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Good company matters a lot

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It is Monday very cold morning with 25 C below zero with gust 53 km. Snow everywhere, still more to come any time soon. This is Canada  my Dear. What else you can expect. On Saturday, we had "Great Friends Day" at our library. City does it every  year. They invite Teens and community people to come and play with us.  Not many were there from our club. One of my friend called to pick me up. We have to sign up for that event,  I was already on the list. In the library, I arranged Dart board to play with  some teens and youth from school and other institutions. They were playing for the first time, they learned how to play, we enjoyed. There were many games, like card games, table tennis, putting, trivia,  painting.There was also coffee/tea sandwiches and deserts, so much to enjoy. There was photographer too so me and my friend had our picture done. We always do that every time. My friend doesn't have computer so I will ...

It is cold I am working part time

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It is Tuesday snowing very cold it was 23 C below zero in the morning. Yesterday 38 C below zero. Today no chance for my walk to Tim Horton  but Yesterday I went to library for my my part time work. It was only  Darts  no Carpet Bowling. I can see lots of snow everywhere. Skeleton trees are loaded with white Blossoms. Everyone to work and school. I am sitting on an empty nest. I divided my time to get myself busy. I made some special carrot desert. It needs lots of work and lots of time too. I have to blend and cook with milk.  I made Baked Pasta for kids, with milk and  cheese. They love it. It is Friday, I am working full time today. My Son was not feeling well so I skipped on Wednesday. I don't work on Tuesdays and Thursdays, so I am  at my work place after so many days. We have to be with our family whenever they need some sort of support. I believe that family always comes first. It is 9.30, I am at the library,...

Negative will never result in anything positive

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It is Saturday morning with 24 C below zero, at night expected to be 41 C below zero. Life goes on, here nothing stops. Yesterday night,  my Son was going to Gym, I went to Pickering Mall. It is just across. He picked me after an hour, after his Gym time. I saw Black squirrel in the morning, playing around the wooden fence  in my backyard. Master Golden is getting ready to get his admission in the Uni of his choice. Time flies. Things change so quickly. Slurpee Boy will also be gone.  It is matter of  only  couple of years. We have to value every moment,  we spend with our family, with our kids. After a while we will be sitting in an empty nest. They all will fly away, sooner or later.  On Thursday, our Club arranged Pot Luck for members. We have to buy tickets for that. It was 9 dollars per head. We had Sandwiches, Salad, Desert, coffee and tea. I don't care about the food but I enjoyed the atmosphere. It is always good...

Working in my office cubicle

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It is Wednesday hazy cloudy morning 6 C below zero, feels  like 17 C  below zero. It just started snowing I see white dust  all around.  The glass  top  of my patio table in the backyard,  is covered with  white thin crust.  It looks like I have lots of silver on my front garden.  It is 9.15, I am in  the library, working in my office cubicle. I am  working full time today.  Playing Darts and Carpet Bowling too.  I will go back home after 3 pm. Today is very busy day for me. I am planning to make stir fried veggie dish to put at the dinner table. We have to contribute for  the family we live  with. It gives us lots of positive feelings, boosts up  our  motivation also  gives us happiness.  I have to go to my cousin's  memorial service  at 7 pm, tonight. He died  yesterday, his family arranged ceremony for his remembrance. Our life  i...

Our Future our Asset

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It is Tuesday cloudy rainy day with 2 C, not below zero, enough to celebrate. In Canada it is like summer. I am not working today. I don't work on Tuesdays. Today I will make some calls and  go for my walk. Right now rain stopped and sun just came out so perfect time for  my  walk.  It is 10.45, I am on Whites Road, walkway and road is still  wet  as  rain just stopped. I see some snow on the sides. Everything looking beautiful after morning shower. I can see couple  of birds on clear sky. I didn't forget to take my maroon umbrella as rain can start any moment. I believe that only present moment counts  so I am good, enjoying my walk for now. I am all dressed up in layers. Last week I was in Pickering Town Centre I got a woolen cap for myself from Dollarama. It is reversible red and navy  blue. At my age red won't go so I am OK with navy blue side. For dollars  three,  I think it was a good dea...

Birds saying Hello from tree tops

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It is Saturday beautiful sunny day with 2 C. It is 10 in the morning,  I am  done  with my breakfast, now sitting in the TV lounge. I don't watch  much TV but enjoy my time here in this room. From here I can get the  full view of my back garden. Pear tree on the left is like a skeleton, still it is the most eye catching spot in the whole back yard. Different kinds of birds come to have a seat on this tree.  Yesterday I saw the beautiful grey and black Woodpecker on this tree. I think everything has it's own beauty hidden inside. Same is with we  Humans.  We have to look through deep down before giving our verdict. It is 11.15, weather is perfect for my walk. I am getting ready to go to  Tim Horton. It is 11.30, I am walking on Whites Road. I can see snow  sparkling under sunlight. Roads and walkways are clear. Couple of birds calling from the tree tops. I think saying Hello to me,  so nice...

Think twice before talking to kids

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Beautiful morning 2 C, not so cold. Here in Canada it is like summer. Sun hiding somewhere, hazy day, still no rain, no snow that is enough  to celebrate. Yesterday I was not well, feeling feverish. Whenever I am not feeling good, I always try to recall my Mom's  novel advice. She used to say "Never let your sickness to overcome your body". Somehow, this has been left embedded deep down inside  my Mental Processing Unit. This staying there like a "Chip", always reminds me not to take my sickness seriously. I hardly remember, when I had to take a mid day "Nap", or lie  down  for a while, during day time. I am usually up in the morning and leave my bed to go back at 12 midnight or may be after. I rarely take Tylenol or any other medicine. I boil cut pieces of ginger, couple of whole black peppers, drink that water with a bit of salt, and honey.  Yesterday My Son was going to get groceries from Freshco, I accompa...

New Year Resolutions

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It is Monday, December 31st. The last day of the Year.  Weather is mild 2 C below zero, not so cold. No snow, no rain still  cloudy and  hazy.  Tomorrow sun will rise in the Year 2019. I think as year starts, People take it very hard specially the first couple  of days  of the New year. They make tough resolutions and try to keep  that, like,  Quit smoking -- Watch my weight -- Spend more hours in Gym. We have to be realistic to chalk out such plans. Nothing is end of the  world.  Don't be hard on yourself. Take it easy. Don't change your diet, change  your  plate. Don't plan to exercise tough, for long hours. Be reasonable. Start with what is doable. This will go long way, will result in more  productivity.  Move around, is the best and easy to do. Make sure "to think  positive", has to be  there in your New Year Resolutions. It is Jan. 3rd, 6.30 evening. New Year starte...

Here is 2019 with a Clean Slate

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Happy New Year to All My Dear Readers It is Monday cloudy hazy morning with 3 C. It was raining last night.  Everything looking beautiful after shower. Skeleton trees all decorated  with  pearls. Pearls also scattered all around on the grass at my front garden. I am getting ready to go. I am working part time today. It is end of December one more year is going down the drain. Time passing so quickly. We have to value every moment. What is gone never comes back. So much done in the past week. So much to write down for my Dear Readers. On the third Thursday of every month, we have pot luck in our club. We purchased tickets for five dollars to get light snacks, sandwiches,  deserts, coffee and tea.  Gate prizes were also there for tickets, to be called. It was festive  atmosphere.  I enjoyed the music and the people around. The whole  event was for our club members. My friend who was giving me ride home, was leaving ...

Last Days of the New Year 2018

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My apology to all my  Dear Christian Readers for not writing Merry Christmas I made a correction afterwards  in my Blog  We have to respect All Religions It is Wednesday cold cloudy morning, rain is on the way. I am getting ready for my work and also enjoying the scenic view through my bedroom window. Black squirrel is busy getting groceries from my front garden. Yesterday while I was walking to Tim Horton, I saw couple of birds having  chit chat in their apartments. I think they were busy with some family  gathering event.  Here in Toronto weather is bit tricky with so much ups and downs in  day  temperature. I think they get confused because of that and are back  early  from South of the Border. It is 9.30, I am in the library. I am working over time today. Playing Darts  and  Bowling so will be off after 3 pm. But I have to go back to work again  at 6.30 pm for Mayor's Li...

Beautiful Landscape

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Merry Christmas to all My Dear Christian Readers              and Happy Holidays to  Everyone Tuesday hazy cloudy morning with 7 C below zero. Not any chances for sun  to come out. He is hiding somewhere up and above. My Son is away for two days. He is in Montreal. It looks so quiet to me.  He used to be at work, I mean  not home during day times but thinking  of that he is not in the city, is not  the "Feel" I am enjoying any more.  Anyway he will be back by tomorrow night. It is 11.30, I was about to start my shower but changed  my mind, to go for  my walk and shower after. I am all dressed up in layers.  My maroon  sweater  underneath with my long black coat and beautiful  floral  stole of  my Youngest Daughter. I got it from her as a souvenir. It reminds me of the memorable moments, we spent together. It is 11.45, I am walking by Whites Road. It j...

Mayor's Light Tour

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Monday bright  sunny   beautiful morning  with zero C, not below   zero.  Most of the snow gone by now, still I see so much around.  I am  working part time, no bowling today, playing only darts. Tomorrow my Son will be leaving for Montreal for his office work. He will be back by Wednesday night. I have to find my ride for going to my work.  I work full time on Wednesdays, on top, there is Mayor's Light Tour from  7 pm to 10 pm. I never miss that event. We have to avail every chance to get out. It helps to keep us away from negative thoughts.  I have to find ride for that too. I told you I have people, who will be ready to  give me ride but I don't ask everyone. I mentioned in my earlier Blog that  about half a century back I read a Research paper in Scientific American.  That paper was about the rays emitting from the extremities of we Humans.  These rays play very important role to ge...

Time to collect treasures

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Beautiful Saturday morning with 8 C below zero. It was snowing last night. Here in Toronto most of the times, snow melts right away. Sometimes in couple of hours, in some cases takes couple of days. Whenever it starts snowing, it changes the whole atmosphere into a land  of wonders. Every time, looks like a total new scenic view to behold.  It gives a blank  medium  to draw anything you like to print. Specially on weekends, no footprints, nothing there, looks like a virgin land  of peace and tranquility.  All skeleton trees, dressed up in beautiful  white  glossy costumes,  ready to celebrate Christmas and New Year festivities. Other plants are also in same mood, bearing white cottony flowers. Blue  trampoline, in my backyard, looks wonderful with milky white net around. There is thick white layer on the top of it's blue base.  Red wooden bench at my front garden, giving a beautiful look with white l...

Smile Recipes ----- Fried Egg Plant with Meat

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To All My Dear Readers Take pot with some cooking oil put it on medium flame  add chopped onion cover the pot for few minutes stir once a while  let onion be yellowish add chopped tomato chopped egg plant cumin seeds couple of whole black pepper Red chili powder and salt  No water added Cover the pot leave on medium flame  for 20 minutes stir once a while.  add precooked meat or chicken pieces leave for 15 more minutes It is done now Enjoy with any type of bread make sandwiches  or rolls or  take it with rice.  Choices are yours my Dear.

White Crust on My Patio Table

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I am thankful to all my Dear Readers for their understanding and  cooperation.  It gave me a chance to work on "Story of my life", a project  of Ontario Society of Senior Citizens. Ontario is one of the province of  Canada. I already submitted, it will be decided for publication early next year.  This was possible because of you, my Dear Readers. You allowed me to  work on this project.  Weather is not so cold 5 C below zero. It is like summer here in Canada.  Birds looking beautiful flying in groups, I think leaving for South  of  Border.  I saw Black Squirrel. He comes every morning to get groceries  from my  front garden. Red wooden bench shining in my back garden. Lots of Copper and Bronze  still there, but I can't see any Gold in my backyard. Pear tree giving a look  of skeleton.  It started snowing. Thin white  crust is shining on  the glass top  of my...

Gold stolen from my backyard

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It is Sunday morning with drizzle, temp is great. It is zero degree, will be 10 C  in the afternoon.  It is  like summer in Canada. It happens  here  in winter time, for a while temp  goes in  plus, called Indian Summer.  Because of drizzle, the skeleton trees are all decorated with white pearls.  Copper and Bronze is still there in my back garden. Not much Gold  left,  I think it is stolen away.  Black Squirrel busy getting groceries from my front garden. Today my late  husband's niece is coming with her family at my place. I am thinking about  the time of about ten years back, she was having problem with her marriage.  My brother in law called me from back home to go to her place to help her  out. She used to live at Sudbury, eight hours drive from Toronto. I got Grey Hound coach to go there. I stayed with her for couple of days.   Everything is fine now she has tw...

Smile Recipes ---- Stir Fried Potatoes

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To All My Dear Readers Wash and peel potatoes Slice in any size and shape of your choice Take a pot with some cooking oil Put it on medium flame Add some cumin seeds couple of whole black pepper one whole red chili Now add the sliced potatoes add some water Salt and Red chili powder One green chili cover the pot leave on medium flame for 10 minutes Stir and check water It has to be juicy you can add some chopped parsley or green coriander to add color and flavor leave for 2 more minutes It is done now You can add cheese precooked meat /  chicken pieces Sliced tomatoes to add up nutrition Take it with any bread of your choice make rolls or sandwiches or enjoy with rice

Our Inside Windows

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It is Wednesday sunny bright beautiful cold morning with 8 C below zero. Snow everywhere. Grass on my front garden is all covered with white  stuff.  Most of the Bronze and Copper on my backyard is now turned into  Silver. Red Caravan on my driveway looking great wrapped under white sheet. Silver Jetta shining out of the silver coating. No squirrel, no  Butterfly, no  rabbit, I think they all will be back by March next year. Neighborhood is all quiet. When outside world is quiet, we have to open up  our inside window. I mean turn to the inside world of yours, the beauty of your own  inner self. There is so much going on there.  We have no time to look into  our inside, our personality, our interests,  our hidden talents. Now we have time to think about, to make "Things to do" List. 1 : Start writing your journal. 2 : Start writing any book, you like to. Not necessary to get it published. 3 : Compile ...

Open Letter to My Readers Family

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It is Saturday bright beautiful mixed sunny and cloudy day with 2 C  below zero.  I am done with my breakfast watching TV sports channel is on. Everyone  sleeping, me and my Son are awake. My Son has to go to workshop for his Red Caravan, I will go with him. He can drop me at Tim Horton. I will enjoy my time alone slot. It is 11.30 I am at Coffee House, having my half and half coffee, toasted multigrain  bagel  with butter, writing my Blog. Today I have to discuss couple of things with you, My Dear Readers.  Nowadays I am under lot of pressure. Don't take it wrong, nothing serious. Pressure is from friends of my community and from my Senior Club friends. Everyone asking me to write for their groups. I think they are right.  Couple  of years back I used to write short stories for weekly local papers.  Those stories  were popular in community circle.  They keep on asking me when I will start to write ...

I am scared

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Bright sunny beautiful Friday morning with 2 C below zero,  wet snow is also coming down. My Son has to go early around 8 am this morning.  One of my Friend will drive me to my work place.  I am working full time  today, playing Darts and also Carpet Bowling. I started thinking about my other friends, who used to pick me up. One, who works in Real State, is nowadays in Florida.  She has same date  of birth as of mine. She always brings cake to  celebrate  together.  She goes to Florida every year in winter time. This is  very  common  practice here.  People specially Seniors go to South of Border, to skip Canadian  winter.  They  are called "Snow Birds". My friend is now thinking to sell out  her  condo in Florida. When we are getting old, it is not easy to fly or travel. One of my other friend now stopped coming to our club. She is in her  Eighties.  She u...