Thought Of The Day

Literature Fellow My Dear Friend Thank You for Creating Friendly atmosphere for Your Other Friends Planting Flowers  is a Great idea very Positive attitude This will reflect in Your Personality will make Your Life Beautiful Kris My Dear Friend I am not feeling Good as Father is Mad When Readers share  Their Problems I get involved as We are Family I write what I think is good may be I am wrong but  I believe that I am worried about Niklas going out to Mall and to Friends  That's why I always say Spend more Time with Niklas and leave Father alone I believe if We don't care about Them We lose Them I have posted so many Blogs to solve this issue but Nothing working out Father doesn't want to listen and so do You Every time I am stuck and standing where I started Anyway I am not  giving up  and go on trying My Luck Today is Thursday nothing for Me at My Club so I have to Plan My Day ...

Xin My Dear Friend I am Happy for You please keep Connected Thank You Kris Father My Dear Friend I am sorry Please don't be  Mad at Me Don't stop Writing Your  Comment Thank You Literature Fellow  My Dear Friend Please open Your arms to Your Friends from the other Group Your Group initiated all the Work at SRC Be Happy that People are coming to Join and to make  it a Success Everyone be patient and accommodate Others around Thank You My Dear Retiree Friends  You are asking Tips for Healthy Living  and Nutrition Think Positive is the only Tip in My Mind It is Friday My activities are off Today as Tomorrow on Saturday We are having Bazar at Our Club Today We will set it up You know I go for Everything to get out and to get busy so I am Part of that  It is 11.30 I am done with My Morning Things like busy with Computer to check My messages and Comments on My Blog I have to tak...

Dear father My friend I watch Rabbit and Birds  alone not with My Son I let My Grandsons to watch TV and Play online Games with Friends I don't Yell and not let My Son to Yell at Them Literature Fellow  My Dear Friend Please let Everyone Share  My Blogs These are Messages  of Happiness Please don't call them Rival Group We all are from the same  Human Family I was thinking about Happiness how it Travels from person to person and from various spots reaches to us  I think it travels like a Current like Electricity We have to use many sockets to get it connected and also many Faucets to drain out Happiness  Many Sockets to have a continuous flow of Happiness not to have a Power Breakdown  We have to use multiple Power Houses to generate the power of Happiness We have to use various Resources of Energy Reservoirs to get the flow of Happiness with no interruption No disturbance no Fuse ou...

Kris My Dear Friend I don't know how to make Father understand I think He doesn't want to listen as it suits Him He has taken the  Whole House as Hostage  His Yelling  working out  and He is fine  with That  He is getting  Everything  He wants Fine with Him Rabbit Hunt before Sunrise with Whole Family at His Service Hannah with Oatmeal  at the right temerature Kris and Niklas with Him to help to watch  Rabbit and Birds It is Summer so a different scenic view to enjoy I use to get out of My House 5 minutes before 9.30 as My Friend comes to pick Me up at 9.30  These 5 minutes is My Time to enjoy the Nature around My Neighborhood  It is Bright and Sunny I put My small Royal Blue bag on the Red Bench which is on My Front Yard  This Bag is like a Souvenir for Me One of My Grandson got it from School of Medicine of University of Toronto He is now studying Medic...

Kris My Dear You have to make sure Father has not to take Everything Like TV full time and Tablet  also not to take You for all the Time You have to be with Niklas and Hannah  and have to go to Work You have to make  Father understand the Limits and  His Boundaries It is very important for the Whole Family Niklas needs more Time than Father  Father My Dear Friend will understand Teens is that stage of Life when Life seems to be with full of Promises with all it's colors and with all the enjoyments When the whole World looks like a Playground and Emotions are bursting out so the energy enough to conquer the Whole World Not Their fault it is the age We also passed the same stage in our Life  We  also were taking this World in same perspective All colors all Beauty and No problems We had Dreams but difficult to channelize We were watching everything on a Big Screen but experiencing difficulty i...

Thanks for Reading My Yesterday Blog I was a bit Nervous  about the Reaction I mean How  Everyone  will take it I don't Censor My Thoughts I should but I can't I just carried away when I start writing Thanks anyway for Your Support It is 11 degrees but feel like 6 degrees Yes this is common terminology in Canada on Weather Channel  This Feel like number is always there in Winter as well as in Summer in Winter it is called Windchill factor and in Summer Humidex We are used to it and always get ready in accordance to the Feel like Temperature It is beautiful and Sunny Morning We have some problem in one of our Washrooms  Worker will be here and water will be turned off for couple of Hours I have to Plan My Day accordingly I had My shower just after Breakfast I wont talk about Oatmeal Porridge My Friend Hannah had to get up 20 minutes before Work to put it on Dear Father Table Dave was right She is ...

To My Dear Friends Parents & Teachers Kris My Dear Friend was saying that He gave 2 Hours lecture to Niklas which was not of any use as Niklas didn't listen Kris has to Yell to make Him listen still not worked out I was not surprised at all by all this This is a very common story of Everybody Home same thing between  Parents and Kids I have read a Book titled   " Listening " it was about 30 Years back but I still remember  Author emphasized Listening as a very important Skill and also that First Job depends 80 % on Listening I agree but how not any emphasis on the Art of how to make anybody to Listen  There is so much focus on the Art of Speech -- Speakers Forum and Courses about how to be a Good Speaker Nothing on how to make Someone to Listen I think the Word " Lecture "  is very repulsive Where the other Party is taken as a Hostage with no option just sitting there with Eyes open Ears...

My Dear Friends Kris  and Dear Niklas  Please stop going with Father  to Rabbit Hunt He will learn to stay alone You just give Him a break Let Father do His own Things I was thinking now He will  stay alone and Read Books to wait for Birds  Leaving  You people alone But Things are same  I can not make Him  understand Don't make Niklas Life a Mess please His age is very Tender He needs Help Not Father Kris please stay with Niklas and leave Father alone He will manage Great Morning after a long time I am in a very light jacket walking on My Driveway waiting for My Friend car to pick Me up It was Rain last Night so Everything clean and bright still a bit cloudy  Sun is there but is behind the bluish white curtain I think getting ready for some Party and  not ready yet  Birds talking to Each other from different Tree Tops saying Hello to Me too now They see Me everyday...

Retirees My Dear Friends You are doing great job Spreading Messages of happiness around I am just writing but You are working in  Fields Every 3rd Thursday of the month is Pot Luck at our Club I am not a good eater but I don't skip anything to get out I opened Red Kidney Beans Can to make Salad with light dressing to take it to the Pot Luck Table It started raining as people say April shower May flower it looks very true Whole atmosphere looks all changed with Morning shower  The Lonely Tree looks Happy now with green tinge all over and Started Budding Birds calling each other so loud I can hear them while sitting in My room with windows closed I think Birds started getting familiar of Me they don't get scared I was surprised one time I was walking and they were just there beside Me Talking to each other looking on the grass may be searching for something they lost over there whatever was that I was Happy to s...

Kris My Dear Friend I told so many times that My Son never takes Day Off for Me I watch all the Birds and also Rabbit on My own Father please don't think that You have taken care of  Kris when He was a Kid  so now He has to pay back He has His own Family Beside You Give Kris a Break so that He can take care of  Poor Niklas Niklas is wandering  in Malls as No One  is there for Him How come You need someone  to sit with You in the  Back Yard   or walking in the Front Yard I told You before 67 is not  Old at all Such a beautiful Morning with a light Drizzle  after very long Easter holidays I am going Back to Work It is Wednesday so will be working full time I mean Darts and also Carpet Bowling It is drizzling so I am not walking at My Driveway I am standing at My Front Door to enjoy the whole Scenery Grass at My Front Yard is lush green My House is at the curly side of Ch...

Literature Fellow My Dear Friend Believe Me I write like in 10 minutes  slot before Playing Darts I am at Library at 9.40 start My work at 9.45 go to Darts 5 minutes  before 10 I post what I write as it is I don't write anything worth reading These are just Common Sense Matters Because of You People I keep on Writing Every Day Writing is My Passion  It is a beautiful Morning 9 degrees and Sunny last night was rain cloudy whole day but rain started all of a sudden  Me and My Daughter in law were going to some gathering at our Family Friend Place It was after 8 pm nice weather not much cold so I was wearing My reddish brown sweater it was a gift from My sister in law We were in the car   5 minutes after it was raining hard we were in front of Friend's place but difficult to get out We  used umbrella it reminded Me of the weather in England so unpredictable Today all clear silver sky wi...

Kris Father My Dear Friend I watched Rabbit through window if you go near  it will run away You have to stay alone Nobody can stay for hours with You We are retired so We have time Others have work to do try to stay alone  don't take every time some one with You Please don't test  Everyone patience They all Love You Kris has to spend time with Niklas not with You His age is very  tender  He needs  Love  and attention Not Yelling It is long Easter Holidays here in Canada still 2 more Days I am sitting at Tim Horton enjoying the festive atmosphere It is 11.30 a mixed crowd but not the Young Faces as school is closed some Young Adults working on their Laptops some writing like Myself It was 9 degrees but feel like 4 so I went back to change My coat I am dressed in layers so it is OK Weather is not so simple here it looks very Sunny but when You go out it might be very cold like today I had ...

Kris Father My Dear Friend My Son never takes  Day off  for me I never want that from Him We watch TV only for 30 minutes  the Program of His choice on Weekends only Go to Lake not every time once a while on Weekend not for long I go because of Him He loves to go  to Lakes I can't even imagine to wake the Whole House to watch Rabbit before 35 minutes Sunrise You have a very loving Family please leave Them alone I feel bad for Niklas My Grandsons sleep  till 12 sometimes 1 pm I never wake them up When They get up  I put nice Lunch for Them We leave TV for them We have to earn their Love not to annoy Them We never have to take things  away from Them so that  They have no choice except  to go out  with Friends  Not good for them Please don't do that I know You are a Good  and Loving Person Beautiful Morning temperature is in double digits 15 Degrees I am wait...

Retirees My Dear Friends Thanks for resuming Your activities I appreciate the detailed  Comment Thanks again Keep smiling  and enjoy Your Period of Retirement Literature Fellow My Dear Friend Please let Me know the Title of Research Projects  if it is OK Thanks It was raining since Morning I was busy with other Things at My Place  During holidays and Weekends I put Lunch on the table for My Son and for My Youngest Grandson Others wake up late so different timings except for Dinner which we eat together I was busy making Pancakes which Everyone loves also playing Scrabble and Card games on Computer Watching " Anne of Green Gables " after My breakfast  also enjoying beautiful scenic view of My  Backyard Father was asking where My son takes Me to watch Rabbit I Never ask My Son or My Grandsons to take Me somewhere for My enjoyment I wont like to do that anyway Rabbit comes to My Backya...

Happy Easter To All My Readers Dear Retirees My Dear Friends I helped You out now I need Your Help Please revive all Subcommittees Please don't say " No " I need Your Support I can not write My Blogs like this while You My Friends are sad and feeling low I am responsible for all This Please just forget Everything as if nothing happened I wish to see All of You the same with Happy Faces With full of Inspiration full of energy I hope You All will forgive Me for making all this Mess I am looking forward  to Your " Yes " as an answer I Trust Your Kind heartedness and understanding My Dear Friends I never  try to censor My Thoughts but I have to keep in Mind I can make or Break  Hearts of My Readers Family Who are Everything  to Me I am Anxiously waiting for Your Answer please go to Cafe  and read My Blog together This is for Me My Treat  Literature Fellow  My Dear Frien...

My Dear Retiree Friends please don't give up I am proud of all you doing  in Your Subcommittees All My Blogs are around You and Your Activities It means You are indicating that I have to give up writing My Blogs Just start Your activities as usual  go back to normal I wanted You People to stand for Yourself don't look to anyone Feel strong to lead Your Life Don't take Retirement period as a disease or as a gloomy stage a sad part of your Life I have written so many Blogs on after Retirement  I believe this is our Golden Era We can do anything we like We can spend as much time  as we want wherever we want Retirees My Dear Friends  You have changed  so many Lives You made so much difference in so many sectors  of our Society Don't suspend any of Your Activities please Thank You It is Thursday Great Morning temperature is 4 plus and Sunny Tree skeletons are now having green tinge on the...

I was planning to write some scenic Views in My Blog But as My Dear Retiree Friends feeling low after My Yesterday Blog  I changed My Plan and now this is for  all My Seniors and Retiree Friends Be strong and Happy to face the World I told My Retiree Friends not to let anyone know not even to your Kids and Family that We feel like an Extra Figure in the House we live Not even share that thought to Yourself now You will be thinking why I mentioned everything in My Blog when it is not to share Why I want that to keep as a secret just to hold in your heart My Dear if We say it loud We feel as if We are weak and be sad and feel lonely I wanted to show you the real picture of We Retirees that Who we are and where we stand  We are an Extra Figure in the Family We live with but it doesn't mean that We have to be sad or depressed Not at all I will never say that We have to be strong and plan a Happy Life ahead...

My Dear Readers Family please take it as a common story of so many of us living in Joint family system Kris Father is My Dear Friend He reads My Daily Blogs picks whatever suits Him Now again that Oatmeal saga starts further Yelling to get with the right taste with the right temperature and so on Some People never satisfied with whatever there they love to have everything and as much they can Some People are very patient and Happy with whatever there also can cope with any circumstances they never complain Hannah is one of those She can get up 20 minutes earlier before going to Work prepare the right Type of Oatmeal Dish for Father's Breakfast No complains Kris is stuck between two Types of Love and Care He is a Great Person  He can not say " No " to Father at any Cost I mean not even at the Cost of His Family He has a Wonderful Wife very Co - operative Niklas is losing His Battle as No one there to help him ou...

Literature Fellow  My Dear Friend I am not an Author I am just a Writer Please feel free to write Your Comment No editing No censorship I will Love to share How You People think  what I write Give Yours  Your Friends             & Your Teachers Opinion  My Readers Comments are like  Building Blocks  of My Blogs Thanks  for keeping posted Retirees My Dear Friends Please don't discuss with Your Kids and Family that  We are an  Extra figure in  the House We live This is a fact but has to be buried deep down inside Our Heart  We have to work  around this but ignore as if it is not True  Keep it like a top secret don't even have to  share with Y ourselves This is for our own sake to stay strong and to lead a Happy Life It is 10 plus zero degrees cloudy and raining rather drizzling reminding me of the weather in En...

Dear Father My Friend Yelling takes away Love and Happiness from Everyone Please don't try to hijack the Whole House and Your Loving Family Spread Love and  Happiness around Please leave  Niklas alone Why You need Him  while walking on Your Driveway It is 9 degrees and Sunny no rain no snow a beautiful Morning I am done with My breakfast Oatmeal porridge and stir fry egg I throw away the egg yolk nearly the whole of it not good at My age  now enjoying  My cup of Tea Sitting in My Family room watching with My Son " Anne of Green Gables " the movie with beautiful countryside scenic atmosphere In front of Me are the big glass panels exhibiting the beautiful view of My Backyard  Grass is lush green couple of Birds busy in discussion may be trying to sort out the location to build their House OH !! Great I saw  a small Rabbit running through the backyard black squirrel on the wooden Fence ...

My Readers Family asking why I was taking care of My Grade 12 Grandson  Buying Bakery Stuff and keep running between Library and Home why My Son or My Daughter in Law didn't take a Day off My Dear Friends when We are Retired means We are now done with our Life We are sitting on Empty Nest Living Our Days as Bonus We are now lonely and on our own When We are living with Family it is a Plus as We are not alone now but please keep in Mind there is nothing  like a Total Plus There are Minuses  attached with this Package We have to keep in Mind We are living as an  Extra Figure  in the Family Unit Nobody will kick us out of the House still be very clear No one needs us They will be fine without us We living with our Son or Daughter have to keep in Mind there is always one Member in the House not Our Blood We are a burden in the heart of heart of that Person these are hard Facts My Dear but these are Fa...

Happy Reader My Dear Friend Good to have Your Comment Kris My Dear Friend You are there for Father but what about Niklas Who will be there for Niklas He needs to be looked after to have a good Time His Life not to be just  around Father  It is a very different Scenario Today Trees are dusted with white powder Silver Jetta and Red Caravan on My driveway are covered under one Cm of snow The black shingles on top of Houses all covered under white sheet Front lawn giving a beautiful Look Between t he white I can see the green of grass which is making a Beautiful Pattern What You say --- It is April  Yes My Dear I know I know Two days back I was watching the News on Channel 24 there was lots of snow in Newfoundland which is a province of Canada at 3 - 4 Hours air travel distance from Toronto There was 40 Cm of snow then after that the very next day another 40 Cm  They are digging Tunnels to get out of their hous...

Every Morning when I open My eyes I didn't even have to get up from My bed to watch the Artwork of Nature I can watch through the two large Panels of My bedroom Windows on the left side which present The beautiful scenic view  every day a very different Scenario to enjoy Today 8 Degrees in the Morning as I behold I see the Artwork in pencil of all shades of Black and Grey the tree tops the branches with nothing on their bony structure their slender bodies in dark grey and the black Shingles on top of Houses   It is a perfect piece of art The Artist used only lead pencil on the Muddy background of sky Canvas it is like an antique piece for display in Art Museum It is Thursday what a beautiful start of My Day today My Club Activities are off it is raining whole Day so Walking not on the List It is the first Thursday of the Month so will be Club Meeting at 1 pm One of My Friend will pick Me up  I go for anything is there ...

Father enjoying His Life He got Message from My Mind Body Blog that He has to get  Good soup for His Mind Yells at Hannah to get Soup right away Niklas having tough time walking with Grandpa  on Driveway Also watching Agatha Christie  Shows with Father Whatever I write  Not working It is Wednesday usually I work full time today I told You earlier that I consider My Club activities as if I am still working and not Retired My eldest  Grandson is sick  My Son and Daughter in Law have to go to work I didn't like They take day off as I am also there and can take care of  My Grandson You know My Activities at the Library are My Lifeline  so I was stuck between My Family and between My Lifeline Not a difficult decision as Family has to come first I decided to go only to Darts as Kids use to sleep longer hours  I will be back at 12 and give Him something to eat and medicine will check H...

My Dear Retiree Friends were asking material for their subcommittees on Nutrition and Healthy Living I have written many of My Blogs on this Topic I believe that Mind -- Body --- Nutrition and Healthy Living all are in the same alignment  If We disturb the equilibrium of anyone of these Everything will be messed up  But here just keep one thing in Mind that Our Mind always takes the lead to set the direction  Mind is directed by our Thinking by Our Thoughts in our Brain Brain is the Store House our Storage I am thinking that Brain and Mind are two different  Brain releases filters out our Thoughts and gives to Mind to handle that Moment Mind is an obedient servant of our Brain like a Robot starts action takes our Body in the action Mode This action affects our Health that is Walking around -- Exercise -- Working doing certain things to get busy It also affects our Nutrition as Our Mind sets th...

Dear Literature Fellow My Dear Friend Don't you worry about editing your Comment I Love to see your Comment as it is Don't You worry about petty matters There are so many issues when We live in joint Family When We share we are able to handle and accomodate accordingly Father is a very difficult Case He understands but never wants to compromise He thinks around Himself No TV sharing nothing I feel very bad as  Kris and Hannah always under pressure But the only one who is sandwiched is Nikals He has no way out When He stays home everyone Yells and make Him sit on broken Sofa No TV and nothing for Him He always pushed to go out so easy way out I did everything  to solve writing Blogs on Joint Family Living Nothing working out in this case I haven't given up let us see It is a beautiful Morning 11 degrees today is Monday so I am working Part time that is no Carpet Bowling Darts only I am waiting fo...