Emotional Trauma ?

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Today I Dedicate My Blog 
 To My Friend The Great   
            Janitor

 These are People 
We Have to Salute 

 Who Work
Behind The Scene and Don't want any Credit

 My Friend " N "  My Yesterday's Blog
Was All For You 

 Still You are Not Happy and Complaining 
That I Don't Write For You

 Father Your Enjoyment Costing
Kris Job and Niklas Life and Career

 I Don't Know Any Grandpa can 
Throw Water on His Grandson's Face to
Enjoy Morning Walk

 Retirees My Friends
I am Happy For Your Visit to
University to Meet Students 
Dean and Smile Army

 I Salute Dean Who Gave 
You a Warm Welcome
Great

My Friend Doing 2 Proud Jobs
Please Stop Saying You are a Bad Person
It Makes Me Sad

 You are a Great Person and Doing 
2 Proud Jobs
I am Proud of You My Friend


It is Thursday Morning Cloudy -- Humid
Hot Day with 26 Feels Like 30
There is a New Program to be started in
My Club some Location at Centennial Park

I Go for Everything so Today I am going at 12.30 for
that it is called " Bocci Ball " I Don't know that and
Never Played Still I will go

 I was on Computer Checking Messages I am still Thinking
about the Message from My School Friend Who Lives in
Sydney as I told You We Share Everything

She Knows My Family so was asking about My
Youngest Sister Who is in very Bad Shape after
Her Retirement

My Friend is also having to Cope Her Retirement
Period so She Knows it is Tough it was This
Sentence which is still at the Back of My Mind

She was writing There has to be some Sort of Training 
or Self Training Necessary for How to Take Things in
Retired Life

 I Think I agree with Self Training on the Field
I Mean after Retirement --  We have to involve
Ourselves in various Things -- various activities
to Assess How We are Taking 

No one can Train anyone to get the Good Results
We know Ourselves well and also How to Deal Our Life
after Retirement Everything Changed

Mainly Our Emotional Life is in Trauma
We can not Explain and Express to Others
We Behave Strong But it is Vice versa 
Our inside is Shaken up

We Try to Cover up for the Rest of Our Life
Hide Specially From Our Family who have seen
Our Strong Side During Our Service Period

 We are all Tired up of this Our Internal Fight
We Try to Cope as This is Related to Our Ego
Which We Think is More Than Anything

Never want to Give up This Internal Fight with
Ourselves even at the Cost of Our
Relationship with Our Family and at the End
Cost of Our Health

We Don't Want to Face This Changed Scenario
We Don't want to Give up Our Throne
At any Cost

Life is the Name of Change My Dear
Time Flies and That is the Beauty of Life
Things Change 

Accept that with Grace  --  Every Stage of Our Life
Has it's Own Beauty to Enjoy 

God Knows Better He made This Arrangement
for All of His Creatures

Comments

  1. Anonymous7/28/17, 5:29 PM

    I have posted the blog in Smile Corner. A lot of customers came in the morning to read the blog with their coffee but almost all of them also came again in the evening as this is Friday. It has become a tradition in our small town that locals come here and read blog before going back to their homes or pub

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  2. Anonymous7/28/17, 5:30 PM

    +1

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  3. Anonymous7/28/17, 5:30 PM

    I lost the race to post the blog on our corporate notice boards. It was already posted when I got there. Of course, there were a fresh from SDs there with a note that "enjoy these Smile Donuts, courtesy Smile Addict"

    Brenda

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    1. Anonymous7/28/17, 5:31 PM

      I was in early today so was able to post the blog. The box of SDs was there when I came. There was an extra donut for the person posting the blog.

      Craig

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    2. Anonymous7/28/17, 5:33 PM

      The "Smile Addict" is amazing. I left a box of donuts for him last night as a thank you but it was left at my desk with a note that Smile Addicts dont want anything in return. What an amazing person.

      Jasmeet

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    3. Anonymous7/28/17, 5:34 PM

      I agree. It is too bad that we dont get a chance to meet him because he leaves before we arrive

      Marg

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  4. Anonymous7/28/17, 5:36 PM

    My Smile is awesome!! She is an awesome writer. She has an awesome fans. She is an awesome adviser. What an awesome person my Smile is!!

    Karen

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  5. Anonymous7/28/17, 5:38 PM

    Thank you for wring the blog I dont like it when you write for others too and dont write only for me. But I understand now that you have lots of fans like the Janitor and you care about all of them. I used to think that you only care about the big Dean and big CEO but I was wrong.

    N

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  6. Anonymous7/28/17, 5:38 PM

    I have posted the blog in all notice boards in lobbies A, B, C and D

    Jimmy

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    1. Anonymous7/28/17, 5:39 PM

      SWS was fantastic today. Turnout was great. We took the nature route. As it is Friday, there was a little subdued atmosphere

      Tiara

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    2. Anonymous7/28/17, 5:40 PM

      We ended up talking about Smile's networking and relationships during the SWN today. She is an inspiration to all.

      Cleo

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  7. Anonymous7/28/17, 5:45 PM

    Dear Madam Smile, you so good. I no rite that I bad even though I am because I no want make you sad. I no go job today because I bad. I do 2 bad job but always read blog

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  8. Anonymous7/28/17, 6:09 PM

    Dear Advisor,

    The retirees went for our long walk today. As usual, it was a long walk just under 10 mins with a few breaks in between. This walk, though very long for us, is nothing compared to the walks that you have. Afterwards, we had our lollipop.

    The retired social scientist read your blog today. She was surprised and mentioned that you have so strong relationships and are able to help out friends and family. A no. of retirees reminded the retired social scientist that you also help all the readers family as well. The retired social scientist is planning on engaging her former colleagues who are still practicing to understand how you can find the time to do so many different things so effectively

    The cafe manager had a meeting with the ownership. Some of the retired professionals also participated in the meeting. The outcome of the meeting was to have one section of the menu as Smile menu, just like it is Veggie option in the menu. They decided to introduce all your 5 dishes for which you have provided your recipe as snackable items to be available all day. The marketing plans are still to be worked though

    The retirees also felt very humbled by you thanking us. We dont deserve it. It should be YOU that we should be thanking

    thank YOU
    recent retiree

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  9. Anonymous7/28/17, 6:16 PM

    Dear Author,

    The students and the professors read your blog at the Smile Garden today. There was a big party as we also got park benches after the Dean spoke to the Chancellor and explained what happened and how your blog is transforming lives. The police was here too however as a respect and acknowledgement to you they did not put their uniform but came in ordinary clothes. It was a very festive atmosphere

    Dean wanted us to write a special thank you to you for your help and your kind words towards him in your blog today.

    thank you
    Literature Fellow

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  10. Superwoman7/28/17, 6:17 PM

    My Smile is amazing! She is an amazing friend to the readers' family. She is amazing writer. She has amazing family. She is amazingly active. She is involved in amazing activities. What an amazing person my Smile is!!

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  11. Anonymous7/28/17, 6:28 PM

    Father say you yell father lot today. Father say he yes mind. Father say he very sick but you no ask him. Father say father mind lot. Father say nabor come to talk father about health. Father say he tell him that he need pay . Father say it good idea because he give father 50 DM. Father say he yell Kris (me) lot because he no take father to doctor. Father say he no able find Niklas. Father say he need find him so he can see if he ok. Because you say in you blog that it no good throw water. Father say he father use throw water him when he Niklas and when he Kris. Father say he say he old almost 67

    (Hannah say that she make recipe dish and ask nabor to test . Nabor like lot. She say she wory Niklas because he no home and go out. She say she with bad kid who smoke to. She say thank that you rite to help her and her family lot time. Me try go look Niklas because he no home all day. I no able find him in mall because he stay friend hostel. Me yell him because he make me wory. Father ask nabor to pay but that very bad so I give 50 DM to nabor. He no want to take but it bad. Me office people give me last worning today because i come early to look Niklas. Me tire. Me sad. Me angry. Me confuse. Me no no what do)

    Kris (Germany)

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  12. Anonymous7/28/17, 6:29 PM

    Another new blog today

    cool Kyle

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    1. Anonymous7/28/17, 6:30 PM

      Why are you surprised. Of course it is a fresh blog

      newbie

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  13. Plunker7/28/17, 6:30 PM

    Well well well. Here we go again. Another day, same thing. I wish Smile has not asked us to be so civil.

    Thanks mrizvi. Fantastic comment

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  14. Batman7/28/17, 6:31 PM

    Caaaaalllmmmmm down Plunker. Yes Smile has asked us to be nice, so be considerate

    Great comment mrizvi. Good job

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  15. Smile7/29/17, 12:26 AM

    Hello Readers Father
    Thanks Boris Batman Linda Dave N Kyle Newbie Karen Superwoman Plunker mrizvi
    Literature Fellow Retiree Group Jimmy Brenda Cleo Tiara Jasmeet Kim Keith
    Craig Marg Smile Addict Kris Happy Reader and Mother in Law Thanks All My
    Anonymous and Multilingual Readers Thanks Everyone

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