Not Like as in fairy Tales

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 30th December 2022

Happy New Year 2023 

to All My Dear Readers

New year is just a day away. " Ring out the old and Ring in the New ". We will make new resolutions, get ambitious, carried away, to make our plans. It will be tough for us, to fulfill our promises. Try to be realistic, while making promises. Just try to be yourself. Nothing is end of the world. Do what you like, what you can do. Don't cross your limits. 

Reality is that, we all be one more year older. One more year is going down  the drain. Try to make use of the moments in hand. Be happy and let others be happy too. Mind your own business. Don't have to intrude into the personal matters of other people. Respect everyone's privacy and their emotions. Life will be good for everyone.

My eldest daughter in Edmonton, got proposed. She is living by herself. She has two sons, one is done with his medical degree, working in States. The younger one, is in third year Uni, lives with her. Not easy to manage the entire house, single handedly. You can't rely on kids. They have their own, "things to do", also busy with studies.

I take it as a positive step in her life. She is not even fifty, long way to go. Life is like a combo. You have to come across various moments. Mixed of sweet and bitter. Life is not like, as in fairy tales. Not easy, on Bumpy roads of life, to travel alone. Someone by her side, will be great. He is a nice fellow, as far as I know. No one can predict, what the real person, be inside, until you have an experience to live with. 

To be with someone, is always, a "Give and Take". Nothing is total plus. Keep that in mind. Needs lots of patience. Have to respect each other's privacy. Trust is key to get along, to go hand in hand, on the unpaved path. Trails of life, are not full of roses. There are bushes all around. You have to find your way through, to pick flowers of happiness, to make your days and to spread happiness around. Always be positive, things will be fine.

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