklas that
He miss school because of Father
Father gets sick after party then
why party every time.
Father is only 67 not so old, how come
he needs one person sitting whole time
in his room. This is too much
for everyone.
Whole house is around Father's entertainment
You are late for work, Hannah tired
Niklas has to stay in Father room.
It is Monday I am working part time today playing darts only.
Sunny beautiful morning with 6 degrees below 0 C. It is 9.15 am
I am sitting in the Billiard room writing my blog thinking about
My Dear Happy Reader and Mother in law.
No matter how much I write for them to have patience and stay calm,
they never listen to me. One starts and the other one never stays back
to take a shot.
My Retirees Friends were asking me to write for Joint Family Living
as people are having problems to cope. I have already posted number
of Blogs on this topic.
Joint family living is a very complex situation not only for we
seniors but for everyone living in the family. Look at Niklas,
he is a Teenager sandwiched between generations, I mean
between Father and Kris. Both love him and trying to push
his life in that direction, which they want to set for him.
Joint family living is sort of " Tug of war " between generations,
where we seniors, use our emotional black mailing technique
to win the war.
I believe if we seniors have a bit patience, situation will become
much more happier and peaceful for the entire family. Patience is
the best tool to sort all problems in every circumstances .
Try to control your emotions and think twice before how are you
talking and what are you talking. Never try to overreact, respect
emotions of the people we live with at home, school and
at work place.
What goes around always comes around. Give Happiness
just have patience, you will get it back.
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ReplyDeleteI have posted the blog in Smile Corner
ReplyDeleteI lost the race to post the blog on our corporate notice boards. It was already posted when I went there
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I was in early so was able to post the blog. There was a box of SDs, thanks to SA
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My Smile is so awesome !! She is am awesome writer! She is an awesome naturalist! She is an awesome grandmother! She has an awesome family! What an awesome person my Smile is!!
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Thank you for being my lifeline. I wait for your blogs every day.
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I have posted the blog in all notice boards in lobbies A, B, C and D
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SWS was great. As usual there was a big group of people today. We went for the nature walk. The participants were still talking about Smile's blog about listening
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SWN was fun. There was a lot of discussion about Smile's blog from yesterday. Participants pointed out that Smile is talking about listening which can be used in workplace
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Yesterday's blog saved our 2 day conference. Yes CONFERENCE!! I was in a 2 day event and the concluding presentation was being heckled. I decided to use excerpts from yesterday's bog and after a few minutes, magic happened. Everyone started listening. The result, the entire conference was saved!!
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Keith Walker
Dear Madam Smile, you so good. You write good to. I go job worker with video kid and say her how you. She say I busy and no time talk blog. I say I no want talk blog I want talk video kid. She say what you mean. I say does he like sandwich? She say yes of course. I say because he like sandwich. She say what you say. I say it very complicate. My Madam explain in blog. She say she need go. I think she head hurt to. I do 2 proud job and always read blog
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ReplyDeleteTe retirees appreciate your blog today. The retirees are very grateful to you for spelling out the details of joint family living. Many retirees are thinking that the joint family situation is very complex and challenging. They say are asking you if you can suggest some improvements. because it becomes very challenging sometimes. They say they feel that their kids also are a problem because they dont take appropriate care of them. The retirees did mention though that they do understand that you are in a more challenging situation because of the antics of your son. However we stopped saying additional things as you prefer that we dont say anything about him
thank you
recent retiree
Dear Author,
ReplyDeleteWe read your blog at the SRC today. There was an incident during the reading. Smile Army thought that the reason you are writing about joint family is because you are upset with your son .They started yelling slogans for you and against your son. Prof George tried to calm them down and explained that they should not jump to conculsions but by that time they have lost it and were impossible to handle. The Dean was concerned because SRC is close to a lot of offices. The Dean said that it is his fault because he should have realized that Smile Army have stopped eating so they were bound to go bezerk. In the end, they kept yelling and because they were not eating anything, it got worse. The great friends somehow wre able to take them away from SRC and to the Smile Garden. If you can write something for them and ask them to eat
thank you
Literature Fellow
Yet another fresh blog. How can Smile come up with so many new ideas
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Of course!! Why are you surprised? When was the last time that Smile recycled any ideas?
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My Smile is amazing! She is an amazing grandmother. She is an amazing philosopher. She is an amazing psychologist. She has an amazing family. What an amazing person my Smile is!!
ReplyDeleteFather say you yell father lot today. Father say father angle so father no mind! Father say you rong that join live problem all. It only problem for father. Father say Niklas no sanwich, father big sandich. All eat father all day and no lisen. Like when father sick Hannah no come rite away. Hannah only come after 2 bell. Niklas no stay quiet father apratment but want wach u tube on fone. Father no able slip bekause lot noise. Father old because chancelor say father old. If father not old then wy chancelor give pension father. Father say father old almost 67
ReplyDelete(Hannah say Hannah kris tire after party. Hannah say father sik so need help and Hananh no able run as Hannah no able run but father think Hannah laziee. Hananh say Hannah wake 45 min before son and kris work ofice to. Hannah say you please kris care and no wory. Niklas say grandpapa sik but it no Niklas fault. Niklas say he need go skool for exam but need miss. Niklas say he put earfone but grandpapa say no able slip. Niklas say he plan go out pub but no able. Me very tire because me come ofice and me slip but father keep ring bel. Me no need go but me no able slip. Niklas need stay with father because he tire ring bell al time so Niklas ring. Father say Hannah no run when bell ring but she no able run because she sik. Me say father sh no able do but father say do. Me confuse. Me no no what do)
Kris (Germany)
Well , well, well. My head is starting to hurt now. I have run out of ideas. Same thing every day. I know, I know ....
ReplyDeleteThanks mrizvi. Very insightful comment.
CCaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaallllllllllllmmmmmmmmmmmm doooowwwwwwwwwnnnnn ! Just reeeeeeelllllllaaaaaaaaaxxxxxxxx. You are right, Smile has asked us to be kind
ReplyDeleteGood job mrizvi. Brilliant comment. I wonder what we will do without you kiddo
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