Try to be in Other Person's Shoes

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20th December 2022

Merry Christmas and

Happy New Year

to all my Dear Readers

May God bring all the Blessings. Happiness in Good Health. To everyone of you. Amen

It will be another New Year in just couple of days. We will make new resolutions, hard to follow. Everyone will be carried away, to go to Gym, follow Diet plans, to follow all good habits, to improve healthy living. That is good, still please be realistic. Don't be too ambitious, too hard to work out. Such plans will die down in couple weeks after. Not easy to cope up with.

 Anyway, plan in your way. Do whatever you like to chalk out, to make your days. I think plans to bring colors and joy in your life, will matter most. Of course taking your health into account. Health is priority for everyone, not only for we seniors.

Peace and harmony is also one of the key factor, specially in households. One of my friend is having tough times. Everyone in her house facing very tough situation. Same sibling rivalry, is now getting out of hands. Siblings are not kids anymore, they are fully grown ups, working at good position. That adds up the severity. No one, easy to back down, as at that age, you can not be flexible. 

Maturity develops personalities with their own firm beliefs and habits. You don't like to listen that " It was your fault, you have to go first to solve ". Parents become helpless, have no choice, no options to dissolve the conflict. Kids don't care for each other. They say, we are fine, will have no communications, we won't miss anything. 

Gravity of the conflict, starts getting worse. The entire atmosphere starts changing, within no time. Not the same family, no eating together, everything goes down the drain. You developed all that, worked hard for your entire life. To build up a happy family, living together with bonding and relationships. Nothing there. 

We have to take every child seriously, while developing his character, his personality. Everyone is unique. Don't have to take them like a bunch of kids. Deal with everyone of them, separately. Try to respect, listen to them carefully and try to understand, how they feel. Parenting is not tough. Just try to be in their shoes.

I hopes things must be fine with you people. Please try to be patient. Respect the Directives. Respect everyone's opinion and personal matters. Let everyone to live his own life. Don't be judgmental. Thanks. 

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