We and our Mood Swings

 

Friday -- Beautiful bright sunny cold morning. It is 17 C below zero. This is beauty of Canada that even in cold freezing, biting days, sun is there with smiling face, to balance out the situation. To dilute the intensity. I think that is  enough to change the scenario.

We Canadians start getting ready to walk on the freezing lake, to skate, to play hockey, to walk our dogs. Things look like nothing happened. Glass starts looking like half full. Not half empty. 

Anything around is more than enough to make a difference. Same thing happens with the people around. Our company, our friends and also the people in our household, everything matters to change our attitude. 

Attitude is the key. Life is the same. It all depends, how we take it. How we look at things around. Things can ruin or can make our day. Not only the things and people around are the key factors for how we take our life but our inner weather also matters a lot.

We Humans are very complex. Not Robots. Our Mood can trigger by anything. It doesn't has to be something drastic. Any usual matter can make everything upside down for us. Sometimes, the timing is not right, sometimes, we are not ready.

We need time to be ready, to feel comfortable for the acceptance, to deal with that. Sometimes, he is our friend, but we are not in a mood to have a chit chat. Sometimes we want to relax, no interference. Quiet time.

Anyway, before giving entry to anyone's personal territory, we have to check his inside weather. Our face is an open book, reflects, whatever we try to cover up, whatever is going on in our inside.

We have to check and wait for the timing. Timing of his right mood is very important. It will determine the direction of our relationship. Our meeting can be doomed or be a welcome one. We can predict by reading the face of the person, we are going to visit. 

Sometimes, we book our meeting time on phone, we feel that his tone is not the usual welcome one. It is different. We have to cut short our talks and leave the meeting for some other time. Just mention about the meeting in a casual way, like will see you some time, will decide later. 

Things always end up in a positive note when the parties, I mean the people are ready and are in right mood. If they are not in a position to talk about, it will be useless. Nothing will be achieved. It wont be fruitful.

It will not only be waste of time and energy. It can drag the simple matters. Things can lead to reverse direction. The direction of misunderstandings. It will take longer time and more efforts, to put things back on track. 

We have to look for the right time to go ahead. For smooth running of our family relationships and in dealing with friends and colleagues, have patience and respect their emotions. Emotions determine our mood swing, which controls our timing to act and react.

Dear Readers, hope things be fine with you people. Wish everyone of you a Great Day.

Dear Retirees, No political and Religious talks please. Thanks.