Let Them Flourish to Bloom

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Smile Army My Friends
Please don't quit your Job

 Job and Studies are very important
Cut down your time on Smile Garden
Don't have to leave anything

 Please try to control your emotions
and respect everyone
Have patience

 Dear Retirees Friends
I will write for you people
soon

 My Dear Reader doing 2 Proud Jobs
Don't talk about Blog
But if anyone ask copy 
please give that

Kris Dear, please don't yell at Niklas 
I am not happy with the Party

 Father is ruining Niklas career
and Hannah's health



It is Monday bright sunny beautiful morning with 
plus 2 degrees. I am working part time today playing
darts only no carpet bowling.

 Yesterday my Eldest was back from Uni. We have to make 
couple of adjustments when kids are back during their 
Break time. Not easy for other Siblings who now have to 
share things.

 My Youngest now has to move out from his room. That was
already decided when we gave him that room. He agreed to, that
whenever Eldest will be back, he will give the room back, but to
implement such things not easy.

 We have to keep in mind that everyone is fully loaded with emotions
so have to deal tactfully. This is the big problem in every household.
First thing parents have to be calm and relaxed, but have to be at the 
level of high alert. Ready to deal any situation with cool mind.

 We have to use simple techniques, while Teens coming back from Uni.
they have to buy small things for their Siblings. My Eldest got one
bottle of coke and small pack of candy, each for his two brothers.
They were surprised by this, and received that with an smile.

 These things work like ice breakers. They wont start behaving like best 
friends still wont behave while dealing, like an enemy. We also suggest 
our Eldest that during your stay, once a while try to take them for ride 
to get Slurpee or go to Tim Horton.

 We have to guide our Kids these simple tricks to get along. This will
make big difference to maintain peace during their stay. Main thing 
is that Parents have to take it as normal matter and not as a big issue.

 Our Kids are now adults not kids any more so why not to treat them
like adults. Give them space, privacy and their own choice to enjoy
their time, their life. 

 We don't have to impose our opinion, so just relax and let them do 
their things. We have to keep an eye just to oversee the situation. 
Don't try to control their lives. It will ruin the inner beauty of their 
personalities and their gifted talents. Let them flourish to bloom.

Comments

  1. Anonymous5/1/18, 2:29 PM

    I have posted the blog in Smile Corner

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  2. Anonymous5/1/18, 2:30 PM

    I lost the race to post the blog on our corporate notice boards. It was already posted when I went there

    Brenda

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    1. Anonymous5/1/18, 2:31 PM

      I was in early so was able to post the blog. There was a box of SDs there but no donut for poster today

      Jasmeet

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  3. Anonymous5/1/18, 2:35 PM

    My Smile is so awesome !! She is am awesome writer! She is an awesome naturalist! She is an awesome grandmother! She has an awesome family! What an awesome person my Smile is!!

    Karen

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  4. Anonymous5/1/18, 2:36 PM

    Thank you for being my lifeline. I wait for your blogs every day.

    N

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  5. Anonymous5/1/18, 2:37 PM

    I have posted the blog in all notice boards in lobbies A, B, C and D

    Jimmy

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    1. Anonymous5/1/18, 2:37 PM

      SWN was fun. There was a lot of discussion about Smile's blog

      Cleo

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  6. Anonymous5/1/18, 2:43 PM

    As I have indicated in the past, we have a practice of discussing your blogs in our cabinet meetings as well as with our business partners. We have now started to leverage them for our employee orientation sessions as well. We find them interesting and useful. As an example, even though your blog today dealt with issues about teens, our VP of HR believes that the same principles can be employed to deal with employee transfers and integration into different departments. This is specially critical as we need to go through re-orgs to maximize shareholder value and keep our corporation focused on the market trajectory and customer needs.

    Keith Walker

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  7. Anonymous5/1/18, 2:48 PM

    Dear Madam Smile, you so good. You write good to. Happy Job worker come and say how you. I say I ok. She say did you give copy of teen blog to job worker with video kid? I say no. She say there were some people asking her for those blogs so it will help them if you can make copies. I say I no suppose give her blog until she ask. She say but she already ask you yesterday. I say yes but she need ask today because my Madam say I no suppose give blog until someone ask. She say but you Madam tell you today to give blog. I say yes but she suppose ask today because that new order from my Madam came today. I think she remember joke. I do 2 proud job and always read blog

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  8. Anonymous5/1/18, 2:54 PM

    Dear Advisor,

    The retirees read your blog with a lot of interest. Aside form joint family challenges, teen issues are a big concern. The Smile with Smile program and the teen parenting subcommittee were asked to lead the reading of the blog today. They were very pleased as it is the highest honour for any member to read the blog. They thanked you for writing in so much detail. They are planning on sharing this with current practitioners eg mental health consultants, parenting experts, family councillors to name a few so they can update their material and help their clients.

    The joint family living are continuing to get requests from other retired and semi-retired individuals about similar issues. We have advised them that you are thinking about this issue and will write when you have had a chance to consult references and other individuals, as needed

    thank you
    recent retiree

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  9. Anonymous5/1/18, 2:55 PM

    This is nice. A new blog every day!

    cool Kyle

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    1. Anonymous5/1/18, 2:55 PM

      Why are you so surprised. It is like a flower bed with different variety of flowers!!

      newbie

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  10. Anonymous5/1/18, 9:16 PM

    Dear Author,

    We read the blog at the Smile Garden today. The Smile Army volunteers were very happy that you wrote a comment for them in your blog. After the reading of the blog they had a meeting and they decided that they will cut down on their sleep and use all their time to work on the Smile Garden, on their jobs and their grades. The Dean suggested to to them that they should spend a little less time on the Smile Garden but they didnt appreciate that and said that there is no way they will do anything other than being here. Prof George also tried to explain but they are in no mood to listen.

    The senior professor of the humanities faculty who were here to listen to the reading commented that your dissection of the teen issues. The Dean suggested that this be explored as literature to be sent to the parents because these are common issues which are being faced by all the returning students. The faculty was asking if there are some copy right considerations. The Dean smiled and said Smile only wants to help and does not care about these things. When he saw the professors looking puzzled, the Dean explained, that Smile is unlike other authors. They responded that isnt she a psychologist? The Dean said yes, she is. And a few other things. The Smile Army heard all that and started raising slogans for you.

    thank you
    Literature Fellow

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  11. Anonymous5/1/18, 9:29 PM

    Father say you yell father little today. Father say father no mind as he angle. Father say father no no what problem if father call some peeple for eat. Father say it good if peeple come house. Father say father yell Niklas because he no study and bad mark. Father say father try help lot but Niklas babiieee. Father say father no say father old almost 67

    (Hannah say Hannah kris thank because you care Hananh and care Niklas. Hannah say Hannah niklas time to prepare kris dish for 125 peeple. Hannah say she fall because she no time eat and kris tire. Hannah say youplease take kris care because you kris wory all Niklas and niklas wory you. Me say father if ok cancel party but father say no it bad. Father try help Niklas and call all friend and futbol kid about Niklas mark so they help Niklas but Niklas keep run pub. Me yell Niklas and say him he need study but he no lisen and only play video. Me say cut fone and cut net but he no hapy. Me confuse. Me no no what do)

    Kris (Germany)

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  12. Superwoman5/1/18, 9:30 PM

    My Smile is amazing. She is an amazing writer. She is an amazing counsellor. She is an amazing advisor. What an amazing person my Smile

    ReplyDelete
  13. Plunker5/1/18, 9:30 PM

    Man. I guess the lunacy will never stop. Kids today. Will they ever learn

    Thanks mrizvi. Jolly good comment

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  14. Batman5/1/18, 9:31 PM

    You know Plunker that kids will be kids. Why worry about them. Some are worse than others. And I guess we are dealing with one of the bad one

    Fantastic job mrizvi for informing us that this is a good blog. Much appreciated

    ReplyDelete

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