Nothing is Total Plus

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It is Sunday hot sunny morning with 24 C Today is very busy day,
everyone coming for the Big Party. It is my Son in law's 60th Birthday. 
It is His day, not mine. I will be there for Him.

 Sometimes we have to take back seat and let others enjoy. People are 
staying at Holiday inn. They are paying from their own pocket, my 
Son in law invited them for the Dinner party.

 Everyone insisted to pay for their stay at the Hotel.We have to be 
reasonable, it works for healthy and lasting relationships in all 
circumstances. 

 People are staying at Hotel, still my other two Daughters are here to help 
out their sister as some people might come home during day time. We will
be ready and happy to entertain them.

 Family binding is very complex, we have to keep in mind that anything one 
sided never works. We have to  realize and always come forward to pitch in. 
Whenever there is any big event or family gathering, it has to be handled tactfully.

 Family is a small unit but when family grows, I mean kids get married, 
it becomes a complex. So many people enter in our family. They have 
different roots, differ in habits and nature. 

 We start facing compatibility issues. That is natural. Everyone has to be 
flexible and has to be considerate to accommodate everyone. This way 
family always remain united. 

 We have to be patient, not easy whenever there is any family gathering.
Everyone has to calm down but nothing is total plus. Anyway the event 
was great, everyone enjoyed.

 Everybody leaving on Sunday, they had breakfast at hotel, came home to 
say bye before leaving Grimsby. It was a festive atmosphere, challenging 
still worth. 

Comments

  1. Adeel Rizvi7/16/18, 6:49 PM

    It sounds like a beautiful weekend. Love your writing! Always feel as if I'm there and living with you in the moment. Keep writing!

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  2. Anonymous7/16/18, 10:27 PM

    +1

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  3. Anonymous7/17/18, 9:16 AM

    I have posted the blog in Smile Corner. Lots of customers in the morning.

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  4. Anonymous7/17/18, 9:20 AM

    I lost the race to post the blog on our corporate notice boards. It was already posted when I got there. Of course, there was also a box of fresh SDs with a note from SA

    Brenda

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    1. Anonymous7/17/18, 9:21 AM

      I was in early today and posted the blog. Of course the SDs were already there. Plus one additional donut for the poster

      Jasmeet

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  5. Anonymous7/17/18, 9:21 AM

    My Smile is awesome! She is an awesome grandmother! She is an awesome advisor. She is an awesome writer. She has awesome family. What an awesome person my Smile is!!

    Karen

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  6. Anonymous7/17/18, 9:22 AM

    This blog is my lifeline. Thank you for writing

    N

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  7. Anonymous7/17/18, 9:22 AM

    I have posted the blog in all notice boards in lobbies A, B, C and D

    Jimmy

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    1. Anonymous7/17/18, 9:28 AM

      SWS was great. As usual there was a big group of people today. We went for the nature walk.

      Tiara

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    2. Anonymous7/17/18, 9:28 AM

      SWN was fun. There was a lot of discussion about Smile's blog

      Cleo

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  8. Anonymous7/17/18, 9:27 AM

    Dear Madam Smile, you so good. You write good to. Job worker with video kid come and say how you. I say I ok. He say I hear you want you chocolate back that you give to video kid? I say yes I want all gift back because my Madam no alow me give gift. She say video kid already eat it. I say I think it ok if you go and buy me another chocolate like that. She say ok I will get you chocolate now. I say no you can bring tomoro. I think she allergy and voice problem. I now get gift back from many people only some left. I do 2 proud job and always read blog

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  9. Anonymous7/17/18, 9:34 AM

    Dear Advisor,

    The retirees did not go for our long walk today as we were very tired from our walk from yesterday. Our walk, though very long for us, is nothing compared to the walks that you have. The retirees instead went straight to the reading of your blog.

    The retirees are surprised that there were a no. of people at the gala celebration for a party. We don't have large parties but when we do it is 3-4 people. One retiree however prefers to have large parties and invites 6-8 people at the same time. In one case, the retiree had a retirement party and invited 15 people all at the same time.

    The retirees are appreciative that you have been continuing to provide guidance despite the busy activities that you are involved in. The retirees passed a resolution to thank you for that

    thank you
    recent retiree

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  10. Anonymous7/17/18, 3:44 PM

    Dear Author,

    We read your blog at the SRC today. Your blog was a little complicated for us as we don't really understand the complications around keeping family together. We asked Prof George for clarifications and he smiled and said that we will understand it later in life. The Dean jumped in and said that it is a good thing that Smile is getting them prepared for what lies ahead. He added that the blog is more to help people like us. Then the Dean asked us to write thanks to you for continuing to write despite your extremely exhausting schedule

    thank you
    Literature Fellow

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  11. Anonymous7/17/18, 9:27 PM

    Father say father want thank because you good idea. Father say father no 60 birthday like big party. Father say father say Kris no wory expense because Hannah cook like you doter and all stay in hotel and pay from them poket. Father say father say when father get gift, father plan share some euro with Kris. Father say you lot good idea and very good blog. Father say father no say father old almost 67

    (Hannah say father plan big party like you law son. Hannah say Hannah need start make food from long time because kris food need and niklas time. Hannah say if you doter idea then please say Hannah. Hannah say you please injoy you holyday. Me say father no party but father say he want party like you law son. Me say it lot expense but father say you tell father idea that Hannah make food and all live hotel from own poket. Me say no do, father say all do, me confuse. Me no no what do)

    Kris (Germany)

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  12. Superwoman7/17/18, 9:29 PM

    My Smile is amazing! She is an amazing author. She is an amazing naturalist. She is an amazing psychologist. She has an amazing family. What an amazing person my Smile is!!

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  13. Anonymous7/17/18, 9:31 PM

    Pretty cool. A new blog every day. Great!!

    cool, Kyle

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    1. Anonymous7/17/18, 9:33 PM

      Of course it is a fresh blog. When was the last time Smile recycled a blog? Never

      newbie

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  14. Plunker7/17/18, 9:34 PM

    Well , well, well. My head is starting to hurt now. I have run out of ideas. Same thing every day. I know, I know ....

    Thanks mrizvi. Very insightful comment.

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  15. Batman7/17/18, 9:35 PM

    CCaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaallllllllllllmmmmmmmmmmmm doooowwwwwwwwwnnnnn ! Just reeeeeeelllllllaaaaaaaaaxxxxxxxx. You are right, Smile has asked us to be kind

    Good job mrizvi. Brilliant comment. I wonder what we will do without you kiddo

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