Keep Track of Your Calls

Tuesday cold cloudy day with 1 C. I don't work on Tuesdays. Everyone 
gone to work and to school. I am sitting on an empty nest. Done with my 
breakfast, now in my bedroom with my computer, browsing Messages 
on my Facebook.

My Daughters in England are at work. They will call me after. My Eldest 
Daughter in Edmonton must be getting ready to go to work. She is in 
different time zone, 2 hours behind the Toronto time.

I will make some calls. We have to keep track of our friends and family, 
to keep connection alive. This is a bit tricky. Whenever we make any call 
we have to think about that personality. 

Some people don't like to be called, so we don't have to disturb them so 
often.  Our purpose is to keep the connection alive, not to get them be 
annoyed. That will damage our relationship.

Some like to be called more often. Some of them are in a category to be 
called just once a while. When we pick up the phone to call someone we 
have to keep that personality in mind.

Not only this some people don't like to talk much. In that case our call has 
to be brief. Some like to chit chat. Some like to be called once a month, 
some like once a week. There are so many types, so many different 
categories of people's personalities. 

We can figure that out by the tone of the person who is picking up the 
phone at the other end. Sometimes the timing is not right for that person. 
He is not in a mood to talk much. We have to take everything into account.

Sometimes he is in bad shape not well. We have to call every day still it 
depends on his tone. Some people want to be alone, not to be disturbed. 
We have to make our bond stronger not to damage the existing relationship.

When we open our mouth to talk or to ink our thoughts on paper, we have 
to think twice, same are calls. We have to think twice about the person, 
we are going to call and what to talk before picking up our phone to give 
him a call. 

Our mood and tone is also a key factor, while calling or talking to people. 
It can make or break our relationship. If we are not in a good mood, our 
talks will be boring and depressive and no one likes to get involve in such 
talks. It can make a dent in our existing relationship.

Time zone is also one of the very important factor for calls. It has to be a 
comfortable time for him to receive our call. Not the time, when he is just 
back from work or too early for him. We have to pick a time slot which 
suits him. before picking our phone.

I love to call to keep connection alive with my friends and the people 
of my family circle. Daughters come under immediate family members.
I usually talk every day. Brothers and sisters once a week. For others 
I sort out, calculate in my mind, when to call and how much to talk.

Kris Dear return the trampoline. Father is too old to use that and Niklas 
wont enjoy that. Trampoline is for younger kids. Please don't yell at Niklas.

Dear Retirees and Dear Students My Friends, I love to do things on my own 
so please don't you people worry about my doing laundry. When I do things 
on my own, I feel fortunate and always say thank You God, who keeps 
watching over me to keep me mobile.