Waiting to see my friend the White Butterfly

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May already started. It is the month of flowers, month to enjoy to get out to give colors to your lives. Yesterday was my Birthday. I am now one more year down the drain. Time flies. We have to enjoy and make use of each and every moment of our life. To enjoy our life, we have to make sure not to bother anyone else. Plan all of your enjoyments, keeping in mind, not to disturb others. 

It is not good to be a liability to others. Why our friends, our family members and our loved ones have to suffer, out of our enjoyments. Do whatever we can without making them miserable to pay for all that. Payment is not only in the form of  money. It can be in the form of time too, which will be more annoying for the person, we want to be hooked up with, to enjoy our time, especially in our old age period. 

When we are facing difficulty to handle our life due to our health, not so mobile, to carry on things on our own. We start behaving that our family members have to be there to do things for us, to make our day. We take it as our right. We have to be realistic. Not have to be so demanding. It is not their fault, why to blame anyone, to pay back.

We have to leave everyone alone to enjoy their own life. Just try to do what you can taking our own health and safety into account. Don't bother others. Not good to ruin others lives. This is a selfish behavior that if I am not enjoying, I wont let anyone else to enjoy. 

There are so many things to enjoy. How we take our life, is all up to us. Life is not a bed of roses. It is like an unpaved path, like a trail with bushes around. Life is the same for everyone. It all depends, how we take it. We can make it miserable or can lead to a happy living. Positive thinking is the key to make your life. Nothing is the end of life. Let others live to enjoy their time. Deal with your own matters to make your day. 

Life is gift from God Almighty. We have to value that. Can't bin our beautiful gift of life. Not nice. We are here for a given time. Try to avail the opportunity to write a beautiful story of your life for the next generation to read and to enjoy, after we leave. It is our duty, our obligation, to be happy and to put smile on the faces around.

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