Thought Of The Day

Treat people as adults as partners With dignity and respect That's the great advice of business world It's also great advice for Everyday living No one will ever go wrong by Being polite A man's words will always express What has been treasured In his heart Our rewards in life will always be in Exact proportion to the amount of Consideration we show toward others Honesty is still the best policy Kind words cost little but Accomplish much Few things in the world are more powerful Than a positive push A smile, a word of optimism and hope A " You can do it " When things are tough.

Make a commitment to show up and Walk through the doors that life opens up For us on our journey. Be willing to take chances and keep Moving forward without knowing the outcome Develop and tap into the ability to attract What we need by putting and keeping us In the right state of mind. Life is continually tapping us on the shoulder If we just pay attention and do what's before us We're likely to find the right path. Focus more on how we can best Encourage and assist those in need As opposed to getting lost in our own Personal vision and quest for success.

A good night sleep is very important And always be near the top of your list. Go to bed at the same time every night Keep TV out of your bedroom Make sure the room is dark and a bit cool Don't have any food or drink coffee late night Read a good book to get sleepy This all will help you to have a good night sleep.

We are powerful, creative beings We determine our future With every thought we think and every word We speak. When we think good thoughts, we feel good We make good choices and draw good Experiences in our lives. Every breath we take and every thought we think Has a direct effect on something or someone. The words we speak and the actions We take all influence our quality of lives. They all produce feelings And our feelings become the currency With which we purchase our life experiences.

Try to learn to trust life by seeing the perfection And opportunity for growth in all your experiences. Our life is like a classroom where we use our experiences As catalysts for change and self realization. Put attention and energy toward solutions Rather than focusing on problems. Happiness has been called The holy gale of human existence Patience and excellence are virtues always  To be admired. Patience pushes you to get extra mile. It is like a shining light in our life Especially in our bad times. Try to be pleasant and tolerant to everyone Refrain from anger and criticism Don't point out other's weaknesses Take time every day for play, humor, relaxation And good company.

Appreciation can make people Change their minds more readily than All the bluster and storming in the world Begin in a friendly way In talking with people, don't begin by discussing The things on which you differ Begin by emphasizing and keep on emphasizing The things on which you agree Keep your opponent, if possible From saying " No " The skillful speakers get at the outset A number of  " Yes " responses This sets the psychological process of the Listeners. Try it.

Your body is your world Try to understand your body It's strength and weaknesses, it will help you To keep your body in tune. Your physical body type has a mental aspect as well Your mind talks to your body and This mind body dialogue results in Hopes, fears, dreams, wishes and as a result leave marks on our body These mental events constantly shape the Physiology of our body Try to mange the mind and body talk And try to be positive.

This is a mistake to identify ourselves with the Physical body only Our mind is beyond our age Try to co - ordinate mind and body To feel free from aging Try to keep yourself free from negative emotions Anger, fear self criticism, greed and resentment. When we are wrong, we may Admit it to ourselves We may admit it to others and Even take pride in our frankness Show respect for the other person's opinions.

Never say, " You are wrong " I have found it of enormous value When I can permit myself To understand the other person A drop of honey catches more flies Than a gallon of gall The sun can make you take off your coat More quickly than the wind Friendly approach always pays you off Reading is a wonderful Gift to yourself It can take you to places, you never been We can grow our imagination and our creativity When you are hooked up You will find reading As one of the remarkable things in your lives

Make most of your life, no matter What the circumstances Always look for good in others and in the world Try to build good relationships Be considerate and respectful Have a desire to learn Life is hard  --- and not always fair face it  --  accept it and deal with it Accept the things you can not change Have courage to change the things you can Have wisdom to know the difference Of all the gifts bestowed by nature on human beings Hearty laughter must be close to top A cheerful heart is good medicine It's important to laugh at ourselves.

We live by choice not by chance The starting point for a better life is Discovering that we have choices We are free to choose our character  ---  the Type of person we become Free to choose how to treat other people Choose how much we'll learn What we'll accomplish in life Choose our attitude regardless of circumstances The greatest power that a person possesses is The power to choose Attitude is the most important choice, we make To choose one's own way Your attitude is what you say When you talk to yourself Our self talk is our attitude Always think with an open mind

Develop a deep, driving desire to master the principles of human relations. Criticism is dangerous, it wounds a person's precious pride. It puts a person on the defensive. Usually makes him strive to justify himself. Criticism can not make lasting changes. It often incur resentment. It will result in demoralization. So please stop criticism Condemnation or to complain. Appreciate, admire and be supportive.

We are never too young or too old to old To learn life's greatest lessons ---- and the Time is always right. A good book is the best of friends, the same Today and forever. I hear  ---- and I forgot I see --- and I remember I do --- and I understand Accept life as it is with all it's difficulties And challenges Adapt rather than complain about it Accept responsibilities for your life instead of Blaming or making excuses Say yes to life in spite of it's negative elements.

Friendship is love with understanding. In the Mornings, we make another start. There is kindness all about us. A smile can touch the heart. Music is in our laughter. Cheers in rainy days. There is a magic all around us. Never let it slip away. And keep smiling.

Best thing about you is you. Eyes are window to the soul. Listen without interrupting, all you have to do Ignore the noise in your mind while others are speaking. While others are speaking to you, bite your tongue When you're tempted to jump in. It feels good to listen, it feels good to be listened to. You won't believe how much you will learn by just Being quiet and, just by listening. It is a very powerful device. Please make use of that. Your first job depends 80 percent on listening.

There is only one way to get anybody to do anything. That is by making the other person want to do it. Besides the preservation of life, there is one longing --- deep " Desire to be great " , " Desire to be important " . Sincere appreciation is one of the secrets in handling people. It will nourish their self - esteem. But keep away from flattery. Appreciation comes from heart. Flattery comes from teeth. It is always universally condemned. Appreciation always admired universally. Give honest and sincere appreciation. It always works.

If you could, would you change your relationship to the world ? Overwhelming majority might answer, " Yes, I would ". Think about the changes, we can make While not causing a huge disruption in our lives. May be the changes will produce More close friendships, a better work opportunity A lifelong dream of being fit An improved savings plan, time to read for fun Or any other worthwhile personal goals. Or perhaps your goal is to make our world A better place for all of us. Whatever the case may be, keep pondering. Try to find, which changes feel right for you. Focus on the small changes that matter most to you and can produce the largest result.

Listen carefully to your own wisdom. Spark an interest or a dormant flame that's been Inside of you dying to ignite. All our actions can make a difference. I believe we're all connected to the same spiritual source. If one person is kind to someone It affects everyone in some small way. All our actions, regardless of how small They appear to be, make a difference.

He who can not walks a lonely way, has the whole world with him. Why talk about what we want ? People are interested in what they want. So talk about that. Try to get other person's point of view and see Things from that person's angle. This is the secret of success. Keep in mind that a person's name is the sweetest And most important sound in any language To that person. Be a good listener, encourage others to talk about themselves. You will never be alone in your life.

The Royal road to a person's heart is to talk about the things He or she treasures the most. Talk in terms of the other person's interests. Make the other person feel important -- and do it sincerely. Avoid argument You can not win an argument. You may achieve a victory sometimes But you will never get your opponent's good will. Control your temper in such situations. Listen first and look for areas of agreement. Be honest and promise to think.

You are what you do --first do good, then feel good. I believe, no such thing as unconditional self -- acceptance. One must first live a descent, honorable and productive life. Only then do you get to feel good about yourself. Seeking to gratify your desires, your conscience knows To be of contrary to your standards of right and worthy. It is a mental, emotional and spiritual sense. Like spending a capital that you haven't earned. So to feel good, you have to work for it.

All strangers are people like you. For most of us, "others" means friends, family, or colleagues. Keep in mind all are others. Not knowing people's names doesn't mean you don't matter to them or they to you. The ultimate meaningfulness of our lives come from fulfilling our obligations to others. Look at every human being as an opportunity to advance humanity. And add something positive to the resume of your life. Feeling good doesn't come from competition, beating someone else out. For something, be it a parking space or gaining an edge  over someone. These are momentary "win". The deeper needs for admiration, love and respect are never met by these short "wins".

Love and respect can not be demanded. We don't deserve anything we haven't earned. Life is a day -- to -- day process. Life has it's Moan and Whine days, and it's days of joy. Bumper sticker happens, it is a reflection of reality. The quality of our life very much depends on what we focus on. And the environment we choose. It is difficult to be negative when we make choice to be around positive people.

Start building relationship with yourself. Accept yourself with the terms and limitations of life. Acceptance of opportunities for great peace and happiness. You have to decide, for whom you are "dancing", through life, and why. Face constantly new challenge to "prove your worth". With the frustration of never finding what was, ultimately, impossible. Love through success.

Shift perspective, open up to gratitude and goodness. Embrace obligations to loved ones and the world in general. Will uplift your interactions with family and friends in incredible way. It will give you a jump start to get proactive. Moving in the direction of a joyful, happy and purposeful future. Drop the self -  destructive thoughts. It is like "crying over spilled milk", it doesn't help. This will eventually cause you to feel very negatively -- about who and what you are. So please shift your perspective. And be Happy.

There are things in Life worth whining about. A certain amount of whining allows for some venting. Of reasonable pain, disappointment, fear and frustration.  Staying stuck in whining mode can become a lifelong problem. So please stop whining and start living. To help and conquer to retreat your life to fullest. No matter what you suffered and how much you suffered or continue to suffer. While you are alive, you have the opportunity to get something from this life. If you don't like your life, quit talking about your unhappiness and try to fix it. No matter how difficult or impossible your situation seems. Just try and keep trying. Stop whining will reject negative emotions and attitudes.

Don't let go your dreams and goals. Believe in yourself, work hard. But set your expectation to zero. This will eliminate your future disappointment. Always give value to laughter. Take it as a medicine,It will work. Don't postpone it for good times. This is the time, so just do it. Laughter is one of the best remedies, when We have started taking things too seriously. Act of laughing serves as a powerful reset button. Restores the big picture outlook.

Write on cards,  the words "Drop the Negativity and focus on Blessings". Every time a negative thought creeps into your mind, pl. read the card. Transformation will be astonishing. Negativity creeps in your mind, which it will do on regular basis, remember two things You are the one who is creating the negativity with your own thinking. But the more important, you have the power to stop it. Our thoughts have the power, if left to their own devices, to take us to Either great heights or miserable depths. So it is very important to always remember that we are the ones in control.

The people who are able to see that the world is not always black and white. Who understand that "Our way" is not the "Only way" are almost always the kindest. Most tolerant, happiest and easiest people to be around. So please don't defend a position, or stand up for what's right Or protest against what's wrong. I am suggesting that you plant a seed of doubt in your mind. May be, just may be, there is another side of argument. An open mind is essential for a true Happiness.

There are times when it's important to take yourself places with your mind. And there are other times when you are better off telling yourself, "I won't go there". Watch your thoughts. Take a vacation every day. Listen to music, take a walk. Give yourself a break. Sitting down with a cup of tea, cooking, doing anything that relaxes you. It is like taking a mini -- vacation. It helps you de -- stress. Sometimes people get stressed out by the silliest things. Get stressed by the way people park their cars on street. The way grocery store stock food items. The way advertisements try to get our attention. Get irritated when voice mail box fills up. The list goes on and on. Watch your thoughts and take a break.

Hope is one of the most powerful forces in our lives. Helps in keeping us happy instead of depressed, looking forward toward future instead of the past. Knowing there's always a chance that life can be better than it is right now. Hope keeps human spirit alive. Gives us reason to go on even when times are tough. Perhaps the most remarkable aspect of hope is that it is entirely internal. Hope soothes our soul. It is that invisible force that makes all things possible. Practice sending positive thoughts, that is nothing to worry about. Your hope will be contagious and spread to everyone you touch. An added experiment, try spending a minute or two, every day consciously hoping for something positive in your life. It will be Great.