Thought Of The Day

My Retiree Friends I am Happy  for you My Dear Kris Father we have to stop this revenge  policy like Hit and Run My Father did to me so I will do it now as I have power and liberty to do anything This is not fair  forget and forgive what your Father  did to you Please leave the future Generation alone it is between them  and their father We have to just Relax Kids are like clay we can mold their personalities in whatever we want Nowadays in most cases both the parents are working and joint family system is slipping away We have no time left for our kids to spend together after our work we usually pick and drop them in Day Cares Throw big birthday parties for them and buy expensive gifts to make them happy and get relaxed with our Laptops We switch off our worries and enjoy our favorite programs then one morning out of bloom We realize that our Kid is not a kid anymore and has to go to some Univer...

Dear Retiree Friends I am concerned about your health Don't push yourself just do it once a week Go to Cafe twice a week by car to have a group Meeting  It is very important to enjoy and exchange views to Chit Chat Not a surprise as most Parents compare their childhood period with their children's time Like the facilities they have and start thinking their Kids are having a very luxurious Life style  I start wondering when Grandparents start comparing their time period Give me a break it is more than half a century behind Era how can we think about that We have to be realistic while pushing our Kids to do things how can having a car push him to walk to school Things like that I think we in our time had a hard Life all of us I mean we Seniors In my opinion it is an ongoing process like my Mom telling me about her hard life and saying that for you everything is OK We don't realize that World is moving fo...

I wish All my Chinese  Readers a very Happy New Year  May this year bring you all the Happiness in good Health This piece of writing is for All My Readers  who have Families I mean Kids             & also for  Kris  Don't be hard  on your children be their  friend Try to put yourself in their shoes and understand We being parents put so much pressure on our Kids just relax If we go on repeating anything will lose it's power it's effect  Love and Affection is the Ultimate Power it can change Life Welcome My New Reader Literature Fellow Good to hear from you My Dear Friends Linda and Dave It is very early morning when I open my eyes I see through my window glass panels the beautiful scenery I see the clear sky then comes some grey after that deep blue added in between and then golden is added I am watching all this Artwork in progress whi...

Dear Linda and Dave  hope you are fine now I mean in good health Kris my Dear Niklas i s a Good Boy Love is the best language Easy to relate and understand use that and take your Son as your friend Spend time together before he is gone   leaving the Nest empty Time flies  Last night was rain in the morning it is 3 degrees below zero which created such a beauty to behold As the rain droplets frozen on tree branches giving a beautiful effect to the atmosphere Looks like trees are decorated with white small pearls Nature is something always amazing Today is indoor Golf at my Club I got a ride from one of my friend so I am here she comes only for Darts I am sitting i n the library in the Quiet Room the big Logo " Do Anything " is on the side wall giving me direction To do my things so I am writing Blog my favorite hobby that is talking to my Readers Family It is 10 minutes to go in the other room for playing Go...

Dear Retirees I am Happy that you got some Tips from My Blog Kris Dear Niklas is fine  just give direction once a while that's it Snow is back everything is covered under 2 cm white sheet trees look like having small cottony white flowers My Daughter in law was busy so I got the grocery list she dropped and picked me up after from the store Freshco I love doing groceries it has so much positive I feel good that I am helping my Family Beside enjoying all the variety of food items I have chance to make choices to pick and drop between all this Pick for my Grand kids and also picking some for myself don't forget having exercise walking around I picked chocolate biscuits for my club I don't like chocolate but everyone loves so for them I was happy got a chance to get out for 2 hours I was back at 3 pm and have to go out again at 3.30 for my grandson game My youngest grandson playing Basket ball  game he was happ...

My Dear Niklas Your Father is proud of you so am I  Waiting for your good Grades  I hope you are working around that I trust you Dear Retiree Group Friends here is my Blog which I promised My Dear Retired Nutritionist may be you can have some Tips to help Friends We don't have to shut out our kitchen cabinet to keep ourselves away from enjoying our life Never take Life too seriously this is my Moto this is what I believe Don't be hard on yourself our food is the gracious gift from God Almighty Enjoy your Life tasting a bit of everything change your plate not your diet Go on changing your plate systematically step by step not drastically Give time to yourself be patient try to move around taking safety  into account  Moving around will be like doing exercise sometimes we don't have a chance to get out  Weather and our medical conditon both are important factors to keep our mobility in a flow Sti...

Thanks Newbie  it was great idea to welcome the new Fellow Dear Retiree I am very happy for You people you are going to Coffee House Having group Meetings exchanging your views chit chat This all will help you to brighten your Days Say my Hello and personal Thanks to Literature Fellow I will call him by this name if it is OK with him Dear Niklas  Please focus on your study let me know your Marks I am proud of you It is Tuesday my Club activities are off I have to plan my Day My laundry is done on weekend so nothing there  I stayed in TV room to watch News to watch Oscar Awards  Nominees Beautiful " La La Land " scenes and the other Animated Movie  Moana great picture While in   TV room   I was also watching my Backyard throug the   big glass windows no snow grass is back to green one black squirrel was playing Now I have to plan for the day I was thinking about my Mom she was n...

My Dear Retiree Friends I never try to control my diet I go with the flow of my Mind and my Body The only thing I do on purpose to get out and keep myself busy to stay away from Negative thoughts I will definitely write one Blog for Your Group My Friends Today I found a new venue in the library to have my quality time It is a big quiet room like a conference room I used to go there for my Book Club Meetings I came to know  that we can use it whenever we want as there is nothing going on there If we keep  our eyes open we always find something wonderful to experience and enjoy I  am sitting by the area which is facing Highway # 2 that is Kingston road it is 12.40 pm  so not so busy In the front I can see the big single story building on the other side of the road Here I used to come while I was volunteering Election Canada in the last election on my left I can see Dodge cars  Show Room ...

My Dear Retiree Friends I am so happy that you are having Group Meetings Cafe is lively place  good idea going by car Say Hello to the Gentleman who traveled one hour and used buses  You can give my Blog website whoever likes to have You can share any information as it is public just don't have to use Names I think it will be helpful to others while we live in Family have to face  such problems in our day to day Life Please also share with your Social  Committee it will be a great idea My Dear Kris Father we do so many wrong things  still God lo ves us we have to forgive others Please think about that to make God happy You are a sking why I do my things and don't ask my son I like to do that to be mobile to be active to enjoy My Life Nice weather today sunny bright and plus 3 trees are shaking their heads I think celebrating the beauty around Small shrubs like young trees are in playful mood ...

Kris My Dear my Blogs are public so everyone feel free to share with anyone This is weekend I have two Targets to meet making Pancakes for my grand Kids breakfast Do my laundry in the morning and of course going to watch hockey game Also watching a beautiful program on National Geographic about Italy the ancient civilization It is 11 in the morning I started my journey from my home to Don Beer Hockey Arena I call it journey as I enjoy the whole 10 minutes trip  Sun is not out I can see some white stuff on front yards of all the houses snow giving a beautiful view on the green of grass Sky is with layers of many shades the bottom layer is bright pale orange  the next one is pale grey  The top layer is grey and next one is muddy in between is milky  like a beautiful water color sketch on a Big Canvas All my grand kids are sitting in red Caravan my son is driving I am sitting next to him My weekdays...

My Dear Kris Father please start thinking Hannah as your daughter Family is family so we have to spread Love and Happiness To err is Human and those who forget and forgive always have an especial place in God Eyes It is for our own   sake as what we give comes around I trust you can do that please do it  It was quite an early morning when I noticed the eye catching view of clear blue sky through my bedroom windows It looks like I am watching view of a lake or I am by the   sea side what a beautiful start of my day  It is plus 4 today for a change I quickly finished my breakfast and was ready to go out to wait for my friend's car I wanted to be outside for a while to enjoy the weather I noticed some trees just carried away too ambitious As they started budding in the month of January snow  is slipping away but still there at corner of front yard grass OH ! amazing I can see birds flyin...

Dear Kris  if possible please read some of My Blogs which I have written for  Father He will be Happy that I do care for him I am not only Hannah's friend It is 11 in the morning was rain last night it looks everything had morning  shower to get started It is Thursday so will be Pot Luck at my Club at 12 after that will be Bingo in other room will be Golf at the same time So many choices to make being senior it will be tough to decide between the two as I don't want to skip any I decided I will go for golf something to move around something physical One of my friend called me earlier to save a seat for her   as she wants to sit next to me I am in the library for a while sitting beside big glass panel conservation area is all beside me the whole grass is green I have to go now to next room for Pot Luck to enjoy the company I am not a good eater so food is not important to me I am enjoying the indoor g...

I am happy for Kris Father                & Happy for My friend back from hospital I think driveway the small black path beside My house is one of the pillar of My Life So today I decided to write the whole Blog for my Driveway it deserves that I did so much thinking here so many thoughts come swarming up to me to flourish my Mind I wait here for my friend's car  for years to fulfill my dream My Dream of playing Darts and carpet bowling These dreams get materialized on my driveway on this spot where any car from any of my friend comes and stops To pick me up to take me to library to my second home my Refuge I wait on my driveway for just couple of minutes Wait for my friend and in that much time beautiful thoughts come rushing to my Mind To embrace as if they were waiting long for me to tell all the beautiful stories around It is 4 plus weather is calm -- bright still clo...

My Dear Retiree Friend who is in hospital I will be praying for you You will be Home soon Thanks My Retiree Group you are there for your friend say My thanks to Dear Retired Author Please say Hello from   my side and my Wishes  to  My Friend who is in hospital to get well soon You people do walking just once a week and visit Coffee shop by car for your Meeting  twice a week It will help you to exchange views and table talk to feel good I hope this  Blog will be helpful to have some  Tips  to brighten your routine  it does mine Kris My friend if Father wants TV   sit down with Him and set timings Not full time TV Everyone has to share make sure Important to make everybody Happy Tablet will go to Hannah  and Niklas Father will understand He is very reasonable and considerate I trust He will It is Tuesday so my Club is off and not much clothes to do laundry...

Dear Kris  You go in Father's room even if he says not to We like our Children to be around we don't admit still we love it Take the Tablet and watch some National Geographic show in His room Read My Blog to him You say I am reading for myself Make it a habit to watch the full show every day in his room he will get used to it then will start enjoying Leave Tablet in His room like it is his property Say Hello to your Father from me also that I do care and sad Dear Retiree Friends I am so Happy  You went for a walk amazing Don't overdo it once or twice a week will be fine I think I was unable to convey My message Please don't discuss about Kris it is personal It has to be like that it is private You can share my Blog with anyone but I think not such matters It is like they are talking   to me not to public Otherwise people will stop looking to share  their problems Everyone has to   fa...

My Dear Kris Father My Friend I think I was not able to deliver my message  loud and clear My message was that Tablet is for you only I was thinking it will be easy for you to take it to your room with you   light and handy Please watch all your favorite shows on Tablet  also please read My Blog and write Comment Make everyone Happy Thank You It is a clear beautiful morning no snow no rain not cloudy I had my oatmeal cereal stir fry egg with a hot cup of tea I am planning to make fresh pancakes for my grand kids breakfast  My son put   " Tour de France " on TV which I already watched but enjoying the scenic program while making pancakes Pancakes was my weekend target I make small targets to meet to get Happiness  Try not to put the Bar high  by meeting small targets happiness will be handy Last night my son was going to pick my youngest grandson from his friend's birthday party in...

My Dear Kris Father I am very sad as you my friend not reading My Blog Please don't do that to me You know you are very important member of Readers Family I was so happy that you were planning to learn English a foreign language for My Blog to read I will hate to let you go please leave TV and take Tablet so that you read Blog and write  comment to me Don't you worry about language it is just a carrier to deliver thoughts Please start doing your own things b e happy and give happiness to everyone We all love you  God never wants any of His Creature to be sad Keep in mind that you are doing it to make God Happy I don't see much snow just on sides still very cold 20 below zero Weekends are hockey games for my grand kids so I feel fortunate to get out it is 11 in the morning I am sitting in Don Beer Arena writing my Blog which to me like talking to my Readers Family I already jotted down their jersey ...

My Dear Kris Father is in depression Mode He himself has to try to get out of that phase He will You people saying sorry and going to him again and again making him Self pity Behave like you normally do try to treat him like before Don't talk about watching TV stay for some time in his room and watch some show on Tablet Use these tactics don't push it He will be back needs some time Tomorrow I will write for Him please make him read My Dear Retiree My Blogs are public you can share with anyone It is 17 below zero no snow sun is shining everything clear and clean because of rain 2 days back It is Friday today one more week is passing and reminding me  that time flies Today I am working full time I mean Darts and Carpet bowling it is 9.40 am I am sitting in a cubicle sort of place in the library Computer is beside me on small bluish grey working desk with comfortable black revolving chair These working...

Dear Reader who is doing two jobs It is good that you started writing but please keep it to you  You don't have to show it to anyone it is personal You can read it before going to bed  Supervisor is a busy man talk only about your work to him nothing else keep in mind Start your Daily journal this is only for yourself don't show to anyone After a while you will start feeling good  because of that This will be your Time alone Kris My Dear just relax I told you to put some books set Tablet in Father's room He likes National Gegraphic scenic and Travel books Download some good shows on Tablet and Crossword books He will be fine  you just relax He needs some time It is blowing snow it will go on all day so let us see wind making it worst It is 9.30 in the morning 20 below zero I am sitting in the library waiting for Darts to start at 10 I am sitting beside the glass panel I can see the C...

My Dear Retiree Friends I am proud of You You did it I salute You  but please don't push it Do it once a week or twice a week Kris My Dear stay calm and relaxed Put some books large print which Father likes to read of His interest Some cross word books Sudoku book pencil pen and Tablet + charger in His room Please give Him time set these things in His room on table set a chair it will be like His working area It is plus 1 degree for a change yesterday lot of rain Today I decided to write a full Blog on writing it is such a powerful and vast subject It has so much depth it is a wrong concept that to write we have to be a Writer Not at all Writing is like talking to yourself it is your time alone it is like meditation It is the reflection of our personality we draw a picture of our own of our inside on a piece of paper It is very relaxing and Daily Journal is like our private thing We write something without b...

My Dear Fellow Writer nice to hear from you I know your are reading My Dear Hina  you are part of Readers Family Dear Kris  don't you worry Father needs som e  time alone He wil l be fine spend some time with Him That's it He will find His options after a while My Dear Retiree Friends I am happy for you It is great idea to go to Coffee shop and have group meeting Don't worry about walking It is 17 below zero Today It is 1st Thursday of the month so today is My Club Meeting I go for everything to get out I am early to sit down and enjoy in library which is like second home to me after Meeting I will play Bingo at 2 pm I am sitting by the large glass panel facing the conservation site on my left side I can see Kingston Road with lots of traffic Beside me is the whole green area very quiet not much snow left because of last week rain no wind so everything is still now In the morning I was watc...

Thanks Superwoman I was waiting for your Comment Hope you are feeling well now Thanks again My Dear Reader  who is doing two Jobs Please don't talk about My Blog with your Supervisor He is busy man He is politely saying Not to talk so leave it Everyone has different interests nothing wrong with that Kris My Dear  Father is doing   the   right thing Time alone will make him think that He has lots of options Watching TV not the only one it is good You made him to understand the actual scenario Time alone is the key to open up To crack the shell You just relax  give him Crossword book Scrabble book and Tablet if he wants Leave Him alone for a while he will find some good hobbies for himself  Thanks Kris you did it for your Father believe me He was wasting his time sitting beside TV all the time In the morning I take some time to enjoy the view while waiting on my Driveway ...

Dear Kris Now it is only you have to talk to your Father Be open and direct give him clear Message to give back Tablet Fix timings for TV not all the time You have to make him understand loud and clear Have courage to solve this ongoing problem  End this nuisance for the sake of whole Family Our Mind and our Body are the greatest gifts from God  using these two in positive way we can flourish and enjoy our lives Mind  always comes first as it leads our Life the most important is always to  think positive  Never pollute your mind with negative thoughts it will act like poison  Act of thinking is like seed for action and you see what you think if you think negative The whole world will look bleak and it will impart negativity to our personality It will make us rebellious our inner beauty will be gone all our talents will be wasted We will use our energy fighting everyone around wi...

Dear Tom  Age is  a number Dear Kris  I think your Father needs some help he is  feeling insecure He needs  counseling someone  he can trust  it can happen when we  are old but In my hones t opinion you have to have  one more TV for the sake of  your family Not their  fault so why to suffer It is Saturday 17 below zero my grand kids have hockey today after 2 weeks of Christmas and New year break I was looking forward to watch my eldest is coaching Peewee the next one is assisting the youngest one is the actual  player He is not playing today as he had basketball yesterday so not in good shape I am here with layers on to face the cold of Arena sitting on black stool bluish rectangle table is beside me I am writing my Blog  I will find the Rink # afterwards  will walk around I also have my Sudoku book with me I have variety of options now 1 : Sitting d...

It is -- 27 here in Toronto no snow but very cold I am ready to leave for My Club Activities To My Dear friend Kris Father          & All My Dear Retirees We Humans are amazing Creatures of God We have multidimensional personalities we have lots of caliber  we don't have to limit ourselves to one activity only We have to divide our time to get busy and enjoy variety  of activities to have fun If we like indoors nothing wrong with that but we don't have to lose the touch and have to switch on different channels of our personality 1 : Talk to God 2 : Time alone 3 : Writing anything like Daily Journal 4 : Reading some book of our interest 5 : Doing Scrabble books 6 : Cross words use large print 7 : Solving easy puzzles 8 : Enjoying shower 9 : Watch Nature by sitting down beside window                          in your room  ...

I am Happy for Retiree Group you got some Tips from My Blog To My Dear Reader who is doing two jobs Supervisor is busy man don't talk about me if he wants to talk he can ask My Dear Kris  You are Not in the Driving seat you should be for your  whole family Set some spot in father's room so that he can sit and enjoy time alone not all the time beside TV Not good for him Your Son comes first otherwise he will go to friends I will write for your Father separate Blog He is My Friend He will understand Today is plus one temperature snow is slipping away we use to have an idea of snow by looking at the garden furniture in our backyard The glass top of the table outside and the BBQ counter by looking at that we can easily judge  what is going on and how much snow added overnight Because of last week rain much is melted still I see some snow but just couple of inches It is sunny and bright I was getting rea...

To My Dear Reader who is doing two jobs to err is Human  Forget what is done and move on God loves those who forgive others  To My Dear Kris you have to be in the Driving seat Please make it happen that Father can use Tablet or computer He doesn't have to learn just click the button to watch his favorite shows This is a must for everyone's peace harmony and enjoyment We seniors are always reluctant to take a fresh start  You can make him use to his Tablet and give space to everyone also he will enjoy more his time alone He will realize after what was   he missing Happiness and entertainment all has to be shared after that we get the real inner peace Just do it  It is 5 below zero the snow which was melted because of yesterday's plus temperature now  frozen again Giving a picture of sleet it is called black ice not safe to walk very slippery It is sunny so snow looking very beaut...

My Dear Reader who is doing two jobs You please be relaxed just cool down and focus on your work Hard work always pays off you don't have to worry To My Dear Retirees who were so patient and waiting long for some tips  My apology  now here are some points for you 1 : Walking   You can find any nearest                       Coffee shop Plaza or some                       Place not a Park I mean some place                       covered and cozy so that you can go                       there to sit down have group discussion                       and enjoy Tea or Coffee 2 : Writing    Just start writing your Daily Journal        ...

To My Dear Friend Kris Father I am proud of you You did the right thing do it with smile please I am happy for My Dear friend who is doing two Jobs Sky is blue with grey and pale light orange abstract sketches all over and one side is gold It looks liquid gold is spilled or God did it purposely to give the special effect To celebrate for a while to let us know that this is a New Year morning Please don't push yourself to chalk out New Year resolutions we become hard to ourselves We try to drain every moment like lose so many pounds want to go to Gym for number  of hours We have to keep in mind that our ambitious plans are not realistic they will drain us out and will be gone In just couple of months we start feeling as we are not doing anything to fulfill our Goals Please while making resolutions be very realistic and be gentle to yourself I enjoy New Year to watch celebrations on TV set with Family around I pl...

To My Dear Reader who is doing two Jobs Never take any decision of your Life in a hurry like quitting your jobs or anything like that Always keep your Eyes open stay calm and Trust in God I told you God will never  leave you alone He is always there so nothing to worry about He is watching over you Please continue your Jobs with your eyes open To My Dear Kris           & Every Son / Daughter living in family Everyone of Readers  Family is very important  to me Thanks for sharing your day to day matters please keep in mind Sharing always brings Happiness Living in Family needs everyone's contribution everybody has to pitch in to flourish the relationship Being senior sometimes we lose track and get carried away we need a push from our children to show us direction If we are losing track and not taking into account everyone's interest We need you to oversee and hold ...

Happy New Year 2017 to All My  Readers Family All of You  very important to me Keep smiling please  Ring in the New To My Dear Reader who is doing two jobs You can show My Blog to anyone It is open to public show him my Blog so that he can understand But I think   asking your Supervisor  not helping you out You always get wrong Message  of  Work Hard it is not fair to you every time I feel bad for you That's why I reminded you that no one is alone God is watching over so don't you worry   My Friend Fairy Tale Story ended now we are back on track 5 cm of snow Looking very beautiful all covered under white blanket Trees also with cottony white stuff looking like white flowers Our Trampoline in the backyard giving a different view it's net is decorated with snow like small   white beads So much to enjoy I have to go to my Club for Indoor Golf  I divide my 24 hours ...