Teens are Budding Personalities

Thanks to All My Dear Readers
for Your Prayers
I Love You All

Hannah I don't need Bell
I was busy making lunch
and snacks for My Grandson
I love to do that

These are like faucets of Happiness
For Me, so please don't you people
worry about.



Thanks Everyone
specially to Niklas
and His Friends


It is Sunday bright sunny day, snow giving a glitter in sunshine
It is 4 degrees, not below 0 C amazing. Beautiful it is Summer.
Please don't worry about me. Remember I follow my Mother's
footsteps. She used to say " Don't think too much about your 
sickness, otherwise it will overpower you. "

Don't you worry please about my Youngest sleeping in my room.
You never know how much happiness I am getting out of this.
When I look at His mattress, it gives me assurance that my
Grand Kids are not sick of Me, rather prefer to stay with me.

It gives me strength to move on in My Life. By the way I went 
to get groceries with my son yesterday to Freshco and also to
Hasty Supermarket, it's bakery stuff is great. I was happy 
to get for my Grand Kids.

Now come to the point about Sibling issues. This is very complex.
Parents are stuck and can not solve, not their fault, it can not be
solved. We can dilute the issue so that everyone is ready to tolerate
each other and things can not get accelerated.

I think Siblings are like branches, all have same roots, but take
their own route and never like to meet each other. Siblings have 
common blood and share roots but nothing else in common, on top
they have their childhood grudges and rivalries.

Siblings are never satisfied that parents treated them equally.
Everyone has his own list of hidden complaints, if we push them,
they start " You always take His side, He is more important to You "
and so on.

I believe it is rare when Siblings are like good friends, specially
in case of Boys. Parents try their best to mingle them up and to
make their dream to come to reality. They get frustrated and 
in the end exhausted.

I think we have to take them as bunch of individuals who are
living together without their own choice or consent. We don't 
have to worry about, just try to focus to keep a peaceful 
atmosphere in the house. That's all. 

They are not kids anymore, when we used to have their command
in our hands. They are now Teens, budding into personalities 
We don't have to control them, just be realistic and treat them 
as your friends and buddies. Kris please be nice to Niklas.

Don't try to dictate them, leave them alone. 
just oversee the home atmosphere. 

Siblings era is a short period of time, it is just couple of years 
after that, they will be gone leaving nest empty, so just relax.