Try To Listen -- Let Them Talk


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Dear Reader Doing 2 Jobs
You Have To Talk at Work
With People -- With Everyone 

I wanted To Say
Don't Listen when She Talks 
About Not Writing For You


My Friend " N "
I asked You Please Write To Me 
About Your Bird Feeder
I am Still Waiting For That


Niklas My Friend
Father Wont Listen To Me

I Will Only Talk To You Now
Be Strong -- Father Can Not Spoil
Your Life

Don't Expect Anything From Father
Kris also Can Not Save You From Father
You Have To Be Strong

Face School and Foot Ball Team
With Courage
Time will Tell Who is Baby




It is Beautiful Day Sunny with Breeze
It is 12.30 I am at Library Done with My Darts
And with My Lunch Waiting For Bowling
Starts at 1 pm

My Library Got New Addition of Small Beautiful
Place Outside The Premises -- Closed Space
Like Small Back Garden

They Call It " Reading Garden " I always Try New Place
To Have Experience -- To enjoy

I am Sitting in Reading Garden with Benches Around
Couple of Tables and Chairs also Here

Gold Leaves all Around Me On The Floor
Couple Of Trees are HereTo shower Leaves and
To Provide Shelter -- WiFi  is also available
But I Love To Write On Paper

On My Right I See Traffic Passing Through The
Busy Kingston Road -- It is also Called
Highway # 2

I Am Thinking about My Middle Grandson
My Master Golden -- He is Golden No Doubt
But Since My Eldest Grandson Gone To
 University

He is Total Changed Person -- Very Confident
Very Responsible Too Focused on His Studies -- 
He is Now Vice President of One of the Clubs
And also Started Driving 

I Think Siblings Get Overshadowed -- By The
Personality Of The Other One's Specially When
Someone with Better Looks and With
Charismatic Personality

The Other Starts Thinking Himself as an Under Dog
 Choose To Go in Hibernation -- For Him It Looks
Too Much Competition -- He Prefers To Choose To
Go To Back Seat

His Talents -- His Inner Beauty Never Comes Out
People Get a False Perspective Of His Personality
Total Different Picture Of His Character

Same Thing Happened with Master Golden
He is in Grade 11 Now and We were Never
Aware Of His Real Caliber

His Inner Beauty was Like a Hidden Treasure
When We Have Couple Of Kids -- This is a Very
Common Scenario

Keep in Mind Everyone is Different with His Unique
Personality Everyone is a Precious Gift From God
To Be Handled Cautiously Try Not To Break Their
Personalities

It will be Like a Scar They will Carry Throughout
Their Life -- Keep in Mind They Can Read Our
Face Expressions Very Well -- For Them is Like a
Clear Message They Can Get Scared and
Go Underground

For Them It is an Easy way Out To Leave The
Ground and Go in Hibernation with Their Phone and
Computer -- Try To Keep Connections Alive
Let Them Talk -- Let Them Express Themselves

Comments

  1. I have posted the blog in Smile Corner. Lots of customers as usual

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  2. I have posted the blog in all notice boards in lobbies A, B, C and D

    Jimmy

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    1. SWS was great. As usual there was a big group of people today. We went for the nature walk

      Tiara

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    2. SWN was fun. There was a lot of discussion about Smile's blog.

      Cleo

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  3. My Smile is awesome! She is an awesome therapist! She is an awesome councillor. She is an awesome writer. She is an awesome friend to readers family. What an awesome person my Smile is!!

    Karen

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  4. You only ask me about bird feeder. I stop feeding the bird now

    This blog is my lifeline. But you dont write for me

    N

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  5. I lost the race to post the blog in our corporate notice boards.

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    1. sorry forgot to sign my name.

      That was me, Brenda who lost the race :-(

      Brenda

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    2. I was in early so was able to post the blog. There was a box of SDs there but no donut for poster today

      Craig

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    3. Sorry I no able get fresh donut for post. I wait 45 min but the baker gave next batch to someone else. He always give me 1st batch because I give blog quote to him He like that

      SA

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  6. Dear Madam Smile, you so good. you write good to. I go job worker in job 2 and say her that I come to talk because my Madam alow me talk. But when you say she no write about me, then I will not talk and no listen you. She say you Madam smart. I say her yes she very nowledge. She do science . She go gorment confernece. She teach dear retirees to walk and she teach dear chef to cook and she teach dear literature fellow to read literature I wanted to say her more thing but she say that she need go. I do 2 proud job and always talk blog

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  7. Dear Advisor,

    The retirees did not go for our long walk today. We are still very tired from the walk from yesterday. Some of the retirees are still suffering from cramps also. This walk, though very long for us, is nothing compared to the walks that you have. The retirees instead went straight to the reading of your blog.

    The retired social scientist led the reading of your blog today. She pointed out that the research you presented, along with the example of your grandson, Master Golden can be, and should be used for post doctoral studies. After the reading she reached out to the a few post grad students whose PhD thesis that she is advising on and asked them to change their thesis. She believes that research on this will help sibling relationships as well as parenting hence making a practical impact in communities and families in the world

    thank you
    recent retiree

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  8. Dear Advisor,

    We read your blog at the SRC today. The Smile Army also was present as was the Dean. The dean also invited the sociology department to come and listen in. They were very impressed with the blog . The senior professors are planning on giving homeworks and tutorials to all the faculty students on this blog. They asked the Dean if there are any copyright issues but he assured them that you are more focused on the well being of the kids then on copyright issues

    After wards the Smile Army discussed the school kids situation with the sociology faculty. They have suggested a few things so the Dean asked the Smile Army to hold off on the private investigation as these experts may be able to solve the issue.

    thank you
    Literature Fellow

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  9. Yet another new blog today. How does Smile does it

    cool Kyle

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    1. She is what they call, a pro. Or in other words, a factory of ideas. Just enjoy

      newbie

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  10. Father say that you yell father lot today like all day. Father say he yes mind. Father say he no no why you yell him all time. Father say why you say Niklas that he strong because father try teach him that all time but he baby. Father say he walk lot today and also go station to spend time alone. Father say he say he old almost 67

    (Hannah say thank because you care Niklas like you Niklas. Hannah say Hannah tel Niklas to listen you. Niklas say that he go futbal and go skool. He say all kid call him baby but he no care. Niklas say then he went for walk on driveway. Me went office but father call because he want go station so me take him there. Me plan all time so take cushion so no need come back. Me no yel Niklas today but me no no why he no able to put cushion in car when i take father station. I tell him lot time that he need to. Me confuse. Me no no what do)

    Kris (Germany)

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  11. My Smile is amazing. She is an amazing sociologist. She is an amazing writer. She is an amazing counsellor. She has an amazing family. What an amazing person my Smile

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  12. Please Please. Stop this craziness. It is not good. I know it is fun but it is not the right thing. My blood boils when I see this. I know I know ..

    Thanks mrizvi. I am not sure what would happen if you dont tell us that this is a good blog

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  13. Just calm down Plunker. Just Calm down. It is not good for your health. Yes Smile has asked us to be kind

    Way to go mrizvi. Simply brilliant

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  14. Though it is your writing prowess which has fascinated your fans and followers yet we have been astounded at the psychological insights in your writings. We perhaps are verbalizing what many of your fans are thinking that this blog, like several others, belong to psychology textbooks as they can spawn many scientific publications. Perhaps the bigger achievement with these writings is the enhancement of social and parenting skills and know how. What may appear to be so obvious and simple, is anything but for us, your readers

    thank you for making our lives brighter
    Dave and Linda

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  15. Hello Readers Family
    Thanks Linda Dave Boris Batman Keith Literature Fellow Retiree Group Kim Cleo Jimmy Karen Superwoman mrizvi Brenda N Kyle Newbie Plunker Craig Marg Smile Addict Jasmeet Tiara Kris Thanks All My Anonymous and Multilingual Readers Thanks Everyone

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