To Be A Listener

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Father pl. leave Niklas alone
Why You need someone
always around

 Try to live Your own Life
Pl.don't bother others

 They have to enjoy their own Time

 Niklas has to be inside His Home
enjoy His TV Shows
not on broken Sofa

 Try to be alone 
You are not Old 
67 is not Old

 Stay away from Niklas 
don't make His Life a
Hell leave Him alone

Thank You
My Dear Friend



It is a beautiful Morning whole night
was rain and thunder so everything
had a good shower looking fresh
and in a great Mood

Now in the morning drizzling very
light no Sun no cloud just a clear
Neutral atmosphere

I am all dressed up and ready to go
My friend is here to pick Me up
now I am working at the desk
in My Cubicle in the library 

My school friend from Sydney Australia
writes every day Message on My
face book as I am in Toronto so it
is a night and day sort of thing

I mean the time difference she writes
at nigh and I read in the morning
We were not even in the same school

Our houses were nearby more than
half a century back We did only 2 years
of High school together 

We were in different Faculties in
University She was in Zoology and
I was in Microbiology

After 1964 We got busy in our after
marriage sort of business that is babies
household and also Work

Nearly 25 years after I met her in Dubai
for couple of days then nearly 15 years back
she was at My Place in Toronto for overnight

Now she lives with her son in Sydney
We are at that stage of our Life that
We now wont see or meet each other 

We know that for sure still She never
miss a day writing each and every
detail of her day to day activities
how she feeling the weather and so on

She has to move now to Perth to her
daughter as her Son going to sell
his house and will build a new one 

It will take about a year She shares her
sentiments We being in same age group
can relate the situation 

I am writing all this to elaborate the
value of sharing it is enough to relax
when you have trust that someone
listening 

Never hesitate to talk about your feelings
your day to day activities it is a
Blessing from God if you have someone
there who is listening to you

Communication is always great you
can get rid of your unseen fear of
Days and years to come 

Keep connected to have Peace and
Happiness also be a good listener
to others God choose You to be
there for His Creatures it is an honor
to be a Listener 


Comments

  1. Anonymous4/3/17, 8:20 AM

    I have posted the blog in Smile Corner. Even though it is Monday, there are lots of customers here.

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  2. Sheema4/3/17, 8:23 AM

    We are really selfish most of the time and especially when we are in a mood of self pity. We want others to listen and really if somebody is there to listen, it makes a lot of difference. We feel happy that people do care for us and we are not alone. However, we forget that now it is our duty to listen and give time to others.So again a very good reminder from Smile to share our feelings and listen to others when they need us.

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  3. Anonymous4/3/17, 8:23 AM

    +1

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  4. Anonymous4/3/17, 8:23 AM

    I lost the race to post the blog on our corporate notice boards. It was already posted when I got there. Of course, there was also a box of fresh SDs with a note from SA

    Brenda

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    1. Anonymous4/3/17, 8:24 AM

      I was in early today and posted the blog. Of course the SDs were already there.

      Criag

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    2. Anonymous4/3/17, 8:24 AM

      And I posted the one from the weekend

      Marg

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  5. Anonymous4/3/17, 8:26 AM

    My Smile is awesome! She is an awesome listener! She is an awesome councillor. She is an awesome writer. She has awesome family. What an awesome person my Smile is!!

    Karen

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  6. Anonymous4/3/17, 8:26 AM

    I have posted the blog in all notice boards in lobbies A, B, C and D. Still working on getting the blogs posted from the weekend.

    Jimmy

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    1. Anonymous4/3/17, 3:27 PM

      Today's blog is about Emotional Intelligence.

      We are still waiting for the weekend blogs. Cant wait. Mondays are the best day of the week

      Cliff

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    2. Anonymous4/3/17, 3:31 PM

      I have now posted all blogs in all noticeboards in lobbies A, B, C and D.

      Sorry for the delay, I was delayed as people kept coming to get copies from the printouts.

      Jimmy

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    3. Anonymous4/3/17, 3:32 PM

      SWS was fun. There are some managers who also join these walks. People were saying TGIM (Thank God Its Monday) and now we get to read 3 blogs.

      Tiara

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    4. Anonymous4/3/17, 3:34 PM

      SWN was fun too. We talked about Smile's blog from today and the fact that Smile has so long term relationships. This is an indication of how level headed she is despite all her achievements

      Cleo

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  7. Anonymous4/3/17, 3:26 PM

    Dear Madam Smile,
    You so good. You friend build big house in Australia. You friend want friend with you since 1964 because you share. I go job worker and I say her I want share my feeling with you. She say why? I say her because my Madam say sharing good. She say she need go right away. Mr. Supervisor come and say what happen because the job worker say you tell feeling. I say yes because my Madam say tell feel good. He say you Madam mean different. He say remember you Madam say no tell blog. I say I no tell blog but tell feel only. I think he head hurt because he hold head. I say you need tell feel to. He say he need make phone. I do 2 very proud job and always read blog

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  8. Anonymous4/3/17, 3:43 PM

    Dear Advisor,
    The retirees did not go for our long walk today. We are still very tired from the walk from two days ago. Some of the retirees are still suffering from cramps also. This walk, though very long for us, is nothing compared to the walks that you have. The retirees instead went straight to the reading of your blog.

    The retirees were very surprised to read the blog. We did a quick poll after the blog to determine who has the longest relationship outside the family and found out that the longest relationships are less than 20 years, though one retired lady has been keeping in touch with a friend for 27 years. They dont talk regularly but do send each other Christmas cards every year. The retired communication expert requested you to share some additional insights about how this is doable because in majority of cases, people have a falling out due to various issues

    Thank you so much for your continued guidance to us
    recent retiree

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  9. Anonymous4/3/17, 3:59 PM

    This blog provided me with a perfect ice breaker for my business meeting today. The meeting was to talk about a fractious relationship between our company and the vendor. and I started off with this blog. And voila !! Smile's blog did the trick. Instead of yelling and screaming at each other, we instead started off on the right foot and discussed things in a civil environment. At the end a very fantastic meeting.

    I just on my way from the meeting but thought I will post this comment before I close my laptop

    Smile is fantastic!! She knows how to talk sensibly!!

    Thank you Smile

    Keith Walker

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    1. Anonymous4/3/17, 8:59 PM

      I am learning so much from these blogs. Every day there is a new topic

      Kyle

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    2. Anonymous4/3/17, 9:01 PM

      Yup. These blogs come up with a warning.

      If you like boring then these blogs are not from you.

      If you will like to leave, these blogs are not for you

      If you like same thing every day, these blogs are not for you

      newbie

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  10. Anonymous4/3/17, 4:11 PM

    Father say you yell father lot today but father no mind because you very nice. Father say he no agree that 67 not old. He say after 65, father retire because he to old. Father say he no 67 yet he 66 but will be 67 in a few month. Father say he tell Kris (me) and Niklas that they need go room because father need watch tele alone. Father say he no say that he old almost 67

    (Hannah say that he no surprise that you friend for so long. He say that you very kind. Niklas no stay home today but go out with friend becuse father no allow him in house as want spend time alone. Me try tell father that he let Niklas watch tele and play competer but father no allow. Me confuse. Me no no what do)

    Kris (Germany)

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  11. Anonymous4/3/17, 4:12 PM

    This is such a nice blog. I wish I came across your blog in 1964 also as it would have been so good to have a friend like you

    Thank you for being my lifeline

    N

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  12. Anonymous4/3/17, 4:17 PM

    Dear Author,

    The Dean read my comments to you and was extremely appreciative of the efforts put by me and the professors. He bought a cake to the SRC to celebrate. He was thinking of calling it "Celebrate in style" but one of our marketing professor who was involved in the thesis work changed it. It was called "Celebrate with Smile". The Dean asked one of the students and a professor to go to the cake shop to get this inscribed on the cake itself. Afterwards he gave a very flattering speech to us and also mentioned you.

    Thank you so much for the guidance that you have been providing to us.

    Literature Fellow

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  13. Plunker4/3/17, 8:56 PM

    Come on! Give me a break. Same old insanity. It makes my blood boil! I know, I know ....

    Thanks mrizvi. Brilliant comment

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  14. Batman4/3/17, 8:57 PM

    Caaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaallllllllllllllmmmmmmmmmmmm down Plunker. Just reeeeeeeeeeeeeeelllllllllllllaaaaaaaaaaxxxxxxxxxxxx. Go for a walk. Take a cold shower or just read Smile's blog again. You are right, we must be kind........

    Good job mrizvi. You guessed it correctly, kiddo. It is a good blog

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  15. Superwoman4/3/17, 8:58 PM

    My Smile is amazing! She is an amazing listener. She is an amazing advisor. She is an amazing councillor. She has amazing friends. What an amazing person my Smile is!!

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  16. Smile4/3/17, 11:45 PM

    Hello Readers Family
    Thanks Kris Keith Boris Karen Batman mrizvi Plunker Superwoman Linda Dave
    Jimmy Tiara Cliff Cleo Sheema N Literature Fellow Brenda Retiree Group
    Craig Marg Newbie Kim Kyle Tommy Thanks All My Anonymous and Multilingual
    Readers Thanks Everyone

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