Cultural Shock

In the developing countries, to be a boy is lucky. Lucky for the boy and  also for the family

Nowadays even in big cities, it is considered  good if girls are engaged in their teens and it is better if girls are married around their twenties
As soon as their age bar crosses the figure of twenty, their parents got more and more upset so as a gesture of goodwill the whole community gets involved to fix up the situation

They do whatever they can to handle the situation, because now the time is considered to be ripe to transfer the girl in the groom house, so the groom be searched, and someone succeeds

The only requirement is that, who can take care of her life from now onward

 She has to live there till her death
Divorces are very uncommon in developing countries
Boys are not a problem at all,  as their parents don't have to worry about their age limit, they don't have to leave their homes, as their partner will be added right there

Living in Canada this factor is now the  biggest problem for the parents of first generation Canadians

They can not find a match for their girls, which used to be an easy task while living back home. Girls are now more demanding  and aware, not easy to be fixed with anyone
Boys case is worse than girls, parents are helpless.

They are confused and forced to question about their migration idea, now it is too late, you can not turn the page

What is done is done