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Flowers are smiling

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    Summer has long days and short nights. Days to get out. To hit the roads, trails and waters. Time to enjoy the outdoors. September will be done today.  October starts tomorrow. We are still enjoying our summer time. Not have to wear any jackets or sweaters. Time to bundle up is yet to come. We have a couple of more days to stay outside. To have a feel of nature around. Flowers are still blooming. Smiling in pots, planters and in flower beds.  The grass is lush green in our front and back gardens. Everyone is busy, planning picnics and outdoor parties. Lakeside is busy. The sun is shining in full bloom. Water is sparkling under the sun, like gold, silver and platinum.  Sailboats and canoes are scattered all over the water surface. This all gives a festive touch to the atmosphere. Festivity imparts positivity. It helps to elevate our mood. Helps to distract us from our day to day issues. We take some time off to be a part of all this.  Putting ...

I have to drain my account

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  Every day as soon as we get out of bed we start thinking about how to spend our twenty four hours. Sometimes we already have plans for the day. Invitations to attend get together. Visit with friends and some of our family members. Sometimes we have to make courtesy calls.  Someone not in good shape needs company. We go there to support. Sort of our moral obligations. Still so much time in hand. We have to figure out how to make use of that.  We have to empty our account the same day. Drain out all the time. We will be having another lot of the same amount of time next morning. At the early stages of our life we were busy with our school days. After that, we were busy with work. We have no pressure to chalk out our day plans. It was all tailor made.  We are out of bed and in no time have to get ready to go to school or work. When we come back we are already tired.  Now it's time to relax. Time to watch programs of our interest. Listen to music or s...

it's a rainy day

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It's a hazy morning. The sun is not yet out of his grey blanket.  Maybe he was up till late night enjoying his time.  It has been raining since last night. It is still drizzling. not heavy though.   I am sitting with my computer in my room. Window blinds are drawn up to connect with the world outside. I am enjoying the scenery. The view of my front garden.   The grass is all lush green with no brown patches in between. Thanks to the rain. I don't have to water my plants either. I am on break. I have time off to do some of my own things.   The red wooden bench by the left side of the Magnolia tree, is shining, all washed and clean. The trees around look happy.   The red and golden yellow Dahlia flowers in the brick red platters in front of my door by the driveway look happy too. Giving me a smile. A smile is contagious just like grief and sorrow. A smile is a symbol of happiness. It works like an invitation for the people around to share the mom...

I am going to be rich

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    It's 10.45 in the morning. I am outside, not home. I can see orange, yellows and blood red in between the greens in the trees around me.  So many yellow leaves scattered on the walkway. So much Gold also started showering from the Maple tree in my back garden. I will be rich any time soon. I smell a change in the atmosphere. Change in colors. Change in the scenery. The atmosphere is scented with a peculiar aroma. Air is loaded with a unique mixed fragrance. I feel a change in life too. Everyone is at a slow pace. Feeling calm everywhere around. Looks like all creatures have taken a break. I believe that is time to wait. To be prepared for the days ahead. It is time to pause. Pause to behold the things around. For which we never gave a thought. I believe, change is the beauty of life. It makes us change our lifestyle. To chalk out something different from our usual routines. I am enjoying my walk. I have to walk a bit carefully. I don't want to crush any ...

I am at the back seat

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  Sometimes our body is not listening, giving us a tough time. I think at that time we have to listen to her / him to resolve matters. To save time and also to avoid complications. Listening works not only for bodies. It works for everyone. We don't have to push. No use of putting extra pressure.  Just back off. We have to take a back seat sometimes. Put your ego aside for a while. Show some patience. Patience is a virtue. It works to simplify matters all the time. Anyway, I did the same this morning. I took a back seat and gave all the time my body wanted to have. To revive herself. I think if we are not making a big deal of things. There won't be any issues. Life will be much easier to handle our day to day matters. We will be much happier. No big issues for our day calendars. Have some patience. Take breaks to pause. To smell the flowers. To behold the scenery. To absorb the aroma of nature.  We have so much to look around. Don't have time to waste on petty matte...

It is a wonderful day

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  It's Friday, I was back from work around 12.20. Darts are from 10 in the morning to 12 noon. My son and my daughter in law left this morning for Washington.  They will be back on Monday. Kids are busy with their computers, working online. I am sitting on an empty nest. The house looks a bit quieter. I made banana blackberries shake with nuts to treat myself. We have to treat ourselves to make our body go with our plans.  I made some calls after. My daughters called me from Kent, Grimsby and Camberley, England. They usually make a joint call. It helps to save time. Keep in mind that it works only when the people to call are on the same wavelength. Same mind set. One to one calls will be better otherwise. To avoid misunderstandings and complications. Everyone has his / her own personality. We have to make calls to them accordingly. We call to maintain our relationships not to deteriorate our existing ones. I am done at home so not much to do for now. It is 3...

I am Off today

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  It's mid September and the weather is good. Perfect to enjoy walking outdoors. It can change anytime soon.  We Canadians know that so making full use of the time in hand. We don't have to grab a jacket while stepping out of our house. It looks so comfortable. We don't have to decide on our shoes. Any shoes will be fine. We can go with our candles. We rarely have a chance to use these except in our short summer days.  Same with our shirts. Not hiding under our coats. We can show off for a while to feel good. It's Tuesday 10.15 in the morning. I am off today so I don't have to go to work to play my Darts. Today is the garbage collection day in our neighborhood. Bins of all colors, blue, green and grey are lined up by the driveways outside. I don't see much activity outside. Not many cars, just a few waiting for orders to go ahead. It's a working day so most of the people must already be gone to work and school. Just a couple around my age must b...

Roses are smiling

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    It's a beautiful morning, bright and sunny. Pink Canadian roses are giving me a smile to make my day. A positive gesture from anyone imparts happiness all around.  My friend the White Butterfly is whispering to the blood red David Austin roses. I think they two are close friends. She often comes to talk to them. I see a couple of birds walking by the left side of my deck. I think that they came to enjoy the outdoors. To enjoy the scenic atmosphere.They are having chit chats. I can hear them. It looks like they are friends. I usually start my blog by writing, “ It's a beautiful morning ”. To print positive words transmit positive messages to our brain.  The brain works like a power house. It works like a commander. Orders our mind and body to go into any direction.To take any track. There are so many things to look around. We have to try to infer positivity. It will help to impart positive messages to our brain. That will help our mind and body to go...

Time to gather Gold

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  Beautiful day, great morning. It's 20 C perfect weather. Slightly windy. I think now summer days are about to be over.   The apartments in " Twin Towers". I mean in the two tall trees in the front garden of my next door neighbor. are looking quiet. I don't see any activity over there. I think all the birds moved out.   They must now be crossing the border for South of the Border. I hope they have their complete documents to clear the security. Things are not the same as were a couple of years ago. So much has changed.   They will come back in early spring or be gone till summer next year. The trees are looking a bit quiet. Starting to change the colors. Losing the green of their leaves. Grass in gardens started to have some brown patches in between.   Some of the leaves have already changed to yellow. lost their strength. We see so many of them scattered around on the pathways. Nature started to change. Now there will be a totally different scenar...

I am at Coffee House

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    It's Thursday morning. I started my day a bit late. Some nights are tough to handle. Every night brings a different story, a different scenario to deal with.  Same goes with mornings at our age. We don't know which part of our body is not in a good shape to go with our plans. We were not having any problem planning our day schedule at the age we used to go to work. We had no option except to get up in the morning and get ready for work.  Our body was used to that. We had no time to listen to our body parts whining. Things start happening as we age. We are done with our work. No designated plans for our twenty four hours. We ourselves have to organize our days. We are now the ultimate authority to make our day plans. It is a big responsibility. We can make it or can ruin things by taking the wrong track. The wrong track will be doing nothing just sitting idle. We will be couch potatoes. That will take our mental health downwards. Our physical strength ...

Sitting on Red knitted chair

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      It's morning, time to have breakfast. The weather looks great, not too cold. I am sitting on one of the red knitted chairs in my back garden. My son got four of these steel chairs years ago from Home Depot. We don't use these chairs so often. Just in a couple of summer days we get a chance to have a seat here to enjoy our back garden. Not on rainy days and not in winter time. Summer for us in Canada comes like a visitor. It doesn't stay long. We look forward to summer days to get ready to hit roads and waters. We all know that it will be short. We try to make maximum use of its short and sweet stay. This is the beauty of Canada that every season is intense, comes in full bloom. Summer time sometimes we have to come across scorching temperatures with plus forty centigrade. Sitting in gardens won't be comfortable on those days. Today is like some of the days as the weather is great. Perfect to sit outside to enjoy the back garden. My deck is all washed...

Enjoying morning tea

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  It's Sunday today. I am sitting beside my kitchen area. It is early in the morning, a bit quiet at my place.  My son is an early riser, not home. He goes for morning walks, loves biking too. Takes his bike to the lake and walks around. My grandsons are sleeping.They must be enjoying late night. Busy playing video games with friends.  It's a different world now friends don't have to be in person to enjoy together. Not like that in our time. I am busy enjoying my breakfast. I start my day drinking a cup of honey water. One teaspoon of honey in hot water. I take oatmeal porridge in a bowl of warm milk after that. No tea or coffee with my breakfast. I enjoy my tea while playing Darts with my senior club friends in the library. I go there three days a week.  On the days I am off and not going to play Darts. I walk to Tim Hortons to enjoy my morning tea  / coffee over there. We have to plan to do things to make our day to chalk out our own day schedules. I ...

Waiting for Art Exhibition

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    Today is September the 6th. Summer is nearly done.This is Canada how long we expect Summer days over here my dear. Between Summer and winter comes autumn. Autumn is the season of colors. I like to look forward to that period of the year. We get a chance to see all sorts of colors.  Colors start transforming from dark green to different shades of green mixing some yellow, some orange, red, coffee and bronze in it. Amazing to watch and to cherish your moments. Trees start showering cones and beautiful leaves of all colors. You see deep yellow color leaves scattered like gold all around in your backyard and walkways. You feel starting rich in just a couple of days. We see that the Gold leaves start turning into blood red leaves. It turns into bronze and copper after some days. So many beautiful pieces of art and sculpture we see everywhere every day. It looks like an amazing display of art. We hardly try to give time to pause to have a feel of all that. This ...

Today I am off from work

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    Today is the 2nd of September. It was a long weekend. Monday was Labor day so everything was closed.  Eateries were open. I walked to Tim Hortons to enjoy my time. We have to keep our plans ready to switch, so as not to ruin our days. For me today is also off. No Darts on Tuesdays. I usually skip my morning tea at home after my breakfast. I walk to Tim Hortons to get my tea  / coffee over there.  We have to chalk out our routine to fill up our day schedule. Especially at our age it matters a lot. We have to make our own schedule. We are done with our work and other family matters. Now it is our time to enjoy doing things we want to do. We have twenty four hours every day for our own selves.  Time flies. We don't have to wait for tomorrow. We don't know things might happen and we will not be able to do things we can do today. For everyone things change. Circumstances are not the same. We have to value what we have today. Make use of time in ...