Thought Of The Day

First Thing First All My Retiree Friends please don't take any action against Your Friend To make me Happy Err is Human God loves those who forget and Forgive Thanks I regret why I mentioned Oatmeal now I feel sorry for My Friend Hannah She has to get up 10 minutes early to make Kris Father Wishes come True My Dear Kris Father please don't take everything as to benefit you only We have to keep in mind others come first It is not Niklas fault if He doesn't come to You If I yell to My Grand Kids they wont see me again We have to Earn respect not Demand respect Please don't yell to anybody not to your Neighbor and not to your Family Try to give Respect to Everyone You will feel Happy My Dear Friend Doing 2 Jobs Please don't guide anyone what to do This is very personal thing None of our business My Blogs are for My Readers don't give Dictation to Others to do Things Leave Everyone Alone Thank You ...

Dear Retiree My Friend please don't even think  you did anything wrong We are Family don't You worry just relax My Dear Kris Father don't put Hannah under pressure  to make fresh Oatmeal cereal every Morning We have to tackle our own wishes to come true Our Family we live with is already has to deal so much bc of us No more please We have to leave them alone to have some time off Thank You I hope You will Understand My Dear friend Kris is worried about Niklas playing computer games all the times same is my Son about his Kids  I was thinking about this matter it looks not simple a very  complex situation If we cap computer hours Kids start going outside Parents are scared of the world outside Kids are smart they know their Marks are very important to us they somehow manage and keep track of that aspect Now we have no point keeping them away from their favorite domain Parents have two top priorit...

My Dear Literature Fellow I am so Happy that you people like My Blog This means a lot to me Please say  Thank You  to Your Fiends  Your Generation  is very important I will try to write  more  about You People My Dear Retiree Friends I try to write some of My Eating Habits so that Your Nutrition Committee might get some points from that Please let me know if it is  of any use It is Thursday so indoor golf from 1  -- 2 pm in my Club my friend is busy not coming to pick me up today It was early morning I enjoyed my oatmeal cereal which I cook in small pot on stove and keep in the fridge It lasts for about a week every morning I take couple of spoons from that and microwave with milk and sugar I am taking this for years and still enjoying it I eat stir fry egg with my porridge throw away nearly the whole of yolk as I am above 40 so not good for me First I have to wake up my body so have ...

Dear literature Fellow My Friend you mentioned  that someone saying this Blog Site is like a " Gold Mine " Believe me for me Comments from My Readers Family are like " Gold Mine " All these Comments give me power to write My Blogs Please never hesitate to write your Comment it means lot to me Our whole Life consists of many stages each demands lots of adjustments we usually think that there are only three stages 1 : Childhood  to Young Adults 2 : Adult  to Retirement 3 : After Retirement ie. Old age I think this is not true every Decade in our Life needs lots of adjustments as our Life drastically changes in every 10 years of time period We can classify as 1 : Childhood  to High school 2 : Young Adult  to entering Work Place 3 : Starting Marital Life 4 : Period at Work place Period at Work Place can not be taken  as just one period      It needs lots of adjustments   ...

My Dear Retiree Friends I am happy you got  some points from  My Blog My Dear Literature Fellow for social science Project please go to My back Blogs Go to My Website may be 6 months back or so I started focussing  on these Topics Kris My Dear don't get confused Hannah is right Niklas has to focus  on his studies Don't You worry about Him playing games Not a Big Deal just relax He is a Great Kid It is Tuesday so no Club activity today not enough Load to do laundry now I have to plan my Day to get busy I was awake at 7 in the morning nearly one third of the Sky on left side was deep reddish orange The other side of the sky was with a layer of reddish orange not so deep still very bright In between the  clear blue sky looking very beautiful it looked to me as if there was a fire on the left side  The 6 Alarm fire on the left and it's flames giving an effect on right side Every scene of Na...

My Dear Retiree Friends for your Nutrition Committee I write about my eating Habits If it will be of any use I hardly eat out simply I don't enjoy that Mostly tr y to use fresh ingredients for cooking not processed ones As far as about going to frozen lake if you enjoy something  Your heart and soul is into it nothing matters and bothers We Baby Boomers were like Stars in our Days now after retirement refuse to accept that our Days are done We won't leave the space our Spot for the Next Generation to fill in We had to leav e the Spot at our Workplace in Offices that was unavoidable  We had to accept and face it but not anymore I won't leave my another position I was Master of my House my Family no one can take it away from me My Son now has His own Family His own Kids but He has to keep in mind I rule the House  I am retired but not from my other responsibilities I live with Him but won't be an underdog I ...

My Dear Friend who is doing  2 Jobs please focus on  your work  Don't distract others  just leave them alone My Dear Retiree Friends please don't apologize I am Happy everything fine at your end You people are doing great job Keep it up Thank You Kris My Friend don't you worry about Niklas  He is great Kid  having good Marks  and staying Home is Important Other things not important just ignore that part One Day He will make you  proud of Himself Be patient and relax enjoy with Him as time flies After couple  of years  He will fly away leaving the Nest empty It is 11 plus temperature here in Toronto surprisingly after last week snow storm Snow is still here melting away a bit so now I see mixed white and green patches on my front yard It is long weekend here so we called family friends yesterday for dinner at our place You know I love cooking so it hardly happens that at...

Dear Retirees  My friends I miss your Comment hope everything fine Dear Kris Father  we just have to leave nearly Century old system of Handling  Our Kids We have to turn wheel forward not in backward  direction This is Information Era Era of Internet Whole World is in front of our Eyes on our Palm with just a click of a button Make use all of this move forward and enjoy your Life  Try to forget what our Father did to me and what His Father did to Him Scars are not only on skin it can be deep down into our Heart nobody can see It sticks to our Soul takes away our Happiness our peace everything  We Humans are full of emotions every emotion is contagious like Virus When we smile the whole atmosphere becomes full of joy starts feeling that happiness Our fear scares everyone when we hate someone we get the same in return same is Trust Sharing is the best tool it works in either situation w...

Kris Father My Dear we being Grandparents don't have to use our Half a Century Back techniques to tackle the Kids of 21st Century Leave it to Kris please  thank you Kris My Dear You just relax to handle Niklas Everything will be fine It is snowing so all white even I see Sky is also turned white May be snow blown towards sky and made this happen or God put some cosmetics to beautify the atmosphere  My Son clearing the Driveway to take the red Caravan as we have to go to Hockey Arena for Kids games The other smaller car silver Jetta  is under the thick blanket of snow  It was a bad night I mean I did not have a good sleep it happens as we get older start experiencing Sleep problem I take certain measures to rectify this which might be helpful to others too Go to bedroom at a  fixed time cut off all activities to give signal to your body to  slow down  If we miss that time period ou...

Dear Literature Fellow  never hesitate to write Comments Your Generation is an Asset it is very important to think around you To have communication first we have to understand put ourselves into your shoes I am not a child psychologist Counselor not an athlete not a thinker Simply love to see Happiness around everyone to take pressure away as much as I can this makes me Happy Our Life is very complex it has many stages every stage demands lots of adjustments from us We have to co - ordinate with the duties to enjoy that stage of  our Life It is a Vast subject every stage needs lots of discussions today I have to discuss about Kids Childhood period of our Life I think is the most vulnerable stage where so much has to happen Our whole personality depends on our childhood and I think t his is the most neglected stage of our Life Kids emotional matters are the least to be taken into account No one is even thinking...

Dear parents Parenting is a vast subject I keep on writing still not done My Dear Literature Fellow  was having some difficulty in categorizing my Blogs as it is everywhere I mean on so many subjects I started thinking and found out that I write on three subjects 1 : Nature 2 : Family Matters 3 : Happiness In Family Kids and Seniors are my favorite subjects as these two are the most vulnerable and need lots of support Seniors to cope up with their long retirement period and Kids as this subject needs lots of thinking and evaluation  Their whole personality and character building depends on our Attitude on our Behavior  We can make it or break it we have to handle their situation with great care Please while dealing with anyone of them as a Parent or as a Teacher think twice this will be a Scar  They have to carry for their whole Life they totally depend on us for their future for their Life ah...

Dear Literature Fellow  It is never Late for  Wishes and Greetings  Thanks  To My Dear Kris and All Parents Kids playing on computer all the times after school this is the common complain   from most of the Parents Please be realistic what are we doing after office hours and in between going to bed All the time on computers just taking some time off for Dinner We have to realize that it is an Internet Era my Dear when we click on our computers everything so mesmerizing We can not keep ourselves away from computer even at our age we are hooked up So don't blame them blaming and yelling will not be a solution We have to leave our computers to spend time with our Kids not once a while it has to be a daily routine They will be playing games on computers not a big deal just cut down the hours involve in other things We have to evaluate as everything is not total Plus it is natural it will have some nega...

Dear Literature Fellow I am Happy you got My Back Blogs  Kris My Dear just relax Niklas will be fine no yelling just talk to him He will understand Today My Blog is  For My Dear Retiree Friends may be you can get Tips for Nutrition and Healthy  Living Almost 67  is my Dear Kris Father's  sort of slogan He writes every day in his Comment In My earlier Blog I mentioned in " Ink Your Thoughts " that try to write down positive Messages  Anything negative will be like a Scar sticks as a black spot to your Heart and Fax to your Mind Negative Messages  Mind will give negative direction to our Body and Body will follow that direction as our Mind leads our Body When you keep on reminding your Mind about your age how can Body be active your Mood will swing from + ve to -- ve  After that don't blame anyone you did it to yourself now reap your Crop You people are surprised why did I go to see ...

My Dear Literature Fellow I am happy as you are getting help from My Retiree Friends Please go back to search My Blogs one is " Twin Trees "  and so many  about Fall Colors I think " Copper " or Shades of Brown    I am eager to  know your University and Research Topic Thanks Kris My Dear I am Happy for you adjust the Timings  for going to Mall Father is very cooperative he can work around don't get up early In which Grade is Niklas any siblings ? Sorry to be too personal I just want to know  Niklas situation  to work  around Him He will be fine no yelling Pl I have written so much on Parenting so first just  try to relax I will write for Him He will understand Now My Blog For Today This is the Decade of Achievements and accomplishment we are focussed on our Work on our Career This is the Fruit which was forbidden to our Mothers now we can get it we have to hold it tight We...

Dear Kris Father My Friend You are a great Person nothing to worry about just give couple of Tele Hours to Niklas and Hannah Give them some privacy  that's it Don't you worry  everyone Loves You My Dear My Dear Retiree Friends  Thanks for Renewing  Membership of your Friends I am Happy for your Trip to Cafe and your Meetings Keep it up Here is My Today's Blog  It is snowing 5cm on the ground 10 more on it's way this is Canada  My Dear In the News it was 30 cm in Montreal and 30 --- 50 cm in St Johns with 90 Km wind No complains now  we are doing fine in Toronto We are ready for all this nothing stops here business as usual so My Grandkids a re playing I am in Don Beer Hockey Arena to walk around and to watch their Games Traffic was slow and cautious roads icy City People waiting for snow to stop to start their work of clearing the roads Some of the trees after dusting with sno...

Kris My Dear  Father not going anywhere He is My Friend He is very generous He only has to watch His  Tele Hours That's it He can manage We all Love Him Niklas My little Friend I am proud of You  and Your Friends for going to Church for My Father Thanks a lot Love You Dear Retiree Friends  I am really proud of You You are doing so much work to give messages  from My Blogs  To help Community  Thank You Our Kids are Our Asset our Future I will write more about this  important Subject Keep going to cafe  to hold your Meetings this is good for You Today My Blog is about  Listening The more I start thinking about Listening the more I feel about that it is very complicated Not easy --  listening has so many stages we often think as Hearing is Listening Not like that we need our whole body to be involved in that process It is the strongest communication We have to absorb o...

Dear Retiree Friends I am Happy and proud of You people You are doing Great job spreading My Messages to help Community Please feel free as I told you earlier to use My Blogs I am Happy it is helping my work done Thanks I will try to write more on this Topic it is very important  to All Seniors and Retirees Kris My Dear Friend  I am sorry to say that your Father has a very Peculiar  Nature  He wants whole  world around Him He should realize  Don't sacrifice your Job and Family to comfort His Retirement Zone He has to realize His Limits My Dear Literature Fellow Retiree Group is doing lot of work on My Blogs They Graciously have set up number of Subcommittees  taking various Subject into account from My Blogs You can take help for your  Research work from there Today My Blog is about Parenting a very complicated Subject to handle Needs lots of Patience and clear Mind To All Pa...

I thank Everyone but specially to Niklas who offered His  Prayers to My Father Thank You My Dear  Little Friend I am proud of You Dear Kris  Don't take any Day Off  Dear Literature Fellow I think around People they are My Subject Credit goes to  You People  I Just Ink my Thoughts  on Paper or Internet that's it My youngest sister lives in Chicago she just retired from her 30 years of career in a prestigious Cook County  Hospital She is having difficulty in handling her retirement she was devoted to her work and never thought about leaving that She has no plans no social Life no hobbies her health is in chaos  so can not do any physical activity Our personality has to be Multidimensional we have to keep a balance between Work Family and our personal Life It is our great mistake when we are giving whole time to Work or to Family in either case one aspect will be neglected ...

Thanks to All My  Readers Family I highly appreciate your sentiments I didn't mean to do that to you My Friends My Retiree Friends pl don't suspend your activities this is important for you Thanks to Each and Everyone  of you it reminds me that we are Family A Readers Family Though I am feeling Bad  for ruining Your Day Still am feeling Proud of All My Readers Family such a  strong Bond Amazing Yesterday was a mini Ice Storm in Toronto roads were like Skating Ring tree branches were enveloped in beautiful transparent sheath of glass Today still I can see traces of yesterday storm sitting in the library after my Darts beside the conservation area I am enjoying the whole scenery pieces of ice on the grass looks like the scattered broken glass Like whole wall of glass broken may be by some stone hit or whatever all giving a glitter in sunshine Trees are quiet not a single leaf on the bodi...

Dera Literature Fellow Please feel free to ask anything I am people's person  always have time  I am just a Writer it is my favorite Hobby I feel great that you are taking My Blogs for your Project Go to my website for back Blogs Dear Retirees  Please accept my Apology I think there is some   misunderstanding I can never say to remove your Members each one is precious to me What I meant that  don't be so cautious it is all public so take it easy I apologize from bottom  of my heart for all this Everyone of you is like Family to me Please Keep that in mind Today is My Father's Day 30 years back my father died today I am thinking about the days spent with him My childhood period my student Life He was very strict and man of principle The real Head of Family I am thinking everything our Curfew time for Radio hours as we had only Radio in our time We had a very small house with little mone...

Dear Superwoman  I miss your Comment Hope everything fine Dear Retirees there is no Security or privacy issue as everything is public Feel free to share all the information just skip the Names Kris My Dear you have to make it clear that you are not taking Day off End of story Father can stay home  leave his walk Tablet to Niklas and Hannah Father not watching TV  whole time he has to find what to do things Please manage be strong and stand up My Dear Friend who is doing 2 Jobs Please leave everyone alone don't talk about anything except your work This Blog is for My Dear Friend Literature Fellow We Humans are amazing Creatures of God Our Heart keeps sending Messages to our Mind all the times Our Mind is an amazing Workshop with all the bombardment of Stray Thoughts  It has to screen out the Messages to Fax to our Body to act When you have to write anything take any of the Stray thought which...

Kris My Dear you have to be strong for the whole  Family Fix hours for Father to watch TV Take Tablet away give to Niklas  it is important to make him stay home You have to do it  by Hook or Crook pl. make it happen I feel sorry for Niklas and Hannah To My Retirees Friends                   &   All Parents and Seniors When I was retired I didn't plan anything as I go with the flow but only one thing I planned I decided to keep myself busy to make sure that I would not be the person to just waiting for my Kids calls Thank You God I made it because of your help I hate to see my Kids getting sick of me  I try to keep in mind that they have their own families their work and their own time  Not fair to go on asking their time put them under pressure and cash my Motherhood relationship I don't need that If we have trust in ourselves inside our Heart a...

Dear Retirees  I am Happy for your Trips  to Cafe These Group Meetings  are of great value will brighten your Days Dear Kris My Friend I did everything to make understand your Father He has knowledge and wisdom but he pretends I think it suits him you have to talk to him he will listen to you Keep trying to make him understand don't give up you have to draw  limits and take  stand Father is old now it is your responsibility to do justice to your Entire Family I will write  more Blogs on this topic of Social importance Very common  matters in joint Family system We Humans are unique everyone has His / Her own personality we all have inner beauty of our own same are our Kids  It is our common mistake when we compare Siblings like Look ! he is getting high Grades studying long hours why not you He is playing outdoors and maintaining his grades too and you just sitting beside your...

My Dear Kris Father How can you ask Kris not go to Office as I want to go to walk Mall I can not understand please don't put your son under so much pressure How can you think that TV is total your time everyone go my way I think My Friend try to spend some Time alone  It will be great for everyone  and for you too Please be reasonable and show some Kindness In the morning I was watching the News Channel while I was getting ready to go to Library New Brunswick had Ice storm trees were loaded with ice not snow all giving a glassy look Due to heavy load of ice electric wires damaged and end up in power breakdown in thousands of houses It reminded me I think it was six years back month of December my Youngest Daughter from England visiting for two weeks We had t he same Ice Storm in T oronto houses with no power for days we were lucky to have after 24 hours We have Gas Burners so no problem with havin...

My Dear Retirees I think you will find some Tips from My Blog My Dear Kris Father Please don't watch TV  whole time Fix your TV  Hours then spend some time alone you will start enjoying after a while You have to share TV with all Family Members Not fair to them  Dear Literature Fellow I am not an Author simply a Writer It is my Hobby I enjoy When we are old we become like Kids our diet portion our patience everything looks more closer to Kids We can't wait long for anything as kids use to cash their childhood age same we try to cash our old age We put pressure for everything use age as our weapon  In my opinion every stage of Life is a learning process we have to adapt and get ready to cope the changed scenario Being old we are rich in experience and in knowledge we have to make use of all that But we feel very insecure and try to behave as we are still Head of family we push hard for our respect b...

Dear Kris Father it is not a good idea to walk  Disturbing so many people's timetable like Kris has to take day off Niklas doesn't has to go with you Please don't push everyone just to  get happiness Not worth it focus on yourself and please leave everyone alone You will find Happiness that way walking is not the end of world Please leave it You can enjoy watching good s hows on TV  I know My Friend  You will understand Dear Retirees You are doing Great don't push yourself just once a week is enough Go by car to Cafe  it is good idea I am Happy for you people Dear Friend who is doing Two Jobs please leave your Supervisor alone Please don't discuss My Blog with your co workers They are not interested Just focus on your work please Thank You you are doing fine Today it is plus 3 from 20 below zero for a change looks like summer still we need Jackets Sun is shining snow giving a glitter last ...

Dear Literature fellow language is just a medium sentiments and thoughts are everything Please read My Blog All Creatures Big and Small You will never be hesitant to write your comment Keep in mind we are Readers Family and Family is Family Dear Retirees I am very Happy for your walk and Meeting in Cafe continue that please My Blogs are for public anyone can give website to anyone to share Keep in mind it is the same 24 hours day and night throughout our Life It rarely happens that you get up in the morning to embrace all the Big Surprises with full of Joy and happiness and enjoy Don't keep your fingers cross we have to carve and paint our days to beautify and bring colors to our Life We have to find happiness and moments of joy to celebrate our day Take it as your duty to make Life full of surprises God provides us means and now it is all up to us my friends Make it or break it we have to make use of our...

We all are confused about the weather it is end January and no snow temperature is in plus While I wait at my driveway for my friend's car in the morning I enjoy birds chirping snow nearly gone just in small corners Trees are still I think trying to figure out what to do some started budding others are in wait and see Mode My Dear  Kris Father  you were asking me why I doing laundry and not asking my son to do it for me Never think doing job is a punishment when I do my things like laundry changing bed sheets or cooking Helping my daughter in law in kitchen making special dishes for my family I consider it as a Gift to myself a sense of Affirmation to my Mind and Body  As if I am still in the Ring I can do it it gives me strength to move on to boost my confidence  We don't know how long we have to be here I believe that there is time for Everyone to go Still I also believe that Life is a Gift from Go...