Just Open The Window

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Kris My Dear
You have to make sure
Father has not to take
Everything

 Like TV full time
and Tablet 
also not to take
You for all the Time

 You have to be with
Niklas and Hannah 
and have to go to Work

 You have to make 
Father understand
the Limits and 
His Boundaries

 It is very important
for the Whole Family

 Niklas needs more Time
than Father 

 Father My Dear Friend
will understand


Teens is that stage of Life when
Life seems to be with full of
Promises with all it's colors
and with all the enjoyments

When the whole World looks like a
Playground and Emotions are bursting
out so the energy enough to conquer
the Whole World

 Not Their fault it is the age
We also passed the same stage
in our Life 

We also were taking this World in
same perspective All colors all Beauty
and No problems

We had Dreams but difficult to channelize
We were watching everything on a Big
Screen but experiencing difficulty in
opening the small Window of opportunity

At that stage it was very difficult to focus
as We had all the Dreams with their
equal Glitter and equal promises 

Main problem was which one to choose
otherwise no shortage of Dreams

We trusted our Parents but with the opinion
that for sure They can not understand
our emotions our Thoughts

They love us but underestimating
our Caliber they don't trust that
We can decide and We can do
whatever we want

They want to dictate which window
I have to open and which Career
I have to choose

They started dreaming on our behalf
for us but We have our own Dreams
to make come true

Why are They interfering trespassing
My Territory and trying to be Bossy

 Why are They planning for Me
where do I stand  ----  Nowhere ?

 Nothing happening at My cost
I wont agree with that
They will see

Now here the Struggle starts
We have to handle our Kids
Very patiently 

They are full of Dreams and full of Energy
just need the Right Direction the Right
Track in the Trails of Life


Comments

  1. Anonymous4/26/17, 8:34 AM

    I have posted the blog in Smile Corner. Customers are flocking to my shop as the word is getting out that this blog is about teen issues

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  2. Anonymous4/26/17, 8:37 AM

    I lost the race to post the blog on our corporate noticeboards. It was already posted when I went to post it

    Brenda

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    1. Anonymous4/26/17, 3:29 PM

      I was in early so was able to post the blog. There was a box of SDs there but no donut for poster today

      Marg

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  3. Anonymous4/26/17, 3:30 PM

    Thanks for being my lifeline

    N

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  4. Anonymous4/26/17, 3:31 PM

    My Smile is so awesome! She is an awesome advisor! She has an awesome family! She is an awesome writer! What an awesome person my Smile is!!

    Karen

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  5. Anonymous4/26/17, 3:32 PM

    I have posted the blog in all notice boards in lobbies A, B, C and D

    Jimmy

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    1. Anonymous4/26/17, 3:33 PM

      SWS was a great. We decided to go on the nature route. As usual, we talked about today's blog.

      Tiara

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    2. Anonymous4/26/17, 3:35 PM

      SWN was fun too. We also talked about the blog. Participants could not believe that Smile has so contrasting personality traits that she goes for walk in freezing cold weather and also does meditation and writes about listening and writes about TEENAGERS!!

      Cleo

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    3. Anonymous4/26/17, 3:36 PM

      The toastmasters meeting today was about Smile's blog about listening . Lots of people wanted to talk about he today's blog as teenager issues is a hot topic but we ran out of time. I will schedule another meeting for that

      Kim

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  6. Anonymous4/26/17, 3:43 PM

    Dear Madam Smile,

    You so good. You give so good advice. I see job worker with kid and I say her how you. She say she busy and no time. I say I want talk about kid. She say he bad giving lot problem. I say her did you sit in circle with him or did you talk him when you stand. She say how can I sit circle becuase it only 1 kid and me. I say you get other people join you so you make circle, like you neighbor, you friend. She say she need go. I say her let kid dream because he energy. She say how you know he dream. I say because that what teenager do. She say my kid no teenager he 4 and then she go. I think she head hurt. I do 2 very proud job and always read blog

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  7. Anonymous4/26/17, 4:10 PM

    Dear Advisor:
    The retirees went for our long walk today. After that we had our lollipop. This walk, though very long for us, is nothing compared to the walks that you have. The retirees were very tired as we are out of practice for the few days.

    Your blogs are dealing with critical social issues and we are running out of resources to get them all evaluated. I am not complaining about that but wanted to let you know so you are aware. The listening blog is still being evaluated and we are going through it and finding a number of things which will require us additional investigation. For today's blog, we do not have yet a subcommittee. We debated to get this added to the joint living subcommittee but thats a different topic, so we have created a subcommittee. The retired principal is leading that as she was the principal of a high school and had a lot of training in dealing with teen issues. she is also getting assistance from the retired social scientist who is considered as a teen expert. As a no. of retirees have teenage grandkids, they wanted to volunteer however we are limiting the membership as the other subcommittees also require their time

    thank you again for your continued blogs
    recent retiree

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  8. Anonymous4/26/17, 4:11 PM

    Cool. Another new topic today!! This time about teenagers. Smile is amazing

    cool Kyle

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    1. Anonymous4/26/17, 11:21 PM

      Hey Kyle, Smile's blog are like buffet, there is so much on display and you just pick what you want!

      newbie

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  9. Superwoman4/26/17, 4:13 PM

    My Smile is amazing. She is an amazing teenage advisor. She is an amazing writer. She is an amazing counsellor. What an amazing person my Smile is !!

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  10. Anonymous4/26/17, 4:34 PM

    Dear Author,

    Your blog created a big buzz today. It started at the SRC and soon the word spread and all students were seen with copies of your blog. They were sharing it and reading it together. It was huge. The professors in all social science classes had no choice to suspend their planned lectures and talk about today's blog. One professor said that this is the first time that he has seen students volunteering for assignments.

    Thank you Thank you Thank you
    Literature Fellow

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  11. Sheema4/26/17, 5:13 PM

    Wonderful advice for the parents who are struggling in managing their teens on the right path

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  12. Anonymous4/26/17, 5:21 PM

    Father say you yell father lot today. Father say he no mind. Father say Kris (me) need spend more time father because father spend time with Kris when Kris Niklas. Father say that Niklas no need time because father spend time him to help him. Like father show him national geographic and Agatha Krisy and Columbo on tele. Father also show Niklas how play futball. Father wake him morning to go see rabit. Father get tire so Niklas need spend time to. Father say he say that he old almost 67

    (Hannah say that she thank you for write about family. She say that she wake early today because father want go before sun and want get oatmeal and then wait for cold. Niklas say that grandpapa make him wake before sun and yell him to be quiet but grandpapa no no that he wake all bird because he yell loud. Niklas then go skool late. Niklas say he read you blog to friend and they want you write in German so they can make their pa and ma and granpapa read it. He say that they love blog. Me wake early because father want see rabit but no rabit. Me go office late. Me tire and confuse. Me no no what do)

    Kris (Germany)

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  13. Plunker4/26/17, 11:19 PM

    Man. I guess the lunacy will never stop. I am afraid that there are others who are starting to show same behaviour

    Thanks mrizvi. Jolly good comment

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  14. Batman4/26/17, 11:19 PM

    You know Plunker that kids will be kids. Why worry about them. Some are worse than others. And I guess we are dealing with the bad ones

    Fantastic job mrizvi for informing us that this is a good blog. Much appreciated

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  15. Smile4/26/17, 11:41 PM

    Hello readers Family
    Thanks Kyle Kim Kris Keith Boris Newbie Plunker mrizvi Batman Jimmy Cleo
    Sheema Brenda Craig Marg Literature Fellow N Retiree Group Tiara Jasmeet
    Superwoman Linda Dave Karen Happy Reader Thanks All My Anonymous and
    Multilingual Readers Thanks Everyone

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